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On 1/9/2019 at 11:17 AM, Red Scott said:

@Triasco9.5 People want/desire certain things because usually they see these things as desirable in society as a whole. To fit in, to be equal, sometimes superior and often its in the hope of acceptance, admiration or respect. 

 What people rarely consider is what impact on their lives would be made if they were to get their wants or desires. Some desires would change lives immeasurably and not always in a positive way. An example is "I want a larger penis" but if you have a family, a loving relationship, a job that pays the bills and a roof over your head, what benefit would be gained from that larger penis except a boost to your self esteem? The truth is there'd be little impact.

What you say is absolutely true, Red.  In my younger years I would have made four changes in an effort to fit in or be equal.

First, since I grew up in an area where the only thing more common than corn was a circumcised penis, I would have wished to be circumcised.  My brother, two cousins and I were probably the only kids in our part of the state who were not circumcised and being different wasn't something I enjoyed.

Second, since I was such a late bloomer, I would have wanted pubic hair much earlier.  And in my greed, I probably would have wished for lots of hair everywhere.  So if my wish came true I probably would have been the hairiest kid in school.

Third, I was very self-conscious of the fact that my penis had quite a curve to it, both to the left and up.  I would have wished for a perfectly straight penis.

And fourth, I would have wished for more girth.  And again, in my greed I probably would have wished for more girth than I could handle (pun intended).

These four factors led to me being afraid to date and as a result I was a virgin until almost thirty.  Luckily, I found the most incredible woman who has now been my loving wife for over thirty-five years.  But if any of those four changes I wanted would have come true, our sexual relationship would not be what it is today, or may have never happened at all.

My wife loves my foreskin.  She said it is just so much fun playing with my lengthy foreskin and for some reason it really turns her on.  When we began planning for children one of the things she was adamant about was that if we had a son he would not be circumcised.  

She also despises body hair.  She said that if I had been a hairy guy she wouldn't have even bothered dating me.  She loves my smoothness.

The curve of my penis hits her in the right spots and helps make up for my lack of girth.  And even though I still would like to have more girth to give her a better sensation she says she is happy with its size because she can do so much more with it.  Plus, in order to make up for my lack of girth, like Avis, I try harder.

I had always heard that you better be careful about what you wish for, because it might come true.  Luckily, my wishes didn't come true.  My wife and I continue to enjoy a very active, happy and fulfilled sexual life.  Not sure if that would be happening if all of my wishes had come true.

 

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I know many guys claim that size does not matter and they are perfectly content but...I really don't know if there is a guy out there that doesn't wish to be bigger.  I know I do and I am not in the small category.  Give me an extra inch in length and girth, flaccid and erect, and I think I would be happy for a while.  Then I imagine over time I would be fantasizing again about being a bit bigger.  When does it all end?

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2 hours ago, IndyBanker1946 said:

I know many guys claim that size does not matter and they are perfectly content but...I really don't know if there is a guy out there that doesn't wish to be bigger.  I know I do and I am not in the small category.  Give me an extra inch in length and girth, flaccid and erect, and I think I would be happy for a while.  Then I imagine over time I would be fantasizing again about being a bit bigger.  When does it all end?

I feel the same way despite already being considered big. A little bit more length and girth would be nice.

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@Red Scott 

On 6/29/2018 at 11:43 PM, Microsoft said:

You can do one here --- I like the large clear video.  There's already a room set up that is open called meas  ----- link:  https://www.appear.in

@Red Scott There's still many people, men and women who will see an average size penis and describe it as small! It seems a lot more education needs to be out there on realistic expectations for the size of a penis. 

 

Yeah.. I agree with You here Scott... A lot of education is needed... But.. with the easy access to Porn and Nude Pictures on the Net.. The "STANDARD" and the "NORMAL" Penis Size, have gone straight out the window... And Many Dic-Pic's are Photshopped and many Flaccid Pictures ain't actually that flaccid at all.. But their much more like Semi-Rigid and Half way Erected and then posted online as Flaccid.. Giving many "NORMAL" and "AVERAGE SIZE PENIS OWNERS" a 'Minority Complex' and the Thoughts and Beliefs that they are Much smaller and under the "NORMAL and AVERAGE SIZE"... 

And Actually... The IRONY in this also.. is that if You ask Porn Actresses, many of them will say and tell You that, their Job have become much harder and are actually very Painful for many of them to do, cos of the "NORM" in Porn today, that Men have to be BIGGER and BIGGER... And many Women and Girls in Porn today are actually getting HURT and DAMAGED cos of it.. ANd many have experienced TEARING and SCARRING in their Vaginas and Anal cos of the "BIG and BIGGER STANDARDS into modern day Porn... (I saw this in a Documentary called something like "Modern day Sex Workers and The Women in the Sex Industry"...) 
And many People, MEN and WOMEN seem to forget that the "NORMAL VAGINA" is only about 3-4 inches Deep/Long... 

So, "My Very Own and Personal THOUGHTS and MEANINGS" about this, is that:  
"This Modern Day 'SIZE HYSTERIA' we have today, is just hurtful to all that believe it... And the REAL PENIS SIZE... Isn't actually located between anyones Legs... But more Between their "EARS"... (And, YOU can all quote me on that...) 

