a list of women's comments to me on my size

[girthless]

Hi all. I'm a mere 35 years young and have only had a dozen partners or so. My most accurate measurement is 6 inches long. Girth is hard to measure on me because of my penis shape. I can't get a good measurement on it but I have a proportional head, but just below the shaft it is 4.25 inches. At midshaft, it is 4.87 inches. At the base, it is around 4.75 inches unless scrotal skin interferes. Make sense?

 

I have tiny and tight balls that disappear during arousal. They ride up into my body. I do not cum in a great volume. But I love sex!

 

In 1990, when I was 17, my 18 year old girlfriend (I was her second partner) said.."I think I enjoy sex with you so much more than with my ex because yours is so much thinner than his was. You don't stretch me out as much". Is that a backhanded compliment or what! That was from my first

!

 

In 1991, I fucked an 18 year old that told me I was great, much better than the football players.

 

In 1992, I fell in love with a girl and eventually married her. She had an affair and later told me that she was a "girth" girl. She would search porn for thick cocks. We divorced a few years later.

 

In 2001, I met a wonderful woman that was very much in love with me. When she first saw my cock, she said." Nice, but how come it is so skinny?" I said, "well isn't it average?" She said that the length was average if not longer but the girth was average at best.

 

My new wife called it perfect, although "most men are thicker".

 

I have come to grips that I have a thin cock. It is a nice 6 inches in length but is not thick enough. Girth is what matters to women and I have none. Why did my dick not develop correctly? Why is it so damn thin?

 

Women prefer girth, and mine is not even average.

 

Oh well, just thought I'd tell you about it.

[madjester12]

I have 5" girth, and doesn't make sense that from 4 1/4 to 5" is that big a difference. And i dont see my dick as skinny. lol is 5" skinny or what? Cause i doubt a 4 1/4 girth is skinny man.

[gweru]

Your cock sounds fine - particularly if it is being called "perfect" by a lover.

[RoughPoint]

yours is so much thinner than his was ... She had an affair and later told me that she was a "girth" girl. ... Nice, but how come it is so skinny? ... perfect, although most men are thicker ...

"Usually one must go to a bowling alley to meet a woman of your stature." --Hobson, Arthur.

[Scott8361]

Mine is about the same as yours... 6" long and just under 4.5" around in girth.

 

I feel the same way... lack of girth is noticed and missed by my partner yet they don't want to admit it. Mine has asked if she is too big for me?!!! Yeah right... my cock is just too damn skinny!

[big guy]

My girth is not all that much thicker than yours, about 4 3/4 inches. However, I am in the average range supposedly, pretty much in the middle. There have been three women to see my penis erect. All say it is rather short, all say it has good girth though, one even said I was rather thick(they're last bf was black and supposedly was 9 in. but skinny so I was tiny but thick). Another compared it too her boyfriend (supposedly 6.5 and like 2-2.5 inches in diameter!)but they were aware that that was outrageously big..lol...and the other....she thinks its just right...small...not too thick...but not too thin...the perfect penis

Edited November 8, 2008 by Guest

[grondy]

Another guy chiming in at this range. Length is about 6-6.75 depending on arousal levels and measuring methods. Lets say 6.25 to be safe. Girth varies a bit. Thinnest points other than the head are about 4.5 base gets larger to the tune of about 4.8-5. Probably a 4.7 average. Anyway my gf's been with alot of guys for her age. While I'm not the biggest I'm not the smallest either. I know I can at least get the job done if I'm creative.

[53Jim53]

Add me to the list. I'm about 5 3/4 long, 6 max. Girth is 4 under the head, 4 1/2 in the middle, 4 3/4 at the base. I think the taper is aesthetic , but I've been called long and skinny by one girlfriend and just small by others.

 

I think girls are often not too accurate on this stuff! They may think the same girth is thick on a shorter one, and skinny on a longer one.

 

It took me a long time to figure it out for myself, but now I just accept that some women, maybe a majority, will find it too thin, but others will love it. Like brains , hair color, personality, or any other trait, everyone has preferences.

