Leaderboard

There seems to be a prevailing mindset that to be nude around others requires a big cock, and it's really not true. Yes you do need a mindset to not care, or care what others might think, but that's the only barrier to getting naked and enjoying yourself. I used to shower regularly with friends and work colleagues at the gym close to work, the vast majority were in the 2-3 inch category, including myself and my boss. I recall only 2 "well hung" guys, one was quite loud and enjoyed the attention, the other more reserved. The more reserved guy confided in me that he didn't like the attention his large cock brought him in the gym, "everyone just stares" he said. So perhaps it is a double-edged sword to be well endowed. My last visit to a naturist club, of the 50+ males there, I was probably in the bottom 20% and I really don't care who sees me. If they want to judge me because of penis size, that's their problem.

I’ve been trying to pull it off 🤷‍♂️

My circumcision is very much healed now. I just spent the last month in the Philippines with a group of naturists. We were naked most of the time. We were camped on a beach resort with ocean swims and hikes into the mountains with naked swims. It was an incredible time. All the guys are small, but I was definitely the smallest. The largest guy was about 4”. It was great to bond with other tiny guys. It was not an issue at all. lots of teasing and boners as a result, but the best male bonding I’ve ever done.

I thoroughly enjoy guys just openly comparing and complimenting one another on their dicks and bodies! Wish it was like this out in the world! Hey man, your dick is amazing…..thanks, so is yours! Now that’s a gym I’d want to shower in!

I also have struggled in my life with a sense of shame. And that shame was inflicted on me by others. I have explored this in therapy and can liist some of the shamful events that infected me with shame: My mother telling me that she thanks the lord that I have a micropenis so I will be spared the sin of lust and sexual activity. She basically informed me that I will have to be a nonsexual being. My younger brother learning that he outsized me shamed me for having a small "pee pee"all the time. The bullies at school who depantsed me. The thing is we have to learn how to weed out the misinformation we are given and learn to ignore the bad intentions of people who have their own agendas. I have a small penis. I cannot change that fact. But scientifically I am on a spectrum of size and my penis functions just fine. I actually shoot as much cum in one load as many men do in three or more. So not everything about me is tiny. We have to surround ourselves with people who accept us for who we are and distance ourselves from the assholes who want to make us feel inferior. i have NOTHING to do with my mother or brother now. i know that they are negative people who do not make me a better person. Instead I have gradually formed a family of friends. I do still talk with my dad who is encouraging.

In my younger days i would not get naked in front of other guys in showers or on a beach but i went to the nudist beach a few years ago and just stripped off. i was a bit nervous at first so i sort of tucked myself away in the dunes but then a guy came over for a chat he was quite a bit bigger than me as i am only2-3in soft and to be honest after chatting with another guy naked i felt a lot more at ease about having a small soft dick i even got the courage to have a stroll along the beach naked, i would say i was in the smallest%20 of guys but now i dont care and am quite happy to go naked in front of others. i really enjoy getting naked on the beach and let the world see my little soft dick

There are two guys at my gym who shave while naked, the ultimate hanging out naked! I've gotten much better at walking around from the showers to the locker without covering up.

Bullshit. To me, sex is about intimacy and about pleasing my partner. And I don't have to rely on my dick to accomplish either of those objectives. I want my dick to participate in the fun (for my benefit) but it's not the star of the show.

Dive, why should one feel ashamed ? The physical features we have are just biology. Most of our physical features just are what G-d ( or nature, if you aren't a believer ) gave us. Shame should only be felt if you have done some action that you feel bad about. Do you have 5 fingers and toes on each hand and foot ? Do you feel shame because there are individuals that have 6 fingers on each per hand ? Its the same situation, you have what you have. When I was a teenager, I was about 4 & 1/2" erect. My high school girlfriend happily explained to anyone who would listen that I was the smallest she had seen, and a premature ejaculator, less than 1 minute everytime. BUT, we kept having sex. I was with her for about a year and a half, and she taught me how to work a woman with fingers. I never made her cum from just fucking her, she wanted me to finger her first, then after she was VERY HAPPY, it was 'my turn'. I think it gave her a feeling of power that she could pull a load out of my little guy so quickly. Now that I am much older, and happily married to 2nd wife for more than 30 yrs, age and declining testosterone and reactions to lisinopril and finasteride have left me with a 3 & 5/8ths inch erection. My Mrs seems quite happy ( I make good use of my fingering skills ). I have offered continuously to have her serviced by someone larger, and she has consistantly declined. Being much smaller is NOT a problem. You just have to learn to ENJOY your smaller size, and you can do that WITHOUT SPH. My Mrs and I practice what I would describe as small penis encouragement. What is your age, and do you have a woman, and how big or small are you when erect ? Most small penis 'problems' are purely emotional. Talk to us. We are here for you. Calev LoShem

