Uncut San Jose Male
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02-06-10 05:24 AM - Post#317874
After I met my wife, We realized that we enjoy talking to other men, women or couples regarding foreskin topics. Before I met my wife, I was embarrassed and shy when around other women. Especially in a new relationships when I was in School. I was an athlete and all the other guys were circumcised on the team. They openly teased me as a friend but not to be cruel. We passed around or picked up other team mates girl friends we dumped etc. We all knew the girls that hung out with us liked to jump around between all the other guys on the team.
My experiences were difficult being that I was the only intact guy on the team besides a few losers who were ugly or too shy to even try. The girls came from boyfriend's who were circumcised so when it came to showing or having sex the first time, I would always retract my foreskin. It would work for a minute until my frenulum took control and rolled it forward again. The girls didn't know what to do with it and I had to show them how it worked. It was too much trouble holding it back because it was the only way I could get them to stroke, suck or play with it. Once word got around to the other girls, I felt I became a freak show that every girl had to get with me in order to check me out and then move on. I got frustrated and the other guys knew it and stopped teasing me while in the shower.
It was the same reaction and surprise up to the point when I met my wife. Only with her I tried a different approach. I was trying to save time and the agony by bringing up the circumcision subject to open the door. To my surprise, she said that she didn't understand circumcision and had some foreskin knowledge. She told me she baby sat for families and ran across an infant that was uncircumcised. The parents told her how to care for it when changing his diaper to ensure she didn't try and retract it to clean it etc. I latter learned that her parents where German and that her father and brothers were uncircumcised. She bathed with her brothers when they were young and caught her father from time to time while going in and out of the shower. Had a couple discussions with her mother but had never been sexual active with any guys. I was her first sexual partner.
I felt relaxed around her and we both experimented with my foreskin and tried different things together. We both learned that it gave us both sexual pleasures from it. We married and had a boy and girl. We were proud parents to leave our son intact. So proud she would tell her pregnant girlfriends not to circumcise their baby boys and inform them that it's there for both pleasures.
This topic really took off one summer when we were on an all adult house boat trip for a week. The guys all took off to water ski and wake board while the women all laid out sunbathing. While we were out, the women got into a heated discussion about circumcision. My wife found the opportunity to give it to the girls good. She told them how we met and we didn't cut our son etc. Then the topic focused on our sex life that lead to telling them her detailed experiences we had with my foreskin. The word got back to the other husbands and by the end of the week got all the couples so involved and curious that she worked on a plan to continue their education and curiosity by finding the right time to put me on display. We were all drunk and they all joked about wanting to see it so my wife whispered in my ear and then proceeded to pull down my shorts. A couple of months before, I just had started to shave completely. I stood there With my cock bare soft and scared, my loose and abundant foreskin bunched up at the tip. I could feel every ones eyes glued on my cock. Some of the women commented on the shave job to their husbands and reached out to feel the smoothness. My wife narrating as she continued to tug and pull on my foreskin getting me hard. She retracted my foreskin and pointed out the frenulum and how much pleasure it gives me. The trigger mechanism that gets cut off and removed during circumcision. Once it's gone it can not be replaced. She moved it back and forth slowly and effortless. Showed them how it is the best of both worlds for us. If we wanted it to be circumcised, she would strip it tightly back off the glans. If she wanted it uncircumcised, pull it forward to concentrate on the foreskin. She informed them of circumcision and how it's done and what is cut off. The different techniques and styles available that one can chose during adult circumcisions. High versus low circ scars etc. The guys took a special interrest as the women did because they have never owned a foreskin. They began to realise what they have lost and will never experience. By the end of the night, I think every one got a chance to grab, view and stroke my cock but my wife got her reward.
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I love this story!
I take every chance I can get to educate my friends about circumcision and change how they think. Being in the Midwest where circ rates are still higher than the coasts... I find people are totally stupid about this stuff.
Recently (as in the last couple of years), I started work at a new job and developed a very close friendship with a guy going through some relationship issues.
