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7.5" isn't only "really thick". It's almost impossible to find guys with girth that monstrous! So I experimented a little bit more and used an object with a circumference of 6.3". A girth of 6.3" is something that you could actually encounter in real life with some luck or when sleeping with enough men. As you you can see my fingers can easily touch despite the pills container being totally rigid, unlike a hard dick. As a comparison I held a dildo next to it (yes, I cut the balls off ). Dimensions of the dildo are pretty average (girth 4.6-4.7") as I had purchased it to compare with my own equipment. The interesting thing is that you can trick people into believing that a dick is bigger than it really is. You can position your hand in a way that makes it appear like your fingers aren't able to touch when gripping your cock. That's what I did when holding that dildo which is in fact of average size as mentioned above. When you know this it's easier to notice this trick being applied in dick pics.

A few days ago my lady friend Mary and I were lying in bed in the morning and she was caressing my morning wood. She said “Bob, I think your penis is the biggest I have ever seen.” This somewhat surprised me because I have never thought my dick was big. I took this opportunity to ask her how many she had seen. Mary said “Five, Including you”. I asked, “Will you compare them to me for me?” She was hesitant at first but with some goading she finally relented. I asked her to measure my length and girth so she would have a reference point. Length: 6 1/2” Girth: 5 3/4" Here we go. All lengths and girths are truly guesses from memory. Mike: She fucked him for about 8 years from age 16 to 24. Length 5”, Girth 4” Robert: She fucked him for about 10 years from age 24 to 34. Length 4”, Girth 4” Jack: She fucked him for about 25 years from age 24 to 59. Length 7”, Girth 4 ½” Thomas: She fucked him just one night when she was 60. He was younger than Mary. She told me he fucked her four times that night…with him cumming each time, very impressive. Length 5 ½”, Girth 5” I have no idea as to the accuracy of her estimation but it sure was fun hearing about her past partners. I would love to hear if anyone has had similar discussions with partners. Years ago my late wife and I had a similar discussion which I may share later.

So I have been visiting Measurection for a little while, mostly reading a lot of what other post up. I have tried to share some info or experiences but one thing keeps coming back to me and I felt I needed to share. Now keep in mind, this is MY opinion and my view. It is not to say that how others feel about their penises is not valid or have no place here. I am not pointing to anyone specific or any specific posts but in a general from of what I read. That said, it seems there is a lot of differences of opinions of what an average size penis is. It seems the most reliable study say the average size is 5.1" length and 4.75" girth. Some say this is too low and other "unscientific" studies say it's closer to 6"x5". For this post, lets just say the typical average falls into this range. That said, my size is 4.75"x3.75" erect and just a nub when soft, which definitely falls well below this range, especially on the girth measurement. Now getting to why I am writing this. Measurection seems to be geared towards the support of small penises. Even this sub forum name is small-X-change. It even has a sub forum that is for those below 4.5" in length. It kind of makes me wonder what the hell anyone larger than 6"x5" is doing discussing small penises or even think they are small. I understand how body dysmorphia can lead someone to think their 7" or larger penis is small, especially when you try to compare to what seems to be all over porn but come on, do your even understand what it is like to be in the shoes of someone who is definitely below the average range and in cases well below? Do you think your 7", 8, 9" long or your 5.5", 6.0" or thicker penis has any relation to how someone in my size range or even smaller feels about an actual small penis size issue? We actually HAVE a small penis, not the thought that our penis is small when clearly it is well above an average range. Do you know what it is like to not be able to buy condoms at a store because they are all too large? I by no means am saying that people with small penises are not worthy or any less of a person but I seriously find it insulting when someone with a 7" penis tries to pass themselves off as having a small penis, heck even a 6" penis for that matter. My opinion is anyone who are larger than 6"x5" really try to imaging the difficulty, the mental toll, the fear of ridicule, the fright of the idea someone might see their small penis. Now add that most smaller guys are really small when non erect which only makes an already difficult issues that much worse. Take a minute to pause and really grasp the idea that if you are 6"x5" or larger, YOU are NOT small. Are their men with larger penises, hell ya but come on be realistic, you are NOT small. I am small. I deal with this every day, the feeling never goes away. Some days are better than others but it's always there. There is really nothing I can do about this, this is what life gave me. I did not ask for this, I did not want this but it was the hand I was dealt. For larger men, stop the loathing of "being small". You are not and as so many things in life, there is likely always going to be someone with something bigger, faster, more expensive, etc. regardless of what it might be. Try to be thankful that you have a penis that is average or larger and you don't have to deal with the daily struggles of an actually small penis man. I wouldn't wish these feelings on anyone. I am sure this will ruffle some people up and create a lot of negative responses by those who, in reality don't have any real grounds to be complaining. For us less endowed men, I do feel your pain, your suffering, your lack of confidence or love of your penis. I wish there was some magic pill to allow us to just reach average. Just take each day as it comes. This site seems to have the focus of small penis support but trying to get advice or opinions from people who have no freaking idea what having an actual small penis is like, to me, it comes off insincere. There, I have shared my thoughts, as they are. Take away what you will.

