Father, Brothers Size Difference

[retirednavy1995]

Just give thanks for the penis you've been given. It's a gift. When we are content with what we have, there's no need to want anything else. If your penis is functioning fine, and your wife is okay with it, give thanks. There are plenty of penises out there that aren't functioning, and guys are having to use Viagra to get a hard-on. Some wives are going through menopause and they lose any interest in sex. That's when most men start "shaking hands with the unemployed" every chance they get! (That's masturbating, for those of you who don't understand this tongue-in-cheek expression). Me, I'm married (and happily so), have sex once in a while with the wife, but her menopause is so sporadic that sometimes she doesn't think about sex and sometimes she does. When she isn't thinking about sex, and she's lying next to me snoring, I just jack off in bed and go to sleep.

 

Be thankful for what you have! Many guys don't have 6" penises, let alone penises that are 6" in girth as well. Mine is 7" in length and 4.25" in girth when erect. When it's flaccid, it's tiny and thin. When a cold winter hits us, you can barely see my penis peeking out of my pubic hair.

 

It's all subjective, my friend. Just be thankful!

[wood650]

Well said. I am 74 and back to the masturbation phase because of menopause. I miss sex of the past so much because I am still very horny. Sex once in a while with wife but she feels nothing, not even my dick.

[Guest]

I have three brothers and of course a father (now deceased). All of us are from the same mother and father. We all saw each other nude many, many times. Swimming, showering, dressing, peeing, camping, boy scouts, you name it. Of the five of us, all of our cocks were different sizes. As luck would have it, mine was the smallest. One brother's was beer can size...not long, but very fat. Another's was easily 8 inches and a normal circumference. A couple of us are hairy, and one smooth, one in between. Different ball sizes as well. I would have thought that males from the same family would have more similarity. Any observations from your family? I've been hung up about this for years. I feel that somehow I was cheated.

 

As I have said in other threads on this site, this was a big issue for me as well. I happen to be the smallest in my family, between my father, my younger brother by three years, and myself. I know this for a fact because I have stolen a casual glace or two while next to my dad at urinals and whatnot over the years, and he is much bigger than me, flaccid at least, and my brother and I used to have mutual masturbation sessions together, when we were much younger and both going through puberty, and even back then he was bigger than me, both flaccid and erect. I am 6" long by 5" around, and I have grown to accept my size. I now thank God for the gift of my penis, that it is capable of giving me such great pleasure, and will hopefully someday do the same for my future wife, and grant us both the gift from God known as children. If that does happen, somewhere down the line, I know that I will raise any sons that God blesses me with to have a much more positive body image than I had, so that they do not have the same problems and issues that I did.

[Str8chaser]

My younger brother and I are about the same, my older brother bigger, my dad the biggest.

Edited September 18, 2013 by Guest

[obolon]

I don't know exact sizes but I have 3 brothers and know that all of us are on the large side, as is my father. It's one reason why I was miseducated and spent my teens convinced that I was small.

[wood650]

Do not know how you thought you were small at your size.

[JuniorS]

Hi new to site. I'm noticeable bigger than my dad (6.5 inches to his 5) although have about the same in thickness. mine probably just a bit thicker but not much. huge difference when limp though i'm usually 4-4.5 when limp and he is REALLY small, I'd say inch and a half. I passed him in size when I was 16.

[Little Nate]

I have no brothers. Never seen any cousins or more distant relatives naked. First time I saw my dad naked was when I was 18. I'd seen him in speedos and such growing up so I knew he wasn't hung so it wasn't a surprise. He's smaller than me, but only just. He did remark once in the communal showers that I must hate how we're "so like father, like son". I wasn't sure exactly what he meant, so he just nodded downwards to indicate he was referring to penis size, and said that it was one of the only "setbacks" (his word, not mine!) I could blame on him, haha.

[Red Scott]

Don't know my dad haven't seen him since 16 that was the first time since 4! My mum calls him a " habitual liar " and a " shit lover " who was sexist! I guess he was modest!

 

Me and my older brother by one year are the same size give or take a quarter inch. Younger brother 3 years my junior once through puberty was about an inch bigger n a little thicker.

 

My son has a really big flaccid dick that puts me well to shame. I have no idea how big when erect cos I ain't seen it, he is nearly as big as me erect when he's soft, he could be a shower but I will estimate 7" when hard? Could be more I just dunno.

[Guest]

Interesting reading. Difficult for me to answer. When I last saw my dad naked, his looked huge to me, but I hadn't even hit puberty yet (or, should I say, it hadn't yet hit me)! It wasn't particularly long - may four inches - but it was VERY thick and his balls quite massive. I don't think I ever reached his size even in my prime.

 

My brother? Two years older, I last saw him about the same time. Much bigger than I, of course, and at thirteen, he had a nice bush which impressed me. I did see him hard, and by the time I was thirteen, I'd say I was about the same size as he was at that age.

