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  1. Really?  You never heard any small penis jokes?  Re:  Dad's penis.

    1. CuriousNow


      Honestly?  No, not that I can recall.  There was, however, ONE incident I do remember when I was in school in England.  I've posted about it in the forum somewhere, I'm sure.

      I believe that, although I would say that it was sexual harassment, I do not believe it was initiated due to the boy's small genitals (were were all 12 - 13 so it's not like any of us were packing anything serious, but he had one of, if not the, smallest little-boy package of all of us).  The boy had been hiding in the hedgerow by the rugby pitch to try to stay out of the rain - plus he was not particularly athletic and, stature-wise, he was the smallest in out class.  Anyway, some of the bigger boys found him and drug him out and pinned him on his back on the wet grass in the rain.  This didn't bother me - figured that was part of growing up.  But THEN the boy who was sitting on his legs (two others were pinning his wrists over his head and his ankles at the other extreme) yanked down his short.  Most of the boys wore "tighty-whities" underneath, a few of us wore jockstraps, but little Davey had nothing on under his shorts - so now he was stretched out, pinned to the wet ground in the rain, with his pants pulled down and his package exposed.  Standing off with the rest of the class, I didn't like this much, but the British boys were MUCH more open about sexual stuff and commenting on each other and so on.  I figured this was just a Brit Boy thing - cultural, nothing I should be involved in.  I started to walk away when the boy on Davey's legs started slapping Davey's penis.  Not hard, more more like just almost playing with it, but not in a nice way.  What I mean is it didn't seem like it was meant to pleasure Davey, but rather to embarrass him thoroughly - which I believe it did.  I REALLY thought this was wrong, but none of the British boys seems to be upset by this scene. I turned and walked away.

      In retrospect I SHOULD have done or said something, but I was still fairly new to the county, the culture and the school and felt like walking away was best.  But, no, it wasn't.

      So, other than that, I honestly don't remember any sort of "mine's bigger than yours" conversations or anything like that.  Maybe I just wasn't paying very close attention.  Back in those years, I was just totally disinterested in naked boys so didn't really "engage" much in the locker rooms (and certainly not at all in the showers)!

  2. Not off topic at all. My Dad's penis was a data point supporting my theory that ancient Greece was no exception to male size obsession and the rationalizations to overcome it. My father demonized sexuality with "moralism" regardless of race, creed, or color to rationalize his lack of genital status. My mother described to me some of his difficulties in bed as a result! She was a loose cannon. Similar to Greeks. Proof? No, there is no such thing as proof in science. Just evidence that tends to support or contradict a theory.
  3. You were in ancient Greece? And know that? Please. Anyway, vilifying Greeks who had characteristics of barbarians would be no surprise. So? Of course, rationalization was part of vilification and denigration of slaves! In Greece they were vilifying their barbarian enemies. Villifying hung whites as being like "n's" would make sense too. . .
  4. White racists and slave owning men of the American South tried to maintain similar rationalization re: Black men perceived to be larger. Greeks probably perceived "barbarian" large dicks with disdain also.
  5. Nope! Quite the opposite and I tried to deny reality.
  6. I would assume it is covert. Even in locker rooms it is mostly unspoken.
  7. My trips to the Y with my Dad when I was very young convinced me that he was INFERIOR to other men because of his very small flaccid penis. Nudity establishes a genital hierarchy often in conflict with other measures of relative worth: moral, intellectual, other body characteristics. . .
  8. I should have mentioned my efforts around 2005 to use various device to get more hand to me flaccid and eliminate retractions. I did manual stretching pretty religiously (jelquing) which did very little. I also bought a stretcher type clamping device and wore it 4 several months. I also tried a weight with an attachment clamp but it seemed too difficult to wear and even dangerous.. There was some improvement, but it was short-lived. All gains went back to normal. Definitely not worth the effort. Sometimes I wonder what the tight retractive tendon is all about. Genetic? psyc
  9. Me too. At 4-3/8 x 5.5, experience indicates I would have needed at least 1-5/8 and preferably 2-1/2 inches additional inches in length to have satisfy my female partners seeking penetration mode orgasm. What a relief it must be to be in a position to satisfy a woman by limiting penetration to her desires when indicated.
  10. Gosh, glad I never had to interact nude with in laws. Friends and associates of wives would have been bad enough.
  11. My information is that truck drivers, etc. into this avoiding rest stops to PEE use wide mouth JARS, not bottles! That would be no help for my micro retracted flaccid, though.
  12. Women who ask you before or after sex, "Are you gay?"
  13. Oh, I think they know. I almost always get that comment when I can't avoid peeing in the woods with other guys around, especially when there is a group relieving themselves. Less common when only 1 guy. Interesting that quite a number of women and men I've argued with about the reality of a "phallocracy" deny the above scenario and claim ADAMANTLY "no one knows your penis size unless you show or tell them." How stupid! I guess they are just unable to put empathize and imaging the damage done.
  14. Yes, but there is the implied critique that "you" should be no more shattered about your "so so" dick than the small breasted woman who also was at at the nude swim. She might have been a tad more understanding if she was the small breasted woman at the swim instead of the larger breasted! I found, to my disappointment, that it was always a mistake to admit significant small penis anxiety to a female life or even a fleeting sex partner.
  15. Another thought I have is that men get used to living with obvious characteristics that reflect on their status: looks, height, weight, muscles, intelligence, manners, drive, skills, etc. The penis on the other hand is usually hidden and only exposed in special circumstances such as sex, nude swimming, locker rooms, peeing in the woods with peers, etc. For a man proud or at least adjusted to this public persona, it can be quite a shock to suddenly be at the low end of the totem pole because of his less than impressive dick. AND, you can't do anything about it beyond trying show
  16. Clearly women are very concerned about their breast size, shape and firmness. Otherwise there wouldn't be a vast breast augmentation industry. Most likely the small breasted woman at the nude swim DID CARE, but had learned not to obsess about it or, at least, not to show it. Generally, women are concerned about their looks past what would seem to be rational and healthy. Maybe she was dying to get a boob job. Since women are subject to a looks derby and have learned to stand-up to it, they have little patience for men who have so much trouble with it. Basically, she's probably tellin
  17. Plus the topic was hetero sex, how average guys perform and / or feel about themselves with women and how the women feel as compared to large guys.
  18. Maybe I don't get your definition of "bear" since you seem to equate it with "buff." True enough. I've never watched a video label "bear." If you look like a bear, you might be strong like a bear. Buff usually means you are lean or trim with will defined muscles.
  19. Yeah, I understood what you said. I'm just surprised you are saying women tend to be so visually oriented when it comes to penis size. Unfortunately, your observations do jibe with my memories of women rather eagerly expressing themselves regarding large powerful looking ones in various circumstances. Normally, it is said men are the visual ones and, of course, they are very visually oriented. They are attracted to the face, figure, breasts, legs on and on. But, maybe the finding of MORE visually oriented is incorrect. Females spend way too much time primping not to be visually
  20. I guess you are talking about the pleasure some women get from having a man with a large penis size? Isn't that part of the problem? No fun not having that sexual image or sexual status women often enjoy? Always confused me that women often claim they don't want to be "objectified" while they spend a lot of time acquiring an artificial "sexual image" through make-up, hair style and clothes. I'd like to be treated like a "sex object" for once. Like those hung guys at male strip shows where women fawn over their cocks.
  21. Yeah, I heard guys talking about other guys with "no penis" in the context of competing for a woman. Not about me, but it hit hard back when I was young and undeveloped compared to others.
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