Asian average dick size is what?

[Stephen_in_Leeds]

Welcome Nightlord

 

What a great attitude towards yourself & the women you are with.

[nightlord]

Thanks for the welcome Stephen.

 

I stumbled on this site by pure chance and realised that there was very little input from asians on your site.

 

I think u guys are doing a great job keeping this place going.

[chipdouglas]

Hi, I'm a modestly endowed Japanese guy born and raised in Hawaii and just wanted to say that I am happy that I found a place where I can talk and explore my facination with dick.

[Sean]

Welcome to the site, chipdouglas and nightlord!

[Guest]

Aloha chipdouglas,

 

Welcome to the best little site on the web.

[Stephen_in_Leeds]

Welcome Chipdouglas

 

Nightlord & Chipdouglas is is nice to have more Asians here.

[psdnm]

I've been reading this thread with great interest. I recently began dating a Korean man who is simply terrific. We have a great time, and there is potential for a wondeful relationship.

 

Last evening we made love for the first time, and I was surprised by the small size of his penis - and the sex was not very good - he kept slipping out, couldn't maintain an erection, and I couldn't really feel him inside me.

 

But - first time sex often isn't good. I find it gets better when you get to know each other's body better. I've been with several different men, all different sizes and lengths and frankly, I prefer smaller to larger...but his is quite small and I'm looking for techniques, condoms, and positions which will be best for him and me. Seriously, penis size does not matter to me...but I think technique will make a big difference to make sure we are both pleasured.

 

Any suggestions, links, threads that you know of - I'd be most appreciative (and he will be, too!).

[nightlord]

Hi psdnm.

 

Well how small is small??

[lostsoul]

I'm paranoid now...

I'm chinese and had 6.5"x5" now i did some jelqing and upto 7"x5.5". Maybe I didnt need to.

[dingle]

Hi everyone

Let me tell you my experiences when it comes to asian penis size. I have lived in Shanghai for the last 2 years and in my time I have seen alot of Asian penises! Let me say, that I have always been interested in cock size ever since I was a kid, and whenever I get the opportunity to check out other men in the gym shower etc....I love to.

I'm white and am lucky enough to be born with what most guys would call a big penis, it's just over 8 inches and 6 inches around. I know from experience that most women I sleep with are slightly taken aback with my size, which can be a little uncomfortable to be honest.

Anyway, from my experience I can safely say that Asian men are definitely smaller than caucasians in terms of penis size. When I'm in the gym I love looking at all the small Chinese penises. They are definitely smaller, and more significantly alot thinner than your average white guy. Being 'well hung' can be quite embarassing in these situations, as the men in the showers will openly stare at my penis ( as well as being big, I'm also very large when soft, about 6inches). The size difference is very noticeable.

At the local swimming pool I've had young boys openly gawp at me! The funny thing is I noticed that these kids penises were often either bigger or the same size as many of the full grown Chinese men!

I've also had some limited experience with Chinese prostitutes. Again, when they've seen my penis they've invariably been shocked. In fact a few have actually refused to have sex ( very embarssing). Once the young girl walked out leaving me naked. She then came in with the madam of the brothel and openly discussed and looked at my cock, until another girl came to service me.

To answer your question, yes Chinese men do have smaller penises, but lets live with what we've been given eh?

[Stephen_in_Leeds]

Welcome Zimmerman11

 

Thanx for sharing.

[Guest]

My ex is Chinese, and I think he's around 5 inches erect. I never measured him and he never said how big it was, but I think it was something like that. He was insecure about it (especially because I was longer and thicker), but I kept telling him he shouldn't be. It was a really nice looking cock, I think it looked nicer than mine. And guys who are average or on the small side probably get more out of sex than guys who are bigger, especially when they get oral sex, because the smaller the dick the more their partner can fit so even the base can be stimulated. Big dicks may be fun to look at but I don't know what the fuck I would do with one hanging in front of my face. Probably slap the guy on the back and say, "Congratulations, you're swinging some major pipe. But I don't have a big mouth, so fuck off!"

[Steam]

I am also of asian origin (South African but Indonesian origin from a good couple of generations back).

 

I'm 5.3" and have always felt on the rather small side but so far none of my partners has commented negatively. I think my size causes me to put more effort into sex and am grateful to say that I've received quite a lot of unexpected compliments!

 

Overall I do feel like us Asians have smaller dicks and it's really interesting to see what everyone thinks about this. However what is sorely lacking, is that it would really be interesting to hear some asian women's and more homosexual asian men's comments on having both asian and other race relationships.

 

BTW... I must say I've always had this almost obsessive fascination with my dick and regular concern of its size. It's really great to talk about this to willing parties! I say willing, because I've tried to raise this issue with my current girlfriend, but she always just scoffs and manages to avoid getting into a discussion on it hehe.

[RodEnuf]

Timmy, how about clicking the "Edit My Profile" link at the top of the page and filling in your profile. No need to put in your true full name, but if you complete 60% of the info you'll be able to see everyone else's profile by just clicking on their Username.

