Small guy admiring bigger penises...

[krnassing]

I have a small one, 12cm and 10cm girth. Every time I watched porn, I was always pretty fascinated by big ones, since I don't have a big one and big dicks can look and be used in interesting ways that a small one may not be able to. It also seems to elicit (probably fake) reactions from the girls.

Recently, my fascination has turned into sort of a fetish and I have been wanting to get with a guy to suck it... and it's left me wondering about my sexuality.

Does anyone else have this issue?

Edited March 11, 2018 by krnassing

[JTT]

I love all penises, but do find the big ones fascinating.  I particularly enjoy seeing the contrast from bigger to small - and the confidence that small guys have being around bigger guys.   

[Criss]

I think we just wonder sometimes what it's like to have a big one.

[Guest]

Personally the size doesn't make a great deal of difference to me. I enjoy watching lots of different kinds of porn (when I get the chance!). Size aside, there's nothing changed about your sexuality, maybe you're just open to the idea now where before you rejected it as gay. 

In all honesty I don't think there's a guy on the planet that wouldn't do it if they thought there was no chance of anyone finding out. I really do think every guy is curious about it no matter how straight they think they are or want to be. So no, I think you're just fine, just curious about something new. 

BTW, they're paid to fake how AWESOME it is. 

[shooter]

First: Welcome to the Forum! 

Second: A few years ago I was really pissed off by seeing a big penis. I was mad cause Ive blamed myself about that I dont have that type of genitalia. I was really wrong. I (and you too) have a beautiful unique pleasure seeking and giving tool. Im speaking mostly about our brains   Our penises are just fine- like the painter's brush.  Its a beautiful tool which can create amazing things. 

And since Im a bi, I appreciatie to see any kind of penises around me if its available

Ah and I do not like SPH and I still dont understand the mechanism of it. 

Edited March 12, 2018 by shooter

[pokerpro831]

I follow a site on Tumblr that features big cocks

[Guest]

On ‎3‎/‎10‎/‎2018 at 7:47 PM, krnassing said:

 

Recently, my fascination has turned into sort of a fetish and I have been wanting to get with a guy to suck it... and it's left me wondering about my sexuality.

Does anyone else have this issue?

Yes, I'm a little smaller than you 11.4 cm or 4.5 in. and developed the same obsession.  Finally, I experimented and ended up sucking a guy with a much bigger cock on 3 different occasions.  He was also much more dominant and virile than I am.

I was shocked how much I enjoyed it, but decided it was all about admiring, being curious about larger and my inferiority feelings.  Thus, it didn't really change my sexuality.  I didn't really have a sexual response myself during the experiences. 

It seemed to be just about the fascination with a larger cock and the confidence it seemed to engender.  Nothing to compare to the mutuality of sex with women.

Message me if you want more information.

[Dick One]

What's more important to me is the guy can get erect and stay that way --- and cum!  But, I've changed over the years.  I'm no longer a "size queen" for the sake of big cocks.  I've had a lot of big cocks and I tell you it's a lot of work to handle one down your throat.  A big one will cut off your air supply.  I know that sounds funny, but it's true!  I also used to only go to bed with fit, athletic, zero fat young men.  Now I've completely changed.  I like smooth chubs too.

Being that I do have a small penis it's more interesting to me to find someone with an equally sized one so that we both can relax and have fun.  It's not a huge effort to suck a small or average sized cock.  It's so easy and especially I like it when he is uncut.  I can't wait to go to Ireland and find me some guys with the Irish Curse!  I'm part Irish too.  

The most important thing to me is not the dick, but the person it's attached to.  Big, small, in between -- all good.  They say incorrectly that all big dicks are attached to assholes.  That's so unreasonable and indicates jealousy.  Small dicked men can be jerks too.  Look at our POTUS!  What more can I say?

[krnassing]

14 hours ago, overthehill said:

Yes, I'm a little smaller than you 11.4 cm or 4.5 in. and developed the same obsession.  Finally, I experimented and ended up sucking a guy with a much bigger cock on 3 different occasions.  He was also much more dominant and virile than I am.

I was shocked how much I enjoyed it, but decided it was all about admiring, being curious about larger and my inferiority feelings.  Thus, it didn't really change my sexuality.  I didn't really have a sexual response myself during the experiences. 

It seemed to be just about the fascination with a larger cock and the confidence it seemed to engender.  Nothing to compare to the mutuality of sex with women.

Message me if you want more information.

Thanks for sharing.

i kind of want to try sucking and touching bigger cocks too, but pretty scared about doing it.

[Guest]

16 hours ago, Ramone said:

The most important thing to me is not the dick, but the person it's attached to.  Big, small, in between -- all good. 

Yeah, since I didn't have that feeling, I figured out I just had a mental issue regarding big cocks.

[Ant Smith 4inch]

I consider myself pretty straight but there is a fascination in bigger cocks - can't help but wonder what it's like having a penis that has some weight, dangle and swing to it! It's definitely a reasonable reaction, even if it is a bit compulsive. I think it mostly seems weird because we're suposed tobe labelled one thing or another. I'm a straight guy who happens to like seeing big cocks si all!

