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I know it's a really old thread but... I'm only a month in and I've already felt better, so many guys in the same situation. Everyone I have spoke to has been great. I wish I had found it years ago 😃

I’m back in school at a different university in the East and I’m on a rowing team. It’s a very close team manship group. Physical contact, locker room antics and of course a lot of nudity in the showers-in and out of. At first I tried to hide my smallness, as I’m definitely the tiny guy. Once I was outed I got a lot of flack for my tiny button and the guys could not believe that anyone could be that tiny. Of course with that came all the usual questions. It’s been an uphill struggle to “fit in”, but I’ve had to “prove “ myself by becoming the best rower on the team. I’ve had to really work hard at it to basically overcome my smallness. I’m accepted now for my ability, but certainly not for my size. The showers and lockers are still humiliating for me, but the team has accepted me as one of the.

I find it funny when people use a TV remote as some kind of size indicator... that's only helpful if everyone has the same brand of TV! Even toilet rolls aren't standard, not in girth anyway. There is something that is standard, kind of what it's invented for... a ruler!

Nothing at all, that's the most comfortable. Also can't sleep on my stomach, don't ask me why.

Yeah... More times than I can count. ... He was always long hanging. with low hanging balls. .. Always looked the same. Never did see him erect, though it was obvious he wasn't small.

I don’t have a memories to take a shower with him when I grew up, but we travel to Cancun when I was 13/14 and we need to take a shower in Xcaret so he told me that i need to go with him, so I see the dick of my father for the first time.

@A-RB ..... One important thing I've learned is... Regardless of size, we all have our doubts and problems.

Personally, I use the word "penis". But, that's my own personal preference. I don't apply the more crude and sexualized words to it and the same for testicles. Architecturally, the male genitalia are fascinating and deserve respect.

I sleep naked. In fact I don't really have a choice. My wife developed this habit of wanting to rub her foot over my bum cheeks before she sleeps. She finds it soothing. The few times I tried to wear sleeping boxer shorts, her toe grips the waistband and she slides them down to my ankles and begins her pre-sleep routine......so i gave up!

Lol ok. 5 feet 11, 2.5 - 3 inch soft, 5 3/4 inches hard

@Jackf might aswell still answer it. What's an inch between pals 😁

I'm convinced now that if I have cancer or some other serious condition, I won't know it until it's too late. Going to the doctor today is such a joke that it's almost pointless. The last time I went, I was there for less than ten minutes and they didn't even bother to check my temperature. I'm dating myself but for those of you who came into the world after the mid 1990s, here's what going to the doctor was like - for me at least... I was a child in the 70s and a pre-teen and teen in the 80s. And like other kids, I did not love going to the doctor but in hindsight, the quality time that doctors had with patients was very effective in diagnosing illnesses and prescribing treatments. At the pediatrician in those days, upon being called back to the exam room, the nurse (they wore white uniforms in the day) would instruct us to take off all our clothes except underwear. This was the case even if my brothers and I were there for something specific like a headache or sore throat. After getting undressed, we were taken into the hallway to be weighed and measured then back into the exam room for temperature, blood pressure, pulse and some questions that were carefully written down on the clipboard. Doctor would come in later and would thoroughly look into our eyes, ears, nose and throats, feel our necks and have us lie down where he'd check us with the stethoscope, check our knee and feet reflexes, asking "does it hurt" every step along the way. We knew the end of the exam was coming when he'd tell us to take off our underwear and he'd examine our penises and testicles - which became much more thorough (and embarrassing) when puberty started to kick in. Altogether, I didn't keep track of time back then but going to the doctor was probably 30 minutes minimum to an hour. And what I just described was pretty standard up until young adulthood. Things got more abbreviated in the 90s when managed care started to micromanage doctors and now... might as well self diagnose. Thanks for listening to my rant this morning.

So if I say I have a bic dick, people might read it as a typo 🤔 🤣🤣

Yeah, the angle makes all the difference. I've took some and look normal, took others and looked smaller/bigger than I am.

In summer I sleep naked. I love the sensation of the comforter against my hairless genitals.

Cleared. No wonder I haven’t heard from anyone and I thought it was my size. 😳

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@Appreciater yes we do, and it's nice that we are here for each other

@MicroButton .... If we were together, if you were to bottom.. it would be by your choice and wanting it.. not that I would dominate you. ... There are various ways to share. .. 😊👍

I agree. While I refer to my dear wife’s genitals as her “pussy” we both refer to mine as my “penis.” She will say, “why don’t you let me suck your penis.” Such lovely words coming from her mouth, into which I obligingly insert my penis.

