Young/Teen penis size development

[Guest]

On 11/16/2018 at 6:08 AM, overthehill said:

I recently posted my experience with group showers in another thread, I think.  I let it mess up my whole life.  

I disagree entirely,  Familiarity breeds contempt.  Guys who have normal genital size and a normally timed puberty feel superior to guys dramatically lacking in these 2 areas because they are superior.

 

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I remember during 7th grade starting to be concerned I was no longer tall compared to a lot of guys.  Then, the class went on a special outing to swim in the High School pool.  We were required to shower nude in gang showers and then be inspected for cleanliness before we could enter the pool.

Standing by a locker with a hairless tiny flaccid, I saw a guy I had grown-up with flop out a huge penis surrounded by hair.  I had seen his penis while he urinated in the woods a few years before.  It was bigger that my flaccid, but not surprising in any way.  I was only marginally concerned as a kid that my flaccid seemed smaller than everyone elses'.

I was stunned and couldn't take my eyes off it.  He said nothing, but was all smiles and chuckles.   I further embarassed myself that day when I got a tiny erection in the gang showers, perhaps because nearly all the guys had genital hair and hanging penii of various lengths.  I didn't really know what erections were all about (though I had played with mine for years) and didn't understand  what some guys were laughing and wispering about.  I still was a bit erect when inspected and couldn't get rid of the erection at first in the pool.

We had to wear tank suits which clearly showed the genitals of the maturing guys when wet and join the girls in the pool!  A lot of the guys made a point of showing off on the diving board, etc.  They didn't know how to dive.  I stayed in the pool even though I was a good diver, having learned at a neighbor's outdoor pool,  and snuck back to the locker room as soon as it was allowed!

I didn't start to recover mentally until I started drinking as a college Jr.  Yes, I felt robbed as no dramatic puberty ever occured.  Only very gradually did I develop approximately normal under-sized gentials.  Seemed to happen overnight with most other guys.

[Guest]

16 hours ago, Red Scott said:

@mike1379 in my day I think what prevented most boys commenting on another boys penis was the fear of being labelled "gay"! This was with the exception of one boy who was really well endowed, he really stood out even before puberty and was labelled a "freak" due to his size. 

I'm sure that is true.   I wonder what happens now?

The times I was targetting it was only covert snickering, whispering, etc.  The one time I was really singled out by a "scumbag" for loud explicit ridiculte, the guy was rebuked by his buddies, perhaps implying he was "queer."  Defending himself he doubled down, insisting "No, he really is small!  That's a really tiny dick."  He didn't shut-up until I focused on him and moved toward him with menace.  Then, he pretended it hadn't happened and continued getting dressed.

[Red Scott]

@overthehill I hate bullying in all forms, including body shaming, whether aimed at me or someone else. Unfortunately to react with "menace" is often the only way to deal with these people! Some bullies back down with carefully chosen vocabulary aimed at them, but some, well, they need to see you mean business! 

[aquarock]

The boys on the swim team do brag about size but don't seem to bully those less fortunate.  However, to be honest, I wish I was as big as those less fortunate.  When I was in High School, several of us were bullied for either being small, hairless or erect in the showers. But that was 30+ years ago.  Seems the kids today are more in tune with their bodies and think nothing of it. I would imagine having smart phones and internet access all their lives has attributed to that.

[Triasco9.5]

I think it depends on the area and the individuals in question.  I was precocious and educated as a teenager, so the idea of making fun of anyone didn't even occur to me.  it wasn't until I joined the Army that got my own jabs about my endowment as well as saw others taking shots for theirs.  

[Allen43]

I have what I guess is a borderline micro penis. It’s only 3” long erect and 3.5” in girth.. and that’s NOW, as an adult. I’m a somewhat fit, slim guy too. Anyway, I did not start puberty until I was well past my 15th birthday. I was completely devoid of any pubichair or underarm hair and only able to have dry orgasms up until then. My testicles stayed mostly drawn up inside me and tight. They barely showed at all. Usualy there was just a really tight little patch of wrinkled skin below my thimble sized penis where my testicles should have been angling down or at least showing like other boys my age were. I did my absolute best to avoid any naked exposure to other boys, except for one particular boy that is, but at times it was difficult to do. 

[Red Scott]

@Allen43 Going by your given size stats, if you were to consult a doctor today about your size you would be diagnosed as having the condition "micro-penis" I don't know your age but hormone therapy started before your mid to late twenties can help to correct some of this issue. Not huge gains but anything is going to be welcomed I'd imagine. 

