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I'm a grower and enjoy guys admiring my small, flaccid dick then watching me grow to fully erect. Once met a guy on Grindr looking for "a small top to experiment with".  I sent him a picture (flaccid) and he invited me over. He had a very small, petite body and admitted he was an anal virgin. We got naked and played a little and when I got hard, he changed his mind. LOL.

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On 11/7/2020 at 4:07 PM, Restoredude said:

I'm a grower and enjoy guys admiring my small, flaccid dick then watching me grow to fully erect. Once met a guy on Grindr looking for "a small top to experiment with".  I sent him a picture (flaccid) and he invited me over. He had a very small, petite body and admitted he was an anal virgin. We got naked and played a little and when I got hard, he changed his mind. LOL.

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It's impressive how your cock grows from flaccid to hard! 

I'm a grower too but not as much as you! 

I may not be as small as you when soft, and not as big as you when hard. 

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I actually like having a small soft dick. 

Especially when I go out from the swimming pool or the beach. 

If I am naked, my shrunk cock is clearly noticeable, coldness affects especially the thickness and my soft dick is rather thin. 

If I have my XS speedo, I like how it fits tightly to my body and how small my bulge looks. 

I think I like it because it looks cute and/or funny. 

However, I like my hard dick having a pretty good size. 

Being a grower is like having 2 personalities. 

Yet, I have friends who have big and thick soft dick, and sometimes I wish I was like them. It actually looks nice as well lol

In conclusion I would say I like my small soft dick because I'm used to, I grew up with this size, and anyways I can't change it, but if I could I may prefer having a thicker one! Big cocks are to me definitely more impressive and eye catching. I would look more powerful maybe, like when you are very muscular. 

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I would trade mine to be average and definitely to be big in a heartbeat

However, I have changed a lot from when I was younger getting used my small penis to adjust to getting off on being small and getting off on it when meeting with men and transsexuals who have bigger cocks than me to compare to. I probably never would have ventured into that area had I been average sized.

It has changed from being an embarrassment to a different kind of sexual awakening. I now like going to the doctor and having her see it and to have other guys see it in the locker room

So you could say I like having a small penis for these reasons more than I did when I was young

   

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Such a tricky question. 

I've definitely accepted it; I don't spend my days (or even my j/o sessions) thinking WOE IS ME. 

I guess I equate it to some other things about me and my sexuality. I once had a friend ask, sincerely, "If you could choose not to be, would you?" (in reference to something other than size), and I had to answer honestly: It's the only thing I've ever known, so it's hard to say, but... no? I think? 

I've gotten past the point where I was just always embarrassed and ashamed of it; I now rather get off on being noticed/humiliated/called out, though that only really happens online still. I'd like to cross the next hurdle and start to engage in some of that behavior IRL. But I'm not there yet, and I just don't know why. 

So if I could snap my fingers and hang down 3 or 4 soft and grow to 6+ hard, would I? ... Probably? Maybe? I don't know, I've gone a long time with this little guy, I'm not sure I'd know what to do with a big one. Now, if I could snap my fingers and "try one out" for a day or a week, I'd absolutely love to. Just to know what it feels like to have something of heft hanging between my legs. 

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I’ve never just accepted my small penis nor was I ever humiliated by it. I have always actually loved having a small penis and glad for it. As a matter of fact, about 5 years ago I made a conscious effort to make it even smaller (details of which can be found in a different forum category post I made a while back).

For the greatest percentage of my life I don’t need a large penis and it would just be a nuisance. In addition, despite my small size (surprisingly) I had several times gotten complaints from female partners when I tried to thrust too deep and hit their cervix.. (I have a preference for petite women) Let’s just say, I am proficient enough with my love making skills where the length of my penis was never a problem.

Ever since I was a child I loved when I was cold and my penis shrunk to nothing, where only my glans was showing. My balls are small and always tight so everything is in proportion then.

I no more want a large penis protruding from my pubes than I would want a sausage like object hanging from my chest all day long. Or worse, sticking straight out (7 or 8 inches) when  I was sexually excited in public. 
 