I just naturally fit it into the conversation when the chance arrives. At a party a couple months ago with my wife, we were chatting around the "eats" table in the kitchen. The wife of a friend of ours looked down and said, "Wow! You have big feet!" I shrugged and said, "It doesn't mean what you think." My wife chimed in, "Ain't that the truth!" Everyone caught on and joined in laughing. In the Navy, when stationed stateside, a buddy and I had a series of MFM 3-ways. One afternoon, the subject came up while chatting with a bunch of my buddies. They were obviously curious about it all, so I gave a brief run down of our approach, naturally slipping in the fact that he had the much bigger dick (or mine was much smaller), so he did most the fucking. Of course, many of them had seen me in the shower so it was no big news (pun intended). I once told a joke on myself. I related how a friend of mine was now dating a girl I'd gone with and how he'd teased me it was so much better once he got past the "used stuff". Be creative. You can always find a way to "out" your shortcomings. I'm lucky; my looks mean I don't lose much in the process. You can still be cool with a small one.

Bullshit! I'm a college dropout. I'm the holder of three U.S. and one Canadian patents that were critical to the success of a start-up business that later sold for $300 million. I'm someone who was able to retire at the age of 51 after 30 years with the same company. I am definitely a winner. And my small penis had nothing to do with it, neither positive nor negative. My philosophy of life is . . . It's better to be lucky than good, but you've got to be good to take advantage of your luck. My approach to my small endowment . . . Your most important sex organ isn't between your legs, it's between your ears. Alan G

18 Years Old 3" Soft and Uncut 5" Hard Small to Average Circumference for both measurements

Ine may be small but it is aesthetically pleasing to the eye. I have certainly seen some ugly junk, may be bigger, but still ugly.

Growing up an only child and having my own bathroom my whole life I developed into a very private person, add to that discovering my penis was smaller than all of my friends and teammates I became even more private. I longed to have the courage to shower with confidence after practice and be seen like so many of my teammates did. Even the average guys. Fast forward to the internet and even with anonymity I was still afraid and a bit ashamed of my dick seeing just what other guys were working with. I was convinced a few times to cam with a couple guys I had chatted with for awhile only to have the screen go black on their end after my images came through. I began to belief that no one liked smaller dicks or me. It made dating very difficult and caused a lot of depression and self hating. I eventually stumbled upon a site called Dinky Dick and minus the SPH and panty loving guys on there I found a community that I could relate to for the most part. I was asked many times to post pics of myself and refused for quite awhile until one day I took a pic of myself taking a leak at a trough urinal (a massive fear of mine for my whole life) and decided to post it. The compliments and positive comments came flooding in and for once in my life I was starting to like my dick and could see other people could too. There were the yellow hanky piss queens that interpreted my picture in a way I was not going for at all but to each their own, right? Nowadays I’m a nudist, don’t give a shit who sees me and love showering in public having conversations and letting other guys see my junk on webcam. Such a turn of events but glad I made that 180!

About four times a week I do with my golf buddies after our round. There are eight of us regulars. Of which I am the youngest. LOL. Sometimes our sons, sons-in-laws and grandsons will join us, most of which will shower, too. We could all go to our homes and shower, but this is more convenient. And, it is more fun. At least for me. Always something to look at. Definitely a bonding experience.