[RodEnuf]

@Allen43  Scott is exactly right.  If you are still in your late teens or twenties you should see an endocrinologist.  Your primary care physician can refer you to one.  Your puberty may have terminated prematurely.  If so, it may be possible to trigger it to re-start and go to its normal completion.

Alan G

[Allen43]

When I started going through puberty a few months prior to my sixteenth birthday I did start getting taller and for the first time I noticed some pubichair beginning to show. In the next month or so I began to squirt clear liquid when I masturbated and had my orgasm.  My semen gradually got whiter and thicker. I continued to grow height and weight wise. And while my penis and testicles did grow some they never seemed to catch up to being anywhere close to normal size for a young boy my age. I’m pretty sure by the age of twenty I was as developed as I was ever going to be.

[Triasco9.5]

I think this is an interesting and difficult time to be a teenager with an endowment on different sides of average in general. They have access to the Internet,  social apps, and porn,  all of which can be sources of misinformation about their penises and sex in general. Not to mention the are many people and things which can breed narcissism in the early bloomers (even if they don't end up larger than average) as well as damage the self esteem and self worth of the late bloomers (even if they don't end up smaller than average). Too much sexual media without actual discussion or education regarding sex and related topics. 

[canuck45]

54 minutes ago, Triasco9.5 said:

Too much sexual media without actual discussion or education regarding sex and related topics. 

and yet we still  have parents/PCA that don't want sex ed in schools. 

[Red Scott]

@canuck45 Amen to that! It seems its the (largely) religious and overly conservative parents who have a negative view and attitude towards sex education. They don't seem to realise exactly how important the topic is! Sex Ed can prevent so much hurt, anxiety and misinformation on a subject we all need knowledge on! This is especially true in the present day when the internet is the "go-to" source for information that young people rely on, and the older generation too. 

[aquarock]

1 hour ago, canuck45 said:

and yet we still  have parents/PCA that don't want sex ed in schools. 

When I was in school I remember we had sex ed in the 6th grade and it was the basics.  Our organs, periods, what happens when the sperm fertilizes the egg.  It a brief class. I remember because I was having issues in class and my grandmother was a guest in class to observe me.  It was embarrassing.  I don't remember Mr. King talking about penis size and there wasn't a condom demonstration or anything. On his defense we had some time and he threw out a question about what the class wanted to talk about and this one boy said sex. So he did.  OP, sorry to be off topic.

During this part of my life I had never had any comparing to other boys or anything.  It wasn't til the school year when we did a class camp out and my tent mate and I compared and played.  He loved nipple play and couldn't understand why I didn't enjoy what he did.  He seemed to be aroused by my touching him anywhere on his body and moaned allot. I was bored so we didn't do much. But I remember him being erect but can't remember his size or anything because it wasn't important me. I wouldn't learn for a few more years how important size would be perceived.

I did have an encounter with a man when I was about 9 at a pool party who set up a blanket fort in his room. We got in there and he dropped his pants and showed me his pee pee and had me put my mouth on it.  It wasn't comparing per se but it was the biggest penis I would see for a long time.

The first time I masturbated with a boy was in 7th grade. We had gone for a walk in the mountains, we lived there, and enjoyed the sunny day. I was much taller than him, he was shorter but he was more athletic. I don't remember how the conversation came up but we ended up with our pants down laying on a rock masturbating. My penis was much bigger than his and we were both surprised. He was very popular and I was the odd duck. Anyway as we jacked off and told him I could make a mess but when it came time to ejaculate I pinched my dick to hold back the cum so I didn't have to clean up. He was teasing me that I said I could but didn't.  Later that night when we were at his place in his room with other friends and his brothers. He asked me to suck his dick in front of everyone and that it was cool. Whipped his cute little hard cock out and said it was ok, I trusted him, so in front of everyone got up and went over to suck it. That's when he pissed on me and in my mouth and called me a faggot. Everyone laughed and called me faggot. It ruined my interaction with the other boys.  They no longer invited me to play basketball.  I was the tallest kid in 7th grade and even though I was a lousy player I used to get picked early because of my height. 

