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Hello and welcome to the Board for guys with small ones. I have been reading for some time now and have enjoyed this site for a while. I have a small one, about 1 inch soft (circumcised) and about 4 3/4 inches at my hardest. I have noticed that a lot of guys here are supportive of people who are small-dicked and I think that is great. The more people who are vocally supportive, the better for most guys like us who have small weenies. But, I never see anyone post anymore about enjoying having guys or others making fun of them for their size. I am not in favor of anyone getting humiliated if they don't want to be, and again, let me say that it is great how this Board and the supportive readers can make some of us small-dicked guys feel better and more OK with ourselves. But I am one of those guys who gets off on other guys being able to tell that I'm small and seeing that smirk on their face, etc. As I said, I get off on it, so it is OK for me and with me. That does not mean that anyone else should be forced to go through anything that they don't want to go through. Who cares what anyone thinks of your dick as long as it does what you want it to do for you? As it is rumored to once have been said by a small-dicked guy in reply to a woman's question of "who are you going to please with that small dick?", the guy proudly smiled and replied, "ME!" Right on. Anyway, I just wanted to say hi and see who else might share my views. Maybe you'd be best to reply in private, send email to me at Brooten_Contractors@mailcity.com. No need to make anyone uncomfortable, the whole point of sex after all is to make people feel good, and that includes me. I am in the Little Rock, Arkansas area if anyone is into small-dicked guys and wants to meet up.

 

 

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Oh, I forgot to say that I think that it is great to have this Board and wish that it was around when I was in high school. Although I do have to say that I never really was self-conscious of my weenie when I was younger. I went through a period of time where I was, probably from age 22 through age 30, but then got over that. Now I like for other guys to see it and I also keep it shaved down bald and I like for other guys to see that too. No, I do not have a picture to show you of my weenie. I do have a face picture but it is not a web location, it is stored on my computer. Could not figure out how to get it "uploaded" to my profile. The picture upload slot on the "edit your profile" part starts out with an "http://" type of linkage. Oh well.

Thanks.

 

My weenie measures 1 inch soft and 4 3/4 inches at my hardest. I am in the Little Rock. Take care.

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yep you need to make it a link on a web server in order to have the pic in your profile, but you can post it as an attachment with a posting. After typing in this little box, Hi its me, or whatever, click on I want to preview and/or attach a file then continue, you will get your posting and a spot will be at the bottom to attach a file, click on browse, locate your file and select ok. It will now be an attachment to the posting. ie, like where it says attachement under my name.

 

 

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Someone warned me that I might get "flamed" because of what turns me on. Frankly, if you stopped 100 people on the street and asked "how many of you get off on seeing small dicks?" and then asked another 100 people "how many of you get off on being humiliated about your sexual organs?" you would probably get the same number of affirmative replies. So, keep on getting hard, hot, and horny about whatever you want as long as it is legal and involves adult humans. I get off on seeing small dicked men like me and I also get off on getting humiliated by other guys because of my small one. If that does not get you off, then don't participate in it. There are lots of things that get me hard and some that don't. It does not make one person better or worse if something in particular gets hard. For example. some guys get off on foot fetish stuff. I don't get off on that but that does not mean that I am going to cut off my feet! It does not make them any less or more of a real person than me. Likewise, I happen to get off on the humiliation when another guy sees me nude and just kind of has that sly, almost smirk on his face. It really gets me hard. Who is anyone else to judge me or to make judgements about what gets me hot and hard? And as for the person who said that kids don't get off on getting humiliated, let me tell you this ma'am: When I was a kid, everyone in my class knew that I had the smallest weenie in the class and some of them made fun of me for it. Honestly, I knew that they were making fun of me and I knew that "meant" that I was supposed to feel bad, but I just never cared one way or the other and was only always turned on by the fact they other guys were talking about my dick. It was great and I did not feel bad about my size until after I was out of college. That coincided with some difficult times when I was trying to settle issues with myself about being gay. By age 30 I was happy with who I am as a gay man and happy again to show off my little weenie in any public place where it is legal and appropriate, such as showers, locker rooms, during sexual encounters, etc. But anyway, those kids in my class used to do something to me a couple times a week that just drove me crazy (with lust). I think they were trying to drive me crazy with fear, angst, etc, but I loved what they did. They'd come up to me on the playground after the buses dropped us off, but before school started and we were allowed to go inside. They would say something to the effect that I had a small weenie and therefore did not "need" so much room in my underwear. Then while someone held my arms, another guy would reach into the front of my pants and pull up on the waistband of my underwear and give it a real good yank. It felt great and I always got hard from that. They knew that and I guess that they thought I was embarassed about that, but for me it was part of the game. I would get hard while on the school bus just thinking about it and wondering if it was going to happen that morning. So, to answer the point that kids don't get off on humiliation -- think again. And adults can get off on it too. And who are you or anyone else to tell me what I should or should not get off on? Well, flame on, because I'm going away for the weekend and I will not be able to see your humiliating replies. Better yet, spare us your self righteousness and just enjoy small dicked men and whatever it is about them that gets me and you off.

