Small guy admiring bigger penises...

[Guest]

4 hours ago, RodEnuf said:

I'm on the verge of locking this thread. We will not tolerate this 'Woe is me.  My problem is worse than your problem.' attitude on Measurection. The mission of this site is to offer support to all men who have problems dealing with their actual or perceived small penis size.

If you don't like that mission, go start your own site with your own mission.

Alan G -- Measurection Administrator

 

You are seriously misinterpretting what is happening here, Alan.

Edited November 5, 2018 by Guest

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7 hours ago, canuck45 said:

Small guys admiring bigger penises.

And we argue for 100 posts on what does average mean....statistically and to the layman.
What is large, what is small, who has dysmorphia and judging how others will or will not feel.

Statistics and psychology...a little knowledge is a dangerous thing.

SBOT
I like the looks and feel of a larger penis....solid. Envious?...no. 
That said the few bigger (6.5-7.5) guys I have 'associated' with love my penis.... perfect size in their opinion.  So no reason a smaller guy can't admire a larger and vice versa....each to their own.

Ok, but you could acknowledge that you don't have a small penis as part of your overview!

[Guest]

13 minutes ago, overthehill said:

Adjusting to handicaps of all sorts so that one can be happy with life is a doable challenge.  Dysmorphia is, of course, one of many psychological handicaps that can be acquired and, hopefully, cured.

Maybe I can clarify my point this way:  The focus in dealing with a psychological handicap is cure.  With many physical handicaps the focus must be "accepting and learning to live with. . "

[Guest]

On 11/4/2018 at 8:18 AM, Triasco9.5 said:

But I think there IS a difference between being proud of muscle development and fashion versus genitalia. Muscle development takes time, dedication, and work, and that effort is something to be proud of.  I use fashion in place of figure because, although diet and exercise play a role in deciding it, figure is also something that can influenced but genetics. 

Yeah, but there is a big genetic factor too.  I never worked-out seriously to the extent of being a body builder, so my chest development had little to do with effort and dedication.  Thus, I never looked like a "body builder", but I had a good looking build from genetics and being physically active.  Everything is a matter of degree.

[Guest]

On 10/28/2018 at 2:05 PM, canuck45 said:

@Red Scott Standing next to an 8' guy with the physicque of a young Arnold wouldn't make me feel intimidated unless we were in the same MMA match.  I would probably think "thank god I am "normal"" and then chastize myself for such thoughts.

As for intimidation it takes many forms. 

I once was working with a released convict (murder).  He towered over me and was built like a brick shithouse.  One of his early comments was "People like you scare me."  I asked why.  He said " You're 1/2 my size, short and skinny and you're sitting so I am between you and the exit, that is the wrong way to set up your office.  BUT you aren't the least bit worried.  My thoughts are:  What the fuck do you know, that if I try anything I will be the one hurting.  You lack of concern for your safety tells me you are not in any sort of danger, but I could be".  Interesting how someone can be intimidated, in this case nothing to do with size, but suspected knowledge of some sort.

Interesting!

I wonder if he was mentally challenged or putting you on. . .?  Or thinking about attacking you?  Trying to understand how "puny" guy get by in the world?  Confessing he couldn't stand to be "puny".  People undeterred by the legal system are pretty dangerous.

[canuck45]

@overthehill Or simply he was intimitated by my lack of fear, his expectation of what my reaction should be.  KISS

[Red Scott]

I personally think that labelling a below average, small or whatever penis size as a handicap is a bit extreme. The condition of micro-penis would be justified as this can sometimes affect the ability of the man to naturally impregnate a woman, thus a handicap. A smaller than average penis doesn't give a man any sort of physical handicap just a potential mental barrier. 

It will cause in many cases psychological issues such as anxiety, low self esteem, stress, depression and the like. The route to rectifying all these issues is through psychology itself. As psychological issues are mental health issues, perhaps and it's a remote perhaps, you could describe this as a mentally disabling condition, albeit on a temporary basis and one that's able to be overcome and rectified. 

One couldn't justify labelling it a mental handicap either because under-endowment will affect some men greatly whilst others are barely affected or some not at all. 

That's my thoughts and the opinions of others may vary. 

