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I wish I could be that unhappy.

I was kind of an early bloomer I guess. I noticed my first hairs when I was around 10.5 years old, and measured for the first time not long after. I was also a total nerd, so not only did I measure pretty regularly from then on, I also kept records of my measurements (in the back of an old school book, in "code" )

Near Houston TX. 5.5 X 4.75. Average in all respects but have always felt small.

I only saw my dad a few times growing up as a kid, usually at a urinal. It was always soft, never saw him hard. I always thought his looked huge. Seeing him in later years I realize that we are about the same size, though he was uncut and I am cut. I think being uncut makes a penis look larger.

I'm not. I've only seen my father soft. He's about the same size then as my older brother (by 18 mos), who I tops 7" when hard. And fairly thick. For some reason, after I hit puberty I was absolutely paranoid about my father seeing me naked. Probably afraid of letting him down. Although 6'3" and well-built, I'm really really tiny when soft, barely poking out of my pubic hair. Big balls though! Oddly I never had the same inhibitions with my mother. We once took a trip together. One of the rooms was very modern and had a window into the bathroom, plus an "open" shower. Didn't bother me at all to have her see my small cock.

I would say, in my experience, most girls don't really care about balls, but those that do *really* notice them. I also think there is some significant crossoover between those that do and girls who enjoy or seek out larger sized penises in general. I have large balls in a tight sack, and mrs G0nz0 likes them. She calls it her breeding fetish. I also cum quite a lot (but don't shoot terribly far), and I have had girls over the years absolutely fascinated by the size of my balls and my cum volume.

@Biggie Smalls There's nothing wrong with talking about this subject with parents. It's all part of natural curiosity as far as I'm concerned. A son may want to know how he's doing versus his dad, and a mother may simply want to know how her son is doing. If a son for instance was unhappy and the cause was insecurities around his size, being able to talk about this with either parent could save a lot of psychological trauma.

We need to remember that much of our expectation regarding penis size is formed, unfortunately, by watching porn. Porn producers use male performers with big dicks because it's easier to show their dick having penetrative sex than to show an average size dick. Further, the great majority of male porn performers are short in stature -- many under 5 foot 10 inches tall. On these men, an above average penis looks huge. The other significant opportunity to get a sense of the size of other guys' dicks is in shower/locker rooms. There we need to remember that flaccid length is NOT a useful indicator of erect length. Some men are growers and some are showers. A grower's dick may be two, three, or more times its soft length when it's hard. A shower's dick is little if any longer erect than it is soft. So a guy whose showing off his five inch swinging dick as he parades to and from the shower may well be only five inches erect. Also, the guys who have big dicks are much more likely to put themselves on display in that venue than average and smaller guys, making it seem that there are more of them. As to the proper way to measure, all of the reliable medical studies use BPEL -- Bone Pressed Erect Length -- measured from the base of the penis, with the ruler pressed firmly, but not painfully, into the fat pad at the base of the penis, along the upper side of the penis to the tip of the glans (not the foreskin).