seph Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 I ask because my girlfriend broke up with me last weekend. We had a lot of sex, and when we weren't together I always thought of her. Especially when cumming. I can't imagine how I'm going to bring myself to do it, with the break up still fresh. Heck even if I do it a month from now I know my mind might wander to her... if it does I'll be so upset afterwards. There really aren't any other ladies in my life that I'm interested in like that or vice versa. And I'm not going to watch porn. I gss I might try to really connect with a webcam girl eventually. Now there's something to look forward to :/ It's been over a week for me, and usually I do it at least every other day... Longest I've gone before was just over two months and it just caused me to be more stressed I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toadfish327 Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 Go ahead and keep jackin, time heals all wounds and this too shall pass. Plus it keeps the prostate healthy by fluching the pipes now and then. I have heard 4 times a week for a minimum reduces your prostate cancer risk by 20%. Good luck on finding a new girl. Keep us posted on your progress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellend07 Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 for me about 2 week's, that was when i was in hospital. other times is when i am ill and can't do it. i like to keep my hand in now and again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heero-9 Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 My girlfriend has been stressed from her job for over 2 months so I haven't had sex in all that time. I have very high sex drive... I have jerked off at least 2 times a day in all that time. I'm going crazy... I'll never pressure her to have sex. It's not fun for any one that way but I need sex. I hope things get better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 My girlfriend has been stressed from her job for over 2 months so I haven't had sex in all that time. I have very high sex drive... I have jerked off at least 2 times a day in all that time. I'm going crazy... I'll never pressure her to have sex. It's not fun for any one that way but I need sex. I hope things get better soon. Masturbation is a natural form of sex. That's the only form of sex some single guys get. And when your needs are different than your partner's needs at the time, masturbation is a natural way to supplement your sex life. And, some times a guy just wants a good old hand job and he can do it better than his wife can. Also, in later years a partner will either lose interest in sex or no longer be able to have sex. Then masturbation becomes the only sex for the partner who still desires sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 17, 2013 Report Share Posted March 17, 2013 Heck even if I do it a month from now I know my mind might wander to her... if it does I'll be so upset afterwards. Practice. . . your mind will stop wandering after a time. Porn wouldn't kill you to help stop the wander. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 18, 2013 Report Share Posted March 18, 2013 Oh, to answer the question: since estrangement with wife and getting over 60 years, 3 months. Prior to this period hardly missed a day though I would postpone orgasm for several days quite often. . . is getting hard without orgasm masturbating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AggieFTW Posted March 18, 2013 Report Share Posted March 18, 2013 Masturbating without climax is still masturbating. If you're interrupted while masturbating, you'd still say you were masturbating. I don't see how your situation would be different. For me, three to four weeks was the longest. It was when my ex was first pregnant and I felt bad about masturbating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtw1942 Posted March 18, 2013 Report Share Posted March 18, 2013 I am older and have ED so my orgasms are not that easy to come by. Accordingly, I save them to pleasure my wife. I believe it has been well over a year since I last masturvated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wood650 Posted March 21, 2013 Report Share Posted March 21, 2013 I usually Jack off two or three times a week as my wife no longer wants sex. Just about due for another session. My old dick feels so good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WantToBeThick Posted March 21, 2013 Report Share Posted March 21, 2013 I've gone a week without cumming. I thought I was going to lose my mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seph Posted March 23, 2013 Author Report Share Posted March 23, 2013 Well I did it last night. First time since my gf left me. I tried to connect with a cam girl, it felt really good physically, but left me feeling so sad and alone afterwards... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pinkie B. Posted March 23, 2013 Report Share Posted March 23, 2013 break ups make you feel sad and alone. jerk off and then go out with your friends...but wash your hands in between. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted March 23, 2013 Report Share Posted March 23, 2013 . . . but wash your hands in between. :yeahthat: :waytogo: :roflmao: Rick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 23, 2013 Report Share Posted March 23, 2013 The last time I had a really serious breakup, the only thing that really helped (besides time) was finding friends with benefits situations. Helped with some minor breakups too. Distraction. It made me feel better, especially since I felt betrayed. I couldget that physical release, and no one made me any unbelievable promises. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexuk Posted March 24, 2013 Report Share Posted March 24, 2013 I wos not very well a bout a month ago flu for about 2weeks and did not have any sex or wank in that time. Lol so wen I wos felling well I had a slow wank wen I cum it can out alot faster and hit the wall behind my head not don that sens I wos 16 lol and my balls and belly hurt for ages any one els don that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonTeen Posted March 25, 2013 Report Share Posted March 25, 2013 Longest I've gone without having a wank was 3 weeks and when I did eventually have one, I was covered from my face to stomach in thick white cum. I was 13 at the time and I was in ecstasy 18 now and I wank roughly 3-5 times a day and I can't go a day without a wank /: I wanna go about a week or two and then bust a big load but I can't control my masturbation cycle /: Any advice?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RodEnuf Posted March 26, 2013 Report Share Posted March 26, 2013 Enjoy it while it lasts. Alan G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 8 days at the request of my girlfriend at the time. She wanted a huge load inside her & told me to hold off as long as I could. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 well, when it happened, I hope you both enjoyed the huge load Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Daddy Posted April 6, 2013 Report Share Posted April 6, 2013 Yes we did i popped in 5 minutes & again 10 minutes after that one & again twenty minutes after that one & again thirty minutes after that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 7, 2013 Report Share Posted April 7, 2013 I love when my partner comes inside me but that isn't allowed with my extra-marital partners, and my husband won't do that until we want a pregnancy. So, I guess there is a temporary ban in place, but I'm going to keep respecting that. Not like I can just make a new me and let one of me ride the ban whe the other has fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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