 

My weenie measures 1 inch soft and 4 3/4 inches at my hardest. I am in Little Rock. Take care.

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While I may not share your particular form of enjoyment, like you said, what you do as an adult should be your business. I guess getting enjoyment from humiliation is as difficult for me to understand as my preference for guys is to straights. Some would even consider it a perversion. But not anyone here LOL

 

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Hello, and welcome! Now, while I don't get into the "size-humiliation" thing. I do enjoy getting together with smaller (and bigger) guys and comparing sizes -- just for the difference. It's kinda fun seeing how genetics makes so much difference between people. And dicks come in all sizes, shapes, and flavors. Course, being a bigger guy myself, it's easier for me to find a guy 1/2 my size than one twice my size. And it really makes me HOT to see just imagine what life is like on the other side of the street. And I enjoy sharing my experiences as well (and explaining that being big really ISN'T a picnic).

 

BTW: I know a big guy or two on AOL who get into being humiliated for being big! Interesting how parallel things can be, isn't it?

 

 

 

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Chris,

 

I would love to hear more details about what you imagine when you imagine life on the small side. To me, the biggest turn-on related to size is thinking about what goes on in a well hung guy's head when he sees a small dick or holds it in his hand. Or how he imagines it feels to be small - physically and emotionally. Here's a more specific question: imagine you are a small guy meeting YOU. And you're comparing dicks. What's it like?

 

By the way I love all your comparison pix. More please!!

 

Lttle1 (4.5 x 4.5 hard)

 

 

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Thanx Little1. You know, I've asked my hubby that question before: "what's it like to be little?", and he's about as speechless as I am when somebody asks: "what's it like to be big?" I guess we each are so used to what we have we don't really think much about it.

 

Let's see: I watch him use two fingers to tug his a few times after he pees. Me? I wrap my fist around mine and shake furiously (more furiously if there's an audience: the exhibitionist in me. And I like small guys who show me the same courtesy). I've talked to several small guys who explain the "toilet thing": that they have to push it down with their finger to avoid peeing all over the rim. I twist mine around to the left and jam it in the crack next to my leg. It cuts back on my stream a bit and I have to stand up to finish peeing after I'm done. When I'm with a small guy (about the only time I ever bottom orally) I like to take him, balls and all in my mouth. I had a guy try that on me one time and he nearly castrated me. I've been bit a lot. And since I take a long time before I cum, I can feel teeth when I start wearing out a guy's jaw. I've heard from men who say women keep aking "is it in?" Many of the women I've been with have had a hard tie loosening up for all, or most, of me and they usually complain about the discomfort. I had a lady one night (in front of her husband) ask: "have you ever hurt anybody with that thing?" I like watching my hubby walk around nude: all that shows is his head, and it bobs around playfully. I'm 4 1/2" soft, I hang and sway -- sometimes it's enjoyable, sometimes not.. and I'm always worried about becoming a cat play-toy. I like holding a small dick in my one hand: wrapping my fingers around it -- surrounding it -- caressing it. I like guys who enjoy the feeling of wrapping two fists around mine. Some guys I meet don't really care for size. Some guys I'm NOT attracted to DO , and they WON'T take "go away" for an answer! Some of the "guys into size" I meet claim they're "not size-queens" while going on and on about that "big dick". Many guys who enjoy size want me to get anal with them (which generally turns me off cold). Few guys who enjoy just sucking a big dick can last as long as I can, many get disappointed if they can't get me off. But many guys jack themselves off while I enjoy the blowjob. One jockey-sized guy I know can't get me in his mouth at all unless I'm totally soft. One guy grabbed me in a bar one night and started braying like a mule (I found out last week he committed suicide in May: one reason I haven't been my usual self online, BTW)...

 

Briefs, which were comfortable when I was younger, are very uncomfortable now that I'm putting on weight. And if I get hard in my boxers, or if I go to pee, I always get a wedgie.

 

Hmm.. so many things coming to mind I hadn't thought of before... I may write that extended bio yet!

