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He's slightly under 4.5 inches. hmm, there's a lot to say about all that. Yes it's affected our sex life. It's awkward sometimes. But mostly we have a lot of fun. And yes his insecurities make it a much bigger deal than it should be. Although I admit it's not not important. I feel embarrassed talking about the fetish stuff. it's not too out there at all. but yea

I've lurked for a little while. My bf is small and has sometimes great insecurities and also fetishes I don't really understand. Some of the things written here are interesting, but I'm not sure what input a woman could have though.

Just wanted to say Hello! Just re-started after some years. Glad to be back. I still keep in contact with some of my mates from before. Looking for some new mates!☺

How long have yall been together? Did you notice that he was smaller or did he draw your attention to that? Would you prefer him to be bigger? Did he warm you or make inferences about his smaller member before yall hooked up?

Well, you may not think your input is valuable or pertinent, but I think there is loads of insight from your comment. So your bf is small (how small) was it something you noticed, has it effected your love life? Or do you find that his own personal insecurity is more of a burden than his actual physical limitations? Describe his fetishes?

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For about 1 year. Yea I knew he was smaller straight away. Yes tbh I would prefer if he was bigger. Sorry if that upsets anyone but it really isn't that important to me, but I do happen to have a slight preference. And he didn't warn me per-say but it took a long time to actually get to the point where he would let me handle it. It took a bit of encouraging and reassuring. Insecurities are terrible, but most people make too much of their flaws. that's good news

He saw me naked many times in the locker room

At least you had the testicular fortitude to pose nude for him! That is something i don't think i could ever do.

Welcome back! Glad you returned. There are still lots of good people here.

Going back 15 years now we purchased a "Mould your Man" kit & made a Silicone replica of my cock. Came with an appropriate mould cup & all the other stuff. The Dental Alginate used for the mould was found to be cheaply obtainable on eBay, so over the following years many Plaster of Paris replica's have been made. Kind of interesting to have 15 years of history of my cock in both it's hard & soft state. Other bonus is they are great things to hide in random places. MrsG's Lunchbox & handbag, & the occasionally a hanging pot plant that get's daily attention.....

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Correct it is. My copay on a prescription is less than OTC would have been. As for the condom, it was two fold. Yes, one to prevent transfer to partner but it also helps to decrease sensitivity for the areas other than the glan but not completely eliminate it.

Me too. I used to change at the YMCA and there was often some younger boys changing. They were often much bigger than me limp.

Creams, ointments, and sprays containing lidocaine are now available over-the-counter (without a prescription) in the U.S. The reason for the condom is to prevent the lidocaine from numbing your partner. Alan G

I have had this issue for most of my life and hated myself for it. My current wife and I have done a lot of things over the years to work on the problem but until the last year or so, things hadn't gotten better with PIV. I had gotten really good control with manual or oral but still PIV was never more than a minute or two. I talked to a urologist (actually a woman) who actually helped me. She prescribed lidocane cream and suggested I put a little on the glan and use a condom. This would help to reduce the overpowering stimulation that would cause me to cum. I actually bought some small sized condoms off Amazon (actually a variety pack of small sizes) and we used this about a half dozen times. I also used some breathing techniques we got from a Tantric coach years back. It actually made a huge difference. I have been able to get 10-15 minutes (which is more than enough for my wife, as her hips start to hurt). I still have the occasion of less than 5 minutes but even then, it is way better than what I used to be. It can be worked on but it takes both partners to be onboard with working through the problem. Seek some help, from a good urologist and even from the Tantric community.

Never saw my brothers or father's penis. But I do know my sister-in-law went to a strip show one night and said "I didn't know they came that big"

Actually, I wish I was an an inch or two smaller. But, don't get me wrong, I am happy with my 5.75 inches

I've gone through stages of my life of being quite shy, thinking I'm small, and being jealous of the guys with a swinging dick in the locker rooms. I was quite shy in my younger teen years, being the youngest in my class I was nearly a year behind when puberty hit. At college I had no inhibitions in the locker rooms or using the communal showers. I saw all shapes and sizes, majority were like me, average and mostly shriveled after playing sports. I think porn poisoned me after that, it became easier to find online and subconsciously it started to affect me, and my self esteem. Fortunately finding forums like this (and a few others now gone), started me thinking in more positive ways. I'd also been to a few nude beaches, swims and joined a naturist club. I am naturally small to average, often smaller than the pics in my profile. Being a large build my penis looks small to me when I catch my reflection in the mirror. But I like how it looks, and I've had many positive comments, none negative in fact. I'm a grower, but I have no problem people seeing my shriveled up cock either. So yes, I'm happy.