 

At age 14, I saw two of my cousins naked. The 11 year old was, well, eleven so he was smooth and tiny as you would expect. The cousin five months younger than I was my size, as best I could tell. We were all skinny dipping and running around so I wasn't able to see him still and soft. Well, that is to say, when he did stop moving around and laid on the deck, I didn't dare take anything but a glance because, in those days, you never wanted to be "caught" staring at another boy's penis.

 

Wish I could relive that day!

[Justin M]

My dad, and 2 brothers are both much larger than i am. theyre around 7.5 with massive balls. I only got to 4.5in. and have small balls.

[Guest]

My parents had a pool in the backyard, and my parents liked to swim nude and they encouraged my brothers and I to swim nude.

 

I can remember being about 15-16 years old and my Dad, brothers, and my Uncle and his two sons were all swimming nude and horsing around.

 

I easily had the smallest cock there. My cousins always liked to compare with me as they and my Uncle were hung like horses. Nothing like a kid three or four years younger than you standing beside you to show you up.

 

 

[bmdubya]

my father is larger in length but I am larger in girth

[wnjcwjkk]

When I was younger, I had a best friend, who had a brother, who was two years older than us. We are all white, tall, and skinny.

 

The brother's was the first dick I ever saw, and it was huge, probably 8 inches or more on hard. It gave me a real insecurity about my own.

 

The younger brother's was about 6 inches hard.

 

Right now, the younger brother has a degree, a job, and a wife while the older brother lives with his parents, has been to rehab a couple times (for marijuana, of all things, which can be an addiction, but it's not physically addicting) not that any of that matters, but I'd say the younger, smaller dick brother won out in the end

[jdrTX]

My dad is in his 70s now, and my only sibling, 1 brother is 2 years older than I am. Growing up, my dad always seemed bigger. As kids, we pranked him once by doing a few things to him while he was sleeping - namely, putting some chewing gum in his boxers. At the time, I thought he was just big - an adult. No clue as to his actual size.

 

My brother, I can only remember after puberty and us fooling around. I was with him, hard, numerous times, and he was always bigger. I'd say 7x5 - average looking when soft.

 

Fast forward to a couple of years ago, I was at my parents house, and walked in my dad changing. He seemed about my size.

 

I guess I got his dick, and my brother got his from my mom's side.....

[jdrTX]

I would have thought that males from the same family would have more similarity.

 

Well, consider that you either get your mom's or your dad's for every gene available, and several genes will be responsible for the actual look of your dick. Your dick may very well come out looking nothing your dad's or siblings'. Hypothetically, if 2 of your brothers get your mom's side, theirs may be longer than yours, but there may still be differences in head size or shape, length ratio of soft to hard, vein placement, foreskin thickness, etc. Even though you seem to have your dad's genes, you may have a longer foreskin or tiny glans, thicker diameter urethra, etc., etc.

 

Sometimes siblings within a family will be very similar, sometimes not. That, in itself, is in the genes, my friend.

[Geoff_Combe]

I'm noticeably bigger than father -- 7.25 for me and I'd guess 5 or maybe 5.5 for him. girth is roughly the same. I was 19 or 20 when figured this out. he was sort of embarrassed I think, but I was proud. hopefully he was happy for me. more likely, he just got over it. LOL.

 

[bmdubya]

pops has me on length but I have the girth and that's what the ladies like.

[Guest]

sounds pretty creepy to me..........

 

[HarrrGamerZ]

I really have not been lucky. My little brother has a penis of 8.5" erect, my big brother, 8", my father, 10.3" , His brother (my uncle), 11.4", his son (my cousin), around 7". that my grandfather was ~ 3" soft and ~ 10" erect And I'm here with my 2.4" soft and my 4.8" erect.

[Triasco9.5]

The genetics of size is always a fascinating thing. And confusing. lol. I don't have any brothers (a couple of half-brothers, but only recently discovered and not nearby). I didn't really know my father as he wasn't involved in my life, so I don't have specific details, but based on context clues like the fact that my mother seems surprised by my own size, I imagine that he was average.

[joey]

@HarrrGamerZ How odd that you have specific measurements of everybody!

[Biggie Smalls]

On 10/4/2018 at 8:10 AM, joey said:

@HarrrGamerZ How odd that you have specific measurements of everybody!

It's even more odd that he doesn't share the respective numbers for girth as well!

[TinyJock]

Answered this a long time ago on page 6, but I'll expand on it a little. 

As I said, my brother was 18 months older than me, but we hit puberty about the same time. I was taller, better-built, (much better-looking!) and more athletic, so I was the "alpha" male between us, and he kinda hero-worshipped me. My biggest fan at football games. However, when we hit puberty we discovered he was quite a lot better hung. A lot. For awhile he teased me mercilessly about this. Probably felt good to have me beat in some area for once. And that, the most crucial one!