This thread touches on several topics I'd like to comment on. sorry my posts are always so long. When I was younger I was a functional bisexual. I slept with many women (not bragging, I traveled with a rock band, lol). I never had a complaint and actually had women following me across the country to fuck me. I also had a gf whose ex was well hung and she preferred my size because sex with him was painful to her. we actually had a 3some and yes, he was really hung and even after that she still wanted me. he was stunned. so was I. lol. Agree; sex is more than sticking a dick in a hole. I like foreplay and all that goes with that for hours before the fucking starts. which is usually over in 15-20 mins. and women LOVE this. when I was having sex with girls, I would have them wet and sliding off the sheets way before I entered them. by then it didnt matter how big your cock is. Extended foreplay with men is even better. Gay men can be ruthless, brutal. For no good reason other than to make themselves feel superior. its the gay version of being a straight asshole bully. Nothing worse than a limp wristed 100 lb hissing sissy with a 8 inch dick dissing you. The most horrible sexual events I've ever had because of my size were with men. it definitely didnt make coming out any easier. Rhetorical Question; why would anyone marry someone who doesnt satisfy them sexually? and I ask because I too was in a relationship where we were sexually incompatible and it created problems for what might have been a healthier relationship otherwise. Suggestion. Dont let yourself (or your wife/partner if you can) get so out of shape that good sex becomes a chore that is never fully realized or achieved. if youre on the small side, having an additional 100 lbs of fat hanging over it, around it, doesn't do you any favors. same for wifey, if she's 2-3x the size she was on wedding day, she can hardly complain that youre not hitting the spot anymore. hell, the spot moved 6 inches away from where it started! After years of all the rejection, snarky comments, size queens and embarrassing moments, I definitely tell any man Im looking to be with that I'm small up front. get it out of the way. no surprises. it saves a lot of wear and tear. then you can flip it on its head and enjoy the babydick comments because you BOTH know what its like and its coming from a different place, playful not hurtful. and I get way more hung and average guys that want to get together than small guys. its just the numbers I guess. many of them are into small guys for various reasons, they like being the bigger guy, it reinforces their need to dominate or be superior, they prefer a smaller dick when bottoming/sucking, some out of curiosity, and some just genuinely have a love/fetish for small dick men. granted this scenario is usually for online meeting. meeting in a bar or somewhere public where its hard to have that kind of conversation can be trickier. these days Im just getting back on the scene after a long while. Id still be inclined to tell a guy Im small just to avoid any issues. if they arent interested after that Im fine with it. Better now than later when standing in his apartment undressed. As far as being gay with a small dick. hey, here we are. We're on this site. I like to think this site isnt just for us to whine about our little dicks. its so liberating even to be able to have this conversation with others who get it with no judgement. Ill put it out there. Im not dead yet. I want to meet another small dick guy like me. I want to have wonderful sex. Maybe even a relationship. Thats why Im here. and I've been on several of the "dating" sites lately. they are mostly corrupt, money grubbing, fake account having, bots, prostitutes, liars and thieves. and thats the sites, the clients are worse. so here's a small dick gay guy looking for other small dick guys, yes for sex, but also friendship, companionship, fun, adventure, I want all that. We deserve that.

I took the measurements people provided in their profiles. Inches, # of particpants, percentage of participants at that size, what percentile that is and a summary of <5 .....

I sleep naked. In fact I don't really have a choice. My wife developed this habit of wanting to rub her foot over my bum cheeks before she sleeps. She finds it soothing. The few times I tried to wear sleeping boxer shorts, her toe grips the waistband and she slides them down to my ankles and begins her pre-sleep routine......so i gave up!