[girthless]

Ya, writing this thread renewed my interest in measuring correctly. Such a hard thing to do! Bone pressed ruler (hard pressed) can yield a 7 inch measurement for me. Honest insertable inches is closer to 5.5 or 5.75.

 

Because of my scrotal skin, I could make a case for a 5.5 girth at the base. LOL. I do know that I fit comfortably with no wiggle room into a toilet paper roll. And my head sticks out the end.

 

When looking at average measurements, these deviations need to be considered. I see so many measurement studies that took the girth from the thickest point. In that case I have a thick cock at 5.5, with lots of scrotal skin. LOL. Others say take the midshaft measurement. Then I am 4.94 which is about spot on average! Then the visialser says to take an average, which with my 4.25 below the head, 4.94 mid shaft, 4.75 lower shaft, and 5.5 base+scrotal gives me 4.86 avg girth. About a third of an inch below its' "validated" average girth of 5.2"

 

I guess the point of my first topic was that despite the massaging of the numbers that can be done on any of our measurements, sometimes the opinions of women cannot be ignored. Although they aren't mathematical like us guys, they know "feel".

 

In that case, I figure my cock is a bit thinner than most men. But some consider it a bit longer as well. It is within the average range on both. Probably consistent with a 6.2x4.8 figure.

 

I have been called thin or average, but never thick. I have been called long or average but never short. I really do think 6x5 is avg, statistically and in my own processing of the data.

 

My current wife has fucked some real horse cocked men. I wish my cock were considerably bigger for her. Her doctor says she has large reproductive organs and span. Most women have a uterus that is 7 inches across, hers is 9. I can barely reach her cervix with my finger. When aroused, her vagina balloons out like a hollow tube to where only a 6" girth can satisfy-- I just ocassionally brush the sides. Her vaginal opening is controlled by tighter muscles, so sex with her in the reverse cowgirl position feels like masturbating with an ok sign.

 

I am not sure if her larger lovers created this by expanding her vagina or is she, if she were a man, would be very well hung. I just want to be able to impregnate her but I am scared I am not long enough to reach her cervical area with my sperm.

 

Thanks for sharing guys. I'm glad to know that I am not the only pencil dick out there. In kama sutra terms, I am a hare or bull size married to an elephant. Both are incompatible.

Edited November 9, 2008 by Guest

[madjester12]

Pushed hard into the bone makes 7 1/4 for me, but i doubt i can go by that. And i curve like a banana so i cannot get into a toilet paper roll. Maybe i should go in soft and try to get hard, not sure if that would work either. I have 5" girth in the center. So i dont know why my dick seems thick when it is average.

[mikey71]

I think a lot depends on the woman. Some women are tighter than others. I've had a handful of sexual partners, and only two thought my dick was thin. BTW, my measurements are similar to yours -- about 6" long by 4 3/4" around. As you probably realize, some women are exceptionally tight and some are not. For the women who are tight, I felt big to them. It all just depends on your partner. The same way my wife would never do a guy who has a 10" dick because it would hurt, but other women would call that size a dream come true.

[RoughPoint]

Bone pressed ruler (hard pressed) can yield a 7 inch measurement for me.

Pushed hard into the bone makes 7 1/4 for me, but i doubt i can go by that.

Guys, at the point where the ruler draws blood, I think you've done all you can.

 

I just want to be able to impregnate her but I am scared I am not long enough to reach her cervical area with my sperm.

That's why they're little swimmers! :wink: Good luck.

Edited November 9, 2008 by Guest

[Phish]

Mine is 6 inches long and about 4.7 at it's widest point which is mid-shaft. Your post sums up my fears about getting into the dating scene and being intimate with women. I'm what you would call a pretty late bloomer as I had a serious weight problem for most of my life until 3 years ago. I thought I was ready to start dating, but since girth seems to be a very important if not the paramount penile attribute for most women, I just don't feel like I have an adequate penis. What's the point of having a penis that they can't feel? Supposedly size isn't everything, but I'm so inexperienced with women that I get the feeling I couldn't get one to stick around long enough until I figured anything out.

