I'm gay, so the right size for me is what I'm doing with it. A horse hung guy is fun to look at and all, but a 9 or 10 incher isn't something I want to play with. 'Pony hung' is better. Smaller dicks are better for sucking. Less jaw hurt ang gagging. And mine is good for virgins or people who don't take it often. Even then, if I found someone with what I'd consider having the perfect dick but a terrible personality? They might as well have a pussy and blown out ass.