Some of this may be applicable for you who identify as straight too. But, in that I am gay I'm talking to my gay brothers here. I used to be very active here, but things changed for me rather radically. For one thing, I moved from the east coast of the US to the west coast -- 11 years ago. But, as for me I do have quite a small penis and always have had. My history here goes back to the beginning of Measurection and reading the messages back to then I fondly recall forming friendships I still have to this day. We would meet up in one big city or another and I found myself with a much better attitude and less of an inferiority complex. TODAY I HAVE VIRTUALLY NO INFERIORITY COMPLEX Assuming you are not with me on coming out primarily as gay and having a small penis, you are not alone. Because we have small penises we fear being bullied and humiliated because of it. Measurection was founded by 3 gay men who professed to having a small penis and they created this place not just for gay men, but every guy with a penis -- small or otherwise. As well as their mates who love them. Twenty years ago I would not have been caught naked by anyone other than my boyfriend. I pretended to just be shy, but besides truly being shy I was trying never to be in a position where people would refer to me and having a small penis in the same sentence. WHAT WAS MY CATALYST? 1. MEASURECTION -- there's truth in numbers. Lots of us who think we have small penises. We help each other feel good about ourselves. 2. LIVING IN A BIG CITY -- best thing I ever did was move to a big city like Atlanta. A metro area of over 5 million people. Gay people flock to big cities where they are strong in numbers. We big city gays who are White, Asian, Black, and Hispanic all love and accept each other unlike heterosexuals, generally who hang with those of their own race. We dance together and vote together and it's a powerful block. In a big city no one is judging you. In a small town you are paranoid. Yes, you are! 3. I LOST THE MANIPULATORS. Yeah, I was raised christian, but because I had ADHD as a child I never heard a word from the pulpit. Lucky me! All of my many gay boyfriends were non-religious. With religion I am referring to the churches that try to brainwash you. Not talking about Jews. They are cool. My husband is a 3rd generation Atheist. Need I say more? Don't drink the kool aid and you will be better for it. I know I'm stepping on toes, but think about all the stuff you are told you can't do including strokin' your tiny dick. How much of it is manipulation? It's truly as bad as being a republican. That kind of politics and religion are all bullshit manipulation. Be you. Be free. Be gay and be guilt free. Fuck them all for wanting you to drink their kool aid BS. 4. Move to the WEST COAST states. There are 3 states on the West Coast and all 3 are great places to live as long as you find a city that's liberal. In other words, no MAGA freaks dominating and manipulating you. But, there are churches out here and good people go to them, but they don't try to convert us and we don't bother them. Out here it's live and let live. It's expensive to live in the 3 best states in the country. In California a crappy house easily costs $1 million. To afford it you live with friends and save money not having a car (in the big city). So you can't afford California or Portland or Seattle. Here's where you should never live --- any state that currently criminalizes abortion and threatens to jail doctors who save a woman with a problem fetus. That's where you don't live. Those are states that will not abide by the will of the people (overturning their votes). Move out as soon as you can. If you are over 65 years of age, maybe the big city isn't good for you and maybe also it's too late --- you're already brainwashed (unless you are Jewish) Had to say that for Alan. But, if you are under 65 -- move and save yourself. Find a mate and be happy. Anywhere in California including a small city works. The only place that's cool in Oregon is Portland. I love this city -- 2 million metro and gay is big there. In Washington state -- Seattle is great, but Spokane is not. 5. Join a GAY NUDIST CLUB. In the south I was a member of 2 gay nudist clubs. Now a member of one on the best (west) coast with 300+ members. Great non-judgmental guys. Truly this is how I overcame my inferiority complex having a small penis. For your info, a gay nudist club is not about sex. Sex could occur later at the end of the event, but usually just consensual casual play. Every body type is represented -- including a few adonises. Many are flabby guys. America is overweight and nudist clubs are no exception. It will be very awkward at first, but after the second, third, and fourth time you won't even know you are naked. We have beach parties too and naked bicycle rides in the daytime. Yes, it's legal. 6. Date a few guys and find a quality man who is smart and educated. Someone on your same economic level. Particularly someone who is not addicted to anything other than air and water. Ten years ago this month I married for the first time ever in my life. It happens when you are least looking for it. But, if you are too anxious to find Mr. Right, you will scare him away. Be careful and screen them for flaws because they will be screening you as well. I met my husband through Match.com. Before I married we ran credit and background checks on each other. Just so there would be no unpleasant surprises. We also did simultaneous STD checks too. That's important if you want to have sex. I'm ready to be yelled at for insulting the MAGA and religious crowd. But, deep down you know I'm right. Be free of the bullshit of life. That's what I like. I never ever watch Fox tv programming. The evilness of it has already been proven. It's brainwash central. On the other hand, if you are a MAGA freak and you are gay --- that's an oxymoron if there ever was one. Inasmuch as you try to change you will always be gay. But, you don't always have to be a republican. You don't have to be a christian either. Sure they will invite you into their church, but the next time you come with your boyfriend and they fantasize you two are sucking each other's dicks -- you are a sinner!!! How dumb. Ethan