 

Edited November 10, 2008 by Guest

[kanerva]

What Are The Odds?: The Experienced Woman

 

Based on the Lifestyle Condom Survey of Americans concluded back in 2001.

http://www.mraverage.com/results.htm

ATTENTION: These are bone pressed measurements

 

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This scenario will involve a woman with ten previous partners.

 

Scenario: The Experienced Woman (Prior Partners = 10)

 

Probability: Are You Her Biggest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Top / Top 2 / Top 3.

 

Length

 

5.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

5.50": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.3%

5.75": 0.0% / 0.4% / 2.3%

6.00": 0.3% / 2.7% / 11.0%

6.25": 6.7% / 27.4% / 56.4%

6.50": 7.8% / 30.5% / 60.1%

6.75": 20.9% / 56.3% / 83.3%

7.00": 40.4% / 78.7% / 95.1%

7.25": 61.1% / 91.7% / 99.0%

7.50": 78.0% / 97.6% / 99.8%

7.75": 89.0% / 99.4% / 99.9%

8.00": 95.1% / 99.9%

8.25": 98.0%

8.50": 99.3%

8.75": 99.8%

9.00": 99.9%

 

Girth

 

4.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

4.50": 0.0% / 0.1% / 0.5%

4.75": 0.1% / 0.7% / 3.7%

5.00": 3.3% / 16.9% / 41.5%

5.25": 12.3% / 41.0% / 71.1%

5.50": 46.4% / 83.4% / 96.7%

5.75": 63.8% / 93.1% / 99.2%

6.00": 95.1% / 99.9% / 99.9%

6.25": 96.1%

6.50": 98.7%

6.75": 99.9%

 

Probability: Are You Her Smallest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Bottom / Bottom 2 / Bottom 3.

 

Length

 

2.75": 99.9%

3.00": 99.8%

3.25": 99.3%

3.50": 98.0%

3.75": 95.1% / 99.9%

4.00": 89.1% / 99.4% / 99.9%

4.25": 78.2% / 97.7% / 99.8%

4.50": 61.4% / 92.1% / 99.0%

4.75": 40.7% / 79.0% / 95.2%

5.00": 21.1% / 56.7% / 83.6%

5.25": 8.0% / 30.9% / 60.6%

5.50": 2.0% / 11.6% / 32.2%

5.75": 0.3% / 2.7% / 11.3%

6.00": 0.0% / 0.4% / 2.4%

6.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

Girth

 

2.25": 99.9% / 99.9% / 99.9%

2.50": 76.8% / 97.3% / 99.8%

2.75": 74.5% / 96.8% / 99.7%

3.00": 71.5% / 95.9% / 99.6%

3.25": 68.6% / 94.9% / 99.5%

3.50": 62.4% / 92.6% / 99.1%

3.75": 55.6% / 89.2% / 98.4%

4.00": 27.9% / 65.8% / 89.1%

4.25": 13.3% / 42.9% / 72.8%

4.50": 1.3% / 8.2% / 25.3%

4.75": 0.2% / 1.7% / 7.8%

5.00": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.1%

5.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

 

 

Edited November 10, 2008 by Guest

[RoughPoint]

Even if you accept the Lifestyle Condom study as accurate, this probability data still assumes a perfectly random sample of 10, which may or may not be valid. Still, it's interesting stuff. Thanks for posting.

[The_Phoenix]

For the record, biological samples are supposed to be in sizes of 20 or more. More are better, but it takes at least 20 samples to estimate the entire population.

[bisheng]

In Kama Sutra terms you are a horse. Kama Sutra measures length, not width. Some tips on technique--women when aroused all balloon out: they open out of trust and love and pleasure--that is a very good thing. So, I don't care how thick you are, she is going to widen (she can widen out to let a baby's head through!) when she is having fun. You can 1)vary thrusting direction toward vaginal walls; 2) you can position her legs over your shoulders cradling your neck--guaranteed to tighten her walls; 3) you can lessen lubrication which gets very fluid and slippery the more turned on she is by leaving her on the out-take and then entering again with your thrusts. This technique dries the lubrication on your cock increasing wall friction as you re-enter. My second lover had had a boy friend for two years with a nine inch dick that was seven inches thick. He made love to her every night until skinny wimp me caught the unmistakable look in her eyes. She wouldn't let me out of bed for a week, and I brought her to her first orgasm. It's all giving, loving, and technique--everything else is bullshit. All of us have a truly gigantic sex organ--it's called our brain. Let's use it.

