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I would guess that most boys jack off and play around with each other at various times. This would just seem natural. I was always too shy and have since wished I had played some as a kid.

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I too had an active youth. Our scout troop had a number of guys that hung (yes pun) around together. We continued to have fun after we grew and left Scouts. The leaders must have known what was going on, but always left us alone. They did insist though that every guy had a jock for summer camp, which is why I have a jock fetish today probably. Looking back, I'm glad I got comfortable with my body and other guys first, before woman. Makes me appreciate both.

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You are not alone! Mine began very young, like 2nd grade (7yo), getting a classmate to pull his pants down in our garage, loved fondling each other, both getting little stiffies!

Carried forward with older cousins who'd play with me, and I'd get to play with theirs, fascinated by their 'bigger ones' and the hair two of 'em had down there.

At age 9 I had my first sight of an adult naked, in his boathouse. That went on for 3 summers of mutual 'play' either in hi boathouse or out in his boat on the lake.

Never regretted any of it, for sure.

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You can add me to the list of guys who jacked with friends when we were growing up. I used to write a lot about those experiences in these forums. We never considered them to be gay experiences though. I believe they had a positive effect on all of us. Of course, with my tiny dick, I was full of penis envy and still am today.

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My brother is two years older than l. Two brothers down the street were the same age. When I was about 13, the four of us would get together occasionally to jerk off together in our basement. The younger guys would give the older brothers with the bigger dicks blow jobs for cigarettes.

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My parents kept me on a short leash. I never had the opportunity even though I thought about such things as an adolescent. I was in my 30s before I had an opportunity for some friendly wanking with a friend.

 

I haven't done much since then-just a very rare todger tug with a friend or two over the years. The last time was 3.5 years ago. Alas!

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One of the pleasures of adolescence! I did quite a lot of 'experimenting' in my teens, with friends and my brother, starting when I was 11. I soon realised that most boys, including my brother had bigger dicks than me, but I don't remember ever being embarrassed or ashamed. I suppose I was disappointed that I didn't have a big one, but it was exciting to play with other boys dicks and for them to play with mine. I certainly think these early experiences helped me to be comfortable with my dick size, and to realise that I could get a lot of pleasure from it, even if it was a bit on the small side.

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Paul, according to your profile, you have a good sized dick -- bigger than mine and lots of us here. I hope you still enjoy it every way you can. Do you ever play around with guys or did that stop when you got married?

 

I only touched a couple dicks in my life and that was over 60 years ago.

 

 

 

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Thanks for your comments. My wife would agree with you that I've got a nice sized dick - she doesn't like them too big. Before I got married most of my relationships were same sex, but I haven't touched another dick since then. The last time was a few weeks before I got married, with an old friend who I'd had lots of fun with in the past. He was also getting married in the near future, and we decided to do it one last time.

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I suppose it depends what you consider to be 'on the small side'. My profile states 5in to 5 1/2in erect, but bear in mind that this is bone-pressed. To be more exact I'm 4.25" + .75" of fat pad. I know there are lots of guys out there with a similar size, and many who have much smaller ones, and my own experience tells me I'm below average, rather than small. Anyway, I'd agree that it's a 'good size' - not big, but not too small, and I love it the size it is.

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I just recently ran into a childhood friend that brought up about a time we JO together that I had forgot about. We were around 13 and he had found a Hustler magazine. We went into his closet and pulled our pants down and compared hard-ons, his was bigger he had way more hair. We never touched each other but we couldn't agree on which picture to JO too in the magazine so we took turns I watched him cum then he watched me.

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I just recently ran into a childhood friend that brought up about a time we JO together that I had forgot about. We were around 13 and he had found a Hustler magazine. We went into his closet and pulled our pants down and compared hard-ons, his was bigger he had way more hair. We never touched each other but we couldn't agree on which picture to JO too in the magazine so we took turns I watched him cum then he watched me.

 

So, did you jo together again after all those years?