Long story short we became best friends and talk everyday. Come to find out he's not circumcised but grew up thinking he was a complete freak because he's the only uncirc'd person he knows. He's 22 and I'm 32. I of course let him know about my horrible circumcision story and how I felt deformed because of the botch job and we had very similar stories but opposite sides. I've given him a giant boost of confidence with his uncut penis .. and he's motivated me to really get back into my foreskin restoration that I've been doing off and on for years.
Recently he found a woman and he was scared for her to see his dick. I told him to just go out and be open and show her the benefits. He has thanked me almost everyday since then. She loves his uncut penis and he's confident in himself.
Of note, my wife is pregnant and we find out what we are having in March. If it's a boy, you can BET on the fact I will not circumcise my son.
Great Job with your story and hopefully one day we can topple this crude practice of circumcision in the US.
Rob
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I have a difficult time with this story for two reasons.
First, I doubt this really happened. I have a difficult time believing that all of these women wanted to see a noncircumsized penis and would stand around with their husbands to see how you can have it both ways and would actually want to reach out and touch it – with their husbands standing around. This story sound more made up than real, even with drunkness. And if it is true, I’m sure these are the types of relationships that end up in divorce.
Second, as a person who is not circumcised either, I dislike the pitting of uncut against cut. I have learned that both have advantages and disadvantages. I have heard that uncut men may be too sensitive cuasing prematurely ejaculating or not being to handle more rigorous sex. In the end, it really should not matter.
But I do think this is a brain-dead story that is untrue.
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Lil David
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I have heard that uncut men may be too sensitive causing premature ejaculating....
Premature ejaculation is not caused by having a sensitive glans (head), protected by a foreskin. Other reasons are involved. Consider this: Premature ejaculation continues to be a problem for many Americans in spite of the fact that the majority of them are cut.
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Hey David!
Or consider this: It would appear that the main point made by Flashskeletal is to the effect that the original poster is living in Fantasy Land.
Rick
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Ok, firstly I'm 18 years old and female...
Secondly - I LOVE uncut guys... I don't know what it is... It has erotic value for me I suppose.
When did everyone decide they were going to cut off babies foreskins? I think it's weird, old fashioned... Not to mention invasion of privacy, taking away the persons rights...
NEVER EVER feel bad about it or embarrassed... Those women are silly.
Uncut love ! 
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06-06-10 03:37 PM - Post#320660
In response to Aussie Gal
Aside from the verity of the story, the point is real:
Women are curious about foreskin. My partner is the first man I've been with who is uncircumcised. It took a little education for me to work with it in different ways for hand jobs, oral sex, and intercourse, but I realized that he does have the benefit of pleasure two different ways.
Is it more sensitive than a cut penis? I don't think that's possible to know because no one person can have both experiences to compare. And as person to person sensitivity and sensuality differ, a highly sensual cut man could have much more sensitivity in his penis than a less sensual uncut guy.
Is it an issue? No, just something to learn about. A penis is a penis - love them all!
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06-06-10 09:28 PM - Post#320674
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Is it more sensitive than a cut penis? I don't think that's possible to know because no one person can have both experiences to compare. And as person to person sensitivity and sensuality differ, a highly sensual cut man could have much more sensitivity in his penis than a less sensual uncut guy.
That is quite true, but I just thought I'd add a little anecdote from my own experience : My foreskin used to cover my glans completely, and it was rather sensitive. After having surgery done on my genitals, my foreskin ended up leaving the tip of my glans exposed -and I can tell you, the part which is exposed is now a lot less sensitive than what is still covered. I think having it rub on my underwear all the time has desensitised it quite a bit, since at first, after surgery, the friction was really unpleasant, but now it's kind of numbed.
[A real loser is somebody that's so afraid of not winning, they don't even try.]
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06-06-10 11:21 PM - Post#320678
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It is more sensitive, and some men do have the benefit of both experiences. I dated a man who was uncut when I met him. He was so sensitive he could not tolerate oral sex. At all. After he was circumcised at age 32, he lost a lot of sensitivity. He found it to be a good thing in his case, because he was finally able to enjoy a blow job.
None of the other men with whom I had sex whose penises were in tact were quite that sensitive. However, they did seem to be more responsive to touch (but not to pressure) than guys I'd fucked who were not in tact.
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