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I'm hung like a chipmunk. Many of the women I've slept with have probably been unsatisfied with my size but for some reason have stuck around. I've always felt I made up for my shortcomings in other ways. If not, it's time to move on. Speaking of moving on, canuck45 mentions he goes kayaking. Is that like "It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean"? I'd give that a try. Speaking of boats, I was in the Navy. I had a gay friend who used to sing a song to me whenever we showered together at the gym. It went something like "You've got the cutest little dinghy in the Navy."

Same here. I'm naturally somewhat "fair-skinned" but tan easily, so usually am golden brown during the summer. Great tan line! However, my genitals are darker than most, somewhere between a Latino's and an African American's. Since I have dark pubic hair, it makes my small button dick disappear even more. Since I've been a nudist a lot during my life, they even get darker after being out in the sun.

Small and frustrated? I’m certainly small but I’m pretty sure my wife is more frustrated about it than even I am.

@smallgrower Her 91st birthday was 8.24.20. I've found no indication she died, even at this site: https://deadorkicking.com/betty-dodson-dead-or-alive/

@TinyJock I’ve never known a chipmunk that didn’t have an attitude. Look at Alvin!

@TinyJock I was a sophomore in college when I enlisted in the Navy Reserve. I was assigned to a Gold Crew out of Chicago, where I was going to school. These were experienced men, it was 1971 and there were a few who had fought in WWII, and several Korea vets, plus Vietnam vets. I was scheduled to attend OCS in Newport the next summer. One weekend a quarter, our crew would fly to Jamestown, RI to man the USS Harlan R Dickson, DD708, a Sumner class from WWII. Because my older brother was a Navy Chief, I was not totally unfamiliar with Navy lore, etc. A kindly QM1 named Willie took me under his wing, told me to strike for Quartermaster, “everything you learn will be applicable when you are a bridge officer”, he was right about that. So we flew on a dilapidate DC3 out of Glenview NAS around 7:00 PM on a Friday night, by the time we got to the Harlan R, it was near midnight and we wearily boarded the ship. Willie showed me to my rack, and said, “After lights out, no matter what, do not go forward of this bulkhead,” he said. “Why is that Willie?” “Just listen to me, don’t get out of your rack and don’t go forward of that bulkhead. Tell me you understand.” I told Willie I understood. I got into my rack, kind of excited to be shipboard for the first time. Lights out was called. Forward of the bulkhead Willie warned me about, I heard moans, grunts, and exclamations. After an hour or so, it died down I finally got to sleep. I figured it out. There was a considerable gay contingent on the crew, mostly married men who used their deployments for horsing around, as we liked to say. It was like a bath house with, ah five-inch guns, maybe some bigger. The two-week deployments to the tropics during the winter were basically sex cruises with Navy chow (Cookie owned a restaurant in the Chicago suburbs, so the food was good). I could never figure out who the gays were, well more accurately bi since most if not all were married men, I decided I did not care. These guys were veterans who knew their jobs and did them well.

Agree with pfm. I'm hung like a chipmunk and have an attitude.

I like tits great legs and sweet ass plus nothing beats a shaved smooth pussy

Yes I agree one of my favorites also. Loved to watch her breasts jiggle while thrusting hard.

Yes, this is one of our favorite positions. I put her legs on my shoulders and fuck her hard. This also works for anal as well.

In my case it was done by 14, maybe even 13 but that's guessing really.

It depends largely on how much fat you loose. for instance as a 17 year old I measured right at 5 inches from the top non bone pressed. But I had some pretty decent size love handles and fat at that age, years later after getting lean I was anywhere from 5.6 to 6.1. the thing is not only will your nbel increase, your bpel will also increase magickaly,... I've been over weight and had a six pack as well....you don't know what kind of body you have or especially "Cock" you have until you've leaned out. I realize some people don't want to do that but honestly i was raised on a high sugar diet so i don't count my teen size as the my real size as a result. No obviously PE later on got me larger, buts that's besides the point. you cant even trust your bpel if you got fat, that sounds wrong because you'll push in drawing blood thinking that's all you've got, whatever that number is lets say 5.5 inches.....and you loose the last bits of fat in your groin and lower abdomen... well its perfectly possible to see a bpel or possibly a smidge over 6 inches. Believe it or not. So the moral of the story is that if your a fat dude who is 4.75 or 4.5 or 5 or whatever in length and you suicidal or something, loose weight and you might just find yourself in the 5-6 inch range. as a tank ass i was barely 4 inches, about 275 lbs to be exact. thin out and is perfectly average. But you cant trust your bpel if you've got a significant amount of fat or "dad bod" that will increase as you become thin or lean, and your old bpel will be you new erect length, and it you might even surpass that in usable length, this is all common knowledge to us penis length obsessed PErs I hope this helps someone feel a bit better it always helped me.

Art models (paint, sculpture, drawings etc) is an easy yes as it's going to have limited spread and no matter how good, will never really be 100% quite obviously you unless you have a very specific look. Photographs can last longer, spread further and have a wider arc on your life (potentially) but at the end of the day if you model it cannot go wrong. It may bring out the bigots and body shamers but........ f&c£ them!

In early 2000s when I was in college out west in a large metro, I remember an unexpected encounter: I was in the fitness center complex open showers after a workout and a slim Asian guy looked to be late 20s (possible grad student) came in and showered a few feet away. I didn't think anything of it and continued to wash myself off as normal but when I turned around to rinse back, he was looking at me with a dark hairy HUNG uncut hard-on. I stayed calm but totally found the scene erotic as he occasionally stroked self while washing and soaping his bod off with no hesitation -- he had to be 8 inches and thick... I was about 20 at time and scared we would be caught so I continued as normal and his hard cock stayed hard and pointed straight out. I was also embarassed since I am on the small grower side and was soft and also on display to him. I wished I were bigger and even if I got hard that moment, he would see I was still smaller than his endowment. Thankfully no one else came in or walked by because the pool door was by the shower... For me, He definitely killed stereotype about all having small cocks. Ha ha. Never saw him again but memorable sight of a guy!

