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Do you have any friends that you know share the condition? Have you ever discussed your similarity/shared common experience?

 

I had a friend in college who was almost half my size but shared an almost identical penis. We would occasionally shower at the same time in the dorms and we would step out from the curtains to socialize by the benches. It definitely gave me a strength in numbers confidence. However, even though we both had matching acorns, we never acknowledged it. I always sort of wanted to high five him and share some spoken small penis pride, but funny enough I didn't have the courage to. Maybe it would've made it awkward, but sharing a common experience, as we do here, is so therapeutic. Does the same therapeutic quality exist face to face, or is it best kept to pseudonymous groups like this one?

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I can't think of anyone that I've talked to in a long time in person who I've shared penis size information with. Back when I was in the military, it might happen from time to time, but usually with guys who were bigger, so they'd bring up the subject.

 

I had one time in a shower this guy says, "Do you get any pussy with that little thing?" Of course, he was much bigger than me. I said, "I get enough," and he says something about how he doesn't ever think he could get "enough" pussy and the conversation went from there.

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Measurection and a few similar sites have made possible such discussion.

 

Without the anonymity of the internet it would be highly risky to bring up the subject as you would have no way of know how the other "small dick guy" had adjusted (or not) to his situation, making discussion very awkward and possibly embarassing, insulting, depressing, etc. Bringing it up to a guy in denial, for instance, could be devastating or even violence provoking.

 

No, I've never discussed the issue with guys I knew fairly well and were small and/or slow to mature. And, of course, there were only a couple candidates anyway. Generally, I was the one way smaller than everyone else.

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I had one time in a shower this guy says, "Do you get any pussy with that little thing?" Of course, he was much bigger than me. I said, "I get enough," and he says something about how he doesn't ever think he could get "enough" pussy and the conversation went from there.

 

A very crude and rude guy trying to build his self-esteem on the back of the small.

 

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I had one time in a shower this guy says' date=' "Do you get any pussy with that little thing?" Of course, he was much bigger than me. I said, "I get enough," and he says something about how he doesn't ever think he could get "enough" pussy and the conversation went from there.[/quote']

A very crude and rude guy trying to build his self-esteem on the back of the small.

Yeah, it definitely started out that way and got everyone in the shower to look my way, but that was it after that, at least with him.

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Measurection and a few similar sites have made possible such discussion.

 

Without the anonymity of the internet it would be highly risky to bring up the subject as you would have no way of know how the other "small dick guy" had adjusted (or not) to his situation, making discussion very awkward and possibly embarassing, insulting, depressing, etc. Bringing it up to a guy in denial, for instance, could be devastating or even violence provoking.

 

No, I've never discussed the issue with guys I knew fairly well and were small and/or slow to mature. And, of course, there were only a couple candidates anyway. Generally, I was the one way smaller than everyone else.

 

I get into some of these discussions online, but none like I used to (in person). I've even had a few guys just tell me I was small. One time, it was when I was wearing clothes, so I was thinking, WTF? Where did that come from? And he'd tease me about it all the time.

 

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A close friend and I used to talk about everything growing up, including our sizes. His neighbor showed us how to jerk off so we did that constantly. We both saw the very large penises, or so they appeared, of his older sister's boyfriends and talked about being smaller. Then we measured each other with great precision, using string and down to 1/4 inches. His penis was shorter and he developed later than me...I was always reassuring that he would be fine. He eventually grew to be a little thicker than me. But always felt small. When we were 17 my girlfriend offered to give us both handjobs when swimming at her pool but he declined saying he was embarrassed by his size. Too bad, could have been fun.

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When we were 17 my girlfriend offered to give us both handjobs when swimming at her pool but he declined saying he was embarrassed by his size. Too bad, could have been fun.

Yeah, that's too bad. I don't care enough about my size to turn down a handjob. I might turn down one for different reasons, but not that. I think I've mentioned this before, but I had a female friend who compared me to her boyfriend right in front of him.

 

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I had a good friend who I would go camping & vacation with. It took several years for him to finally be naked in front of me. I'm not sure why... the first time he saw me, we had just gotten out of a pool, and I was quite small, maybe 2". He stared at it, and it really freaked me out. A couple years later, he came out of the shower in our hotel room, wrapped in a towel, and pulled the towel off to dry off right in front of me!

 

I was blown away by the fact he was all of a sudden so brazen, but also glad to see he was in my neighborhood size-wise.

 

So that started a thing where whenever we came out of the shower, we would always put on a show for each other; not obvious, but certainly letting each other see it all.

 

We NEVER talked about our dicks or sex when we were on vacation, but talked about it often the rest of the year.

 

we continued showing & looking at each other every year; finally, it happened to be the last year we vacationed together before i moved away. I came out of the shower in our hotel room in a towel. he dared me to go out on the balcony naked, then proceeded to make chicken noises. i said what the fuck, went out on the balcony, and spread my towel out. Further thinking what the fuck, I let the towel drop to the floor, not caring what state he saw my dick in. It was semi, and getting hard as i stood on the balcony for a minute, then turned to enter the room. I walked around the room for a minute, throbbing in front of him, with him staring intently. He was holding a towel in front of his underwear to hide his bulge for some reason. For some reason, which I regret to this day, i started getting dressed; my friend went into the shower.

 

We never really talked about that again, & I always regret not saying 'your turn' or something similar, instead of getting dressed.

 

 

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I had one time in a shower this guy says' date=' "Do you get any pussy with that little thing?" Of course, he was much bigger than me. I said, "I get enough," and he says something about how he doesn't ever think he could get "enough" pussy and the conversation went from there.[/quote']

A very crude and rude guy trying to build his self-esteem on the back of the small.