I went to an upper scale nude spa this past weekend in Amsterdam and it was so amazingly glorious. Maybe a nightmare for those of you that don't love, or are afraid to show your small wankers, but I loved it. They have a wide variety of sauna's, hot tubs, a large pool, steam rooms, and even a warm seated sitting room. At first, I was walking around with my towel on, but after awhile, I carried my towel around, and used it for the bench's and to dry off from the pools. There was a wide variety of people there, but honestly, I'd say that 90% of the 100+ people there had decent bodies; it was glorious. Being fully naked, and no one really caring how big/small you are was a great experience! I highly recommend it. Has anyone else been, and how was your experience?

This site makes such a difference in my life. I have met so many people here who have inspired me to feel so much better about who I am in the world. One of the things I have discovered in my thirty years is that who I allow to spend time in my world with me is what makes the difference. As a child and a young man it seemed so many were "out to get me". Now, I understand it had very little to do with me and everything to do with them trying to make themselves feel better about their own perceived inadequacies. It is easier to put someone down to build yourself up than to rise to the occasions using your own skills and qualities. So many bullies as children grow up to be responsible adults. Unfortunately, they may not realize the destruction they left behind in their wake. I cannot fix what has happened in the past, but I can work to make the future a better place... for me and for others. So I just want to say thank you -- to those who created this website, and to those who populate the place. You make this a safe place to talk -- to vent, to ask questions, to express concerns, all of that. And so many here have wonderful anecdotes, answers, and offer perspectives. Thank you to everyone!

All my close friends both male and female have seen me naked and I have seen all of them naked, A good percentage of them will have seen me aroused also, while I'm small I'm not the smallest in the group and no one has ever shamed me for my size, we are a pretty open friend group and we enjoy being nude around each other.

Die to health reasons and medicine my wife has been out of the sex game since 07. I on the other hand are still able. We have discussed this and have improved and adapted ways for me to get what I need. After 45 years of marriage I’m not going anywhere because it’s not her fault and shouldn’t be punished my a divorce or separation

Rather than a boring pie chart. Inches and percentage

About 15 or 16 I suppose, didn't really have much interaction with other boys at school, mostly avoided the post gym showers. Started playing sports more regularly at college so showering afterwards and saw many more adults naked. Although I was often one of the smaller ones there, it never stopped me taking part in sports. Besides, there were many others the same size as me, some smaller, it's just the bigger floppy ones you remember when you're walking about in the locker rooms. Used to wish I had a bigger flaccid penis but seeing so many others around the same size made me realise I'm no different.

I shared before how much my dad influenced me. When I was growing up, it was just the two of us in a small place in the deep south with no air conditioning. In the hottest summer months, if we were inside, we'd only be in our briefs. Dad was even known to sit on the porch in his briefs and have a beer (we may have been a little bit redneck lol). There was not a lot of modesty, so pretty much saw everything. I was an early bloomer (though other than hair, not too much else bloomed). Wasn't too long before I had an identical little package. As a curious teen, I would see his morning wood and compare it to mine, and soft and hard we are super similar. Small balls too. By high school, I started getting super I secure when it seemed I was the smallest guy in the locker room. Phys Ed teacher called home to let Dad know I hadn't been dressing out and participating in class. Dad wanted to know the reason, since I wasn't shy at home. I'll always be grateful that he opened the door for us to talk about size, and that he shared how he'd dealt with the same thing. It was awkward at first, but after that I knew I could talk to him about anything. Wed go to the same campground near the beach each year, and I'd watch as he'd confidentially walk thru the group shower, by far the smallest man in there, without a care in the world. I followed suit. My first year of college, when I couldn't lose my virginity because I'd end up cumming in my briefs while making out, I was able to talk to him, and he told me he too suffered from premature ejaculation. I'm still small. Still have a quick trigger. And now I'm getting a dad bod. But that family support helped me deal and develop confidence in me.