 

 

 

Chris

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Humiliation has not been a frequent topic on this small forum, which may be one reason why it is growing so fast. When someone would post a humiliation post on the old small-X-change, there were a bunch of us that ganged up on him. That may be the reason we got a reputation in some circles as being inhospitable. Anything that even smacked of humiliation I jumped on. (I think I jumped on Chris a few times -- no pun intended -- when I thought he was trying to humiliate us with his size.) As a "moderator" I need to choose my words carefully. But I believe humiliation has no place on measurection.com. There are humiliation forums for those who are into that; this is not one of them.

 

 

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I guess I have to wonder why you go out of your way to post here since you do understand that this forum does not support the very thing that turns you on. You expect to be flamed and yet you spend (waste?) the time posting. Interesting.

 

Since I discovered the humiliation fetish I've tried to do some research on it. Actually it's proved to be almost impossible as nothing much is written on it professionally. Contrary to Little Rock's opinion, it involves such a small percentage of the population that sexologists, for the most part, ignore it. I'm sure someone somewhere has done a study, but I haven't been able to find it.

 

So, I've gone to a number of chat rooms and talked honestly to the guys there. Some get angry at my presence and yell at me, or want me to argue with them. I've learned that they will accept an argument in place of humiliation so I won't debate them any more. But almost always there are several who want to talk openly. They admit that they are not comfortable with being humiliated but they feel that it is the only way they can "play." They feel that no woman could want them or love them, so they settle for having women make fun of them.

 

It really is sad. I always meet one or two in every chat who are eager to hear that some women don't care and that there is hope for them to be loved. That is something I find heartbreaking. I refer them to this forum. I hope that they come, but I never know for sure.

 

Re: teasing. LR what you said is that you didn't really take it as teasing, but more of a game and one you were winning by getting turned on. This is a far cry from a child who is tormented until they would rather die than go to school and face their tormenters. I find it odd that you do not appear to understand the difference.

 

You appear to have come here for a battle. You won't get one. You said: "And who are you or anyone else to tell me what I should or should not get off on? Well, flame on, because I'm going away for the weekend and I will not be able to see your humiliating replies."

 

Interesting choice of words...humiliating replies. Is this what you hope for? Do you want the people here to be mean to you? Why do you expect people to be "self righteous"? I think it's been made clear that the responses have a lot of thought put into them and are backed with a lot of knowledge. Don't be so quick to accuse others and then do the same thing yourself.

 

In a private letter to me you appeared not to quite understand why a woman takes part in this forum. If you read and listen to the intelligent thoughtful comments that are spoken by good men seeking to be even better, you will understand why I enjoy their company. And why every post is a learning experience for me.

 

Peace,

Jane

 

 

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. (The Little Prince)

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I think small penis humiliation fantasies are cool. I, personally, would not want to be humiliated if I had a small penis, and I don't usually do it to other people, but if somebody requests it, I'll oblige.

 

I don't think "small humiliation" guys should be excluded from this forum as long as they don't invade unrelated folders with their fantasies.

 

"It's not how much meat you put in the pot; it's how you stir it that counts."

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Sounds like a discussion I had with a close friend years back in university. After a good bottle of wine we started talking about my behaviour (I've been very depressed and suicidal in those times), and I told him that I "can't get a woman 'cause I'm too small". He looked at me and told me that he can't get a woman either, 'cause he's too big. I was quite angry and didn't understand him then.

 

Chris, you're making me understand.

 

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Chris, Thanks for your detailed reply. I can relate to several of your comments. I love to wrap both my fists around a big cock and then cover my whole dick with my one fist to feel the difference. Knowing that the big guy feels the same difference turns me on a lot. It amazes me too that two guys can have such vastly different sized cocks and yet they are both the same thing: a cock. It's just that one of them is several times as large in volume as the smaller one. And knowing that your soft one is the length of my hardon is hot too.

 

 

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.. and Little1, one of the things I like best about comparing is that we're both equals: neither of our dicks is "better" or "worse" because of it's size. They're just different. And the difference is what gets me hot. Enjoying what we both have.

 

One of the things I like in my encounters with women is the same. A penis and a clitoris are the same body part: they just grow differently. Enjoying the differences between an "innie" and an "outie" can be hot as well.

 

I think oftentimes people let their egos distract them from just enjoying the pleasures of sex. Sex has many different components, but pleasure is the best, I think. And I always treasure the look of ecstasy in the eyes of another. With my low limits I'm always happy to find somebody who loses him/her-self in ecstasy in my own sexual tastes. <getting misty eyed>

 

 

 

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Jane, you may remember this arguement on the listbot smallp e-mail exchange -- now defunct.

