Smallest and Largest

[Guest]

 

You keep referring to these height and size issues. I haven't intently studied naked people, but I'm still aware that short people can be and often are large. I've seen naked people of various cultures and heights, or in states of undress where the penis size is apparent, and there isn't much correlation between height and penis size. What's more is it isn't actually supported by objective surveys, as opposed to one person's perception which may or may not be reliable.

 

Regardless of accepted studies, by my observation there is a definite correlation between dick size in white gay (and/or bisexual) men 18 - mid 30s in NZ. Not so much for the Asian population here, but there narrower range of heights to select from so the correlation is more unclear anyway. Yes, my means of attracting partners may skew the results somewhat, but as I've said previously I don't discrimintate on cock size (although I do have a preference) and, while there may be more success for guys with larger penises that doesn't mean that they're more prevalent, just more successful. Yes, I might be attracting the more successful so I agree, my results could be skewed from that aspect but I have a hard time dealing with that idea due to the strength of the correlation that I observe and the sheer number of observations that have been made... which must have at least pushed the sample mean toward a better representation of the population.

 

The man with the largest recorded penis, Jonah Falcon, he makes it a point to be recognised for that, is average height. I think he's about 5'8 and his penis is 13.5 inches.

 

Even if there is a strong correlation, if a 6 foot man is 6 inches, then a 7 foot man is 7 inches. How many people are 7 feet tall? But I suppose you would say the relationship isn't linear, and a 7 foot man would be like, 20 inches.

 

 

Lets just say that what I see is not directly poportional... not entirely linear, but there is a trend toward larger cocks on larger guys. Of course there are exceptions! There always are. I'm a glaring example! I've NEVER once seen a guy as tall as myself with a smaller penis. I've also seen 7 inch cocks on guys who are a foot shorter.

 

Also, I think you mentioned that you escorted for a while, and noted that older men were smaller. It is true that men can and often do decrease in size with age. However, it may be that the sizes you observed weren't so skewed due to that, but because you were observing sizes closer to a real average.

 

All the more reason for my assertion to be true. As an escort I didn't get to choose my clients. While many of them were older, some of them were also young. I remember a 26 year old asian man who was about my height and at least 2 inches larger than myself. Most of the older clients though were closer to my size but from what I saw of them too there was a discernible correlation. The smallest dick I'd ever seen was about 1.5 inches hard on a Argentinian visitor that was quite short. The largest cock I saw (during that time) was on a mid 40's guy who was about my height, somewhere around 10 inches.

 

Will respond to your other post later. Have to go to the gym then work.

Edited July 14, 2014 by Guest

[RodEnuf]

Are you aware that most of the gay porn actors used by the long time production companies are small in stature? Their above average dicks look even larger on their small framed body. Very few are six feet tall and a lot of them are five foot eight to five foot ten.

 

 

Alan G

[Guest]

Yes, I had a suspicion that was the case.

 

So, you're saying that their disproportionately large penises (with respect to their frames) make them appear more desirable than they would than if they had average or smaller penises?

 

I couldn't agree more.

 

The fact that they're short doesn't bother me, the fact that they have larger cocks is what appeals. So what if they're outliers on the trend that I am pretty confident truly exists? It just makes them all the more desirable. (Sometimes tall and lanky is awkward and clunky, a nice compact body with a big cock is ideal)

 

Incidentally, I saw a short guy at the gym this morning with a huge swinging dangler and that was WITH post exercise shrinkage. I see that there are many cases which don't conform to my rule of thumb but I've seen so many more cases that do.

[Guest]

 

I'm not convinced that what you've described is the only aspect of perception, or that it governs the way everyone perceives things in a sexual context. I do think most women and men react that way, but I also think this indicates that they're superficial.

 

I don't see it as superficial. I believe its accepting your sexual limitations and gifts and the desires that you have for certain features. Its as natural as the desire for sex itself. You know what you want. Whats wrong with satisfying those desires? Why should you have to settle for less because its (perceived as) the morally acceptable thing to do?

 

If you keep refreshing the partners, the person you're with will never age past that magic number.