A few weeks later I was out walking with another friends older brother, Scott, and while walking be brought up that he heard about Darren pissing in my mouth and apologized. He asked how long I had been into boys and I told him I didn't know. After we walked and talked for awhile he invited me over to hang out. It wasn't long before our pants were off and I was playing with his penis. It was about the same length as mine but much thicker. I had told myself I would love to have a dick that thick. He was telling me how good it feels when he puts it in my butt. I wasn't sure about that but eventually he had me on my stomach and he was putting Vaseline in me and on him and proceeded to inflict more pain than I ever thought possible. I jumped out from under him and ran to the toilet. He talked me into coming back saying that the pain would go away and it would feel good. It took some time and I could take him but it never felt good. Eventually I could feel him ejaculate in me. He cleaned himself up and told me to go home.  I wasn't sure what the big deal was. Over the next year he would invite me over when his brothers and parents weren't home and fuck me a couple times per week till we got caught. I was called out as the local faggot Scott wasn't.  Three different experiences in my life before I entered high school.

[galaxy123]

@LondonTeen Hi this is a topic I have some experience of.

when growing up I developed late and as a teen did not go through puberty until I was 15.5. So being the last to develop I compared badly to other boys. At 14 my penis was about 1.5in when long, I had no pubic hair and my balls were tiny. I was teased badly for having such a small one. I went to a school where hiding away only increased the teasing so I was happy to face up to it and compare with other boys and show mine if asked.

When I did develop it did grow into what I would say is slightly below average size. mine is now 6in long when hard.here are some charts of my size now.

soft

https://www.showyourdick.org/68mo2s5opw7mpic.html

hard

https://www.showyourdick.org/vm5oxno84corpic.html

I would advise people to just be themselves we come in all shapes and sizes. I have no idea what determines size either as my father has a much larger one than me. Just be yourself.

[Red Scott]

@galaxy123  6" in length is not below average, not by any stretch of the imagination! You should consider this as a good size. 

For the majority of males, penis size is dictated by the genes on the mother's side. You have a much higher chance of having a size similar to your mother's father than of the size of your own father's penis. 

[Guest]

On 11/22/2018 at 11:36 AM, mike1379 said:

@CuriousNow  Well we differ a bit in that I was endlessly curious and fascinated by other boys in the shower rooms.

Well, I can understand that.  I just missed the boat in that I didn't appreciate the beauty of a naked male body when I was surrounded by them all the time - I just caught on way too late!  Oh, to have a photographic memory....

You also mentioned looking at the other boys, furtively.  I know I looked, too - and furtively.  But, for me it was more of a "scenery" thing - when you're in the woods, you'll notice a particular patch of flowers or whatever.  When you're in showers, about all there is to notice are boys' penises and bottoms.  You can't help but glance.  But, as @Red Scott said, the fear of being labelled "gay" (in my day, it was "queer" or "a fag") was most certainly a factor, even if subconsciously.  And as yet someone else mentioned - I, too, wonder if that's much of an issue today.  But then, so few boys are naked at school any more, who's to say?

Edited December 6, 2018 by CuriousNow
Grammar - changed a single to a plural.

[Triasco9.5]

I don't know, from what I've heard there's still plenty of nudity depending on where you are, which is part of the problem: lack of consistency across the board results in a larger variance in understanding and expectation, which heightens the chances for misunderstanding and adverse effects on the psyche. If I'd had someone (who actually had a penis or was more comfortable with researching and discussing such topics) to answer my questions about my teenage development, I probably would have reached a more stable sexual identity and ego at an earlier time in my life instead of only just now coming into it after many experiences, both good and bad. 

[Guest]

11 hours ago, CuriousNow said:

But, as @Red Scott said, the fear of being labelled "gay" (in my day, it was "queer" or "a fag") was most certainly a factor, even if subconsciously.  And as yet someone else mentioned - I, too, wonder if that's much of an issue today.  But then, so few boys are naked at school any more, who's to say?

I was afraid I was a "fag" because of how interested I was in cocks, especially until I learned not to get erections in the locker room.

Hmmm!  Just had a new thought:  Maybe my self training back then not to get erect around naked guys has something to do with the fact I didn't get an erection when I experimented with sucking cock decades later.

Other than not getting an erection, I felt great, full body energized and glowing which lasted for hours.

[Red Scott]

@overthehill I can relate to this, I used to become hugely aroused just by passionately kissing a person, this was sometimes embarrassing so I had to "train" myself to not respond this way. So like you, whilst I feel the glow, warmth and eroticism of a passionate kiss, now I don't become hard until things go a little further. 

[Guest]

56 minutes ago, Red Scott said:

@overthehill I can relate to this, I used to become hugely aroused just by passionately kissing a person, this was sometimes embarrassing so I had to "train" myself to not respond this way. So like you, whilst I feel the glow, warmth and eroticism of a passionate kiss, now I don't become hard until things go a little further. 