To me small penises have large ones beat! I don’t need a large penis to give me self confidence. I can do everything I need without the extra baggage!

 

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I've gone through stages of my life of being quite shy, thinking I'm small, and being jealous of the guys with a swinging dick in the locker rooms. I was quite shy in my younger teen years, being the youngest in my class I was nearly a year behind when puberty hit. At college I had no inhibitions in the locker rooms or using the communal showers. I saw all shapes and sizes, majority were like me, average and mostly shriveled after playing sports.

I think porn poisoned me after that, it became easier to find online and subconsciously it started to affect me, and my self esteem. Fortunately finding forums like this (and a few others now gone), started me thinking in more positive ways. I'd also been to a few nude beaches, swims and joined a naturist club.

I am naturally small to average, often smaller than the pics in my profile. Being a large build my penis looks small to me when I catch my reflection in the mirror. But I like how it looks, and I've had many positive comments, none negative in fact. I'm a grower, but I have no problem people seeing my shriveled up cock either. So yes, I'm happy.

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new2day - after reading your post... It is great that you have accepted your size. As for the porn, one has to realizes that there has to be something unique or extraordinary to attract most peoples attention. As an example just look at car chase scenes or physical fights in movies.

Nevertheless, I have to wonder if you really like (love) your small size or are you have 'accepted it' and am just 'content' with it. Do you find many more things about it that you like than dislike? If you had the opportunity (at the snap of a finger) want it to be larger? Or would you say, "no thanks - I am fine where I am at"? When you look at your penis or have sex do you say to yourself "I am so blessed to have the penis I have"? Your answer to these questions will tell if you are truly "Happy" with and really "Like/Love" your penis.

 

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When I think of how much of my life I wasted having anxiety over my size I realize just how ridiculous the standards are in our society. Since discovering SPH, I been able to embrace the beauty in my beta body & now quite content to have a puny penis.  Jokes used to sting in the locker room, but now give me butterflies.  Having a pathetic pecker is part of who I am. Would only ever want it shriveling up smaller.

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I hated my small penis up until I was in my 30's and finally came to accept it. Now I love having a little dick and love showing it off. It's a great feeling when you finally stop being embarrassed and ashamed of something you have no control over. I am now proud to tell everyone I have a small cock. 

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On 12/7/2020 at 8:46 AM, NuderThanNude said:

As for the porn, one has to realizes that there has to be something unique or extraordinary to attract most peoples attention. As an example just look at car chase scenes or physical fights in movies.

Excellent point.

"Chasing" and "fighting" are probably archetypes or instincts pre-programmed by genetic inheritance into the human brain--also mammalian and reptilian brains, I presume.  No doubt such scenes are ubiquitous in movies because they universally trigger an instinctive response, thus capturing the attention of the audience independent of conscious thinking and values of individuals composing the audience.  Script writers and directors figured this out long ago.

Same thing with porn which plays on archetypical sexual behaviors complemented or intensified by the image of large impressive genitals.

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On 12/7/2020 at 8:46 AM, NuderThanNude said:

Nevertheless, I have to wonder if you really like (love) your small size or are you have 'accepted it' and am just 'content' with it. Do you find many more things about it that you like than dislike? If you had the opportunity (at the snap of a finger) want it to be larger? Or would you say, "no thanks - I am fine where I am at"? When you look at your penis or have sex do you say to yourself "I am so blessed to have the penis I have"? Your answer to these questions will tell if you are truly "Happy" with and really "Like/Love" your penis.

Yeah.  Acceptance seems a more likely state of mind to me.  For sure, I can't accept the lower status so much of humanity instinctually accords men with a small penis, however.  It is difficult to even recognize it no less accept it.  Getting used to it is more like it in my case.  I am used to it.

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13 hours ago, RedRay said:

I love my small cut penis, I find small much more attractive along with tight balls, my wife loves it as well B)

I've never been honored by anyone finding my small penis attractive in bed, only "allegedly" attractive looking while observing a picture.  

On the other other hand some have been impressed by and want to play with my tight nuts and nut sack which at times pull almost entirely into my body leaving an almost flat, slight crinkly mound.

