@jimjimks
Your wife summed it up nicely.....she didn't care about the differences, but many men are obsessed by their size.
BTW did you go, "WOW, she has small breasts" or didn't really care about her breast size......
Realize penises like other body parts come in a variety of shapes and sizes... knowledge and acceptance the first steps in progress.
"Why do I still feel small?"
The logical brain knows the truth, in the average range.
The emotional brain hasn't accepted yet.
I alway think: There is "saying" something is true, there is "believing" something is true and then there is "accepting" something is true.