Hmm!  Similar training, but I was never embarassed about erections while kissing women.  Got one kissing women immediately.  Dancing too, which was a little more tacky.  Maybe my erections were too small to worry about.  Women would seem to enjoy pressing against my erection even when nothing further happened or seemed to be contemplated.

In my little "bi" experiment, the guy kissed me occasionally.  But, it didn't arouse me.  For some reason, he liked to kiss me hard and stick his tongue in my mouth before presenting me with his cock to suck.  He was about domination from start to finish.

Edited December 6, 2018 by Guest

[Guest]

On 12/6/2018 at 10:19 AM, overthehill said:

I was afraid I was a "fag" because of how interested I was in cocks, especially until I learned not to get erections in the locker room.

Not only did I never get an erection in the locker room, I honestly do not recall ever seeing any one hard in the locker rooms/showers/saunas from my junior high days, through my UK years, high school back in the States, military barracks/latrines, and finally health clubs/gyms.  I just never did.

I saw my brother hard when he was 13 and I was 11 (his choice, not mine).  I was too young to be anything but afraid.  But, I distinctly remember an incident when I was a senior in high school.  I was changing clothes (to go swimming) with my best friend and when he pulled his shorts off, his penis bobbed free; not totally hard, but clearly semi-erect and much fuller than I'd ever seen it.  Thing is, my penis immediately started puffing up at the sight.  It was totally unexpected (both seeing his semi and my reaction to it) and, frankly, it scared me.  But it does make me wonder, what would have happened to me if I DID see other guys erect in the locker rooms?

[Guest]

7 hours ago, CuriousNow said:

Thing is, my penis immediately started puffing up at the sight.  It was totally unexpected (both seeing his semi and my reaction to it) and, frankly, it scared me.  But it does make me wonder, what would have happened to me if I DID see other guys erect in the locker rooms?

I never saw a "normally hung" guy get an erection in the showers though their flaccids were often suspiciously puffed and full of blood making them seem way better hung than they probably were.

It was was only the very few guys with stunted puberty like me, sporting a very small erection and very embarassed.  I learned very quickly to control my thoughts when nude so it wouldn't happen.  I did have to shower very quickly quite often when I could feel I was losing control.

[Red Scott]

In public locker rooms etc I've often seen guys who were definitely sporting a semi or at least "fluffed" but never erect. If ever I became aroused (when younger) I would instantly cover up.

I've only seen fully erect in private at my, or someone else's home. Or the semi-private in the instance of dark corners and rest rooms of nightclubs or on occasion the very secluded outdoor places! But these have all been purposeful sexual encounters and not accidentally seeing a guy erect. 

[Guest]

@overthehill Yes, I can certainly understand what you're saying (erection control).  To be honest, I'd have been severely embarrassed for anyone to see me erect.  It makes no sense, I suppose.  But while I had no concerns about being seen naked, I would have been mortified to be erect.  In fact, that is why I reacted as I did seeing my friend's semi-erection.  When I felt mine immediately reacting, it almost panicked me - thinking he might see mine fill up and start to lift.

You also mentioned how it's likely many boys were "suspiciously puffed and full of blood making them seem way better hung than they probably were" (a very good description, BTW).  I definitely agree with that.  I know around age 14, 15, 16, my "package" was typically about a 1.5 to 2 inch nub bobbing about over a tight "walnut-like" tightly held in scrotum.  Nothing impressive, and very much like many of the other boys.  And as I may have mentioned in this thread, it was virtually identical to my best friend's package.  But, when I was around my girlfriend, it was often fuller and longer, even soft.  Not quiet a semi, but... "awakened" I guess would be a good description.  So, in those times, although flaccid, I did appear better endowed than I actually was.

[HarrrGamerZ]

On 3/10/2013 at 8:04 PM, LondonTeen said:

Hey,

I want to hear peoples thoughts and opinions on the young/teenage cock. Is there any of you here who have had big cock since hitting puberty?? Or have any stories about their cock development during puberty?

I'm 18 and I have a flaccid cock measuring between 3-4 inches and when I'm erect I'm measured at 5.5" inches roughly. Is this small? Average? Big?

Thanks (:

My best friend's penis size impressed me.  The first time we compared us was 12 years old.  My penis was 4 "and his was 6.5".  today I'm 5.2 "and he's 8.5"