These exchanges go me thinking. Ever since I hit puberty Ive been aware of having a small dick and what that meant sexually, ut I was never send-conscious or down on my self because of that. I've said things like "I never did the 'towel dance', to do so is a plain give-away that you're self-conscious about you're size. . . I always acted like I was hung like a mule." That's partly true but, in actuality, I never gave it much thought. In PE or sports, you had to shower naked, that's what the guys did, so no big deal. It never occurred to me to be worried by other guys seeing how small my dick was. Sure, I sometimes wondered what other guys thought about my size but, no big deal, I never thought anyone was gonna say anything mean or anything. I always liked people and always assumed they liked me. (Hey, I was elected student body president in high school!) I was naturally optimistic (still am). I guess you'd call that confidence. I think that came from loving and supporting parents, my looks and athletic abilities, and, more recently, the love of my life, my wife. . . plus, something people don't mention much anymore. . . my Catholic faith. I've always felt I was the happiest guy I knew. Concentrating as we do about size so much I may have given the wrong impression, that I was bothered by having a small dick or down on myself because of that. Not the case. I wouldn't change a thing about myself. Off my soap box.

Was active duty for 8 years and experienced a variety of shower situations. A few bases were just open bay showers and others had more privacy. It’s interesting though, not everyone who exhibits modesty is endowed the way you’d think. We had one guy in our unit who was always covering himself up and I was always sort of perplexed as to why. After months he finally got more comfortable and used his towel a little less. The dude was fairly well hung… guess he was just shy? Knew a few other guys who had small nubs and would strut around proudly. No ones manhood was referenced or spoken about outside of the locker room. There was one guy who seriously had a 7inch flaccid cock and I always wanted to ask his co-workers how he wore some of the gear we had to put on… but of course I never did. From my own personal experience I was never teased though if you check out my stats I’m more on the small side of average vs very small. Experiencing open showers actually made me feel a little more average and one-of-the-guys because there were quite a few guys hung about my same (soft) size. It actually made me realize that average size really is much smaller than we’re made to believe by porn and media. Saw lots of 1 inch flaccids and even a few turtled nubs. There were some guys who would go to great lengths to not use the base/gym showers and would drive home to change. I’m guessing they might have even chosen a home close-by for that purpose but who knows. Most of these guys were younger. One thing about the military that civilians understand in their heads, but it’s an entirely different thing to experience is that we just have a camaraderie that can’t be explained and are in each others lives in a way that isn’t reflected in civilian life. Seeing each other naked just seemed like an extension of that… though if I’m honest was a little nerve-wracking at first. If you had joined you probably would have been okay or figured something out. There are usually enough “adults” around that extreme teasing doesn’t last long.

Panties definitely, thongs feel very weird to me. Wearing my girlfriend's panties has led to many great sexual sessions with her, and it was a huge turn on for her as well.

I have certainly become "internet friends" with several other smaller guys I have encountered on line. They have gotten me through some tough times. It hard to discuss small penis with friends from real life. You guys serve an important function here.

Funny recent encounter with my dad, but first some background. Grew up in deep south with just dad and I in a small house, 1 bathroom, and no A/C. During those hot, hot summer months, we'd rarely wear more than briefs around the house. And in such a small space, there wasn't much room for privacy or modesty, and pretty much saw everything, soft to morning wood. We were pretty much identical, from our little soft buttons to our best hard efforts (about 4.5). We were both well aware - he walked in on me beating off a number of times. Fast forward 35 years, and dad was my ride after a colonoscopy. He was there in the recovery area when I woke up. I have never had anastesia before, so I was pretty groggy, and I remember the doc laughing. Apparently, after doc gave me the all clear, he said I could get dressed. Dad asked if I wanted him to wait out in the waiting room. He says I replied, "Why? It's not like you've never seen a little dick before. You've got one just like it!". Both he and the doc thought it was hilarious.

