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When I was younger and embarrassed by my small cock it would sometimes not get hard because I was so afraid for my partner to see it. But once I accepted my tiny dick and learned to love it, the thought of showing it off makes me super hard. I love that initial reveal and seeing the reaction when they see a guy my size pull out such a small dick.

Maybe this will be useful to you. Consider it to be a ‘FWIW’. I had to search some for a urologist that I could feel confident in when I decided to push back against my ED. I finally did find one and, win, lose or draw I’m going to feel that he gave me the best shot I could get. One of the first things he did was to try me on ‘the pills’. At the maximum dosage he would allow (100mg) I had *some* response to Viagra (if you count a 50% chance of getting a 3” semi-chubby that could easily penetrate tapioca pudding a ‘response’) So pills are a non-starter for me, but it checked that box. And it led down a rabbit hole of tests that confirmed that I have a lot of scar tissue down there and that medications, pills or shots, are probably never going to ‘fix’ my problem. He told me that, even so, it might be helpful for me to take a ‘prophylactic’ dose of Viagra, at 50mg. a day, to promote blood circulation. Earlier experiments with a couple of different types of vacuum pumps had given me temporary size increases well beyond what nature ever gave me, that were (almost) as hard as a stick of warm butter. Useless. I did have to throttle back some from the one a day regime awhile back, I could deal with the weird blue and green color thing, even the runny nose, but the headaches were too much. So I’m on the honor system now. I take a daily dose of 50mg. up to the point where I start getting the headaches and then I lay off for awhile. Supposedly this is laying the groundwork for a better outcome for an implant, if I make the cut. But I’ve noticed something *else* in the last month or so... I’m seeing those 3” semi chubbies, on a random, but increasingly frequent basis. Only about 3~3 1/2” long, but as much girth as I ever had (I swear, maybe even a little more). My Doctor sees a value in continuing with it, to boost my circulation. He cautions me that it’s NOT going to suddenly morph into a cure, that any ‘cure’ is going to be a PROCESS, not an EVENT. Maybe your own Doctor would see some value in it, maybe not. Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained!

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My wife calls my dick "tinky" a cross between tiny and dinky. She always talks about how small it is.

The only times I've ever hard trouble getting hard, or maintaining it, is when I horny as all fuck, but not actually interested in doing things. The reasons vary from too tired to ' Gods dammit, I really don't feel like taking care of it'.

In my younger days small size was occasionally an impediment to actually getting laid, if the girl wanted it to be bigger, but the getting an erection part (for me) was automatic. Some of my friends had a problem getting an erection when they’d had too much To drink, but the only effect being drunk had on me was to greatly delay my ejaculation. Which was a *plus*. When I began to struggle with ED it was the first time in my life that I had to deal with this. A lifetime of smoking, rising blood sugar levels and a heart attack sidelined my ability to get it up over a fairly short period of time. My only compensation has been that I never lost the ability to ejaculate through it all. That’s still just as ‘automatic’ as my erections used to be. I *am* a little concerned about how little time it takes for me to ejaculate now, I ejaculate pretty quickly and I would probably let it fly too soon if I could resume having intercourse with a penile implant. But, if this happened, I wouldn’t lose the ‘erection’ and I could go for a ‘two-for’ with ease. I would just make damn sure that she knew I’d popped my cork early, apologize for having to declare an ‘extended fuck emergency session’ and just keep going until I ejaculated again. Turn a *minus* into a *plus*...

Summer, 1962. Changing room/showers at the public pool. Guys older, my age and younger. You could see that there’s a growth/size curve for penis development. And I could see that I was at the small end of it.

