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Ah wet dreams! They were great except that they were...wet.

I require physical stimulation. I can look at porn, talk dirty...whatever....and the most I'll get is a boner and some precum. I've never had a wet dream either. It takes a lot of stimulation for me to cum. Probably because I've been a chronic masturbator since I was 8yo.

When I was younger I was on a ‘hair trigger’ more than once. There *were* a few times when a single touch set me off. And, on one memorable occasion when we were dating, without any preliminary chit-chat at all, my first wife greeted me after I’d been away for a week with the news that she’d had sex with a young man she barely knew, on a whim, at a ‘lover’s lane’ we often used. I was instantly erect when she confessed to this. And then she told me that she’d briefly sucked his (“a LOT bigger than YOURS”) penis as they sat in the front seat of his car until he was erect before swinging her leg over his lap and fucking him with such wild abandon that he ejaculated almost instantly. At that point I then involuntarily ejaculated in my pants without even a touch. And she laughed.

Hey, who couldn't have noticed Little Joe Cartwright's package on "Bonanza?" He always dressed to the left and you never saw any underwear lines. I always wondered about those Cartwright men all living there together without any permanent females around! Lol!

There’s a Surprising Connection Between Healthy Teeth and Healthy Boners By Lauren Vinopal - Dollar Shave Club - 1 year ago The link between erectile dysfunction and bad oral hygiene is nothing to smile about. There’s at least one good reason men should floss, but most dentists are too cowardly to share it: healthy boners. Poor dental hygiene is strongly associated with erectile dysfunction, or ED, so if the bad breath doesn’t disappoint in the bedroom, your penis might. Men in their 30s who have severe gum disease are three times more likely to struggle maintaining their erections, research reveals. Additional data indicates that men with erectile dysfunction were 80 percent more likely to have chronic gum disease than men without ED. Although other variables like smoking, poor diet and stress could contribute to these conditions, the relationship is basically undeniable: One study found that when men who had moderate to severe ED and gum disease received treatment for their dental problems, it only took three months for their erections to improve. When men don’t brush and floss regularly, sticky bacteria known as plaque builds up, hardens and eventually infects their gums, the tissue that holds teeth in place. This chronic inflammation of the gums damages the lining of blood vessels and eventually, if not treated it, can lead to the death of the cells. Meanwhile, when men become sexually aroused, healthy blood vessels naturally widen to increase blood flow throughout the body, a process known as vasodilation. But when blood vessels are damaged by dirty mouths, dilation is reduced, blood flow is decreased and weaker, less consistent erections result. “The chronic inflammation present in gum disease is system-wide, not just present in the mouth,” explains dentist Mark Burhenne, founder of Ask the Dentist and author of The 8-Hour Sleep Paradox. “This inflammation may lead to death of blood vessel cells in the penis, just as it does in the mouth. Your doctor working to help address erectile dysfunction will very likely recommend a trip to the dentist due to the close connection between these two issues.” To prevent this, dental hygienist Anastasia Turchetta recommends brushing for two minutes at least twice a day, using fluoride toothpaste and rinsing effectively. Electric toothbrushes, water piks and medicated rinses like chlorhexidine can help as well. But generally, most gum disease comes from the failure to floss effectively — or at all. “Based on my 30 years of experience, many people do not effectively floss,” Turchetta says. Along those lines, the American Dental Association recommends flossing once a day, but only about 37 percent of people actually do, whereas 32 percent never floss at all. The American Academy of Periodontology is careful to note that chronic gum disease is generally correlated with a number of chronic illnesses (e.g., heart disease, prostate cancer and impotence). And although impotence and erectile dysfunction are often used interchangeably, ED is more common, can be circumstantial (nerves with a new partner, for instance), and doesn’t necessarily occur all the time. Impotence, on the other hand, is more rare, constant and can result in a lack of desire to have sex, along with an inability to get an erection. Urologists often refer men with ED to the dentist, but it rarely works the other way around. Dentists don’t often proactively tell men to floss for their peens, not just their mouths. More likely (and probably appropriately), dental professionals often warn patients that gum disease increases their risk of heart disease by 20 percent. In fairness, too, that is a kind of roundabout way of talking about ED. After all, erections are a very literal extension of cardiovascular health. Simply put, the blood in a boner has to come from somewhere, and when it’s not filling up the way should, it could be a sign of a more serious underlying issue. In any event, as Turchetta puts it, “The link between erectile dysfunction and bad oral hygiene is nothing to smile about.”

This is a topic I almost never hear people talking about. Its almost like it isn't a part of sex to them at all. I myself have found it to be the most important part of sexual enjoyment. All I ever hear about is 'physical' stimulation during sex. Women talk about how large a penis they need to be able to orgasm, or that the guy isn't hitting the 'right' spot. Guys complain they don't get enough stimulation from a vagina because there penis is too small, or the vagina is too large. Haven't you guys (or your partners) ever had an orgasm or even been driven 90% of the way to orgasm by being mentally stimulated where the slightest touch is the final trigger to an uncontrollable, mind blowing orgasm? However, just like physical conditioning the mind needs to be exercised sexually to stay at its peak. I have found ways during my life to keep myself consistently mentally sexually stimulated. With the right amount of 'mental' sexual excitement I don't even need to feel sensations from my penis. Just the thought that a part of my body is inside the body of someone I have strong feelings for is enough for me to reach orgasm. That is the power of 'mental sexual stimulation'. My point to this is that it can make the matter of penis or vaginal size irrelevant because increasing 'mental' stimulation proportionally reduces the need for 'physical' stimulation. This works equally for both men and women.

I agree mental stimulation is a very powerful aphrodisiac. Like you say just thinking about someone you desire to have sex with can give you a erection. I still need to stroke my penis to achieve a orgasm. I love the feel of my hard cock in my hands. I also have never had a wet dream sadly.

Danny DeVito had a great line about Bonanza, “A show about a 50-year-old man and his three 45-year-old sons.”

@Gezr69 We used to use Doc Johnson’s they were very realistic and got me over 7” to almost 7-1/2”. Then we discovered Nassty and they are even better with a bit of French tickler at the head. They are super-stretchy. They get me to 7-1/2” to about 8”. You can get ‘em on Amazon about $20 worth it. My wife never complained about my girth, only my length. So a key thing was to have them at room temperature, nothing kills the moment like something cold in the coochie. I would ease in, give her a chance to get used to it, make sure she could feel how deep it was, and then start pounding on the way to a cervical orgasm that sometime involved squirting, too. When I was younger I could ejaculate in the extender, which meant clean up on Aisle Sex afterwards, but later, I would have to disengage and finish naturally, which frequently involved another G-spot orgasm for her. Ah, memories. It’s what I have these days.

Have had the same comment with some I've worn. Not the same reaction though with the ones that feel right. They tend to be the super stretchy eBay ones around $10 Bucks. Realistic in shape & no too pronounced head rim. Tried lots of different ones & there's a few that 150%+ work. Always Donn a thinner smooth one first. Without it they slip about & bend too easily with my short length & thin girth. Doubled up they take me from a bit over 4 x 4 1/2 up to 6" by just shy of 8" in length. No bending or slipping issues. Takes just a minute or two for the moans to commence, & once she's over the top I can slip them both off & take her into round two with my much smaller cock doing the job. Seems she needs the deep stretching penetration to get there at first, & once there, the second one comes quicker that a G-Spot Finger Fuck.

Most of her partners are younger, but I have also seen her with guys much older than her. Here is another pic.

Well, we both work out every day. Me vertically at the gym, she mostly horizontal She is 49 and we met in college. I will try to attach a pic to this message. I think she is very attractive and fit.