mrw_357 Posted October 7, 2009 Report Share Posted October 7, 2009 I hate having a pencil dick. Only 4.25" erect girth. Wife says size is ok but she never has an orgasm during sex. We have tried every position. No problem for her to have an orgasm when rubbing a vibrator on clit. I feel very inadequate due to having such a thin penis. Other married guys this size having same problem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wuerstchen Posted October 7, 2009 Report Share Posted October 7, 2009 Mine is 4.75 erect, also on the thin side, and I was able to bring my first wife to orgasm that way on a regular basis. But she had extremely sensitive nipples and could be brought to the point of orgasm through nipple play. Arousal tightens the vagina. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
playdude Posted October 8, 2009 Report Share Posted October 8, 2009 I'm in that range and I make the pussy fart many times Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pr Posted October 8, 2009 Report Share Posted October 8, 2009 Each woman is a little different. From what you said, it sounds like she requires more stimulation to her clit. That's something that doesn't really have anything to do with your girth. Have you tried "grinding" more than "thrusting"? If she can get off on clitoral stimulation, you might need to spend more time with foreplay or have her grind on top of you. That way she can control the amount of pressure and where it's directed. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Although I might be a bit above average on my length, I'm a bit below for my girth. So yes, I do believe I have a pencil dick as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trailzy Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Hey, I think you might find this info helpful: [tab]Coital Alignment Technique If that link doesn't work just google coital alignment technique. I haven't tried it, but one of my girl friends who is open to talking about sex said that this helps her with clitoral stimulation and orgasm during sex. Anyway, hope this helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mattdog5by5 Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Although my circumference is bigger, my wife has never had an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. She can do this quite frequently (and with penetration the orgasm is said to be even better) but has never in 20 years of sex had a "vaginal orgasm". Many, many women can not. The clit is the key for most. If a fat dick was necessary then a larger than me dildo or vibe should have worked but it never has. My fantasy of having 5.75 inch girth and making her cum from intercourse alone seems based on porn and not reality. Tell yourself and your girl that you are not alone at all. Try sex standing between her legs and letting her or you use a vibe or fingers on her clit the whole time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RodEnuf Posted October 9, 2009 Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 Guys, if you're straight and you haven't yet read the original post in the topic Female anatomy FAQ, which is always the first topic in the girlTALK forum, do so now. Alan G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrw_357 Posted October 9, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2009 We have a vibrator and normally it only takes a couple of minutes and she will orgasm from rubbing her clit. We have a dildo that is 5.25 girth but very seldom does she let me penetrate her with it. She says she does not need it. The few times I have penetrated her with it she has had a vaginal orgasm. This is why I hate having a pencil dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ballsontheline2000 Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 My wife has a hard time having an orgasm. My tiny pencil dick is only 4 inches when hard and I keep it totally shaved. She does get on top of me and rubs my dick against her clit while I suck her nipples. It does get her off. It is embarrasing having such a tiny dick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wuerstchen Posted October 10, 2009 Report Share Posted October 10, 2009 (edited) My wife has a hard time having an orgasm. My tiny pencil dick is only 4 inches when hard and I keep it totally shaved. She does get on top of me and rubs my dick against her clit while I suck her nipples. It does get her off. It is embarrasing having such a tiny dick. But there are consolations! As I write your photos of your "totally shaved" "tiny dick" occupy seven of the top ten slots in the prestigious "Hall of Small" on dick.net, including first place. http://dick.net/ratearod/bottom/. An honor well deserved I say! (a picture of my tiny one is #9) Edited October 10, 2009 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freddieboy Posted October 17, 2009 Report Share Posted October 17, 2009 My girth is no more than yours, possibly a little less. My wife can have orgasms with it, but it always involves a LOT of foreplay. Basically I let her decide when she's ready. And there might be something to that grinding. With my old girlfriend, years ago before I was married, I used to play with her clit while we had sex. I was younger and more limber, but she always had an orgasm. Don't despair. You're not too small to please her. Just work on technique and remember that she may need direct clitoral stimulation which has nothing to do with you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lrn2eat Posted October 17, 2009 Report Share Posted October 17, 2009 get in the missionary position and put a couple of pillows under her bum so her...ahem...."area" is pointing upwards. sliiiiide it in straight and you'll rub her g-spot each time you enter her. start really (REALLY) slow, almost like a tease and speed up as she gets "close". this one works almost all the time and you've got more than enough length to hit that spot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrw_357 Posted October 22, 2009 Author Report Share Posted October 22, 2009 Thanks for the information. I will give it a try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CenturyChild Posted November 2, 2009 Report Share Posted November 2, 2009 This is a really good link for whatever your size... http://jtam.org/?p=149 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polkadots Posted November 3, 2009 Report Share Posted November 3, 2009 my SO has thin girth (unsure of the exact measurement) and i'm able to orgasm with him especially if i'm on top grinding and he thrusts upward. like everyone said every woman is different don't feel inadequate just find other ways to make her orgasm other than your penis. find pleasure that it is YOU causing her orgasms. try g spot stimulation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrw_357 Posted November 3, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2009 Tried the pillows suggestion and I came in the first minute. I wish this would have worked that quick for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 4, 2009 Report Share Posted November 4, 2009 Seems to me that this is the right position, but the wrong duration. Have you heard of edging? It's where you practice masturbating while prolonging your ejaculation. You build the the point where you think you'll explode, and then back off a little. I'm sure there's information on this site about that. Also, consider doing Kegels (flexing your PC muscle). This has helped other men I know to not only last longer when they're at their most sensitive, but also to make their erections seem more firm to me. I'm told this will reduce the chances of incontinence as the body ages, too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duanculo Posted May 15, 2013 Report Share Posted May 15, 2013 Thanks for the information. I will give it a try. did you ever try it out? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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