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This female problem with measurement can be explained by the old joke. When asked to demonstrate six inches, women separate their thumbs and fore-fingers four inches apart. Because their boyfriends have told them their cocks are six inches long. Over at LPSG, the girlfriends separate their thumbs and fore-fingers by the same four inches when asked to demonstrate eight inches. It's all relative. BTW, when I was growing up, which wasn't that so long ago, everyone still said the penis was 6 inches long. It was only when I started coming on sites like this that I heard anyone say the penis was 5.2 inches. One of my roommates in college, a Christopher Reeve Superman body-builder lookalike, said his was 5 inches long, and, although he was now happy with it, thought it was small. Heck, he was just a rounding average away from being average. I shoulda known things weren't what they seemed. Once some of his body-builder friends came over. Somehow the subject came up. They bowled me over by being so open about things. They all -- except one -- admitted to being small. They were all in the five-inch range. The exception was six-inches exactly. A giant! I was the pygmy.

I know this site promotes self-acceptance, and I think that's great. In a relationship, size should never matter; it certainly doesn't to me. Nevertheless, I get a big kinky kick out of size issues. I love seeing guys in the shower, one hugely endowed, one quite small. Since I'm average-sized, i like really big guys to sort of push me around with their massive cock, and I get a kick out of smaller guys who get off on my larger cock. I think it's incredibly hot when smaller guys act too embarrassed to show off their little tools, and it's also very hot (and kind of pathetic too!) when big guys clearly get off on strutting their big stuff. I don't mean to offend--just looking to see if anyone else wants to get off on size issues. Thanks!

It's something I've done on two separate occasions. The first didn't go well at all as the therapist didn't want to engage with the subject and as a result didn't show any real understanding of the specific problems I was talking about. She sort of translated it into something else and I never went back a second time. The other occasion was a lot better although by then I'd got a better understanding of a lot of other issues and had talked about them in detail first. It was a number of sessions in before I brought up that subject and I got a much better response. It was very difficult to come out and say it though as I was concerned that bringing up the topic of my penis and the way I felt about it might undo all the work we'd done in previous meetings. But it didn't and she could see why it was important for me to do it. Really it's a difficult one - it's directly related to your state of mind and worth bringing up for that reason but theres also a real chance of it not going well if you do. For me I'd say I had to bring it up and don't regret doing, but the first time was a waste of time and money. It's always possible I'll go to a therapist again at some point and if I do it's definitely a subject I'd return to at some stage in the process as I haven't fully resolved all the mental issues I've got in relation to it although I have moved on in a lot of ways. Anyway I hope that perspective is of some use and good luck with it.

You got me there! I've been aware for a long time that I enjoy the attention of other men. I'm a total narcissist. However, following through isn't in my front-view mirror, if there is such a thing. A gay friend of mine once passed on a complaint he'd heard about me, that I was a real prick tease! LOL What's amazed me is that many guys keep on cruising me after they've seen how small I'm hung. I can understand the initial attraction: I'm good-looking and well-built. But I'm hung like a chipmunk, especially soft. I always thought guys were interested in biguns! Even stranger, some men seem even more attracted by my shortcomings. Wish more women were that way.

I've already responded to this thread, but there's another aspect I thought I'd mention. I find other men with good bodies and small cocks like me very erotic. They're like a mirror of what I must look like to others. I always wonder how they're handling having a small cock.How's their sex lives? I never thought about it before, but I guess it is especially hot when they show some signs of embarrassment. I then realize that they are having issues with it. Inside I'm very self-conscious about my size, but never let on. I act like I'm hung like a mule (instead of a chipmunk!). Maybe when I get back to the gym after the pandemic is over, I'll show a little embarrassment. That might get some guys' attention! LOL

I have always been intrigued by the wide variety of sizes penises come in. I’ve felt this way since I was a young boy. The fact that some can be so very small while others can be so very big amazes me. Even though I have a very small one myself and am reluctant, if not embarrassed to put it on display, I must admit that on the rare occasion I am in a situation where I might actually get to see a really big one in person ( i.e. gym shower room) it arouses me. Especially so if the guy with the big one by chance notices mine. I can’t seem to help it. Now why in the hell is that? ....LOL.