[Todd W]

Bone pressed ruler (hard pressed) can yield a 7 inch measurement for me. Honest insertable inches is closer to 5.5 or 5.75.

 

My current wife has fucked some real horse cocked men. I wish my cock were considerably bigger for her. Her doctor says she has large reproductive organs and span. Most women have a uterus that is 7 inches across, hers is 9. I can barely reach her cervix with my finger. When aroused, her vagina balloons out like a hollow tube to where only a 6" girth can satisfy-- I just ocassionally brush the sides. .

 

 

Im not saying I have that much experiance with girls with big vaginas but hers sounds intimadating. My girth is about 5 inches (check my pics in the signature link). Once one girl told me that it was the thinnest shes seen, I've got to say that was a pretty depressing comment, on the other hand at least I was in a position to use it with a girl. Other then that not too bad feedback and your's is at least as long and thick as mine. I hope you and your wife don't see it as too much of a problem, it shouldn't be.

[Guest]

Todd, 5 inches girth is above average.

 

Nothing about your dick is small.

[53Jim53]

Those are interesting stats. I have a 0.0 % chance of being her longest.

 

It was encouraging to see that at 4.5 girth the probability of being her smallest was only 1.3%.

 

I've never done bone pressing measurement, I guess I'll do some extreme pressing to up my numbers.

[kanerva]

Those are interesting stats. I have a 0.0 % chance of being her longest.

 

It was encouraging to see that at 4.5 girth the probability of being her smallest was only 1.3%.

 

I've never done bone pressing measurement, I guess I'll do some extreme pressing to up my numbers.

 

I haven't done these calculations myself. I found them on another website. The girth scale is probably not accurate. There must be some mistake somewhere. Is it really possible for a man to have a girth of lets say 2.5 inches?

 

[kanerva]

Scenario: The Novice (Prior Partners = 2)

 

Probability: Are You Her Biggest?

 

Length

 

4.00": 0.0%

4.25": 0.1%

4.50": 0.2%

4.75": 0.7%

5.00": 2.1%

5.25": 5.0%

5.50": 10.5%

5.75": 19.3%

6.00": 31.3%

6.25": 58.2%

6.50": 60.0%

6.75": 73.1%

7.00": 83.4%

7.25": 90.6%

7.50": 95.1%

7.75": 97.7%

8.00": 99.0%

8.25": 99.6%

8.50": 99.9%

 

Girth

 

2.25": 0.0%

2.50": 0.1%

2.75": 0.1%

3.00": 0.1%

3.25": 0.1%

3.50": 0.2%

3.75": 0.3%

4.00": 1.4%

4.25": 3.3%

4.50": 12.5%

4.75": 22.2%

5.00": 50.7%

5.25": 65.8%

5.50": 85.7%

5.75": 91.4%

6.00": 99.0%

6.25": 99.9%

 

Probability: Are You Her Smallest?

 

Length

 

3.25": 99.9%

3.50": 99.6%

3.75": 99.0%

4.00": 97.7%

4.25": 95.2%

4.50": 90.7%

4.75": 83.5%

5.00": 73.3%

5.25": 60.3%

5.50": 45.7%

5.75": 31.5%

6.00": 19.4%

6.25": 5.6%

6.50": 5.1%

6.75": 2.1%

7.00": 0.8%

7.25": 0.2%

7.50": 0.1%

7.75": 0.0%

 

Girth

 

2.25": 99.9%

2.50": 94.9%

2.75": 94.3%

3.00": 93.5%

3.25": 92.7%

3.50": 91.0%

3.75": 88.9%

4.00": 77.4%

4.25": 66.7%

4.50": 41.7%

4.75": 28.0%

5.00": 8.3%

5.25": 3.6%

5.50": 0.5%

5.75": 0.2%

6.00": 0.0%

 

 

 

[kanerva]

Scenario: The Adventurer (Prior Partners = 25)

 

Probability: Are You Her Biggest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Top / Top 2 / Top 3 / Top 4 / Top 5.