@6INCHES66 I've had the same thought. We deserve one another.

@Triasco9.5 I love kissing and giving and receiving oral although 69 just doesn’t work for me. Taking turns works best. But I passed on anal sex. Oh, I tried it, but I was never comfortable with it. I felt it was not just “dirty”, it was downright unsanitary. As far as being on the receiving end, I told my Nasty Nurse story that was a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Now in my life I kind of wonder what I missed. My wife enjoyed anal, she wanted to do it, and she kidded me for not being enthusiastic. I will say the few times we did it we used a dildo in her pussy while I banged her from the rear, and she really liked it, I guess it counts as a “double penetration”, but I just didn’t cotton to it. Oh well, my loss.

@old n hard If I get to be your age, and I can say “maybe some day”, well that will make me very happy. Good luck in your quest!

@cdawg83 I don’t know where you are located or how old you are. I would suggest that you treat this as a “team sport”, in other words you both have a role to play. Back in the 70s there were, in the Bay Area at least, couples groups that were “introductions to intimacy”, everyone is clothed, and you learned various ways to increase intimacy. Also, there were “women’s groups”, specifically for what were termed then “pre-orgasmic women”, where they learn about their genitals, their sexual responses, etc. Google Betty Dodson, I think she’s in her 90’s now, she was pioneer in this.

I think we are going to have to meet someday and fulfill both of our oral fantasies. lol.

@Triasco9.5 As with you, I can forego the kissing. Now this may sound strange but, nibble my lower lip, tongue and earlobes and my whole body reacts. As for receiving oral, can't say. That just happens to be my number one fantasy. Maybe some day.

@WA1NGRO & @Triasco9.5: She was a virgin before we got married forgot to mention that but I will talk with her to see if we can try some toys or me fingering her. ty

@WA1NGRO I agree with and appreciate almost everything in your post. I will caveat one thing though, and that is the idea that she doesn't like oral just because she hasn't had good experiences with. While that may be true and worth exploring depending on the relationship, I'd be wary of comparing her to others in such a way. People are people, and some have tendencies like the average person and others don't in varying degrees. Also, clitoral stimulation isn't a blanket sensation in sure. Just like there's a very real difference in sensation between tongue and fingers on cock or in anus. There's even a difference between my fingers and the fingers of others. or the difference between orifices that I can feel with my cock. I'd be wary of oversimplifying the sensation or experiences of others. For instance, I'm not a fan of receiving oral. I've had good experiences and bad experiences with receiving it, but it ultimately comes down to me not enjoying the act itself. It's harder to explain in detail, and it may be the same for her. And few things are more annoying than someone telling me that I'm odd for it or that I just haven't had the right oral experience. Another example: I don't enjoy kissing. It's not psychological or because I haven't been kissed in the right way. I just do not experience the same sensation and emotion that others do from the act. I agree communication is key; understanding is what's most important. If she's willing to explain and explore why she doesn't like oral, then go for it. If not just respect the fact that she doesn't as a part of her body and who she is.

There's no shame in buying dildos and/or using fingers on her. I think a lot of men would probably feel inadequate for using a dildo instead of their own dick, but why should they? Sex is about pleasure. If a dildo can provide pleasure, then why not use it? It's one of the reasons why I think that dick size is basically irrelevant in this day and age. Let me write up a small paragraph to convince you that dildos are objectively more physically pleasurable than any real cock. Think about it. You can customize a dildo to the perfect size, shape, and material of your choosing. They can rotate and twist in novel ways. There are dildos with pumps that can expand inside. Some dildos spin or vibrate with batteries. All of those things can create sensations that a real dick can't emulate. Even if you had a cock that you thought was absolutely perfect, I think it's still worth exploring the world of toys, for the above stated reasons, and also just for added adventure in the bedroom. I think communication is the key to everything though. Talk it over with her, if you haven't already, and be honest. Tell her your concerns about potentially not pleasing her and that you want to get her off by using toys, fingers or by eating her out. That's another thing. It would be highly unusual for a woman to completely not like receiving oral. It's possible, but I think what's more likely is that she just hasn't had good experiences with oral in the past. Because the thing is, clitoral stimulation is clitoral stimulation; whether you're doing it with a vibrator, fingers, or a tongue. The vast majority of women orgasm through clitoral stimulation, so again, it would be highly unusual for her to not like that. Maybe try watching some videos on pussy eating technique, or simply ask your wife to coach you, which could be a fun experience in and of itself. Just tell her you want to please her and you want to try eating her out, and you know that she hasn't liked it in the past, but you want to try and see if you can change her mind. Then surprise her with all the techniques you learned from watching videos. Realize that you can have a fantastic sex life, regardless of what kind of body you have. Anyway, that's my two cents. Oh and one more thing. Make sure you're getting taken care of yourself. After all, sex is about mutual pleasure.

@pokerpro831 I will try her on top facing me. but we tried on our sides and I couldn’t penetrate because her but cheeks are in the way and I think another reason is that penis bends to the right a good bit.

I am about the same size as you. I don't know how overweight you are compared to me or your wife compared to my ex wife. My ex liked for us both to be on our left side. Me behind her. She would kind of have her left leg a little forward. Kind of hard to explain but ... Also used my hands quite a bit in this spot. She hated oral as well. Her on top facing you should work best. She is in control of whether or not you slip out.

Enhance your ‘portion’ size by reducing your portion size to loose some weight. Can’t hurt!