Penis Shrinkage When I was young, in my teenage years, I could push my lower abdomen in with the ruler and get a (bogus) measurement of 5 3/4”, which was, of course, a fraud due to the ‘pushing in’ aspect. My body type then was ‘slim’. An honest number from those days in my prime, was a solid and consistent 5 1/4”. (For the record, 6” was the holy grail for me, and it was just as unobtainable.) Sometime in my mid-20s it seemed to shift fairly quickly to an honest number of a little bit LESS than 5”, ~ and a little more than 4 3/4”, but my girth measurement had increased a small amount, even as the glans decreased noticeably in size. I wasn’t quite as ‘slim’ in body type then, but it was almost entirely muscle mass, so the ‘fat pad’ thing wasn’t really an issue. 6” was STILL as out of reach as ever, no matter how much cheating was employed. Before I lost the ability to have an erection altogether I was down to about 4 1/2”, with an even smaller diameter glans, and a slightly more ‘conical’ penis shape due to an additional small increase in girth at the base. With a slimmer than ever body type. I’m now contemplating a penile implant (the passive ‘malleable rod’ type) and my urologist has performed what he called the ‘flaccid stretch test’. The verdict seems to be that I may well be looking at a 4” erection, with an even smaller glans, at this point. 5-odd years of no erections at all, combined with what may have been a very mild brush with peyronie’s disease (or something similar) has left me firmly (and forever) situated in the small penis camp. On the plus side he saw no reason to worry that my girth will be negatively impacted, and -based on the totality of our conversations to date- I’m cautiously optimistic that I might be able to tolerate one of the thicker diameter implants for a small net gain. IF it all works out, which is very much TBA. I’d be QUITE happy to have a functional 4-incher. I’ve never had what can honestly be called even an ‘average’ penis anyway, so I’ll have lost nothing. Since the passive implant leaves you with a permanent pseudo erection you have to be creative about how you dress it in direct proportion to it’s size. I had only minimal difficulty hiding my small penis when I’d get one of the countless erections that boys get in high school, and that was with 5”. 4” would be a friggin’ piece of cake!

Age: 67 W: 215#, H: 6’ 1.0~1.5” (length flaccid) 4.5~5.0” (length erect) 2.5~3.0” (circumference flaccid) These measurements refer to a time when I could get an erection. I’ve had ED for almost 10 years and have been totally impotent for ~5 years. Some ‘shrinkage’ is likely inevitable during that time. I may be slow to respond at times. Computers and I are not always compatible.

I posted on this topic a few years ago. When puberty would begin for me was a serious and constant concern of mine when I was a young teenage boy. I actually contemplated the thought it might not ever happen for me. My friend started right when he turned twelve. Three and a half years had passed since then and my penis was still very tiny and very bald, and still no wet orgasms. I was mid way through my fifteenth year and I still had no indication whatsoever that I was anywhere close to starting. Eventually a month or so before I turned sixteen I think it was that I started squirting a small amount of clear fluid when I masturbated. I was ecstatic, lol. Eventually some pubic hairs showed. I was on my way I thought. And while my penis and testicles did get larger as time passed (thank goodness), I never achieved any where close to having what a normal sized penis was for a boy my age. I remember wanting to tell someone the good news but I resisted the temptation as that would no doubt only lead to further embarrassment for me, lol.

I thought I'd replied to this topic earlier, but I couldn't find any evidence that I had. Anyhow, everything pretty much stopped growing when I was 14 or 15, although I think my peen got thicker by the time I was 18 or 19.

It did. I do go to the gym (well when it's possible) and date now, although I am rather shy sexually, hindered by my perception of my own size. Mind you, I'm still not comfortable getting undressed in front of guys I know (and I'm not going to have sex with).

@Nimmo: In my case, it didn't give me a superiority complex but at least for one summer I was able to change into swimming trunks without hiding. Shortly after I was again the smallest of all so stopped any activity that would expose my privates (including dating).

Started wondering based on my older brother who I never seemed to be catching up to. Then summer camp with mandatory showers before swimming, lots of boys of different ages and I was clearly on the small side.

I was always small in the showers, but didn't really know I was SMALL until my second girlfriend ever junior year. She was experienced unlike my first and after our first night of sex she dumped me and told all her friends how small I was. I didn't get another girlfriend in high school due to the rumors

It took me a long time to finally love my little dick, but now I honestly have no desire to be big. I get so much joy from having a small dick and showing it off. It never gets old.

I sort of knew in high school. I had heard the average was 6" and I was only 4.75" so I knew I was less than average but no one had ever told me I was small except for the joking in the locker room. I did my best to hide it since I knew I wasn't very big. I denied it and hid it most of my life. Even lied and told people I was 7" and sent pics of other guys cocks to them claiming it was mine. When I was in my mid 30's I met a woman who became a fuck buddy. One day we met up to fuck and I was giving her oral. She burst into orgasm and exclaimed, "My god I'd never let you fuck me if you didn't eat pussy so well". When I asked why she said, "Oh sweetie, you know you have a little dick, right?" She was the first to ever acknowledge it. Surprisingly it made me really horny and she introduced me to SPH. I've loved it ever since.