Doesn't that mindset apply to a lot of things in life. We (figuratively) waste so much time and energy worry about what others think or say. Renting them headspace and messing us up. Letting others "opinion" control or emotional and mental state...unhealthy Living our lives by what someone else thinks....social media, "influencers" blowing their own horn, Back to penises Had a guy say, "You must be desperate for sex and not get much with that small cock" I replie "I get as much as I want, and better a small cock than a small mind" Aside from him, I have had one person make a comment: "it looked bigger in the picture" but we still played repeatedly. BTW I often say "You know how a camera adds 10 lbs, well it adds an inch also."

Hello Everyone! Its been a while since Ive logged in here. Things got different in my life. Ive devorced. But im here in this topic for some other reason. Do you remember what was my experioence as a teenager with nude beaches? If not , here is the link to read: https://www.measurection.com/forum/index.php?/topic/4292-most-humiliating-small-penis-memory/page/16/#comment-238661 So after decades I brought all my courage together and went to the nude beach...yes...me. ON a naturist beach. It was so LIBERATING!!! I was so stupid not doing this earlier. Best experience of my life. I even played ping-pong with a dutch guy. Why did I worried so much about my body? I was a fool. I can only recommend every guy in this forum - VISIT A NUDE BEACH! It brings your self esteeem and body positivity back. Thanks for listening. Have a nice day to you all!

My wife is drop dead gorgeous and has appeared in several tv shows, commercials and movies. We met online and, as I have mentioned here before, on our first sex date we fucked before dinner, after dinner and in the morning (sleep over was not planned) and she had at least 10 PIV orgasms and a couple of oral orgasms. She loves my short cock. We married when she was 50, so she had a lot of sexual experience coming into our relationship. She said she had dated guys with big dicks and small dicks and most of them ended up being assholes. She has never teased me about having a small dick and loves making me cum inside her. I’m the luckiest man in the world!

Spent the weekend at a naturist club, it was good to be around so many like minded people enjoying the sunshine. Out of the 50 or so male, I can recall only 1 person I would describe as hung, the majority were average size. I tend to hang maybe 3 inches when in the sun, but shrivel to 2 when walking about. Some overweight, some slim, pretty much all shapes and sizes. Great to be in a non-judgmental environment again.

As a kid we also compared and I got accustomed to being the smallest. This became more of an issue for me when comparing with younger boys as they then lauded their larger size over me. I think being the smallest in the group did affect how people saw me. I was very good at sports (swimming was by best sport) but I think my penis size had an effect on hoe I was seen. That may be perceptual on my part, but all the comments sort of reinforced that notion and I still believe I was right. When my penis size got so publicly outed in my sophomore year it really had an impact on me and how I was treated. I think being the smallest in your group, or even in your school, has an impact on your self esteem and how you see yourself.

I was lucky to have an open father. He was always nude and is basically a nudist nowadays. Seeing his size made me feel more open and welcoming about my size. He is technically a micropenis, I think. And with that, he never was shy about it and we had talks about size, confidence, etc. We'd even joke about each other down there but it was always pretty light hearted and Im happy that happened because that enabled me to be more relaxed with my own son too.

My fraternity experience was vastly different. We had open showers in the house and often showered together and we had a room in the back of the house set up with a couch and a TV. Porn was always playing. We called it the "masturbatoriam". While there was no touching of each other, we all masturbated back there with few brothers. I had one of the smallest penises in the fraternity (there was a couple of guys smaller) but we were all brothers and we never put each other down. We did have one guy we called "Mule" who was a legit 8" hard. Watching him jack that thing off was always a treat.

I enjoy showing off online the types of reactions you get is always interesting.

I love to compare cocks with other. I’m on the smaller side when soft. I used to worry about it but I’ve learned that it’s just natural differences. People are different. I make sure I don’t cover up in changing rooms etc so people get a chance to see the range of sizes out there

I have been ashamed for my penis until i was 30. i diddn't had a sex life, i was too affraid. Then i met a man he was 59. He liked me and wanted have a relation with me. I liked him too but i was affraid that he it all would end if he saw me naked. One night i told him the truth and he started to laugh. He said size is not important but the man is. I stayed that night with him and it was great. He took ne later to the sauna and nude beaches. it was very liberating. I still go to nude beaches and don't feel ashamed anymore. I wish I had experienced that sooner.