I answered a Craigslist ad (remember those) from a woman looking for "A man under 6 inches". I told her I was actually under 5" and she said that was perfect. Turns out, she was very petite and her husband had a huge cock. She was a virgin when they got married. She told me she just wanted to have sex and it not hurt. She loved my cock and she came several times. She sad, "Now I know why people like sex". I never saw her again. She was just answering a curiosity. Her pussy was VERY snug even from my small dick, so I imagine her husband was killing her.

age 19 10.9" hard 8-9" soft girth is 6.6" this might change, who knows I'm not exactly comfortable speaking to others about size, but here, it's anonymous. So it's a little easier to open up.

NOT TRUE!

I'm 6'4", 7.5" long with a 5" girth.

That's the Statement I find so annoying & patronising, particularly when it comes from a partner. Would rather have them pat me on the Head & Say "Good Boy". Being told outright that it is actually small & that we're going to have some fun with it is a way more positive sound.

you think their old slogan Flic my bic had any innuendos implied

@A-RB .... As long as it keeps lighting. 😊👍👍...You'll have the hot spot.

.... A Bic lighter is 3" long... So, I suppose I could say I have around a two and a half Bic Dick ... Lol

We are getting what the papers call shrinkflation, so supposedly standard packages are now getting smaller to keep the price about the same. Soft drinks like Coke are sold in 330ml cans in the UK, so they are slightly smaller than US/Canada. It's only beer that's sold in pints, proper 20 fluid ounces pints!

Depends on the perspective of the image. I often think mine looks a bit bigger because it is fat, especially around the base. I often include a scale object to give some idea of size. In my case I'm not much longer than a credit card or IKEA pencil.

I was only ever told I was small once, that's when I jacked off with a school friend in high school. He was at least 6inches and that was in high school.

People often say it's not that small, which is nice, but maybe a bit boring... although that sounds ungrateful lol

@Pumpkin Eater I've done so in real life with a close friend, and I find the difference in size to be very broad, and quite apparent. I will not post the visualization here, just for the discretion of others. Yes, I am unusual. I don't know any people my size, nor do I actively seek them out.

To some extent this forum has helped. Unfortunately, the fact I am currently celibate is part of the reason.

@Appreciater I sort of like the peniscompare/visualizer layout better. This one's kind of simplified. This is interesting though. aG5ibnwyNzd8MTY1fDEwMHwxMDB8c3wxfDE3MnwxMzJ8OTB8OTB8c3w0fGhuYm58fA== <-- that is my code for peniscompare.fr

I've shrunk a bit after two back surgeries. But for the purpose of this survey six feet on the nose. 4 X 4.5 flaccid and 7 X 5.75 erect.

My wife and I ran a floral and gift shop for many years. ... I have a son-in-law who is deputy police chief. I have been informed that mine is the bigger, even by the grandson when he was a toddler. .. Lol

@A-RB @MicroButton ... As the story goes.... My what big eyes you have. .... The better to see you, my dear. .. 😁 Perhaps, it calls for a closer "look".. 😊👍

My right testicle, which is larger, hangs lower.

Yeah I get that, still plenty of other ways to get off. We've all got hands and mouths 😉 I think we all look at other guys packages 😅

That's not right, us guys can have lots of fun together without actually having sex

It’s also during sex. I know I can’t top, therefore I automatically am a submissive by physical appearance and size. That alone makes me feel inferior. But then again on this site most guys are bigger than I am and a 3 or 4 inch dick is definitely more “superior” in size and many here let me know that.

4.5 inches erect, and have BS, MS, and PhD degrees - 22 yrs of education

@SloStroker there's a socket for every plug, and vice versa.

I've always been curious about trying a prostate massage, but never have. 🤔🤔🤔

I can't avoid the feeling I don't measure-up for penetration types of sex because I know I don't. Life is more than that. There's a lot of things and can do and others I can't do in many fields of endeavor.

Let one hands the lowest and when I’m nude in the sun it will hang almost two inches but since I only have one it has to be this one

@Appreciater No harm done. That might be the case that I don't like accepting my limitations, but at the same time, I'm trying to find someone I'm well compatible with. It's a little frustrating trying to do that when people are so eager and insist they are compatible. I'd like to find someone who is O.K. with my size, they don't need to be perfect at it. But more importantly, I'd like a person who doesn't just want sex from me, or sees me as that aforementioned sex doll. Someone who sees me and not just my penis; someone who looks farther in than just the physical. That's my ideal "right one". The issue with my ex was that he would not just want sex all the time, but jokingly advertise me as his sex object, and I didn't feel comfortable with that. It'll take some time to find the right person but I have no issue waiting. It's a little lonely, I can't lie, but I'm enjoying my time now.

Yeah, comparing is fun! 😊

I like peepee, or dicky, my favorites are dicklet or cocklet, fun size is great too