[Red Scott]

I certainly admire those with a large flaccid size and this fascinates me, I'd love and always wanted that  feeling of weight swinging between my legs. My erect size isn't an issue but that said I'd like to try an 8 incher for the day! But would I give it back? Hmmmmm. 

You see I admire and like to see the big ones up to a point and that point is around 8" My personal opinion is once you go beyond that they start to look kind of "cartoony" in appearance and out of proportion and its rare to see a really beautiful looking very large penis. I'd also not want a very large one due to the issues that would come with sizes of that nature. 

As far as "hanging out" with guys goes, I'm much more comfortable around those whom are +/- 1" of my size, I imagine I'd feel rather inadequate sat naked and about to get it on with a guy sporting an 8"+ erection!

 

[Gezr69]

13 hours ago, Ant Smith said:

can't help but wonder what it's like having a penis that has some weight, dangle and swing to it!

Had just that experience once.

After 1/2 an hour in the hot tub with a BathMate on, I had to run up the yard in the rain to put the car windows up.
It was a totally foreign experience having a heavy & thick 4 inches slapping back & forward against my thighs as I ran.

Have to do it again some time just for the experience.

[terrym]

I ha a small one too just under 4 1/2" rock hard, about 1" soft I love to look a big ones soft or hard but ever since my 1st shared shower in JR High school I feel embarrassed and humiliated being naked in the shower with my tiny one on display next to the big ones

[Guest]

11 minutes ago, terrym said:

I ha a small one too just under 4 1/2" rock hard, about 1" soft I love to look a big ones soft or hard but ever since my 1st shared shower in JR High school I feel embarrassed and humiliated being naked in the shower with my tiny one on display next to the big ones

Were you teased or humiliated in high school because of your size or is it something you noticed and decided to never do again? 

[Biggie Smalls]

Despite my size I'm also fascinated by cocks bigger than mine, both soft and hard. I've seen pics of guys being able to penetrate their own anus, and I wondered how that must feel like. Unfortunately, I'm a little bit to short for that. Also, I would like to know how it feels to have a huge cock down one leg of your trousers, and it being totally obvious to any observer.

[terrym]

On 3/17/2018 at 9:57 AM, Daddio said:

Were you teased or humiliated in high school because of your size or is it something you noticed and decided to never do again? 

Yes I was teased all through Jr High and High school. To make it worse I was a very late bloomer puberty wise I was almost 16 before I started getting hair down there. I was on the swim team and had to get changed / showered with younger boys who had bigger ones and more hair than me

[Guest]

4 hours ago, terrym said:

Yes I was teased all through Jr High and High school. To make it worse I was a very late bloomer puberty wise I was almost 16 before I started getting hair down there. I was on the swim team and had to get changed / showered with younger boys who had bigger ones and more hair than me

Sounds like we are the same person.  "Late bloomer" doesn't really describe me since there was never a detectible blooming, just very slow, glacial changes.  Until I started supplementing testosterone in my 50s, I always looked boyish, even when I started to go bald.

I only had a couple instances of teasing, probably because even though not maturing I was pretty large and muscular and projected an attitude best I could.

[Guest]

@terrym I never had those kinds of experiences with teasing and bullying. I'm not sure why aside from me being "that guy" all through school. Popular and well liked. That might be why. It could also be that I've never stood for any bullshit and always shut it down right quick. 

Sorry you did go through that kind of thing. It can't be easy to work past when it gets well rooted in your psyche. 

[Nakeddipper]

Try a Korean spa for a day. You'll see all different sizes and states of arousal. If you're lucky you'll get to feel some and maybe even suck one or two.

[JTT]

7 hours ago, Nakeddipper said:

Try a Korean spa for a day. You'll see all different sizes and states of arousal. If you're lucky you'll get to feel some and maybe even suck one or two.

Sounds like you've got some stories to tell.... maybe in the Measurection Bathhouse forum?  

[Guest]

While I feel as if I'm a little less than average at 4.5", my adult Son is hung like a horse.  Go figure.  I have to say I am jealous and admire his cock both soft and hard.  And he's had far more wild and exciting experiences because of it than I have with my "tiny little clit dick" as he calls it. lol. 

So yes, I guess I am a

Small guy (Dad) admiring bigger penises

[me_in_undies]

I think it is normal for guys to check each other out, especially during open showers.  We always want to know what another guy is packing.  I always admire a guy who is not afraid to show it off.

[Red Scott]

More often than not I find myself having a discreet look at others, it's my curiosity that drives this habit and it's not something I do deliberately if that makes any sense. Besides Ive seen other guys checking me out countless times so fairs fair! 

[Guest]

I’m fascinated by large cocks and ripped and muscular male physiques.  I admire them and enjoy looking at photos.  I don’t want to be with them, I just wish I was them.  My wife (then GF) found photos of hung studs in my history once and she was very confused.  Haha.   I swear babe, I’m not gay.  Awkward conversation.