@overthehill I doubt this issue will ever be truly resolved. Differing opinions and differing experiences will see to that. I simply try to take on board the opinions expressed to me on the basis that this is what a given person has experienced.

@Biggie Smalls I'd definitely agree there, any girth above 7" is truly monstrous and no doubt incredibly rare too. I think the vast majority of potential partners would be running for the hills when presented with such a girth! A girth of 6" - 6.5" is already truly big and I must admit regardless of length I do get quite turned on by outsized girth! But not to the extent of 7" and beyond. A 5" length with a 6"+ girth looks big and volume wise it actually is!

You can talk with your girl without it being her joking with you or belittling you. I just like hearing about different sizes and experiences as dirty talk I once talked to an ex on a chat app pretending to be a different guy trying to hit on her and I asked her about the size of her four men. She talked about how her current boyfriend was a hander where he was long enough to have two hands on his shaft then mentioned me how big he was.

I wonder if skilled, considerate guys are evenly distributed among different sizes, with the only difference being that the bigger a guy is the more skilled and considerate he has to be to not cause pain for his partner. Just a thought.

I always put my dick over the top of my underwear when I pee in a standing position. And believe me when I say it doesn't have to do anything with size. Using a fly is just too cumbersome for my taste.

When I joined the site in 2001, the Measurection tag line was "For men with a small penis and for those who love them." There are average and larger gay and bi men on the site who love guys with small dicks. Alan G

@TinyJock Interesting how you state actual size has nothing to do with how one feels. Today chatting with a friend (we play on occasion). He was telling me how he always thought of his cock as being small and recently took Viagra and was so hard he felt huge. He actually said it might have been 1mm larger but felt like an inch. I asked him what he thought of mine then if he felt his was small. His reply, well yours is as big as mine and much thicker. His feelings of his cock and his perception of mine. (I am shorter but yes slightly thicker). He is ~6X4.5+ and I am 5x5 or so.

All I know is that my short (but average girth) cock is the perfect size for my GF. She had multiple orgasms the first time we fucked and plays with my cock almost every day (4 years later). Just yesterday, before she left for work, she got me hard, sucked me for a couple of minutes and then climbed on top for a “mini-fuck” (her words). I thought this kind of sex was only in the novels! I’m sure she has had longer and wider cocks, but she says our sex is the best she’s ever had. I’m not going to argue with her! It’s certainly the best sex of my life.

hello all. I don't even know where to begin. I met a girl I knew in highschool at a local coffee shop. and we hit it off. she takes care of animals and is vegan, but good god, is she hot. I don't even know if im living in reality or hallucinating right now. we went dancing at a club in the town I live in fort worth tx. and she asked me to spend the night with her. we didn't have sex but she held me close and it was WONDERFUL. good god I haven't felt that feeling in so long. the next day we had breakfast at a pancake house and went back to her place. we were in the kitchen talking about pour over coffee and she looked at me and said she wanted me to f*** her..... my god I don't know if I can even go into details. but it was great. first time anal. her goose bumps felt great. godamn I feel like a man lol jesus Christ. I had to share. im so happy ive come this far in my journey. im nervously awaiting her next text. lmao