This only lasted for a couple months, then he stopped, never knew why. However, looking back, there was always a hangover quality about this. Definitely not normal. After this, even after he'd gone away to college and would come back for school breaks, we had a strange sort of ritual about being nude around each other, something we hadn't done before. We took to showering, shaving, etc.,together, all the time naked, and walking back and forth between the bedroom and the bathroom naked. 

I'm no psychologist, but recognize that there was some sort of dominance/submission relationship going on hear. He was clearly displaying his bigger cock and assuming alpha male status. And I was clearly accepting my lower status cock-wise. 

When the clothes went back on, I was back in charge, the alpha male again. It was kind of strange. I'm pretty sure if we shared rooms together again, we'd slip back into the same routine. I know that in three-ways I always let the other guy do most of the fucking, so I assume there's something psychological involved relating to the size of my cock. 

On the other hand, I always did much better with women than he did. Had a string of good-looking girlfriends and have a gorgeous wife. My best friend. His nags him all the time and each year seems to acquire another chin and inch around the waist.* At the same time, I've had fantasies of him screwing my wife with his bigger cock. I wonder what a psychiatrist would make of all this?

 

* Kinda neat. Just noticed. Chin and inch are anagrams. Kinda like alliteration. Would Longfellow or Wordsworth be envious?  

Edited October 8, 2018 by TinyJock

[TinyJock]

This started me remembering. . . 

I never saw my father naked but, judging from my brother whose cock looked about the same size soft, I'd judge he was somewhere in the seven-inch range and moderately thick. Definitely well above average. Of course, at my age, he seemed downright huge! For some reason, once I hit puberty, I was paranoid about my father seeing me naked. I'd go into a blind panic if I thought he'd catch me with my clothes off. I guess I felt he'd be disappointed in how small my cock was, that he'd think I was some sort of a sissy with such a tiny dick. 

On the other hand, I had no problem whatsoever with my mother seeing me naked. When I was about fifteen and pretty much fully mature (shaving, hairy-chested, etc.), I developed something on my genitals. Can't remember now; vaguely remember it was something to do with whiteheads or pustules on my cock and balls.  Anyway, I told my mother. She'd been a nurse, so she took me into the bathroom and checked them out. Said they'd soon go away, and apparently they did. I remember my brother gave me the strangest look when we came out of the bathroom, like I was absolutely freakin' nuts! She and I also went on vacation together and I never gave a thought about undressing in front of her, or  stepping naked in and out of the shower in front of her.  

This is going to sound really strange. I don't want to give the wrong impression. Obviously, I never had any sexual attraction for my mother. However, I'm narcissistic and I remember being turned on in a nonsexual way by her seeing me naked. I mean as a compete entity: everything, my whole body, muscular development, small cock and big balls. Though as I said, not in a sexual sense, but something different. As I said, I knew my father's cock was huge compared to mine. For some reason, I got satisfaction in her seeing how small mine was in comparison. 

Along those lines, we had close family friends, Art and Marie. They were about ten years younger than my parents. Mid-thirties? I was particularly close to them; they were like a second father and mother. Toward the end of my senior year, Art had an automobile accident, suffering extensive brain trauma and ending up in a home, lingering as a vegetable on and off for a few years in a coma. I spent most of that summer before college helping Marie run the family business. 

I should maybe insert this here. I  visited him in the hospital with Marie. I think he recognized me, because he became excited and made strange sounds when he first saw me. I vividly remember seeing his diaper (?) open to the side, briefly exposing his cock lying across his thigh -- very long, slender and dark, almost like a black's. I felt oddly guilty about seeing his cock like that. 

Marie was very attractive for her age. Blonde and big breasted. And somehow soft and sexy. I remember my brother describing her to his buddies as quite a dish. Now remember I'd always had a quasi-maternal relationship with her and she was my mother's closest friend. And remember I was a good-looking, 6'3", well-built, high school (and, later, college) football player. I'll admit there was a certain sexual tension now between us, suppressed but still there. Especially on my part. I frequently left the bathroom door open while I was showering, taking every opportunity for her to see me fully naked. On a couple occasions we even slept in the same bed together -- I fully naked -- although we never had sex. I'm sure she saw me hard doing the night. Again, sex was not really what was in play, though it was present. For some reason, it was strangely completing for me to have her see my full masculinity -- total body and cock. (Is completing the right word?) And how small my cock was, I'm sure. We always come back to that, don't we? It seems a constant theme throughout my life.

I've shared some of the experiences with my mother here and elsewhere -- though not the part about enjoying her seeing me naked -- but I've never before felt up to putting down the part about Marie. I'm sure an analyst could make something of all this. It's fascinating confronting my past in this way. As I said, these experiences weren't strictly sexual but were still somehow bound up with my coming to grips with having a small cock and the development of my sexuality

Edited October 8, 2018 by TinyJock