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Keep in mind that the doctor may be as uncomfortable as you are. I got up the courage to talk to mine about some ED problems I was having and he got pretty flustered talking about it. It was quite funny after it was over seeing him squirm when he was talking about it. It was obvious he had used ED drugs but kept saying things like "not that I need it." Just remember they are there to help.

If advice is any use, I'd say you might as well try to enjoy the things you can do - the intimacy and sensuality - and not worry so much about the penetrative stuff. By all means try to resolve it but don't make it into something you always see as an essential missing piece if it doesn't work out. Long term obsessing over real or perceived inadequacies can be corrosive to relationships and usually is.

I have a pretty large penis 8" soft and 11.5" erect so yes having 8" of meat hanging between your leg is nice but sometimes uncofrtable

My penis is 8" soft and 11.5" when erected... i know this is oversized so most of people assume that I am erect but no

Ok so just about a year in between the first post and update. If you're still in the same relationship it's quite possible your partner is basically ok with it ... there are other possibilities but that's one of them. As someone who has been in a similar situation, though not for quite as long, it was basically down to anxiety and resolved in time. Partly this happened by accepting that I was basically useless at penetrative sex. This was a painful process but at the time undeniable. From that point onward the stress and pressure reduced and in time the PE just went away, more or less. It wasn't about control or developing techniques or anything, just basic relaxation. If things are really as described then it's worth giving yourself and your fiancée a break. You can't know she must be freaking out about spending her life having awful sex with you unless she's given you some indication that's what she feels. Maybe she's ok with you as you are. No point always apologising - if you've been together over a year she'll know by now you're not doing it on purpose. You can still give and receive pleasure if you stop fixating on things you can't do at the moment.

Nothing to be ashamed off...but there are ways to slow things down.... Speak to your doctor about it, We have a heart problem, we see a doctor Have a foot problem, we see a doctor Have a penis problem, we see a doctor https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/diagnosis-treatment/drc-20354905

48 years erect BPL (LxG): 4¼” x 4” flaccid (LxG): 2” x 2”

My penis has a confident 4 inch erection. I have a pretty good sex life. And for a man with a 4 inch penis I have a remarkable sex life. (gay btw) I have only had 2 partners comment on my small penis. What I hate is my flaccid penis. It is maybe 1-2 inches. I have no shaft just the head sticks out. And if I don't shave it gets buried in my pubes ( i am also a hairy guy) I am a macho, confident napoleon complex kind of guy, so someone seeing my small penis in the locker room or something is really emasculating. I kinda feel like less of a man. Like no matter how much I succeed in other areas of my life I will still be the guy with the small penis.