Beside.. Penis Size, ain't the ONLY Reason to Good Sex... There sooo much more, starting from Good Food and Helping out at home with the Hoover sometimes (Many Women see that as a turn on and a Beginning to ForePlay..) So, Sex is SOOOO MUCH... NOT ONLY A PENIS AND A VAGINA... It is that too... But NOT only... (And, You can Quote me on that too... lol..) 

Regards from Me... Tha "Doctor in tha House".... 

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On 6/29/2018 at 11:43 PM, Microsoft said:

You can do one here --- I like the large clear video.  There's already a room set up that is open called meas  ----- link:  https://www.appear.in

@Red Scott There's still many people, men and women who will see an average size penis and describe it as small! It seems a lot more education needs to be out there on realistic expectations for the size of a penis. 

 

Yeah.. I agree with You here Scott... A lot of education is needed... But.. with the easy access to Porn and Nude Pictures on the Net.. The "STANDARD" and the "NORMAL" Penis Size, have gone straight out the window... And Many Dic-Pic's are Photshopped and many Flaccid Pictures ain't actually that flaccid at all.. But their much more like Semi-Rigid and Half way Erected and then posted online as Flaccid.. Giving many "NORMAL" and "AVERAGE SIZE PENIS OWNERS" a 'Minority Complex' and the Thoughts and Beliefs that they are Much smaller and under the "NORMAL and AVERAGE SIZE"... 

And Actually... The IRONY in this also.. is that if You ask Porn Actresses, many of them will say and tell You that, their Job have become much harder and are actually very Painful for many of them to do, cos of the "NORM" in Porn today, that Men have to be BIGGER and BIGGER... And many Women and Girls in Porn today are actually getting HURT and DAMAGED cos of it.. ANd many have experienced TEARING and SCARRING in their Vaginas and Anal cos of the "BIG and BIGGER STANDARDS into modern day Porn... (I saw this in a Documentary called something like "Modern day Sex Workers and The Women in the Sex Industry"...) 
And many People, MEN and WOMEN seem to forget that the "NORMAL VAGINA" is only about 3-4 inches Deep/Long... 

So, "My Very Own and Personal THOUGHTS and MEANINGS" about this, is that:  
"This Modern Day 'SIZE HYSTERIA' we have today, is just hurtful to all that believe it... And the REAL PENIS SIZE... Isn't actually located between anyones Legs... But more Between their "EARS"... (And, YOU can all quote me on that...) 

Beside.. Penis Size, ain't the ONLY Reason to Good Sex... There sooo much more, starting from Good Food and Helping out at home with the Hoover sometimes (Many Women see that as a turn on and a Beginning to ForePlay..) So, Sex is SOOOO MUCH... NOT ONLY A PENIS AND A VAGINA... It is that too... But NOT only... (And, You can Quote me on that too... lol..) 

Regards from Me... Tha "Doctor in tha House".... 

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I think 7 inches would look good on me. That would be 2 1/2 inches more than I have.  My girth is 5 inches and I am happy with that. I will ask my wife the same question as she wishes I was bigger too

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I think I would not choose a bigger penis in any means. Instead - I would like to choose a body frame which I adore. I cant be a thin muscled guy cause Im not that type - but if I could choose I want to be like one. Im leaning on everything even if I eat little. I would like to change that.  (That would be elliminate my 2.4' inches thick fatpad) 

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1 hour ago, PapaJim said:

I would like a v6" cock so that I don't keep slipping out

It will still slip out, mine does and its down to overly vigorous thrusting on the "out-stroke" We tend not to consider nor think about the amount of "out-stroke" we actually require in order not to slip out. We are fully focused on pumping away with the "in-stroke" unless we make that conscious decision to modify our stroke for better technique purposes. 

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On 1/13/2019 at 10:32 AM, hunboy said:

I wished  to have a 3,5-4" soft and 6-7" hard dick, it would be enough for me, but now I'm ok with my small one too (no other chice either).

6-7 is such a large gap in size. I think if you were given a choice and picked 6, you would almost instantly regret it

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12 hours ago, Red Scott said:

@Thor57 I'm not confident in my flaccid size either but I just remember that we can't have everything in life. I know there's many guys on here that have more reason than me to lack confidence, so I try put it to the back of my mind and focus on what I'm in a given place for. 

Man, I agree. The only place flaccid length bothers in the shower after a swim. The rest of the time I revel in how good it is to have the love of a good women who not only enjoys sex, but enjoys with me! That is what I do is my attentions on.

 

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If I could choose my penis?

Definitely I'd want "Uncut,"

with a long overhang

Pseudo-Phimosis wouldn't be a bad thing.

That would make for a glistening, soft, moist, sensitive head which I would truly appreciate.

Flaccid length?  3 inches, maybe three and a half would do.

Erect?   6 1/4 inches seems ideal.

Girth?  Certainly more than my current 4.5 inches.

Maybe just shy of being a "jawbreaker."

I don't think I'm asking for too much, do you?

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8 minutes ago, canuck45 said:

@6INCHES66 At your age....makes me laugh...  my sorta partner commented "I though when you got old you couldn't get an erection much, You always are ready to go".  Mind you I was only 60 then and he was just 41.

I can always get an erection but that being said I  certainly cannot orgasm as often as when I was younger. That for me is one down side of grower older. I am always horny and I think about sex quite often.

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