 

Well, its not really me that instigates the refreshing. I've been perfectly satisfied with many of my sexual partners, but I can't say the same for them. It's clear then that "its not them, its me". I have limited sexual aptitude and my cock is insufficient to be an effective top. (Even you admit in your post that a large size is required for practical purposes). I'm not a bottom so that limits my sexual partners to those who prefer oral and wanking and terrible anal sex. Thats often why I end up looking for someone else. IF, I found a sexual partner that stuck around AND I actually liked them... AND (this is the biggie, they fell in love with me) then, and only then there would be a chance that they might be my soul mate.

 

I don't understand why people feel the need to suppress their sexual desires and seek friendship first, only to risk being disappointed sexually when the time comes for that and then end up in a state of cognitive dissonance, trying desperately to construct a decent reason for remaining with that person even though they're not entirely fulfilled. It sounds like a recipe for disaster.

 

Also, later in this thread you say you'd only have a long term relationship with someone who was better than 6.5 inches. I gather this is mainly for aesthetic reasons. You say you don't like penetration so it's not as though size is needed for practical reasons, like direct stimulation. I've read other people on this forum say that: they don't like being rejected due to size, but are size queens themselves. It seems kind of odd.

 

No, its not only for aesthetic reasons, but I'm sure you agree that most sex is primarily mental and emotional. Just seeing a big cock certainly has a strong influence on my sexual appetite. But, FEELING a large cock, in my hand, mouth, against my skin certainly amplifies that feeling. Why do you think penetration is necessary to appreciate a large cock?

 

Of course I don't like being rejected because of my size. Its humiliating. But I understand it when other people do exactly that because I know what its like to prefer larger. I empathise with them even though I feel pretty shitty that I have to suffer that rejection because I was brought into this world with all sorts of wrongness between my legs. You seem to be suggesting that if you've got a small cock you can't prefer larger ones. That seems quite odd to me. If anything, you should appreciate them more, because you can experience what its like to have a big cock by proxy... as Rick once explained.

 

 

[yeah_sure]

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No, its not only for aesthetic reasons, but I'm sure you agree that most sex is primarily mental and emotional. Just seeing a big cock certainly has a strong influence on my sexual appetite. But, FEELING a large cock, in my hand, mouth, against my skin certainly amplifies that feeling. Why do you think penetration is necessary to appreciate a large cock?

You seem to be suggesting that if you've got a small cock you can't prefer larger ones. That seems quite odd to me. If anything, you should appreciate them more, because you can experience what its like to have a big cock by proxy... as Rick once explained.

 

unfortunately here it seems as if liking a large penis is a fetish

I think sometimes people forget that the penis(& testicles) )/vagina is a sex organ and there for can't be a fetish.

 

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I was kinda disappointed tonight I was expecting a guy with a 6.5 incher but it was only about 5"x 5".

and my dick got rubbed raw I think that was my last time I'm hooking up with a guy..

Don't give up now. There are better experiences to be had yet!

The last guy I was with... actually today didn't say anything about his cock size. I was pleasantly surprised. He was around 7.5 inches. Very muscular personal trainer. Unfortunately he just wanted it to be all over within a few minutes of starting. Not sure if it was me or if that's the way he does things. He seemed to enjoy me sticking his cock down my throat though.

The guy before that' date=' on Friday, said he was 8 inches plus, but he was nothing of the sort. Nevertheless, he was well above average, which didn't surprise me considering he was so tall and robust. Guys will exaggerate to get what they want. If you're unsure, just subtract an inch and a half from what they tell you. If they're actually telling the truth it will only be a bonus!

Last night I did give it another go because he was able to satisfy my need for physical human contact. my self confidence and self esteem has improved I could all ready feel the difference next after that first meeting. It would have been better if he did not want to suck my dick. I'd rather just be felt up rather then getting my dick sucked. I was fairly close to a full body orgasm till he did that.
 

Edited June 17, 2021 by RodEnuf
Fixed boundry of final quote.

