Jim Preston Posted August 16, 2016 Report Share Posted August 16, 2016 I recently went to a nudist beach for the first time. I was Shocked to realize that I had the smallest cock on the beach. Now I always knew I had a little dick, but when I got naked on the beach and my dick head sucked into by balls, I about flipped out. I didn't realize how tiny I was until about half way down the beach I finally looked down at my dick. On my way back I encountered an older couple who were dressed and the woman commented how cold it was. It wasn't until latter that I realized she was making fun of my tiny dick being shrunken from the cold. I also encountered a younger, dressed couple and the girl was facing me and her boyfriend was facing the other way. As I got closer I could see the girl looking at my tiny penis and commenting to her boyfriend and both of them were laughing. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilpeter Posted August 16, 2016 Report Share Posted August 16, 2016 that's exactly what keeps me out of those places even though I would love to go. did some skinny dipping after dark this weekend and loved it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RodEnuf Posted August 16, 2016 Report Share Posted August 16, 2016 Jim, the younger couple may or may not have been laughing at you, but the first woman may well have been trying to set your mind at ease by blaming your situation on shrinkage due to temperature. You aren't going to find anyone here laughing at your size. Alan G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poker831 Posted August 16, 2016 Report Share Posted August 16, 2016 I wish there was a nude beach nearby. Closest one is probably 100 miles away. It's definitely on my bucket list to visit one. But, yeah, it will suck walking around with the smallest dick there and seeing all the massive hangers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim Preston Posted August 19, 2016 Author Report Share Posted August 19, 2016 I really like being the tiny dick on the nudist beach Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
langbein63 Posted August 19, 2016 Report Share Posted August 19, 2016 I have written elsewhere that I am a member of a nudist club. From my observations I find that most are roughly my size or even smaller. VERY few massive ones. Nothing to fear but our own imaginations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j4s3 Posted August 19, 2016 Report Share Posted August 19, 2016 I recently went to a nude beach for the first time. The next day I went for the second time, and third, etc. I caught a few people glimpsing down, and I could maybe have read into their expressions, but I doubt they were thinking anything. And if they were... then they were? I mean, I don't have a problem with being small, and I had to remind myself that I can't control what other people think but A) they're likely not thinking much, and I can choose to focus on what I know to be true. I dunno, there were a ton of people on the beach - no matter who you are, or how you're built, when naked in front of that many people, I'm sure there's something about yourself you could second-guess, and neutral interactions you can mistake as something sinister. Be free, man. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notawhopper Posted August 20, 2016 Report Share Posted August 20, 2016 That was a very rude thing to do by both couples. Are they true nudists or were they just at he beach to look and judge others who were Nude? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim Preston Posted August 23, 2016 Author Report Share Posted August 23, 2016 I was by far the tiniest dick on the beach. Most of the men were like 5 to 6 times bigger than me ! Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallestpenisever Posted October 3, 2016 Report Share Posted October 3, 2016 I have had similar experiences. I once heard a 6 year old ask his mom where my dick was. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hot Showers Posted October 8, 2016 Report Share Posted October 8, 2016 I find that in nude settings with a diverse crowd (i.e. ages and body types), that diversity usually extends to dick size. I make no effort to cover my penis, so I'm sure that people notice that it is smaller than average, but I've never experienced any negative comments. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukgrower Posted October 9, 2016 Report Share Posted October 9, 2016 I'm sorry that Jim had such a negative experience at the beach, but I would recommend that anyone who feels like they've had a difficult visit to a nude beach to stick with it and try not to let fear get in the way. It's not possible to say that you have the smallest dick on the beach unless you take a ruler with you and actually measure everyone. It might be your perception that you have the smallest dick, but that doesn't necessarily make it true. I'm not trying to make light of anyone's sensitivity about their size. I know from experience how socially disabling size issues can be. But it's important to try and keep fear in perspective. It took me a lot of therapy to reach this point myself. As my therapist would tell me, 'Only react to the evidence'. So for anyone wanting to give the beach another go, or step out naked for the first time, try and keep a few rules in mind that will help keep you grounded. This is exactly what I did. Before my first visit to a nude beach, I wrote down three rules that I would repeat like a mantra. 1. Someone might be looking in your direction but that doesn't mean they are looking at you or even seeing you. 2. Unless someone explicitly directs a comment at you treat their conversation as background noise. Suspicions aren't evidence. 3. Some people are just rude idiots. The first nude beach I visited was the beach at Morfa Dyffryn in Wales. This is a stunning location, and I recommend spending time there. A technique I used to help me get up the nerve to strip off involved taking a tent onto the beach. This was the kind of small, self-supporting tent popular with anglers that can be set up anywhere. I used the tent as a sun-break that I lurked in until I was ready to venture out. I would leave the tent for a few minutes at a time, returning whenever I got nervous. I repeated the process until I was spending longer and longer outside the tent. By the end of the three days I was at Morfa, I was able to walk the beach freely with only the odd freak-out that would send me plunging into the sea. It occurs to me that you could also do a variation of the tent technique by walking naked while keeping a towel or a pair of shorts with you and covering yourself whenever you began to feel uncomfortable. As I say, I'm not trying to deny the very real fears I know people have, but I wouldn't be pushing this so hard if I didn't think it could help. If I had to recommend one practical thing guys with size issues could do to help change their mind-set, then a visit to a nude beach would be it. Visiting Morfa really helped me with being able to be nude in front of women. If you've made use of all the resources at Measurection and have now reached a point in your struggle where you would like to take the next step in feeling better about your size, then I urge you to consider a visit to the beach. It really could change everything for you. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted October 9, 2016 Report Share Posted October 9, 2016 Love those points....its not always about me. I have a friend schizophrenic / paranoia and he is learning the same thing. Someone looking your direction and talking may not be talking about you. He will do that with me. He asks "those people over there are probably not talking about me right or laughing at me right". He needs that affirmation. I used to use a big beach towel over the shoulder, draped front and back. Could always 'adjust' it need be. Last time went nude, come out of the water and a friend says "geez I wish I had a body like yours"....obviously not referring to my penis size - cold water----think acorn- - - wrinkled Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gezr69 Posted October 9, 2016 Report Share Posted October 9, 2016 I find that in nude settings with a diverse crowd...I make no effort to cover my penis... but I've never experienced any negative comments. Ditto all the above, when visiting beaches away from home. It's actually enjoyable that people are taking the time to look, no matter what's in there mind. Pleasantly refreshing to the setting where people catch a glance & then look away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ukgrower Posted October 10, 2016 Report Share Posted October 10, 2016 I have a friend schizophrenic / paranoia and he is learning the same thing... I've seen a number of therapists over the years and have found that some CBT techniques can be useful in helping keep negative thoughts from spiralling out of control. I don't think that CBT really stands up to the claims made for it (it certainly doesn't fix anything), but some of its methods are very useful in helping you to make running repairs in stressful situations. I've never had treatment for small penis issues specifically, just for wider body image problems of which feeling that I was under endowed was a part, but I have to say that in terms of feeling better about my dick size it was definitely actually showing it to others that helped normalise my size for me. For anyone wanting to try the exposure by degrees method, it's important to take things slow so that you don't just create new traumas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
new2day Posted November 25, 2016 Report Share Posted November 25, 2016 It does seem a little counter-intuitive, but being nude in the company of others really is a good way to get over any anxiety. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul130 Posted February 15, 2017 Report Share Posted February 15, 2017 When I was at university I went on a camping holiday in France with a friend. We spent some time on the Atlantic coast north of Bayonne. Most people on the local beach were naked, so we stripped off as well. I'm 2" flaccid, and I soon realised there were quite a few men there who were a similar size, or smaller, and there seemed to be more small dicks than big ones. My friend's was about 4", and there didn't seem to be many men there who had significantly bigger ones than his. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 25, 2017 Report Share Posted February 25, 2017 I have been to a nude beach several times with my wife. Three times stand out on feeling small. for the record my limp penis sticks out about 2" when the sun is hitting it and coming out of the water it is basically a pair of balls with a flap of skin. The first time was when a family showed up which does not happen often. they had three boys guessing 2 4 and 6. As they showed up I said to my wife well at least I wont be the smallest now and lay back down only to here wow he is pretty big just as the three boys ran by us playing. the 6 year old had what my wife estimated a 3 plus soft one . second time was when my wife and I enter the water to cool off I was body surfing when surfed to shore I hit someone I stood up only to find a girl about 15 or 16 staring a my invert man hood. A few minutes later her 10 year old brother came down by us and wanted me to show him how to body suffer. It felt a little odd standing next to them all inverted when his was hanging. Third time was when a couple are age sat next to us and her husband was huge like 6 or 7 soft and she kept starring at mine and my wife kept starring at his two extremes next to each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenbare Posted February 27, 2017 Report Share Posted February 27, 2017 My first experience of nude swimming was at the local YMCA at age ten. I knew then that I preferred swimming in my birthday suit rather than a swim suit. At age ten all boys are the same size but as we grew older and encountered puberty, I realized that I was not going to be as big as the other boys. That did not stop me from going to the Y and getting undressed and swimming with all the other boys that were more developed than me. As an adult, I have been a nudist for a long time, visit nudist camps, nude beaches and never once gave it another thought about my size. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted February 27, 2017 Report Share Posted February 27, 2017 Something to be said for the old days, when boys were just boys, nudity was the norm and we were all different, different but not better than or less than. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smallestpenisever Posted April 3, 2017 Report Share Posted April 3, 2017 At a nude beach, my penis disappears. Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riftalope Posted April 20, 2017 Report Share Posted April 20, 2017 It's sad to find people with their lack of manners on full display. Telling them where the mall is would go right over their heads until you tell them THAT"S where they should go to shop for dick. Honestly. There is nudist etiquette, and no nudist should be afraid to teach it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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