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38 minutes ago, wayless said:

Yeah.  Acceptance seems a more likely state of mind to me.  For sure, I can't accept the lower status so much of humanity instinctually accords men with a small penis, however.  It is difficult to even recognize it no less accept it.  Getting used to it is more like it in my case.  I am used to it.

I don't believe it is possible for every guy to love his small penis. After all we typically want what we don't have. With that being said I have to wonder how many guys with large penises wish they had a smaller penis. However, because of the stigma associated with a small penis I'm sure few of those guys would ever want to admit their small penis desire. Nevertheless, in all cases, accepting what we have is what is most important. 

As for "the lower status so much of humanity accords men with a small penis"... So what is it that really makes a man more masculine (or more of a man)? I've never seen where a man with a small penis has had a more difficult time impregnating a woman. There are lots of small penis guys out there with large families. Since a man's tongue can be a significant part of oral sex, does a longer tongue make a man more of a man? How about larger muscles? Maybe many years ago but in an age of society where physical violence is shunned upon but not now. I know of lots of women who do not like men who are body builders. 

While we are at it... what makes a woman more feminine? Is it the size of her vagina, the size of her clit, the size of her butt, or maybe the size of her breasts (which a lot of guys will admit that anything more than a mouthful (or handful) is a waste. Fortunately, it's all a matter of personal preference and varies from person to person. There is no real standard. Unfortunately some people are more vocal about their desires and in most cases it is that bigger is better and that is what gets accepted by gullible people as the standard. I personally have never liked looking at women with large breasts. Small, firm and shapely is my personal standard as being best. I used to think that I was alone in that desire but as more guys are feeling more comfortable in opening up and expressing their true desires I have become surprised at how many men actually prefer small breasts.

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I truly do love having a small penis. For years I hated it, then accepted it, then got deep into the SPH fetish. Having someone talk about how small it is, compare their bigger cock to it, or tell me they won't fuck me because I'm too small gives me a rush of sexual arousal I don't get from anything else. I'm lucky to have an honest with who frequently tells me how small my dick is. She will sometimes give me SPH and watch me get hard. She thinks it's so funny that I enjoy having a small dick. She will walk in while I'm masturbating, sit on the bed, and say "look at that tiny little clitty" and I'mm blow my load immediately. 

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51 minutes ago, NuderThanNude said:

As for "the lower status so much of humanity accords men with a small penis"... So what is it that really makes a man more masculine (or more of a man)?

Your exercise of reason in containing nature is admirable, but reason doesn't change the instinctual archetypes by which humanity naturally operates.

Reason and culture can keep instincts hidden or even in check, but can't banish them.

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2 hours ago, wayless said:

Gullible or primitive?  

I used the word "gullible" because there is no rational reason to accept that "bigger is better". A gullible person accepts ideas that people present without challenging them. Large numbers of "gullible" people allow false ideas to be accepted as 'common knowledge'.

 

2 hours ago, wayless said:

... but reason doesn't change the instinctual archetypes by which humanity naturally operates.

Reason and culture can keep instincts hidden or even in check, but can't banish them.

There is nothing in our 'instincts' (i.e. something born into us) that tell us whether a large or small penis is better. A large penis may be better in some situations but less desirable in others just as a large nose or large ears. The idea that a larger penis makes us more of a man needs to be planted in our brains (or unconscious) by others, but only if we allow it to be. Large ears may allow us to hear much better but I don't care to live my life with large ears nor do I think they are 'better'.

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Who all actually LIKES having a small dick?

Good question.

But words are cheap. ACTIONS are what really count.

I’m now considering a penile implant to correct my long term impotence, and I’ve been going through the various clinical evaluations that are indicated for a patient with my various medical conditions.
 
An ‘inflatable’ implant is off the table for me because my manual dexterity isn’t sufficient to allow me to operate the mechanism used to inflate and deflate it. (arthritis)
 
That leaves the much simpler ‘malleable rod’ implant, which results in a permanent state of pseudo erection.
 