 

Length

 

5.75": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

6.00": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.3%

6.25": 0.1% / 1.0% / 4.3% / 12.2% / 25.8%

6.50": 0.2% / 1.4% / 5.7% / 15.3% / 30.7%

6.75": 2.0% / 10.4% / 27.6% / 50.0% / 70.8%

7.00": 10.4% / 34.9% / 62.9% / 83.3% / 94.0%

7.25": 29.2% / 66.1% / 29.2% / 97.0% / 99.4%

7.50": 53.7% / 87.5% / 97.7% / 99.7% / 99.9%

7.75": 74.7% / 96.6% / 99.7% / 99.9%

8.00": 88.1% / 99.3% / 99.9%

8.25": 95.1% / 99.9%

8.50": 98.2%

8.75": 99.4%

9.00": 99.8%

9.25": 99.9%

 

Girth

 

5.00": 0.0% / 0.2% / 1.2% / 4.4% / 11.3%

5.25": 0.5% / 3.6% / 12.3% / 27.8% / 47.6%

5.50": 14.6% / 43.9% / 71.9% / 89.1% / 96.6%

5.75": 32.5% / 69.8% / 90.5% / 97.7% / 99.6%

6.00": 88.2% / 99.3% / 99.9% / 99.9% / 99.9%

6.25": 90.5% / 99.5%

6.50": 96.8% / 99.9%

6.75": 99.4%

7.00": 99.9%

 

Probability: Are You Her Smallest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Bottom / Bottom 2 / Bottom 3 / Bottom 4 / Bottom 5.

 

Length

 

2.50": 99.9%

2.75": 99.8%

3.00": 99.4%

3.25": 98.2%

3.50": 95.2% / 99.9%

3.75": 88.3% / 99.3% / 99.9%

4.00": 75.0% / 96.7% / 99.7% / 99.9%

4.25": 54.1% / 87.7% / 97.8% / 99.7% / 99.9%

4.50": 29.6% / 66.5% / 88.6% / 97.1% / 99.4%

4.75": 10.6% / 35.4% / 63.5% / 83.7% / 94.2%

5.00": 2.1% / 10.7% / 28.1% / 50.6% / 71.4%

5.25": 0.2% / 1.5% / 5.9% / 15.7% / 31.3%

5.50": 0.0% / 0.1% / 0.5% / 1.9% / 5.6%

5.75": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.1% / 0.3%

6.00": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

Girth

 

2.25": 99.9% / 99.9% / 99.9% / 99.9%

2.50": 51.8% / 86.3% / 97.4% / 99.6%

2.75": 47.9% / 83.7% / 96.5% / 99.5%

3.00": 43.2% / 80.1% / 95.2% / 99.1% / 99.9%

3.25": 39.0% / 76.4% / 93.6% / 98.7% / 99.8%

3.50": 30.8% / 68.0% / 89.4% / 97.4% / 99.5%

3.75": 23.1% / 57.9% / 83.2% / 94.9% / 98.8%

4.00": 4.1% / 18.0% / 40.9% / 64.8% / 82.7%

4.25": 0.6% / 4.2% / 13.8% / 30.4% / 50.7%

4.50": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.2% / 0.9% / 2.9%

4.75": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.1%

5.00": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

Limitations:

 

1) The woman must select her partners from a random pool. This won't be the case if she's a porn star or cruises for men on LPSG.

 

2) The manner is which the woman chooses a partner must be independent of all her other choices past or future, at least as far as size is concerned (ex: she can't prescreen future partners based on bad experiences with previous partners who were too small or too large).