 

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No it was just the one time, we lived a couple of hours away from each other so we did not see each other often. I am not sure why we never did it again or even talked about it. About a year after that we were on a camping trip together and my brother and another kid that was camping next to us fooled around in some sand dunes and he didnt want to be part of it.Never gave a reason why.

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Having read similar topics on so many sites over the years since I discovered "this side" of the internet, I've come to believe that I am in the minority. I have VERY little "experimentation" in my past - something I now regret.

 

I've never masturbated in front of anyone (that I know of) in person - and only a few times online. I did masturbate one other boy when I was eleven - but it was only a few strokes AND it was because I was forced to - he was my older brother.

 

There were a couple other instances that involved nudity with another boy (one with a younger cousin and one with my best friend) and in both cases, I started becoming erect when I did NOT expect to at all. To be honest, it was pretty upsetting to me at the time. Now I look back on both instances and smile, although I also regret that nothing more came of either situation. In both I hid my growing erection immediately, paranoid the other guy would see.

 

Perspective changes with time, doesn't it?

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When I was younger I played two times that I can remember with a friend and both times was humiliating after the fact. One first was being played with by a man 15 years older and got caught not in the act but in bed, the second was a classmate who afterward told everyone I was a fag. Afterwards I've been apprehensive about being with anyone. Still to this day. It gets pretty lonely but its difficult to trust people.

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I fooled around with literally dozens of boys growing up, from age seven onward. It shocks me that this never turned sour, as the numbers are staggering.

 

The vast majority of the experiences were just sharing some porn, talking about sex stuff, or playing Truth or Dare and then whipping out our dicks to jerk off at the same time. (Or to try...some of the boys had never masturbated before and though they watched me closely, they clearly didn't have the hang of it yet.) Through middle school, a lot of the time we would 'race' if we were jacking off, ironically seeming to prize cumming first. I was always satisfied if it only went that far, but I was always up for more.

 

As one might expect, a decent number were fine with some touching, fewer with jerking each other off to orgasm, fewer still to blow jobs. I had no interest in anal myself and things never really went that way. One boy, when we were 13, mentioned fingers up butts, but it never got past a mention (as I was not interested.) With some boys, when doing dares or making bets, we'd include some spanking and whipping. I had no adult conception of BDSM, but there was certainly some excitement to the acts. They weren't overtly sexual to us, I don't think.

 

The "dozens" I mentioned gets into that high due to summer camp circle jerk experiences at two separate camps. Though with the many one-on-one or three-person experiences I had were inevitably initiated and driven by me, these seemed to come together mostly on their own.

 

All sex acts had to be reciprocated, more out of a sense of fairness and not being more queer than another kid. The only exceptions were for bets where we agreed to the rules before we knew who the winner was, and for the most part even then I wouldn't go for it: there should be reciprocation.

 

I wouldn't accept a bet I expected to lose for a sex act, but I would for lighter sexual stuff. One of the most common was 'the one with the smaller dick has to' or vice versa, which had the added benefit of us having to compare. I was almost always smaller than the other boys. The fact that I'd usually do the dare (run to the mailbox naked..., jerk off for 10 seconds...) in a less-minimal way than most boys could act as a social lubricant to move things in the direction I wanted to go.

 

Even I was surprised that I grew out of it, but I am nearly completely straight as an adult. As a kid, most of my sexual fantasies were about other boys. When they were about girls, I sometimes worried that I was deluding myself because I didn't want to be a 'queer'.

 

 

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I started puberty very late almost 16 before I had any hair. So even though friends compared often, which always led to jacking together, I was more of an onlooker (A VERY JEALOUS HUMILIATED ONLOOKER). I could get a dry orgasm but by the time I did everyone else had shot and pulled their pants back up. By the time I could actively participate the other boys had outgrown it.

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I started puberty very late almost 16 before I had any hair. So even though friends compared often, which always led to jacking together, I was more of an onlooker (A VERY JEALOUS HUMILIATED ONLOOKER). I could get a dry orgasm but by the time I did everyone else had shot and pulled their pants back up. By the time I could actively participate the other boys had outgrown it.

 

Likewise, except I avoided almost all such stuff to avoid humiliation.

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