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  1. My whole life I've been intimidated by girls. There are a lot of reasons for that, but one of course is my insecurity over my penis size. There’s always been that fear of not being able to "fill them up" and worrying about them laughing at me or judging me or talking with their friends about me behind my back. Because of that insecurity, my innate physical shortcomings in the bedroom, and my lack of experience, I've always struggled to showcase the kind of confidence it takes to get girls and when I have had girlfriends I've generally felt like I struggled to "satisfy" them in bed, which has reinforced my insecurities. Generally, girls are very respectful to your face and will tell you what they think you want to hear even if you're not giving them orgasms. This has always bothered me. Hearing them rave about how great it was and how big you are when you know they didn't cum makes you start to question the sincerity of everything they are saying about you generally. When I met my current girlfriend she seemed pretty great. She blew me on our third date and swallowed, and from that point forward has pretty much given me sex on demand. A few months into our relationship she got back on birth control so we could go bareback. Although I'd had condomless sex before, this felt like I was losing my virginity again and basically I stopped being able to last more than a few seconds of sex before cumming. She was really supportive, but it was embarrassing. One day we were talking and she casually asked me how big my penis was. Although I was tempted to lie, I got up some courage and offered to measure it in front of her. It was embarrassing as hell but there was something intoxicatingly vulnerable about putting myself honestly up against the ruler in front of her and her finding out that secret number with no ability to cheat it. It was a moment of opening up for me, and it allowed me to start sharing with her a bit about my insecurities about my size. As everybody's gut instinct is, she responded by trying to tell me I was actually big. During sex she started emphasizing how big she thought I felt and it still kind of bothered me and I told her that. There's nothing worse than being patronized with comments that you know are lies. Through questioning I was able to get her to tell me the sizes of all the guys she'd been with before me and how I stacked up. She was super apprehensive about revealing anything she thought would offend or upset me but I told her I'd rather know the truth than just be patronized or protected forever. I mean, some things stung: eventually it came out that early on in our relationship she'd been continuing to sleep with her ex as a FWB for a while, though she'd long since stopped. I learned that he was better hung than me and also generally lasted longer, but I also learned that she'd previously dated a guy that she and her friends referred to as "tiny dick guy" who was actually smaller than me. I found out that she'd felt comfortable blowing me early on because when she saw my dick her first reaction had been "at least I won't break my jaw on him". I told her during sex I wanted honesty and not fabrications, and as a result she cut out the "you're so big" stuff and instead I get comments like "you're the perfect size for my vagina," which I've confirmed honestly with her is the tightest one I've ever been in. It's taken time for us both to develop a level of comfort with just talking matter-of-factly about my penis being on the small side. I still cringe into a ball a bit whenever we go that direction, but it’s honestly been nice. I’ve told her more about my insecurities and also shared with her stories of feeling one-upped in that area as a kid. I’ve told her that it frustrates me that I can’t give her a penetrative orgasm and that I can’t reach her cervix or any of the deep spots in her vagina. She’s now honest with me that generally she has sex with me more because she wants me to feel good than because she’s getting some amazing earth-shattering pleasure out of it, though she does enjoy the intimacy of it. She says she doesn’t mind if I cum quickly, which has definitely taken some of the pressure off. I do my best with my fingers and my tongue, and she enjoys that. She does still tweak me about it sometimes. We were apartment hunting a while back and I asked her how big she thought her apartment was. She said a number that was clearly way off and I teased her. She responded by jabbing me that she’s not very good at measuring things, and that that was a good thing for me. Obviously it stung a bit, but in a way being able to joke lightheartedly like that felt good. We were joking about finding out about a basketball player whose name was Chubby Cox. She joked with me that my name would be “Slender Cox”. She’s also joked about getting me XL condoms when I’ve asked if she wanted to pick up some more (she has come and gone off of the pill). And she tweaks me a bit whenever I exaggerate a bit on my size to her, since she knows my “real” size. But the intimacy of being honest with her is incredible. Often when we have sex, after I orgasm and am coming down from the high and deflating inside of her she’ll hold me close and remind me “your size is enough for me”. Not fake, not patronizing, not pretending I’m actually Superman or something, just honest and loving and I feel really close to her because of it. All I’ve ever wanted is a girl who loves me in spite of this shortcoming, so I hope it works out with her. It’s really vulnerable being honest with her, though. Like, who knows what she’s told her friends or how she judges me behind my back. It drives me crazy to think about, but generally I’m glad I told her the truth the first time she asked me my size. I hope it doesn't burn me someday.
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  2. shooter

    Just for us fathers...

    I have a very prude wife. She hides herself ..she even sleeps in panties under her pijama... Im the opposite of her. So my kids also see me nude...we even had bath together (when they were younger). Im not exposeing myself to them but Im not hiding if they are around the room while Im changing my clothes.
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  3. RAized

    5-6 inchers

    Yes, let me be clear, you cannot underestimate the effect of just loosing weight but being lean around your waist and groin. as a teen i had small love handles but was in great shape and had about 5.-5.6 , in my 20s when i finally got my waist down i was 6 inches, and bpel i was about 6.25. the thing is there is a phenomenon where if you get a bone pressed measurement with a fat pad the actual" bone " itself is obscured by a sort of marbling effect. when that fat pad decreases you non bone pressed and bone pressed length get longer exposing length that you didint know you had. thats why its so important for guys with this kind of anxiety to loose fat.
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  4. Brockmatthews

    5-6 inchers

    I have only had one girl when i was younger actually come out and say something. I have always been insecure about my size in general but not neccesarily insecure as a whole. From age 15 to 35 i had a lot of sexual partners. Even though I felt my cock was small I would never miss a chance to use it. A few years after school...maybe around 20 years of age i was hanging out with friends. It was late and we had been drinking as usual. One of the girls there was very straight forward and always talked or made jokes about sex. I had sex with several of her close friends previously. Somehow as usual the conversation went to sex. We were also talking about men shaving their pubes. She asked me if i shaved and i pulled the front of my pants down enough to show her I was clean. When i did she said "pull it down farther so I can see your cock. I heard it was small". I didn't and told her she heard correct but it got hard as concrete. She laughed. Long story "short" a couple hours later she was giving me head as I leaned back against her car. She just had to find out and no, she never complained about the size while she was doing it lol.
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  5. Rumour has it that in LPSG they use the cardboard tubes carpet comes rolled in.
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