So I have many thoughts on what you've commented, please keep in mind this is coming from a loving standpoint, not judgmental. 1) Being ashamed of your penis size is like being ashamed of the shape or size of your kneecaps. I know this may sound like an extreme thought to you being as this cancerous view of your penis has clearly taken over your personality, self perception, & social life. You did nothing wrong, this is simply what your penis is. It's also the only one you'll get to have in this lifetime, and any surgeries that could alter it are risky at the best of times if not just plain fraud. It's healthy. It works. I do now know your size (too lazy to look it up) but I'm willing to bet it's not as small as you've convinced yourself it is. 2) OK assuming you have a small penis: so what? It doesn't make you stupid, or hamper you in any way other than the power you give to that train of thought (see the cancer comment above). I've know plenty of guys who have had great sexual relationships with women & men with a penis 4" and smaller. It's not the penis, it's the man attached to it that really counts. Sex can be/is great as long as you have a willing heart, and decent partner, and are horny. 3) Social issues: So my big thing is how the hell are people finding out you have a small penis, and why the fuck do they care? Then, why are you allowing them to have power over you due to genetics? Why are you tolerating it? I don't have a "DONG". I can tell you now, if I had a "friend" that tried to shame me about penis size I would have a field day with them, and they'd be out of my social circle feeling like that piece of trash they are. Then I would simply go on with my life perfectly happy knowing I put a piece of trash into the garbage where they belonged. Referring back to the knee caps; someone making fun of your penis is like someone making fun of your kneecaps. It's really kinda silly, lame, and just plain dumb. 4) Do not allow yourself to get sucked into this sick "penis standard" the public at large has allowed itself to be duped into by porn. I think you mentioned you're 60. I'm 42. So I KNOW you're old enough to have had social nudity opportunities the way I did (not saying you partook, just had the opportunity). Scouts, school gyms, ROTC, public gyms, pool locker rooms, etc. all showed me back then that the "average penis size" what ABSOLUTELY NOT what porn would have you think. Hell if you Google "small penis porn" it's usually dudes with ACTUAL regular penis sizes <BOGGLE>. Basically, dude start loving yourself. Pick better friends and partners. Accept your body for what it is and enjoy it. Tell porn and those who are dumb enough to think that's real life to fuck off. It's not worth the pain and tears you've already given it. Some things are, but this isn't. Feel free to DM me if you want, I'm happy to talk anytime.

As a nurse I’ve probably seen more dicks than a prostitute and I can assure you they come in all shapes and sizes on everyone! No correlation with anything, just gotta check under the hood and see what they are packing! And even if they are small flaccid that don’t mean nothing when hard for some.

I had my first group masturbation. Last month with small penis guys. It was an incredible experience.

Exactly my case. It even happened a couple of times at the nudist beach that I found some precum on my tip. On those cases, I was not exactly thinking about sex but my body seemed to decide that it liked what it was seeing

Article on CNN website: Swimming briefs are back in style! Speeedos! V My favorite form of swimwear after nudity! Never could understand why American males started wearing the equivalent of a raincoat to the beach or pool. Probably motivated by the same style trend of wearing underwear to the showers. I wear them whenever I can. The skimpier the better! Something hot about showing off my big balls and lil nub to the guys and gals!

I live as a full time nudist and have several friends, old and young, straight and gay, who enjoy coming over just to hang nude. I like the company and they like being able to bare all, feel the breeze all over their body, get an overall tan, or just enjoy being nude with other guys in a private setting.

I don't shave to make my penis look bigger, I just prefer how if looks and feels. Far more comfortable for me in the warmer summer months.

That term, "cute" is the most frequent adjective applied to my penis by those I encounter who see it. I used to react to that as "cute" is a little puppy, not a dog, and I felt the term emasculated me. Now I embrace it. I have seen some UGLY dicks along the way and mine is, well, "cute".

4inch thin