 

I posted that when we engage in humiliation the psyche of both the humiliator and the humiliated are damaged. It is harmful to both. The humiliated person is usually lacking in self-esteem, and the humiliation further reinforces that image. Plus, the person doing the humiliation is also weak in self-esteem. He gets off by humiliating others and bringing them down to his level. I never studied psychology, but I had many supporters, including you and Mahvin.

 

 

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I guess I have been fortunate in that I can't recall ever being humiliated because of my small size. I don't know that I ever took real notice myself until internet sites such as this (although they came after many a porno site where dick size was inhuman).

I am 5" hard on a good day....and that is fine with me. I am hetero with an occasionaly flair for a good dick if you catch my drift...LOL.

I am not naive to the fact that there are those of us who have been humiliated and emasculated for our size. That has always amazed me in that the agressors act like they actually did something that resulted in their longer dicks.

 

The penis, like the vagina is an amazing organ. Abraham Lincoln once said (and this is a paraphrase of sorts because I don't remember the exact quote) "I can understand how a man can look down on the earth and say there is no god, but I cannot comprehend how a man can look from the earth to the heavens and say there is no god."

 

I would amend that to include looking at a penis or vagina. What amazing creations.....and how they are so easily stimulated....

 

I honestly can't understand penis size fixations. We don't have any control over what we have so let's just all enjoy the equipment God gave us and get over it. I am sure there are matches for all of us out there somewhere.

 

 

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And the winner is...

 

You have the perfect attitude. Welcome to Measurection where the measure of a man is not the size of his penis, but the size of his heart.

 

Like you, I have never understood how we can be held responsible for something over which we have no control. Why is 5" or 4" or 3" less of a marvel than 6" or 7" or 8"? The reproductive system of both sexes is so intricate and beautifully designed that they are works of art. I have seen photos of the ovaries and they look like delicate flowers. The epididymous is a most intricate structure that looks made of finest gossamer. The design of the penis and vaginal area are marvels of hydraulic engineering.

 

Why don't we spend more time thinking how wonderful we are instead of worrying about how inadequate we are?

 

Peace,

Jane

 

 

 

 

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye. (The Little Prince)

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But if we are less than 6 inches long, the recognized national average length for a penis, then we are "small-dicked" and we ARE small and inadequate. I know that there are various references available out there, but the VERY best that anyone can say is that less than 6 inches is SMALL.

 

 

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From all my reading 6 is a smidgen on the high size. More like 5.7-9 is average. That means for every unit that is 6.5 there is one 5.5 to equal 6....thus average. So there must be a lot of those on the "smaller" side in comparison to the "larger" side to equal 6 or somewhere in that area.

 

""then we are "small-dicked" and we ARE small and inadequate"" _ your quote

 

After years I finally realized maybe one thing...we (men) make a bigger deal out of our penis size than woman. PERIOD. That's refreshing to know in the least.

 

Second...I do not consider myself "small-dicked" anymore. Smaller flaccid I could say-and will, but I do not have a small dick at 5.25-5.50 up at at 'em good! Place your finger inside the vagina and three inches later you'll feel something...the bottom. Well kinda, the vagina can stretch and take a lot more inches after it relaxes and allows more penetration. My point is even at 5 inches sometimes my g/f is uncomfortable at times. She says she can feel it inside and "pressing" on her. Somedays I feel like I'm 7" and some I feel like I'm 3" when she's really wet and ready to go.

 

My point is...I'm not "small", I'm "SMALLER" and I'm certainly not, nor is anyone else here INADEQUATE. If you can't get it up 9 out of 10 times, then maybe you can be inadequate. Our just plain have bad luck.

 

I have a "smaller penis" that has created two incredibly wonderful young boys, and satisfies my girlfriend completely. My attitude used to be inadequate, not my size.

 

Sorry to rant...I've came to far to be considered inadequate...and so are a lot of others here.

 

~: MrHappy :~ Damn it!

 

 

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Honestly....if I have a super-duper hard on then it's just a shade under 6" right to the base using the correct style of measuring. I mostly hold on to the 5.25-5.5 rule when going through the motions however.

 

I actually wish I had more thickness. That would be nice for both me and her. When I did the "jelking" for a few weeks some time ago I actually think it did do some help, but it was a lot of work and I lost what little I gained. I would like to try a pump, but have heard pros and cons both ways.

 

Thanks for the comments.

 

MrHappy

 

 

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"Yes...please stand back, put your safety googles on don't be alarmed folks. The giant penis has arrived and it seems to be about the size of a dishwasher!!"

 

HA nothing like a close up view huh?! Maybe I can get the g/f to hold the ruler while I snap a pix!!

 

I know Kirk would, but he's a little too far away!!!!!

 

MrHappy

 

 

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