The school solution for the size of a malleable rod implant, esp. with regard to it’s length, is that it should be tightly constrained by your individual anatomy.
 
Even a centimeter or two too short and the end of the penis is floppy and penetration can be difficult. Too long and it can rupture through the end of the penis.
 
There’s actually a video that shows the result of both of these types of miscalculations. Spoiler Alert: It’s fairly graphic.
 
The urologist that I’m seeing was very up front about this, emphasizing that a malleable rod implant should NOT be regarded as a viable method for penis enlargement.
 
He stated that he wanted me to be clear on that point because I have a small penis, and that my long term impotence virtually guarantees that I’ve experienced at least *some* (and maybe a *lot*) of penile atrophy. AKA: ‘shrinkage’.
 
He cautioned me that, based on my erect length number as I recall it + a test where they stretch the damn thing out till it hurts, that I would very likely be looking at no more than a 4” erection, maybe even a bit shorter.
 
I believe by his manner when he delivered this ‘bad’ news to me that he had assumed his assessment might discourage me from going forward.
 
He seemed to be genuinely surprised when I shrugged and replied that “small is small” and that, since it would be permanently erect, 4” would be somewhat easier to dress out of sight than 5” would be.
 
I then told the Doctor that, if I eventually qualify medically and go ahead with the operation, that I would insist that he follow the surgical guidelines to the letter and size the implant “not one single millimeter shorter OR longer” than my anatomy dictated.
 
I made this point because he’d remarked in an aside earlier that there could ‘possibly’ be a ‘small’ fudge factor which ‘might’ allow him to ‘maybe’ recover at least a part of what I’d lost to atrophy.
 
(So, I guess that there IS at least some degree of penis lengthening potential with a malleable rod implant after all, IF you’re really desperate for ANY insignificant amount of improvement, AND you’re willing to roll the dice on having that T-2000 cyborg dick hyper alloy battle chassis tearing through the end of your Johnson like that little alien thing ripping out of the crewman’s chest in the movie.)
 
I did allow that, if a similar allowance existed for safely bumping up the GIRTH measurement a bit, that I was game for THAT upgrade since it would make for a measurably more durable result and rigid erection.
 
He told me that I was the first patient he’d EVER seen who was so “utterly indifferent” to the potential of increasing my erect length, even if by only a little.
 
I told him that I’d rather drive around in a plain, beat-up old Jeep that had a reliable drive-train than tool around in a complicated, brand new Cadillac that had the potential to be hiding some elusive, too-complicated-by-half gremlin in its engine.
 
The guys with small penises who lived in small towns in middle America in my day discovered early in the game that you needed to get about 15 dates in order to get to second base the 5 or so times it took to locate that 1 very special girl who’d light up a cigarette, lay back and toss your dinky little dick a pity fuck (at least once).
 
Those numbers have probably eased up some since I was a young tomcat, but the human female’s instinct that ‘bigger’s just GOTTA be better’ is likely to be mostly unchanged.
 
At this point I’m not at all sure whether I’d even be open to having a large penis even if there actually WAS a way to affordably and safely obtain one.
 
A lot of my personality was built around learning to be able to shrug and laugh off the cheap shots and ridicule that comes with being noticeably ‘under endowed’. It’s an attribute that’s made me stronger, not weaker.
 
i.e., ‘A Boy Named Sue’
 
And, despite his obvious shortcomings, my ‘Little Man’ has nonetheless spent some fun times in WELL over 100 different vaginas (some of them pretty damn exotic) on more than one continent, doing push-ups till he puked and spreading the SPG (Small Penis Gene) to and fro in the human gene pool during my 40+ years of sexual activity before that little bastard went AWOL.

Granted, a lot of them were hookers and camp followers back in my Army days...   But a roll in the hay is still is a roll in the hay.  And it’s important for us guys to remember that NOBODY except a rapist or the night man in a funeral parlor EVER gets laid for FREE.

*However* I got there, I’m still a THREE DIGIT midget!
 
(Take THAT, all you 7 and 8” stud muffins with *only* 40 or 50 notches in your bed posts!)
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