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Are the any guys who are proud of their small penis?


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Based on my screen name, I'm sure you'll guess that my answer is "yes." Perhaps more accurately (since attributes of one's penis aren't an achievement), I'm proud of my self-acceptance of my anatomy, my comfort in being seen naked, and my ability to talk about my size openly and honestly without feeling shame. It's why I pick open showers when they are available and why I don't feel the need to hide my penis behind a towel when I'm changing or walking to and from the shower.

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Firstly, I'm 100% certain I should not be ashamed of my penis; although I have been. Judging people (even yourself) for how they are born is, to my mind, a 'prime evil'. It is the very basis of eugenics and we need to stand against such ideology as strongly as we can!

 

To my mind, pride is the flip side to shame. Other guys who are 'proud' of their big dicks are implicitly (and often explicitly) attempting to shame others.

 

The whole idea that we should be somehow prideful or shameful of what is between our legs is misguided.

 

But if I can refactor the question, perhaps it will help: am I totally happy, satisfied, with my penis? Would I 'trade it up' if I could?

 

The human mind is a tricksy beast, and sometimes it can feel as though it is your own worst enemy - so can we ever truly know the answer to such questions?

 

I have always, in myself, really loved my little dick. Small but perfectly formed. Other people drove me to feel shame in it, but even then, at home in bed at nights it gave me SUCH pleasure!

 

And now that I've come to realise it CAN pleasure others too (my wife!) what others think has become utterly irrelevant.

 

In fact, there's a perverse joy in thinking I can do with 4 inch what you need 6, or 7 or even 8 inches to achieve. How potent must this little thing of mine be? Bloody good job it's only 4 inches!

 

Do I want a bigger dick? No. I want to live in a world where that question is irrelevant. I loved my little willy when I was a horny 13yo, and I love it now. The intervening years were all about hating myself in the context of a screwed up society.

 

But do I REALLY love it? I keep using terms like "little willy". Doesn't that show self deprecation and a true shame even if my mind is fooling me into believing I am happy?

 

No! This is just acceptance. There is no doubt that a 4"x4" willy IS small. I will not pretend otherwise. I revel in it. I have a small cock AND it brings me, and my wife, real pleasure. Packing so much joy into such a small cock is, to my mind, something rather special. Any fool can love a big dick - it takes real connection to love a little willy!

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Thanks to the many kind men and women on this site.

I am getting there !

Back to where I was when I was a sexually confident young teen and into my 20s.

I knew back then that erect wise that I had a good cock that was on the good side of average with a good girth.

Then I went off the rails, but I am finally bouncing back again.

 

 

 

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Proud of their small penis...hmmmm

 

Pride?????

pride refers to a humble and content sense of attachment toward one's own or another's choices and actions, or toward a whole group of people, and is a product of praise, independent self-reflection, and a fulfilled feeling of belonging. (wiki)

 

Choices, actions, belonging:

 

ie Gay pride. its not proud it's about not being ashamed of who you are and belonging to the human race.

 

I see it the same way with a penis....it is what it is and I am not ashamed of it and I belong.

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I would not say proud, but over the past few years, I am less shy about it.  After my divorce, I went to nudist places some to just be open about myself.  I was tired of being ashamed.  That helped a lot, but was very intimidating.  And recently I have been seeing a woman that says I am the perfect size for her and she can orgasm from me penetrating her (a first for me).  She is Asian and though it is probably a stereotype, has a very small, tight pussy.  She is always telling me that she loves that I am small and that most men are too big for her.  It has really made me feel much better about myself to finally be with a woman that "fits" me.  

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@impotentat34 Great to hear your news! Don’t let her get away.

Back in the 70’s I knew a guy who was very well hung. I know, I saw him in a sauna with other guys around and he got an erection to show off. Porn-star size, well over 8”, maybe even 9”, and thick. He was very proud of it and he delighted many MILFs (we were young enough to use the term, although back then the term did not exist).

He got engaged to a Taiwanese woman, she wasn’t small or petite by any means, but on their wedding night when he unleashed the cobra, she screamed in terror. They were never able to consummate the marriage and were soon given an annulment. He went back to servicing MILFs after that.

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I have to say that while I am not ‘proud’ of the fact that my penis and testicles are as small as they are I have accepted the reality of it. I am not ashamed of it because this is something that I am in no way personally responsible for. It certainly was not a matter of choice on my part. I am however very embarrassed to expose myself for others to see in public, locker room type situations and even in private doctor’s office type situations. I realize it’s irrational of me to feel like I do but I just cannot seem to overcome it. Believe me, I wish I had enough confidence and self assuredness to feel differently. 

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2 hours ago, Allen43 said:

 I realize it’s irrational of me to feel like I do but I just cannot seem to overcome it. Believe me, I wish I had enough confidence and self assuredness to feel differently. 

Since most people assign a lower status to me when made aware of my genital size I don't see myself as irrational in feeling embarrassment, especially when my size is exposed to people I interact with in life at work, at play or in family, especially in-laws.

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Definitely happy and proud of my little cock. When I was in my 20's and 30's, I wished it was bigger. Seeing porn, and watching the eyes of girls roll back in their head, and do/say things when they were getting fucked by huge ones; I definitely wanted that kind of power.

But, now, I love having a small one; I actually get off on it. I'm totally into SPH, and showing it off whenever I can. I'm pretty fit, so that helps the confidence.

My wife and I are also a hotwife couple, which is the sexiest thing in the world to me. If I didn't have a tiny one, she may never have explored the lifestyle. Plus, who am I to deny her that 'full' feeling. Actually, I think it's selfish for anyone with a small cock, to NOT let their wife fuck other guys, granted they want to of course...a lot of women simply aren't into it. 

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