 

 

Alan G

[RulerOfTheWorld]

I went to the gym in another town recently. Most of the members were asian mostly chinese. There was quite a range of sizes. From much much smaller than me up to 5in soft. All the asians guys seemed very comfortable being nude in the locker room, steam room, showers, whirlpool etc, while I saw a couple of caucasians and hispanics covering up. But back to my point. So I go to take a whirlpool and I notice all the guys are nude when this one asian guy leave (his penis was a little small than mine) so I drop my towel in front of them in all my small glory. So after a couple of minutes another asian guy leave and he is about 5in soft after being in water for a while. From what I saw he was by far the biggest guy there. I saw him later in the shower and we kinda made eye contact. He's look was like "My cock is bigger than yours whiteboy." He was quite taller than me also.

[chipdouglas]

Living in Hawaii, there are probably more asians in the general public here than anywhere else in US. We have a lot of all of them, Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Filipino, Vietamese, Thai...

This is just an observation but asian guys seem to be less desirable than caucasian guys. More often than not, the women here seem to gravitate toward the white guys. I'm not sure what the gay community is like but if the yahoo personals are any indication, the same goes for the gays. Could this be because of the small dick stigma? I know that white guys come in all sizes, but there is probably a better chance of getting a big white dick than a big or even average asian one.

Being asian, I have always felt inferior to white men. The whole dick size thing is part of it, but we are generally shorter than them and usually don't look as masculine.

Is there any truth to my belief that asian men are the lepers of the dating scene? Dick size may not be everything but to me, it might as well be.

[Guest]

I guess you've never heard of a rice queen, huh?

 

To me, it's hard to understand why some women or some gay men are not interested in asian men (although I confess I'm not a full rice queen because I would also date non-asians as well). Everyone has their preferences. I don't know how big an issue the whole stereotype about asian men having smaller penises is. It may be another stereotype that they don't like, and that is why they don't date asian men. It could also be other physical factors that people are interested in, and not just penis size. Perhaps they are looking for a particular body type/height/facial structure/body hair that are uncommon among asians. Or we can just blame the media for the lack of asians on TV and say that's the reason that people don't see how hot asians can be.

 

Despite the existence of books like "How To Date A White Woman" or whatever that book is that "instructs" asian guys on scoring with white women, I don't think it's possible for someone to win over people that aren't interested in dating him. If someone didn't want to date me because I'm tall, I wouldn't chop my legs off at the knee. Focus on people who can appreciate you for who you are, and don't try to attain the unattainable (of course the unattainable is by definition really exciting, but we all have to let that go at some point).

 

Never feel inferior to anyone because of ethnicity, people give it importance when it really has none. And given that you live in the U.S. your feelings are likely the product of social conditioning from growing up in a society that for most of its existence has been dominated by its majority ethnic group, that being caucasians.

 

Also, I think people who are in a minority or who have traits that are perceived to be undesirable give far more importance to these traits that set them apart. As someone who is not physically fit, I imagine I worry far more about my weight than people who are skinnier than I am. I also probably think about my sexuality as a gay man more than a straight man thinks about his sexuality, because my sexuality and existence is debated by politicians and sociologists, and a straight man's sexuality is not. So when I walk down the street and worry about people looking at me and thinking I'm fat, or worrying that the way I walk is gay, I'm probably way off. Most likely, these people who I'm worried about, aren't paying any attention to me at all. What I'm saying is, virtually no one is going to see you as a walking talking this-many-inches-sized penis. It's just not that important, but because its something you don't like about yourself, you give it more importance than it really has.

 

I'm sorry if this advice is trite, but, relax.

[Kirk]

I'm with Millhouse, chipdouglas. Nothing hotter than an Asian as far as I'm concerned. I love the general physique of Asians...that being usually slim and mostly hairless. And I love the stereotypical idea that Asians are usually not hung. Now on to the "exception to the rule" thingy -- you are NOT small. Your dick is above average, even for a white guy. So if the Asian myth is true, you definitely skew the average.

[chipdouglas]

Thanks Kirk. I guess if you go strictly by the numbers, I may not be considered small. I look down there everyday and all I see that little thing dangling down there. I'm taller than the typical asian (6.0') and a lot beefier (220 lbs) In my opinion, my girth is okay but I feel that I need another inch or two for it to look acceptable on my body. Anyway, I'm working on losing about 50 pounds (that is a lot for the size of my frame) to bring things more in proportion. If things go as planned, I'll be really skinny but my dick will look about an inch longer. Is that really twisted, losing weight for the sole purpose of a bigger looking dick?

[psdnm]

Not twisted, but may jeopardize your ability to keep the weight off. When I used to speak with clients about weightloss, I found that by far and away, when any reason other than lifestyle and health were given as reasons for losing weight, almost all were unsuccessful or had short-term success only to gain it all back and more.

 

When health and lifestyle are the main priorities, weight literally melts away (albeit slowly) down to the healthiest weight for you, and that's a good thing because little changes can be maintained for a lifetime. If that results in your dick looking bigger - bonus!

