Scott8361 Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 I am of the belief that for a lot of people even a 6" penis can be considered small if it lacks girth. I feel mine is mall because it is skinny and thin cocks seem to be the least desireable. Conversely, a 5" cock that has decent girth is not a small cock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 In order to be a successful "top," you simply can not be shy about flaunting the goods, as "bottoms" eagerly crave to see/ogle in advance what's in store for them. Perhaps someone will see my size as being a plus for a top, but if my heart/mindset is not into that role then my performance would be poor. As far as your being a mentor for other supposed "small" guys, that may or may not work, as it's quite to difficult to second-guess why certain guys hide, especially if they're not gay, as their mind-set probably does not work like ours. We can assume that they're "small," but we may be wrong. I don't think gay/straight is the matter here, because I'm sure straight guys will be curious enough to take a peek too. Since most average (and below) guys avoid these kind of undressing situations, undressing for the mere purpose of showing what I got might be a waste of time, not to mention a lone "average" in a room full of big ones. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 1, 2009 Report Share Posted January 1, 2009 You have a most unique difference in your flaccid/erect sizes. Your flaccid is such a size to cause you worry, but you're packing a real grower. I see this site as anyone willing to talk about their's, and other's penises, and whatever concerns we might have. Of course you belong here. :hugs: Hey, my 69th post! :sixtyninesmilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seekingpeaceofmind Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 The answer lies in my "small closet" theory. Men under six hide in their small closet: They do not dress in public (or turn or hide if they do.) They do not go to nude beaches. They often do not play sports (or do not shower with the gang if they do.) They do not wear Speedo's. They even avoid sexual activity. YES THEY DO! I have talked to guys in their 30s who were still virgins because they were afraid someone would find out about their small dicks. It doesn't matter if they are gay or straight. The hiding continues. WORD!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 I feel mine is small because it is skinny, and thin cocks seem to be the least desirable. Hey Scott! Do they make those silicone penis inserts with the same girth-size as that of a beercan??? :wave: If so, that really SHOULD work for you, shouldn't it??? :tongue: Rick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 In order to be a successful "top' date='" you simply can not be shy about flaunting the goods, as "bottoms" eagerly crave to see/ogle in advance what's in store for them.[/quote'] Perhaps someone will see my size as being a plus for a top, but if my heart/mindset is not into that role then my performance would be poor. Hey Guy! There you go, exactly!! :waytogo: To say the least, not everyone is into taking the biggest cock in town. Instead, among a multitude of other qualities and attributes, any number of guys might just happen to view yours (and you) as being juuuuusst right!! The required point about altering your mind-set to suit the new role is one which is totally up to you. As far as your being a mentor for other supposed "small" guys' date=' that may or may not work, as it's quite to difficult to second-guess why certain guys hide, especially if they're not gay, as their mind-set probably does not work like ours. We can assume that they're "small," but we may be wrong.[/quote'] I don't think gay/straight is the matter here, because I'm sure straight guys will be curious enough to take a peek too. Since most average (and below) guys avoid these kind of undressing situations, undressing for the mere purpose of showing what I got might be a waste of time, not to mention a lone "average" in a room full of big ones. OK, but very seriously now,-- you just might be the catalyst to enable the start of a trend. Still, your effort could also ultimately prove to be a waste of time, but until you find the nerve within yourself to go out there and flaunt it, you'll never know. And even if you were the lone "average" guy in the room, some may still be quite impressed (and for any number of possible reasons, as some might still be ogling your most magnificent asset). I suspect that the majority will either be unimpressed or will care less that you are the lone "average" guy. Therefore, even if only one or two guys, meekly "hiding" back in the corner, take note of you for the reason you intend, then you've accomplished your mission. As a side bonus, if you get really lucky, you just might snag one of those "big" guys who is into "smaller" guys. Never rule out that off-chance possibility, especially if you are as cute, hot, handsome, good-looking, buff, well-asseted, and self-assured as I suspect you are. I, for one, tend to judge the whole picture, including an engaging personality and a positive attitude, and firmly believe that I'm not unique in this regard. Rick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 As a side bonus, if you get really lucky, you just might snag one of those "big" guys who is into "smaller" guys. :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: Never rule out that off-chance possibility, especially if you are as cute, hot, handsome, good-looking, buff, well-asseted, and self-assured as I suspect you are. hmmmm... well, not buff, but I'll gladly claim those other descriptions. thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 As a side bonus' date=' if you get really lucky, you just might snag one of those "big" guys who is into "smaller" guys.[/quote'] :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: ...though I'm not a size queen and would gladly take any of the gorgeous guys I see at the gym. :naughtysmilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 As a side bonus' date=' if you get really lucky, you just might snag one of those "big" guys who is into "smaller" guys.