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I remember once in college some guys were sharing in awe how big one of their friends' dick was, and how he was more than willing to show it off. He came in my room with my roommate and me present, looked at a porn magazine to get hard, and then showed it to us. We asked if we could measure it, and it was about 8". He asked us about ours, and since we had been looking at porn, too, we were both hard. So we dropped trou (as they say) and showed him. My roommate was bigger than me (about 6" I remember -- and I had never seen him hard before, nor had he seen me hard before either). Nobody made any negative comments about the other guys' dicks. It was a nice "male bonding" experience!

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I have had some friends who were small, but I never felt it proper to talk to them about it as it could have appeared that I was trying to embarrass them in view of my more average size. I personally think that having a small penis would be difficult to deal with and would not want to make it worse. I have had guys make fun of mine before so know how it feels. Mine tends to be small when soft especially if nervous like being in shower with a bunch of larger guys. It seems that when I am in group showers I am always the smallest one. So small guys have a difficult time.

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My best friend confided in me that he was smaller than average. He is 4.5" - 4.75" on a good day. We had known each other for years and he sensed as I did a chemistry between us, so I guess he wanted it out in the open before anything happened. I was really happy and honoured that he considered me a person he could confide in.

 

As it turned out, due to his slim frame it doesn't look small on him.

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Yes, a few years ago a "safe" friend. You know, the type that you truly like but know via work and likely transitional; not in immediate circle.

 

He was further along in "getting over it" and was very enlightening. It was a point blank, factual, conversation. We could have been talking about struggling with finances. "Here is what I did: got tired of living paycheck to paycheck so took a weekend job delivering pizzas. You heard me right, delivering pizzas. Put all that money against debt service for a full year. Bingo, broke the cycle. Heck, worked there another year and created a slush fund so I would be okay provided an unexpected layoff type of thing for the future (that got me behind in the first place)." Of course, we chatted about the reality of being in relationships with our penis size being something "getting in our way" though.

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Yes, two men. One was in our group sex cluster of three couples and two single men.

 

The other was a camp friend on a slow weekend. All of 12 people had shown up to do fall work on the site, and we he had been stroking off in the sauna when I caught him "too far" from his towel. (you "hop" into an outdoor sauna to keep the heat in.) I noticed that what I normally saw in size was pointing up as he tried to be casual. My answer to his blush and apology was "Relax, I've seen it, I'm over it." I pointed to the white trail about to drip and told him to not torture himself and finish if he was "that close". He chose to dump a ladle of cold water in his lap, but it made him cum anyway. He gave up and laughed, then we talked about his being a 4 inch "non-grower". You can't tell.

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When I was at University I slept with a few other guys (before concluding that whilst I am attracted to both sexes I'd rather be in a relationship with a woman). The first guy I was with was definitely more friend than boyfriend - we didn't really do anything romantic together - and was also experimenting. Because of that, we talked to each other in a way I never did with the other men I was with. He was almost exactly the same size as me and it was wonderful to feel free to share our stories and anxieties about being small.

 

We have remained close friends and slept together again a few years back just before I met my wife. We both agreed that thanks to our younger conversations with each other that we were both a lot more confident about ourselves.

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  • 3 weeks later...

I remember us once having a Measurection Gathering and a bunch of us went into the mens room at Disney World... and we occupied all the urinals.

 

Sean joked how humorous that he knew everyone's size and what they looked like and funny that was.

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Sean joked how humorous that he knew everyone's size and what they looked like, and funny that was.

 

Hey Josh!

 

I remember doing the same thing at a rest stop on the Interstate in North Carolina. :content:

 

Oh wait!! :bugeyes: :jester:

 

Rick

 

 

 

 

 

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I went to a skinny dip private pool party with a mixed group (m/f) friends. It was chilly in the night air, I was in total shrinkage as was a good friend. We both commented about each others smallness and had a nervous laugh.

That's when most of the other people there looked at us and sort-of smiled.

I wanted to hide but acted brave.

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My best friend confided in me that he was smaller than average. He is 4.5" - 4.75" on a good day. We had known each other for years and he sensed as I did a chemistry between us, so I guess he wanted it out in the open before anything happened. I was really happy and honoured that he considered me a person he could confide in.

 

As it turned out, due to his slim frame it doesn't look small on him.

 

 

Hi Red -- even more motivation for me to continue losing weight!!

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Went to a nude beach with a good friend, also gay, and really good looking...I've always had a bit of a crush on him. I had told him that I find it arousing to be naked around other guys, so I usually start lying down on my stomach, until things settle down. When I finally settled down enough, I flipped over. He commented something like "I guess it must be settling down," which promptly made me hard again, knowing that he was looking at and commenting on my dick. He then commented that he was having the opposite problem. He wished that he could get more blood flow to his dick so that it would look a bit bigger, as he felt insecure about being small. I assured him that mine was the same size, and possibly smaller than his.

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Unfortunately I have not. I haven't openly discussed penis size with any of my friends. Although that would be awesome.

 

I do wanna share this experience about this time that I went to the gym. As I'm walking in I see a really chubby guy completely naked walking towards the shower. I guess he must've forgot something from his locker, cuz he came back. As he turned I checked out his cock. Dude had a tiny cock. Acorn type. Uncircumcised. I thought it was AMAZING how a dude with similar cock to mine had so much confidence to walk around the locker room completely nude. It was very refreshing.

 

I kinda wish I would've gotten naked right there with him, but I hadn't started my workout yet. hehe

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