Major size difference really turns me on, too. I love seeing guys in the shower, one hugely endowed, one quite small. Especially if the one quite small is me! However, I never show embarrassment. I act like I'm hung like a mule. And, yes, it's really hot when big guys are clearly getting off strutting their stuff.

Iam curious how you handle this situation and what you said? I have a son that is going thru puberty. He already has a bigger dick than I do. I have a smaller than average size one. I was totally bummed when he finally realized that He was bigger. Now sometimes when he gets the chance he rubs it in.

Having no kids I've never been in your situation but the next time he makes a snide remark you might say something like... Son, here in private you can say what you want about my dick. It doesn't bother me because I know it works just fine; if it didn't you wouldn't exist. But you need to know that making that kind of remark to or about any of your friends or classmates would be a very hurtful thing to do. You could go on to elaborate a bit about young male anxieties if you think it would help. But it's important to convey, without saying it, that to a real man his penis size is irrelevant (whether you believe it or not) but that to a youngster a remark like that could trigger terrible self doubt. Alan G

Men have been more humiliating for me personally. One of the worst was in college where the communal showers caused me some embarassment. One well hung guy joked that all I needed for a jockstrap was a peanut shell and rubber band.

Hi Manuel, I feel for you, as the same thing happened to me when I was 18, I know how you must be feeling. The thought that so many people have seen your most intimate secret makes you feel really sick. I suppose like me, you were completely flaccid at the time, which shows it to be really tiny. I had to endure the rude remarks and little finger wiggles for a long time after. You will get over it as now people know, you have nothing more to fear and will gain confidence. I now can go nude in front of others without embarrassment even though some eyes are still focussed on my little dick.

I say mine is short and thin but others who have seen it say its long and thin. I suppose it does look long because it is very thin.

Short and thin - about 4 by 4.

My biggest fear is when I am making out with a girl the first time and the moment she first notices I have a small dick.

This did happen to me at the swimming pool when I was 18. It was my final year at school, I was talking to some friends(male and female) at the poolside. I was standing right at the edge with my back to the water, one of my classmates in the water reached up and yanked my shorts down to my ankles. My skinny little dick was revealed to all, it was my worst nightmare. I hurriedly pulled my shorts back up, swore at the offender and walked off red faced to the sound of laughter. Most of my friends had heard that I had a small dick, that was bad enough, now they had seen the proof. After that, whenever I saw some of those girls, at least one of them would wiggle their little finger at me. I suppose my worst fear now is my erect penis being seen as it does not get any thicker.

I have a weird fear that someday while im doing pull ups at the gym someone will come up behind me and pull my pants down revealing my grower to the world and all the cute girls ive hit on at the gym will know my secret

I've also noticed that men under thirty are very shy in the gym shower and often shower in their underwear. It's impossible to wash properly while wearing briefs. And it must be messy brining their wet briefs home. They should just relax, as there are only men present in the men's lcker room!

Thanks, WhaddaChode, I'm certain ur not the only guy here ever to look at some nonsexual object and think about sliding you dick into it. I wonder, did you ever share that encounter with your girlfriend, since she more or less inspired the event? Personally I never thought about bottles, thank god, but there were a few vegetables that lost their virginity to me as a teenager (mostly cantelopes). Also I remember overhearing friends at school talking about how a dick "should" clear a toilet paper tube lengthwise, and is at least as thick. So of course, at the age of 15, I had to compare my own to the toilet paper tube. Charmin won. Lesson learned.

i'm short and thin too 3 1/2 in. long 3 in. around

Lame, pointless story. You could have broken the bottle at the base to allow you to have removed your penis, it was the vacuum holding you inside it. Hope you learned a lesson. And thanks for wasting your vote on Nader and helping to give us the bonehead who's in the White House right now. Btw, short and thin here too....4" hard and 3" around.

short and thin here aswell

I only have three inches length by a girth of about three inches.

Short and thin here, below the belt... tall, and thick around the waist!

No question about it. Mine is short and thin.

I'm short and thin, although not exactly by the numbers according to this poll. I'm 4.5" long x 4" in girth (4.5" at the base). Still, that's damn small though.