I’ve never just accepted my small penis nor was I ever humiliated by it. I have always actually loved having a small penis and glad for it. As a matter of fact, about 5 years ago I made a conscious effort to make it even smaller (details of which can be found in a different forum category post I made a while back). For the greatest percentage of my life I don’t need a large penis and it would just be a nuisance. In addition, despite my small size (surprisingly) I had several times gotten complaints from female partners when I tried to thrust too deep and hit their cervix.. (I have a preference for petite women) Let’s just say, I am proficient enough with my love making skills where the length of my penis was never a problem. Ever since I was a child I loved when I was cold and my penis shrunk to nothing, where only my glans was showing. My balls are small and always tight so everything is in proportion then. I no more want a large penis protruding from my pubes than I would want a sausage like object hanging from my chest all day long. Or worse, sticking straight out (7 or 8 inches) when I was sexually excited in public. To me small penises have large ones beat! I don’t need a large penis to give me self confidence. I can do everything I need without the extra baggage!

I like it. I have come to accept it. It is liberating for me to understand I have a small one and not to worry about and focus on what I can do a d who I am sexually.

Guys...I did it. We got together yesterday. There were probably like 12 women and 2 men in the group. When I stripped off nobody reacted in a weird way and even my friend who brought me was really nice and didn't treat me any different afterwards. They brought in a friend of theirs who helped guide them in how to draw the body and when she talked about 'any sensitive areas' she said people were free to draw it accurately or to cover it up if they felt more comfortable. It was only a couple of hours so most people could only sketch the top half but I think three did get to the bottom half. One of them drew a fig leaf which I thought was funny lol...The other two did a decent attempt at drawing my genitals and I was surprised that for one of them it looked a bit longer than how I really am. I guess people don't really care as much about it as I thought. It was a good experience and I recommend it. They even said they would love it if I came back next month and they had me and another model side by side

Yes, I have had friendships change once people found out about my size. some for the better, some for the worse. Most of the time, when individual people find out, they either avoid me or become hostile. I think the former is because they make assumptions about my character based on my size, even if they simply saw it for themselves or heard it from someone else spreading it without my knowledge. The hostility arises typically from men who have negative feelings toward my size, for whatever reason. I had a roommate overseas who stopped talking to me for two weeks after he walked in on me pissing in our room's shared bathroom. Another roommate, when I was in AIT, just became an asshole, and same with a man I honestly looked up to as a father figure in Texas. When people find out as groups, it seems to generate discussion. Also in AIT, my first set of roommates became my close acquaintances. I found out later that after they found out my size from the showers, they talked about it and then proceeded to tell every living soul in AIT about it. So while most of them seemed to think it was cool, I sort of became an object to them, relevant only for the novelty. Contrasting that, I had a group of friends in Texas that legally found it cool and appreciated it because it was attached to me and they knew from experience and the way my size got revealed that I wasn't the type to be a jerk about. So good natured teasing and joking began, and a man I consider the closest thing I'll ever have to an actual father sat me down and helped me with my confidence regarding my size. Great man. Great friends. Of course, that's not to say some people haven't simply been indifferent. Whether they found out first hand or second. I appreciate those people because it suggests that their idea of me hasn't changed and doesn't revolve around my dick.

It's happened a lot with people who aren't friends...like family or in laws or coworkers but only once with a friend. I was on a trip to Germany and met up with a friend who moved to France years ago. We stayed at a hostel with open showers. We are very similar in appearance...I'm 6'5 and he's 6'4...I'm blonde and he has dirty blonde hair...I'm pretty built and he was starting to get in shape. But when we undressed it was totally different down there. My one incher versus his cock that was probably about four inches and very thick. I have a more dominant personality anyway but after this shower he started trying to act like the big man. A few nights later we were flirting with some chicks at a bar and one really hot girl started paying more attention to me. I guess he got jealous and was pretty drunk so he said something like "He may be the taller guy...but I'm the bigger guy". They started laughing out of nervousness and it totally killed the vibe. Anyway after that things got weirder and we kinda drifted apart. When I went back to Europe the last two times I didn't even let him know