[TherealB999]

biggest soft ive ever seen is mine i am 5.5".  but the biggest erect i have ever seen was 7,5", dick of my friend of 16.

smallest soft is 3" and the smallest erect is 4.5"

[Smallerthan]

In absolute terms, the biggest I've ever seen belonged to a guy I saw at a spa/sauna. He was early twenties, notably tall and lanky, and his penis was just uselessly humongous, elephantine. It was such that I don't think anyone's envy or penis size insecurity was triggered by seeing it (mine sure wasn't) because it was so obviously more of a handicap than anything else. He was there with his much shorter girlfriend, who I don't think was envied by any of the women who saw this, either.

The biggest within the more human range belonged to an ex girlfriend's brother, with whom I had to share a tent on a camping trip once (long story.) We were both very intent on not letting the other see our respective junks, but one day I was awake before him. He was lying on his back and his erection was poking out under the waistband of his boxers. Just the part that was visible to me was in itself longer than my whole dick. It reached a good inch beyond his navel, and I remember thinking that he would probably be able to touch his dick to his nipples if he sat up. As you can imagine, I heavily reinforced the measures I took to never be seen naked by him after this. 

Smallest was a schoolmate I shared a bunkbed on a class trip with. I only saw him soft, of course, but in that state he just wasn't there; it looked like he only had testicles and no penis at all. No comment or acknowledgement by me was made, of course. 

 

[SloStroker]

Smallest I've seen was a guy with a micro. I'd say 2" to 2.5" full hard. About the size of my pinky.

Biggest was a tie....Played with a guy 9" but also played with a guy only 6" but it was as big around as a soda can. It was enormous!

[curiositycat888]

smallest 1.5 inches long, super thin. this was hard! i touched it. Thai nationality, ladyboy.

   biggest. well with length and girth, during a 3way with Dominican friend in New York. I'd say 9.5 long, fairly thick, strong.

another time mutual jo with black guy in NYC after he fed me some party favors and brought me to a sex shop with adjacent film viewing booths. His cock width I swear was like 2 of my cocks.

made me think if those around if im doing anything to the vagina...

 

[Guest]

Smallest I saw in the guys locker room in high school was around 1.5 inches flaccid, and largest was around 5.0 inches flaccid. One guy I saw in high school, that was a long time ago, it feels like, he got boners fairly regular and he was not gay but was very felt embarrassed. It’s natural and no guy should be ashamed of getting a boner in front of other guys.  He was a average, maybe 4.75 inches fully erect, but very close to average. This was in the shower after practice of course. 

[new2day]

I've seen many over the years, used to be a regular at gym, swimming, teams sports when gang shower were the norm. So friends, work colleagues and strangers. Being a naturist I've also seen many at clubs and swims.

Smallest, probably 1.5" to 2", some shaved, some hairy so a little tricky to estimate. The vast majority have been in the 1.5 to 3" size flaccid.

Biggest is about 5-6 inches, although I couldn't be sure. Very much a tiny number, and it's something you often remember while forgetting the masses being average.

[tomishere]

The largest was a black guy, had to be 12 inches, the smallest was an Asian guy about 2 inches. The black guy I met in the gym, very nice classy guy and he wanted to fuck me. I was afraid of his size, so I just sucked his cock, the Asian guy tried to fuck me, but was just to small, even sucking his cock was difficult< I need to feel filled when having sex.   

[BamaSmallOne]

smallest was a college student virgin 2 1/2 inches hard, largest was a 10" black also erect.  He was like 7" soft.  Funny thing the college boy apparently somehow had never seen another dick before, sheltered life, I was wearing briefs when with him.  He asked me "Do I have a big dick?"  I replied  "You have a nice dick".

[ShavedTinyGuy]

A long time ago whilst at school, had a few glimpses at school mates when showering after gym. All were about 2" flaccid but there were some that were longer and  and thicker. Thinking back I think those 'bigger' ones may even have been a semi.

Biggest one I have seen was on a nude beach - 7"+. Ended up jerking off next to him so he watched me cum. Sadly never saw him but he was strokin.

 

 

[ShavedTinyGuy]

After a nite out with the usual drinking to excess returned to base with sleep the only thing on the mind. Mate stayed over due to drinks.

