anon7623 Posted December 6, 2011 Report Share Posted December 6, 2011 I have never been able to have any relationship with women which I haven't paid for due to having only a 4 inch girth. My length is within the normal range and I am satisfied with it. Unfortunately girth is the most important measurement to women. At 28 years old I have been on 2 dates, both ended with me being too nervous to get it up. I blame my size for the majority of problems in my adult life. I have a degree, am good-looking, and fit. People in my life have given me a hard time about never having a girlfriend and it makes me hate them and not want to be around them. I have become pretty isolated from people in general. I believe that if I wasn't small and depressed I would have been able to accomplish more with my life. The only sex I have had has been with escorts which is not something I can often afford. I guess my reason for posting is that I am wondering if there are others in my situation with girth and if any of you have been successful. Also, is there any hope for someone who is 28 who sucks in bed and has little to no experience with women to ever date or have a relationship. P.S. I have not yet read other posts on this forum. If I am redundant I am more than happy to delete this post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littleguy2 Posted December 7, 2011 Report Share Posted December 7, 2011 It looks like you are using your thin penis to keep you from enjoying your life. I have 4 1/2 inch so not much more than you have. Have been successfully married for 32 years with a very good sex life. Don't think about your size and go out and enjoy yourself. Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thad Posted December 7, 2011 Report Share Posted December 7, 2011 (edited) I have 4" girth as well. What I suggest is to use your tongue and spend some "quality time" with your gf "down under" and you may find that all her thoughts of cock size are forgotten. Edited December 7, 2011 by Guest Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
raymar1958 Posted December 7, 2011 Report Share Posted December 7, 2011 First, both of your dates reached the getting naked stage on the first meeting?, WOW! Now , that said, a 4 inch girth may be a bit on the thin side, but its certainly not a pencil dick. Especially if you have average or better length. Sex is not about a mechanical action that you perform in the same way every time. It is an inventive process, and one that you become skilled at only by continuing to do it. An attractive well educated guy should have no problem about meeting someone to date first off, and when it reaches the point where it will become physical , it may be a bit awkward at first, but with time you will both learn what pleases the other. Its not all about jam it in, and ride. There are also girth enhancing tools like a cockring, if you still feel a bit slim. My advice to you is to stop whining and complaining, and hone your people skills, learn to listen to others, and get busy dating. It will also help if you don't date the kind of girls that want to rip your clothes off the first time you meet. Ray Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missing24 Posted December 8, 2011 Report Share Posted December 8, 2011 (edited) I was stressing the same thing recently. I have a 4 inch flat girth too. It still bums me out a little bit. But I just got out of a 5 year relationship recently. The first girl I've dated after my relationship is completely fallen for me. After sex and everything. She seems to really enjoy sex. So maybe I'm not the best she's had, but it's at least not turning her off. We have fun! I don't think having a 4 inch girth is that horrible. It's not as bad as losing your erection. Get the size insecurity out of your way, and get straight to the erection problem. The good news is, while your size might not be changeable, the performance anxiety is. Maybe it's an overstatement to say that ALL girls don't care about size, but my experience so far is that very many don't. They just want to have sex, man. Seriously. Get your dick hard, have a good attitude, and try different positions. In other words, make it interesting for her. The intimacy of actually having sex goes along way itself. Edited December 8, 2011 by Guest Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anon7623 Posted December 8, 2011 Author Report Share Posted December 8, 2011 Thanks for the advice. Glad to meet someone in my situation who has some success with women. Definitely going to get myself out there and see what happens. All the best to you. Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foursquared Posted September 28, 2020 Report Share Posted September 28, 2020 Focus on foreplay Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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