@SloStroker: You and I had nearly identical experiences during puberty. When I was your age I was measuring and recording too and I stopped growing in my early teens. Some hormone or something that turned off, I suppose. I love your attitude! I love my cock as well!

I developed early. At 10yo I was getting hair and my cock started to grow. I remember the movie Porky's was popular and because of the scene. where Pee Wee measures his cock, I started measuring mine almost daily and recording the length. I was 4" and over the next three years didn't grow much in length. It got thicker and hairier and my balls got huge, but my cock never really grew much. By the time I was 14 and in high school I pretty much gave up on it growing. I was 4.75" hard and no more. The same size I am today. Funny thing is. I grew another inch in height from that time and I am big everywhere else. Hands, feet, long arms and legs, huge balls....but a little tiny dick. It's like a cruel joke. I hated it for years, now I absolutely love having a small. cock. I love showing it off.

I had the same experience. When I was around 12 I was bigger than my cousin and friends. They shortly started to grow and I was soon left way behind in size so i started to sort of hide when changin into swinning trunks at the pool.

6 things you must know about a small penis Click the link to see the article at the Times of India web site.

Gee you are 5” and she said you were the smallest she has ever seen? You do know that 5” is pretty solidly average, yes? I was surprised that my wife, an experienced woman when I met her, did NOT say I was the smallest she had ever seen. She said I looked “average”. Well OK if you say so!

For the first part of our marriage, mention of size was strictly forbidden with my wife. A couple years ago we started mentioning size and comparing her 7.5" dildo to my 4" penis. This led to a great deal of size talk and comparing my cock to her ex-lovers. (Her lover of 2.5 years was about the same size as her dildo.) This really opened up our sex lives. The subject was no longer the "elephant in the room". We found it turned us both on to explore the subject. My wife makes no secret that she thinks I'm very attractive and sexy (despite the small cock), so this has never had any negative affects on our sex life.

I have only been with one woman, my current girlfriend and she loves my size. Being 4.5 inches hard, I was always afraid to date. I was too afraid of being rejected because of my size. One day I realized that I could not doing anything about my size and just accepted it. I got some of confidence from accepting my size and ask her out. She was relieved that I was on the short size. She really did not enjoy sex with her past boyfriends. I have ask her about her previous boyfriends, which were all larger than me. One was little more than double my size. Sex can sometimes be a challenge because she is a curvy Mexican girl with a big ass. We try different positions, but the ones we use the most are the positions that hit her g spot.

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What medication reduced the size of your erection?

Interesting topic. I'm not really sure how many women I've been with but I'm guessing conservatively probably 120+. I'm 57 yo, been sexually active since I was 13, I've been married once and that was for less than a year. I've taken care of myself for the most part and I'm told by my gf that I have the confidence of a man with a big dick, and I'm considered good looking (by most anyway lol). I've run my own business's most of my life so I've had the opportunity to pursue sex when I wanted. For the most part my sex life has been a lot of fun with a few F'd up instance's. As I mentioned on the intro thread, when I was younger I was just a bit over 5". I can think of a couple of women who we're a bit disappointed and didn't have me back for seconds. But it was after some medication I took in my 40's reduced my hard length to just under 4" that I began to get some rejection. After the size reduction I got a chance to date a cute blond I'd known socially for many years. On the 3rd date we were kissing in her driveway at the end of the evening and I thought she'd invite me inside. As we kissed my now less than 4"' boner happened to press against her leg. She drew back, pointed at my small bulge and said "And what are we going to do with that!?" then she turned and walked in her house and wouldn't go out with me again. As I also mentioned in the intro thread shortly after we met I noticed my gf just was NOT getting off on my now reduced meat. After much coaxing and cajoling I got her sexual history out of her. Her first real BF had a very impressive big boner. Over 9" and fat and she'd had several lover's with BIG D's, and that has "set her clock" sexually, so to speak. Although she denies being a size Queen, it was only after we got some large penis extensions and dildo's did she really start to have good orgasm's.