 

3) The proper way to apply this model is to use the sizes that occur in the dating population. This need not be the same as the frequency of occurrence in the general male population. However, the frequency distribution of the former isn't available so we use the latter as a proxy.

 

4) The probabilities used are best guesses based on normal distribution assumptions overlain with known percentile information from actual studies (Lifestyles and/or Kinsey where appropriate).

 

5) The results obtained are dependent on the accuracy of the underlying probabilities used as inputs. In particular, the lower end of the girth scale may suffer from inaccuracies due to measurement errors in the percentile information (i.e. I suspect that some men reporting very low girth measurements are actually reporting width).

 

6) The results are ostensibly bone pressed. However, interpret them as non bone pressed if you want to be surer.

 

 

 

 

 

Edited November 12, 2008 by Guest

[WarMachine88]

I just measured my girth and it's close to 6 inches. So apparently this is a 'big' number, but it still seems so skinny. Maybe the years of porn I've been watching have skewed my views on what an 'average penis is'

[duanculo]

What Are The Odds?: The Experienced Woman

 

Based on the Lifestyle Condom Survey of Americans concluded back in 2001.

http://www.mraverage.com/results.htm

ATTENTION: These are bone pressed measurements

 

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

 

This scenario will involve a woman with ten previous partners.

 

Scenario: The Experienced Woman (Prior Partners = 10)

 

Probability: Are You Her Biggest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Top / Top 2 / Top 3.

 

Length

 

5.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

5.50": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.3%

5.75": 0.0% / 0.4% / 2.3%

6.00": 0.3% / 2.7% / 11.0%

6.25": 6.7% / 27.4% / 56.4%

6.50": 7.8% / 30.5% / 60.1%

6.75": 20.9% / 56.3% / 83.3%

7.00": 40.4% / 78.7% / 95.1%

7.25": 61.1% / 91.7% / 99.0%

7.50": 78.0% / 97.6% / 99.8%

7.75": 89.0% / 99.4% / 99.9%

8.00": 95.1% / 99.9%

8.25": 98.0%

8.50": 99.3%

8.75": 99.8%

9.00": 99.9%

 

Girth

 

4.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

4.50": 0.0% / 0.1% / 0.5%

4.75": 0.1% / 0.7% / 3.7%

5.00": 3.3% / 16.9% / 41.5%

5.25": 12.3% / 41.0% / 71.1%

5.50": 46.4% / 83.4% / 96.7%

5.75": 63.8% / 93.1% / 99.2%

6.00": 95.1% / 99.9% / 99.9%

6.25": 96.1%

6.50": 98.7%

6.75": 99.9%

 

Probability: Are You Her Smallest?

 

The probabilities below are listed as Bottom / Bottom 2 / Bottom 3.

 

Length

 

2.75": 99.9%

3.00": 99.8%

3.25": 99.3%

3.50": 98.0%

3.75": 95.1% / 99.9%

4.00": 89.1% / 99.4% / 99.9%

4.25": 78.2% / 97.7% / 99.8%

4.50": 61.4% / 92.1% / 99.0%

4.75": 40.7% / 79.0% / 95.2%

5.00": 21.1% / 56.7% / 83.6%

5.25": 8.0% / 30.9% / 60.6%

5.50": 2.0% / 11.6% / 32.2%

5.75": 0.3% / 2.7% / 11.3%

6.00": 0.0% / 0.4% / 2.4%

6.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

Girth

 

2.25": 99.9% / 99.9% / 99.9%

2.50": 76.8% / 97.3% / 99.8%

2.75": 74.5% / 96.8% / 99.7%

3.00": 71.5% / 95.9% / 99.6%

3.25": 68.6% / 94.9% / 99.5%

3.50": 62.4% / 92.6% / 99.1%

3.75": 55.6% / 89.2% / 98.4%

4.00": 27.9% / 65.8% / 89.1%

4.25": 13.3% / 42.9% / 72.8%

4.50": 1.3% / 8.2% / 25.3%

4.75": 0.2% / 1.7% / 7.8%

5.00": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.1%

5.25": 0.0% / 0.0% / 0.0%

 

 

 

interesting stats