Woke up before him the next morning and  saw that not only was he still sleeping the previous nite off, but that he was naked on top of the bed with his 'sleeping' dick on show.  A truly magnificent sight and one that I can only assume was breath taking when erect. Never saw that though.

[IndyBanker1946]

Kind of an interesting topic. It reminds me of a conversation Mary and I had a few weeks ago.  Since she has seen a very limited number of dicks she actually asked me about the ones I have seen.  Well, growing up in the open shower era I've seen hundreds if not thousands of dicks.  Probably 90% were 3" or less and I have little memory of small ones.  For some strange reason I can easily recall the soft dicks bigger than mine(4 1/2-5" ).  Three were good friends of mine who she has met.

First, there was a college buddy who I still see often. His soft dick is not much thicker than mine but at least an inch longer.I

Second, a co-worker and golfing buddy.  His soft dick was about as thick as mine and I bet nearly 7" .

Lastly, another co-worker.   Biggest soft dick I've ever seen.  Fucking massive. Well over7" with greater girth than me hard (5 3/4" ).  

I know this post will offend some but the small dicks just didn't register.  Probably be sure there were so many.  I guess the "showers" made an impression not the "growers".

[Guest]

The biggest dick I saw was in college locker room, this guy was hung, close to 7 inches flaccid. I am pretty sure of his size since I showered a few stalls over from him. 

[Guest]

It's hard for me to believe small dicks are so common, I've never run into a guy close to my size. I think the smallest I've been with/seen is around 4" hard. I'd love to be with a smaller dude. The biggest I've seen was a bit over 6" hard, he loved our size difference (so did I) and he kept comparing and making comments while we were together.

Edited September 29, 2021 by Guest

[JTT]

I was in Vegas last week, and visited the spa at Caesar's palace. It has roman baths and guys go nude.    When I was there.... there were 4 young guys, frat boy types wearing swimsuits.    There was a large guy lounging on the chair (maybe 6" soft).     There was myself lounging that is small, an older guy who was my size or smaller, and another guy who was very hairy and smaller than both of us.    Then there was one other young guy, very skinny who had maybe a 6-7" softee.    It was interesting, that of the people nude, I saw more guys my size or smaller, than big ones.  

[SloStroker]

10 hours ago, JTT said:

 It was interesting, that of the people nude, I saw more guys my size or smaller, than big ones.  

But were they erect? You really can't tell a guys size by his flaccid dick. 

I mean, if a guy is 6" limp, he's not gonna be smaller when hard, but I've see some men who were completely retracted when limp, but they had decent cocks when hard. Mine more than doubles in size when it gets hard.

[JTT]

11 hours ago, SloStroker said:

But were they erect? You really can't tell a guys size by his flaccid dick. 

Very true.  One was - and perhaps barely 5".  He was strutting around showing off his hard on.   But I saw him both flaccid and erect.  

[SloStroker]

I've gone to nudist establishments and seen lots of variations of limp cock. Some men even have "innies"....particularly if they are obese. But there are some big showers too. I am about 2" limp but grow to 4.75" hard. So I'm not big either way.

[canuck45]

smallest erect 3.5"
largest, 8" and he was a bottom....

[Guest]

Largest guy I’ve seen erect was 7.5”

[harmsarms]

L.A. County jail back in the 80s I had a 30 day sentence after being caught trying to evade a ticket on my motorcycle. Got on a paint crew as a trustee and got to roam the facility often. I was not totally familiar with the layout but somehow entered a large shower. There  had to of been 10 separate showers each circular with 6 on each 60 + showering it was all African American showering. There was a gentleman that had one shower pod all to himself front center and theres no way to know what he measured but it hung down to his knees and was very thick. Appeared semi erect And easily was     12”x 4”+  conservatively with the 4” as a width estimate. 
    I never seen a smaller size than my own not even close 

When unaroused 1“or less and 7/8” wide 

       erect 
4.5” length     4.25” girth    
 

 

Edited October 11, 2021 by harmsarms
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