[Guest]

8 hours ago, Red Scott said:

I personally think that labelling a below average, small or whatever penis size as a handicap is a bit extreme. The condition of micro-penis would be justified as this can sometimes affect the ability of the man to naturally impregnate a woman, thus a handicap. A smaller than average penis doesn't give a man any sort of physical handicap just a potential mental barrier. 

This is a grave error, Red.  

1st, we are talking about satisfying a woman via penetration, not the abilitiy to impregnate.

2nd, handicap is a relative general concept, not just a "legal" issue.  No "justification" is required.

All sorts of physical differences result in relative handicaps.  Think of handicap in golf or horse racing.  As another example:  a six foot guy is handicapped relative to a 7 foot guy in various aspects of the sport of basketball.  Yes, a 6 footer can compensate by being better at ball handling or long shots that don't require height.

Labelling isn't the issue.  The issue is that penis size can make some things more difficult for some people with some partners.  General recognition of this is this is supportive, not an insult.

Yes, of course, a small size can be beneficial interacting with some partners. . .  it is relative and complex.

Edited November 7, 2018 by Guest

[bitty_smalls]

Hi All

Sorry to bump an older thread but this subject really caught my attention. 

New member here and I admire bigger fellas a great deal, which is easy since I'm small and pretty much every guy ranges from bigger to much bigger than me. I'm only 4"or so long erect and a bit bigger than that in circumference. 

I'm a big guy build wise (6'1" 270lbs) and tend to be turned on by similar proportions, typically 250lbs and heavier. I'm always amazed when a heavy guy is packing a big one, it's very hot. I'm also turned on by some bbws as well. 

Discovered in recent years its a huge turn on being the little guy, my way of turning the inadequacy into a turn on I guess. Later I found I get off on sph so long as it's done in a fun way and not overly mean/sadistic. More so recognizing the vast contrast and bringing attention to it but not excessively demeaning. 

It's really hot talking to guys that are bigger and all the places that conversation can go. 

Edited January 28, 2019 by bitty_smalls

[pokerpro831]

Go to Reddit. Find the Massive Cocks sub and thank me later

[RodEnuf]

No, thank you.

[Allen43]

Admire big penises? I’m more apt to admire an individual, not just his penis. I very well might be totally fascinated with his big penis (which I tend to be from time to time) but I save my admiration for more intangible qualities a particular person might possess. You know, like character, honesty, reliability, etc. Those are traits worthy of  admiration I think. The words “fascinated” and “amazed” more describe my reaction to seeing a guy with a really large penis. Just my two cents worth on this topic.

[shooter]

@RodEnuf I tought Measurection doesnt support any form of SPH. Am I remembering right? I really do not understand SPH anyway. This site suppose to be a small penis support site.

Edited January 30, 2019 by shooter

[rockslyde]

I'll throw in my two cents. I realize that there are guys that seem to be fascinated by huge cocks, and if that makes them happy, then all the power to them. It would seem to me that some of these guys really get off on just talking about it and broadcasting their innermost thoughts, gushing about another man's supposed "superiority".  It can get a bit annoying to me.

I guess that's because I tend to hold a somewhat opposing view.  I hold no fascination with big cocks, they seen rather uninteresting to me. I don't have any sexual attraction towards them at all. It doesn't mean they aren't fine people, it's just that I have no interest in them.  (Yawn).  I don't get into the Dom and Sub thing either.  I just think it's really cool for two people to share sexual pleasure, just for the sake of sexual pleasure.  (how weird is that?) Small to average size dicks to arouse my interest, and to me (selfish me) they are superior to the large cocks, They are beautiful to look at, and a much more appropriate size to play with.

Gagging on a huge cock just doesn't sound like fun to me.  And don't even think about getting one of those things near my virgin ass.  If, someday I do give up my virginity, I will only surrender it to a man with a slender cock.

 

[adolfuboat]

@krnassing I think same. I have 13,5 cm. I'll look at the pornography with a tall penis and imagine a woman being my girlfriend.
The truth is the same. My girlfriend's former husband was 19 cm. Also, many have been 16-17-18 cm. We use a large long artificial penis. I kiss at the same time when I work quickly in. My girlfriend actually asks before me. Excited about this and I'm hard all the time. A slippery slope where I feel small. I get just that and my girl is like me not. Videos cannot be found with my penis length. Rarely and then is the old man who dread to show in the movie of it.
 