[/quote'] :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: :deargod: ...though I'm not a size queen and would gladly take any of the gorgeous guys I see at the gym. :naughtysmilie: Hey Guy! :waytogo: Oh, you ARE waaaaay too cute, aren't you?!? Still, I really the fact that you're quite open to learning new techniques, and appear to be an eagerly diligent and studiously observant quick-learner! :content: Btw, before we completely change the subject, is it as hot as the one in this pic??? :wink: Or is it even hotter?? :smirk: Rick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughPoint Posted January 2, 2009 Report Share Posted January 2, 2009 There ought to be a way to give a guy some warning before he clicks on a thread and has his senses unexpectedly assaulted! :omgsmilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 3, 2009 Report Share Posted January 3, 2009 Btw, before we completely change the subject, is it as hot as the one in this pic??? :wink: Or is it even hotter?? :smirk: :bugeyes: :bugeyes: :bugeyes: Whoah! Not quite THAT hot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dreysek Posted January 3, 2009 Report Share Posted January 3, 2009 I agree RP... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autguy Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 So, is there any way to tell if that seemingly large cock is a shower or grower just by looking at it when it's flaccid? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 Hey Guy! Chances are, if it's a seemingly large cock when flaccid, then it'll probably turn out to be a show-er. Rick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dinky Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 "So, is there any way to tell if that seemingly large cock is a shower or grower just by looking at it when it's flaccid?" Absolutely no way at all to tell by looking at a flaccid penis. As an example; I'm about 1" to 1 1/2" long with a long foreskin when flaccid, erect I'm 7" long and 7" in circumference. No way to tell when I'm soft. I have a friend who when he's soft hangs down almost 6", and it looks very nice, when he's erect he's 6" long and about 4" in circumference. This to prove that you can't tell from the flaccid state a penis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AO Posted January 5, 2009 Report Share Posted January 5, 2009 her last ex wasn't 11" ... probably not even 8.5" believe me.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lil1ohio Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Hello my friends. Good to be here at one of my all time favorite sites. I find this topic to be quite interesting indeed. Perception is everything in regard to dick size. Average guys tend to see themselves as small for some reason when in reality we aren't. Just like Charliebear said in his early post on the first page, the mean average is 5.4" (I think that's what he said it was). I am often questioned about the logic to my screen name when people see images of my dick. Most tell me that it's not small. When I made the name, i was still hiding in the "small closet" that Charliebear refers. Often times average size is perceived, especially by the owner, as being small when in fact it is not. I love this site for helping me to realize that my actual size is average, but regardless of my size I am unique and NORMAL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pineapples Posted January 8, 2009 Report Share Posted January 8, 2009 Oh yea when I came here it was either because I thought I was small, or something about my foreskin... probably the small one, anyways all the people on here are nice, and I found out that I was average (damn porn vids) plus I'm 6" so it looks even smaller, it isn't all about penetration though many other things to enjoy and please her (him for some of you) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skwirl Posted January 9, 2009 Report Share Posted January 9, 2009 Well said, lil1ohio. Also i think your avatar (the cat seeing a lion in the mirror) is reflective of this discussion, but with the subjects reversed. Too many of us average- and smaller-sized guys are really lions, but see housecats in our reflections. Did that make sense? or bad analogy? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devil28 Posted January 11, 2009 Report Share Posted January 11, 2009 Im five and a half when bone pressed (im overweight). I know the length isnt that much under average but my lack of girth makes it look smaller. Its barely over four inches. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3incher Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 hi i am also 3.5 erect and half inch flacid . i am a grower . r u intrested in being friends ? i am 24 btw . my id is sensitivemale__@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3incher Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 hi i am also 3.5 erect and half inch flacid . i am a grower . r u intrested in being friends ? i am 24 btw . my id is sensitivemale__@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teanie Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 hi, 3.5 hard (1.5 soft) here ... i wonder if that is simply tiny or micro? i really don't understand the definition of micro and the standard deviation thing ... any thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fighting Blindly Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 :question: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max85 Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 hi, 3.5 hard (1.5 soft) here ... i wonder if that is simply tiny or micro? i really don't understand the definition of micro and the standard deviation thing ... any thoughts? Hey mate no your size isnt qualified has micropenis to be micropenis you have to fall below 2.75 inchs erect non bone pressed . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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