[chipdouglas]

psdnm, when I saw your name on this thread, I immediately thought about your descriptions of your orgasms (HOT!). If you knew about how preoccupied I am with my penis, you would know that it should be more than enough for me to keep the weight off. It's sick and immature, I know but I started going crazy about a year ago when I noticed that my erections weren't feeling as potent as they used to. I may be crazy, but I really think that it is shrinking. I am so terrified about keeping what little I got that it is also one of the main reasons why I am trying to quit smoking. (They really should stop putting that cancer warning crap on packs of cigarettes and start putting smoking will make your dick shrink. It might be a more effective deterrent, for males at least) Welcome to my dementia.

[berbbb]

I am 25, of Chinese descent from Singapore, stand at 5' 7" and have my size is 5.5 inches when erect. When I imagine things, I swear it could be 6 inches.

When flaccid, depending on what I wear (thongs make them smaller, boxers make them longer - it's true!)

So, I definitely recommend wearing loose and comfortable boxers.

I think jelqing (spelling?) helps.

 

Just wanna share some stories that I experienced. Some women tell me it is big, especially when it is the first time they seen mine. Funny thing is, only the women (Asian) who are older than me (at least 10 years) ever say that.

 

Once I had an experience at a bar with a woman who was a European/Samoan/Native American mix. There was a black dude (Panaman) with me, not only did she and her friend (her friend was an African American lady) ignore him, but she practically argued with him. After some preliminary chitchat, the 'mixblooded' lady and I left together.

The panaman was a cockblock and came along.... even after we made it clear that we are leaving alone.

Finally after a whole load of time wasting walking around and talking nonsense, he got the hint and suddenly said that he is leaving. Bye guys. And that was that.

 

We went to her room and I asked her why didn't she take the black guy. I can't remember how I asked her... either I asked her why she chose me or why didn't she choose the black guy. (Come on, everybody has been conditioned by the porno and internet pictures of WELL HUNG black guys... and sometimes we really think that bigger is better).

 

Here is the part why I want to share this story... she told me this - I prefer dicks that are not too big.

 

(!)

 

Haha, don't get me wrong, a part of me was angry... but a part of me says... hey, I got the dish, he has to go home and wank. So... it kind of evens out.

I think she also said something about black men not necessarily having big dicks, however, I cannot confirm if she was speaking from experience since I didn't ask further.

Then, she brought out this whole plethora of dildos... and vibrators... telling me this was from this friend, that was from that friend, etc. Then she showed me one, plain, white, slim and small one... about 5 inches or 6. And told me that was her all time favourite. I swear that it was SLIM. Like a finger. Anyone's dick would have more girth than that.

 

So, in certain cases, it is true that it is not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.

 

 

This is my first time to the boards, I was reading GQ (British) and an article listed the site, so here I am.

What a surprise to find that the 'average length' is not as long and huge as the current culture (articles in women's mags, porn stars, internet, etc) would have us believe.

 

That said, I have personally seen 2 male American friends of mine (at least 6 feet tall) who had smaller than mine while flacid. In fact, at least half my length while flaccid.

However, a few English mates of mine seem to have one and a half (or two) of my flaccid size! I wonder what are their erect sizes. (Wouldn't want to see them though, lol)

 

Though it seems that at 5.5 inches, I have an average size and women are happy with my performance (most have came back for more)... I am desiring a bigger dick. Perhaps one way or another? Pills, jelqing (spelling?) or surgery.

I am thinking of going to Australia to have a job done by a surgeon who is renowned for enlargement surgeries. http://www.austcps.com/

Still considering it.. not sure.

The other articles I read on www.altpenis.com seem to push me away from this intention. Time will decide. I need to talk to more professionals before arriving at a decision.

 

Edited to change subject line back to original text.

[Stephen_in_Leeds]

Welcome Berbbb [ Wave ]

 

Wow, what a very wise woman she was, & lucky you.

 

DO you have that copy of GQ? If you do our leader & founder wants it, we have not seen the article.

 

Forget the pills, surgery, etc, they are too risky for what you would gain. You are a great size & have had some good experiences. Be proud of who you are & accept that. The best professionals are those who have done it, & not done it & the reasons for both. You will find them here, so explore & learn. I hope that will help you reach your decision.

[berbbb]

Hey Stephen,

 

Thanks for your note.

I have not finished reading the magazine yet. It is this month's British. November 2005 with Robbie on the cover. I bought it in Chicago. Now I am looking at the cover and wonder why does it only have US$ and CA$ and not English Pounds on it. Perhaps only for the North American market?

 

If you cannot find it in the UK, I can cut the article out (3 pages) and mail it to you guys (I heard Royal Mail loses 40 million articles per year though, lol).

 

Thanks for your advice. Pardon my crudeness, just feel like slapping some women in the face with my schlong in play. Hahaha...! With 5.5 inches, I can only stab them in the face.

[Stephen_in_Leeds]

Ber that is great news. I can't find it & nor can anyone else. Josh is desperate (But then he always is, lol!) to see it & is offering a free year of SOS membership to anyone who can send him copy.

 

YW, glad to help. You old flirt you, lol!

 

Read this post where Josh asks for a copy.