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11 hours ago, rockslyde said:

Gagging on a huge cock just doesn't sound like fun to me.  And don't even think about getting one of those things near my virgin ass.  If, someday I do give up my virginity, I will only surrender it to a man with a slender cock.

In my little "bi" experiment, I was surprised that gagging was more fun than I had imagined.

[DallasDavey]

I was strictly straight until I realized how small I was and eventually started enjoying watching porn with big penises.  I used to admire then from afar.  Then at a video booth I touched a bigger cock and was hooked for good.  The only part of the gay lifestyle I like is experiencing bigger penises

I really get hot feeling a bigger one in my hand and comparing it to my small one and stroke them at the same time.  I like to talk to them about how big it is and how I like feeling it.

I think if I was bigger myself I think I would have not been so curious and would have been straight my whole life without ever experimenting

I still live my life straight but am bi privately and enjoy penises as much as women, my ultimate favorite are hung transsexuals.  I get intimate with them with kissing and lots of contact.  With masculine men it's usually just sucking and jacking without any other contact

[Jojojojo]

I bet it has a lot to do with contrast. I think a str8 7" guy might be into a 9" cock same as I am for a 7" guy. Also contributes some to the whole BBC thing. I mostly str8 and rarely want to see my size in porn. I think most guys want to see a bigger fatter cock then there own. Even when I'm not in a curious place I like a big thick vain cover cock. And as of recent a huge flacid uncut black cock, but those are for the more curious days. 

[maroon8098]

On 3/16/2018 at 9:53 AM, Ant Smith 4inch said:

I consider myself pretty straight but there is a fascination in bigger cocks - can't help but wonder what it's like having a penis that has some weight, dangle and swing to it! It's definitely a reasonable reaction, even if it is a bit compulsive. I think it mostly seems weird because we're suposed tobe labelled one thing or another. I'm a straight guy who happens to like seeing big cocks si all!

Thanks for sharing. I'm on bi side but also have similar thoughts and curiosity about bigger cocks whether it's in porn or a fellow neighbor in a restroom or locker room setting. I don't mean to be a creep about the thoughts and fascination about other guys cocks but it is interesting to see how others are stacked against each other in terms of size or other physical feature.  

[Guest]

I think that all men admire large or larger penises.  I think it's biologically at the core of both men and women with respect to the power of procreation.  Is bigger better?   Well, "better" really is a relative and subjective term.  If you did a statistically sound survey, you're going to find that women prefer taller men.  So do corporations.  That is also interwoven into some idea we have primally of power and survival I believe.

Most men, whether large or small wish their penises were larger.  Many men with smaller penises really don't think much of it.  Men with very small penises either live in denial, live in shame, or have come out of both to turn their insecurity into a fetish whereby they can develop themselves as something different, and something that mostly bigger men will find pleasing only in how in makes them feel dominant. 

I find that larger men prefer larger men.  I belong to a great site that honors men with big penises called lpsg.org.  It's a great site because men, women, straight men, and gay men all come together to honor their lust/like/curiousity about big cock.  It's amazing how many straight men are on there to compete with other large men.  See really no one ever "wins" the penis game.  More cock pumps are bought by bigger cocked men.  Guys with larger penises definitely feel a more generalized pride about their anatomy.  However, they may also rely on this as the core of their worth and then become simply "big dicks."  I've never met a large man, friend or partner who didn't know he was large and was very proud of it as an important asset in attracting others.

I'm not sure small penises are admired broadly.  However if you develop a fetish for them or you get very involved in your small dick as a way to be humiliated in role play that can be very exciting and gratifying, but guys who are looking to pretend to be humiliated end up feeling humiliated for real.  

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2 hours ago, THREEPOINT5 said:

I think that all men admire large or larger penises.  I think it's biologically at the core of both men and women with respect to the power of procreation.  Is bigger better?   Well, "better" really is a relative and subjective term.  If you did a statistically sound survey, you're going to find that women prefer taller men.  So do corporations.  That is also interwoven into some idea we have primally of power and survival I believe.

