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Some time ago, I posted some videos online with a "friend". As it turns out, a female coworker saw one of them. As a result, there is a group of people I've worked with (and a few I haven't) in my district who know. Sometimes it's a bit awkward and embarrassing. Sometimes I'm just the butt of a few jokes (these coworkers aren't malicious about it though, and we all tease each other... Still, it's a bit strange at times).

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Looking at the original question it's actually asking about your friends seeing your ERECTION.

 

Even as a nudist my manners make me avoid that. But yes, a few non-sexually encountered friends have seen my boner. Try being a kid on crutches at school, fresh out of a full leg cast needing help at the school urinal because the floor was slick and I had to hold my piss woody. I nighted over at a friend's home in stage one of a big convention trip and was half asleep face up, hard as a flagpole when he came in to wake me up. And another friend's mother did the same thing, though I kinda slept through it. That all beyond the friends I've watched porn with.

 

On the reverse side of that I could note about eight unintended and non-sexual friend's boners I've clearly seen. I have good peripheral focus and a tendency to watch reflections on impulse. I find myself looking at an entire restroom reflected in tile without thinking about badly spaced dividers showing me that my neighbor is having trouble keeping his piss woody aimed. Then, thanks to Aspberger's I'd realize what I saw just before going to wash my hands. Most people don't catch that. I know that one friend I've seen that way would be greatly hurt thinking I'd seen him erect. And yes he has a small cock that kept pointing up at his belt.

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Personally, I'd feel more at ease with strangers seeing my size than friends. It would be a challenge, even though I love being small. I guess maybe it's the unknown reaction from a friend. I think being shaved and small would add to the butterflies in the stomach. If I wasn't smooth downstairs, it might not be a big thing. But, both smooth and tiny? I wonder what they would think of me? For a stranger, no biggie because they would see me for the first time and accept the look as part of me.

 

I don't know if this makes any sense.

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I'm assuming that since you are bi that this 'friend' was a male, and your co-workers found out you were bi.

 

I'm sure you had some conflicted emotions. On one hand, you probably didn't appreciate their finding out you were bi; but on the other hand you had to have some pride in showing off your very sizable member.

 

Ummm, asking in advance before Rick does, is that video of you and your friend still online ? lol

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When I was about 14 my stepdad put a pool and shower room in our backyard. I loved the pool, but changing and showering with my school buds came with conflicted feelings as my interest in the same sex intensified.

 

Also that was before I was circumcised, and all my friends were cut which made me feel weird.

 

Was also amazed to discover that my friend, Terry, had a cock almost as big as my stepdad's. They were showering together, and I had to step back out because there wasn't enough room to change my mind. lol

 

 

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but on the other hand you had to have some pride in showing off your very sizable member

 

I always thought pride comes from accomplishments, not genetics.

 

In a room full of brown eyed people are we proud to show off our blue eyes.

 

proud to show off a sizable member and thusly ashamed because its small. This whole site is about getting away from that mentality.

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I'm assuming that since you are bi that this 'friend' was a male, and your co-workers found out you were bi..

 

Not at all! I've been open since my hire date, although, people don't hear "bi", they hear "gay". Every time my head turns for a pretty gal they ask if im going to "change" on them.

Yes, my video buddy is a guy. Yes, my vids are still on xtube under my "other" pseudonym (same as my email) ;)

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  • 4 months later...

My friends are probably sick of seeing me naked. Im renowned for it whenever I've had a drink or two.

Im quite good at convincing them to join in to be fair. I'm by far the smallest especially if I've had a line of coke.

There was one occasion when I was filmed masturbating at a party in front of people. It did get shared round a bit at work but its only light hearted jokes usually.

I've seen them all naked too and some of them hard.

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my friend saw it one time. I was changing and my friend was crashing at my house because we had a few drinks. anyway I was changing and he busted in the room and saw me completely naked. all we did was stood there in shock. the next day he told me man you have a small cock. I said nothing :/

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I had a few experiences where male and female friends saw my penis.

 

One time, I was at the beach with my friend and his girlfriend. She took off her top in the water and I said something about taking off my shorts. She acted like she didn't care, but she kept looking and even said something about how she could see me.

 

Another time, this girl asked to see it and she was with her boyfriend. We were sitting in the front seat of his car with her in the middle. She unzipped us both and held one in each hand and made all kinds of comparisons. Her boyfriend was about 10 years older than me (and at least a few years older than her).

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I have seen the size of every one of my friends...at one time or another, whether its in a bathroom stall or partying that got a little wild, we have seen each other's junk. Quite a few of us have hooked up with girls in the same room. So I've seen many of them erect as well.

 

Its always a topic that frequently gets talked about. The big guys usually get the most teasing.

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For bizarre reasons, me and a friend ended up looking at each other's penises at the urinals this weekend. This is the first time I've ever had a friend specifically look at my penis (though lots have seen it in passing). His was much bigger than mine - he was holding it about an inch from his body , and the bit that was left was about the same as my whole penis. His thickness was closer to my hard size than my soft size - probably almost as thick as my hard size. I asked him about mine and he said if I wanted to know honestly, he was surprised at how small it was because given that I am so comfortable being naked, he expected me to be at least average.

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He started it... it's a long story not worth posting here. He was completely cool about it, and completely down to earth when he said what he said, and meant it quite genuinely and not in a hurtful way (to a lot of people, bigger penis = assumed to be more confident, I guess). It won't affect our friendship one bit, other than we now know how big each others willys are (and even then, only soft).

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I struggle with confidence when looking for a sexual partner but amongst friends I'm always getting naked after a few drinks.

Everyone at work has seen me naked now and i get teased for having such a small dick. Nothing nasty but it's a constant thing. I often get introduced as tiny dick.

I've seen everyone else too and I'm the smallest by far.

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wow, it's cool to see that you're so okay with showing it off and having them tease you about it. what kind of things do they say? i'm not sure i could handle that, especially being introduced to a stranger as tiny dick. must be an awkward handshake and interesting conversation that follows that introduction, lol.

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it just banter really all very light hearted and funny.

New people assume its just a laugh really.

Its funny I'm the only gay one but quite often when we've been out drinking a few people will end up naked and being silly.

 

here are some of my experiences http://www.experienceproject.com/about/scotiboi

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