Okay, now I have another thing to worry about. I hadn't measured myself for a while until the first time I read this post, and guess what? The length is about the same at 4 1/4, but I have lost about 1/4" of circumference. Getting older sucks.

I have no way of knowing about whether European guys have to shower in school like we did, but after my experinece in the Jr. High Shower I can certainly understand why younger guys would be shy about total nudity in front of other, especially older, guys. In my case it was not my classmates but our gym coach who was the jerk. (For the full story go to http://www.measurection.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=FirstTime&Number=38061&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1 ) (Sorry about all caps!) However; some adolescent guys can also be very cruel. Most of my classmates were very supportive and encouraging. The ones who were jerks were the ones who I later found out were also very insecure about something in their lives. I just wish I had come to that realization before middle age. Now I realize that being seen nude by other especially younger guys, COULD help them to understand that all men are not created equal and penis size is just a very small (no pun intended)part of who we are. I say wear your speedo and be proud!

I agree that there is a lot of eroticism in size differences, and it doesn't have to be huge differences either. I like to see older dads who are hairy, and small and try to hide in the locker room or at the Urnal. very hot to seet them and they know you are thinking about how small they are, when they see how small I am it is a relief. Like to talk to them about their size and how they feel about it. Once had big guy come into the shower and get hard and compare his 8" to our 3"'s he liked being more than twice our size together. He controled it and we both let him compare and he let us touch his big cock KimBear

I have to tell you my most embarrasing but erotic moment. It happened when I was 19, about 6 years ago. I was on holiday in Spain with 3 friends and we went out every night and kissed girls and got drunk and danced at clubs, like English guys do. Well, at one club, there was a show on and this girl with the microphone got me and my friends to get up on the stage and pull our pants down and show our dicks off. We were so drunk that we did it!! My friends aren't big guys but they were like 4 inches soft, 2 were uncut and one cut, and the girls were cheering and the guys were laughing at them and then I pulled my pants down. I have a small uncut dick of 1.5 inches but with the alcohol and the embarrasment, it had shrunk to about an inch. There was a big laugh from everyone in the club and the woman with the microphone said "Oh, look at that pathetic little thing! Let's get him to dance for us!" Everyone laughed and cheered at me and I stripped entirely and sang the old Chuck Berry song "My Dingaling" to everyone naked with my tiny stub on show! I was so drunk but I have a photo to prove it that one of my friends kindly took!!! Later on, people came up to me and said I was very brave, one girl kissed me and a few others said "Hi, tiny dick guy!" I was famous for the rest of the holiday and even had sex with a girl from Brighton, England! So that is my little story. I masturbate thinking about it sometimes. Hope you liked it.

i enjoy going to the gym and showing off my small size. im very small when soft, especially after working out. im also small hard 4.5-5. i like to walk to the shower and have other men seeing my small size and i like to see the other small men embarassed by their size. i get turned on by thinking that one of the larger men will start to boss me around (even though im staight. i dont think it is bad or weird to feel this due to size. i would like to hear from any big or small men about size in the locker room. mark

Hey, MarkMan, I just noticed your post and had to reply even though it's so late. I am 4.5" x 4.5" and utterly turned on by size differences. I like imagining what big guys think when they see my cock, and what they think it is like to be small. I don't mind if they think small dicks are kind of silly, as long as they think small dicks are erotic too! And as long as they don't really believe their big dick makes them superior people. I can't get over the fact that a dick can be two, three or more times bigger than mine, and yet they are both the same thing: human dicks. In some sense a small dick seems to me to be more like an extension of a man -- his handle that you grab him by. A big dick seems more like a separate entity. That's my small-dicked man's perspective, anyway. By the way, I like to think that at 7 to 7.5 inches you are well above average. The closer to average you are, the more below average I am!

first of all, i have to admit i am really bad with posting online. Anyway, back to the topic, i find it very arousing when guys are actually trying to cover up in public change rooms. The more timid and shy, the more turn on i am. I am also into big macho straight guys who have small dicks. That would be a blast for me.

okay guys, thanks for the compliment to all us smaller guys.maybe now we will feel like we ought to show it of a little more. newcomer