I think this is instinctive, not just biological.  it is too prevalent to be just ideological.  Of course, denial of instincts via rationalization is also common.

I always had a big problem coming to terms with the lower status automatically assigned to me at an instinctive level by both men and women.  Yeah, denial, repressed shame, trying instead to assign myself a higher status based on reason, ie. compensation.

Edited July 24, 2020 by Guest

[Guest]

I was always shorter than my peers and still am. I had a physically abusing dad.  I think I always can knew The enemy was outside of me and then I was going to do everything I could to get stronger. So I got smarter and I started lifting weights seriously and I’m not so bad looking in the scheme of things. I let a straight life until my late 30s when I became bisexual. I was never a true aware that my penis was smaller because I think I was an aggressive top and in my mind was pleasing my partner be a female or male. It was only when I started exploring my male sexuality then I realized how much larger most men were. I was naturally very attracted to that and I started to gravitate toward men with large penises simply because it was more exciting the way society thinks that taller men are more exciting. I try not to argue with reality. Bigger is better in the minds of most people who think about size at all. Many people do you not think about size and do not obsess about their genitals and they are probably better for it. I became more obsessed with size as I try to enter the mail Arena. I still have nothing more track to larger guys and I realize they may have been less attracted to me because of my smaller penis size. I simply was able I guess with my body and my face and my intelligence to be able to attract enough well hung men. I find it very exciting that men could be very proud of their cocks but for some reason it’s more exciting when they’re proud of their larger cocks. I wish this were true but I’m not gonna get upset about it but I am going to enjoy it and not buck what seems to be my natural interest. My favorite pictures on this site are the comparison pictures, and I realize that many of the smaller men are very attractive and play in important role in that not only are there Cox really beautiful but they also accentuate the larger size of the more proud hung man next to them  I’m sorry that you struggle with your size  just because you say the bigger men look better than you and look down on you does not make it true and it’s possible that you have fallen into the trap of false inferiority. I love to play the sub roll in the inferior role in role-play with larger dog and men, but I have also played the role of dominant man and usually can do a better job of it then the more hungry as I knew I had done in my past. I would suggest that you think outside the box find a partner is Good for you. If your penis is quite small the chances are that your partners penis will be larger. Remember  Even if you believe that bigger is better it does it mean that smaller is bad. Most women from 35 on up I have no persuasion about size. And even with very large men want to be larger so don’t forget that. Nobody escapes the insecurity of the penis because of all that it means and represents.  I think that figure is better but it’s only an opinion not a fact and remember it’s the word bigger that’s better anyone can think of themselves as big enough to be happy

[new2day]

I think we are brought up to think bigger is best, taller is best, all these manly attributes which separates the boys from the real men. Although I am straight, I do like to see another penis, again its a natural curiosity that many would deny exists. We compare cars, houses, bank balances after all.

I used to work with 2 guys that I would describe as really hung, we'd often play team or racquet sports after work and they were both regulars. One was really outgoing, quite brash and perhaps you could conclude he's like that because he had a big cock (which he would sometime show when drunk). The other was the most quiet studious and unassuming guy to know, he once confided that he didn't enjoy the attention his big cock got in the gym locker room, he said everyone like to look.

So yes, I look, and sometimes admire a big swinging dick and think if only mine was that big. It's not, and I can't do anything about that, so just be happy and enjoy life.

[AertySean]

On 3/11/2018 at 1:52 AM, JTT said:

I love all penises, but do find the big ones fascinating.  I particularly enjoy seeing the contrast from bigger to small - and the confidence that small guys have being around bigger guys.   

Hi, I have a rather short soft cock but it grows a lot when I am hard.

But yeah, I love the feeling of being small when I am with bigger guys. When soft, it makes my cock very cute, and when hard, it is a kind of SPH. Especially if I do some frottage (I am gay) with the 2 cocks together, with my hard cock against the very fat cock.

This is a very hot submissive experience!

[Triasco9.5]

@AertySean I believe what JTT is the inverse to what you're describing: Men with small penises who are secure in themselves and their bodies so as not to mind or care about being inn the presence of men with large penises. Which I also appreciate. Honestly,  I appreciate men in general who see penis size for what it is: penis size. lol.