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15 hours ago, DallasDavey said:

I once talked to an ex on a chat app pretending to be a different guy trying to hit on her and I asked her about the size of her four men.  

The miracles of the digital age!

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@Biggie Smalls I'd imagine that across many size ranges there's going to be considerate lovers and inconsiderate lovers. It's simply a wide held notion that lesser endowed guys tend to be more considerate to make up for a lack or perceived lack of endowment. I say this from experience because throughout the years I believed I was small I spent a lot of time learning everything I could to help with sexual prowess. It was always a case of whatever a partner felt about my size my skills between the sheets would be the talking point. It's something that's held me in good stead ever since! 

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@DallasDavey I once tried this, hitting on my missus online in a similar way on a made up profile. We talked for a couple of weeks about normal life matters before I turned things up to flirting and sexual level. To her credit she said only very nice things and after a few weeks she politely requested no further contact as she was in a very happy relationship! It wasn't a case of me not trusting her fidelity, I just wanted to know how she felt about our relationship on a sexual basis. 

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It's been about 30 years since My wife and I talked about her previous lovers,  I suppose as a couple matures, such subjects don't need to be revisited, So I will recount things as I remember them, to the best of my ability.  I think my memory is pretty good regarding this subject because these size issues were important to me at the time,  certainly more important to me than to my wife. But here goes.

There were three guys before me, and another that happened during a threesome. The first guy, I'll call him Steve, who took her virginity was actually a high school friend of mine, not a close friend, but a friend never the less,  and growing up in a small town I had seen his flaccid cock a good number of times, due to the fact that throughout my Jr, high and High School years, everybody showered in open communal showers at the end of P/E. class. His flaccid cock was very similar in size to my own, though not as thick in my humble opinion,   I don't remember how long she dated this guy, probably about a year.  My wife and are are more into sensual love making rather than hardcore jackhammer type fucking, although there are certainly moments.  Anyway during one session, I was on top, ( her favorite position) stroking her sensuously, she was rising to meet my thrusts and in the heat of passion, I guess  I brought up "Steve's" name I whispered to her "Was Steve's cock longer than mine?" "No, the same" was her reply, I asked "Who is thicker?" She told me "Yours is thicker"  Anyway, that triggered a powerful orgasm for me. One of the best I ever had.  Crazy huh?

The second guy was a a Mexican guy from a nearby small town, that she met while partying and it was just a one night stand, but she told me that his cock was very small,  She didn't want to date the guy, cause she really didn't care for him and the people he hung around with, not because he had a small cock.  She also told me that she wanted a White guy,  She's Mexican herself by the way.

She dated the third guy for a while, he was from the same town as the Mexican guy, I used to see him with her even before I met her. Anyway according to her his cock was about the same size as mine, apparently there wasn't enough difference in size for her to notice.

The fourth guy was the bass player in my band, who was, and still is, a very close friend of mine. We got a little frisky in the hot tub one night.  To me, his erection looked almost identical to mine in size, and shape too, for that matter.  He barebacked her for a minute, then withdrew and never did cum, I guess he was worried about getting her pregnant. The only thing about him, was (and still is) that he was about  5' 8" 145 lbs,  So the same sized cock looks more impressive on him than on me, due to my larger body size.

All of her men (and me too) are/were circumcised. I guess I should mention, that at the time my cock was 5.75" length  5.25" girth at midcock.    I'm 5" in length now, though the girth is still there.

 

 

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On 2/6/2019 at 2:43 AM, Allen43 said:

My wife tells me about the men with large penises she has had sex with fairly regularly, especially when she masturbates me. I find it VERY stimulating. She can make me squirt very quickly when she does it. She goes into great detail sometimes. 

My wife does the same thing. Even after many years of being together, it gets me so hot when she tells me about the other guys she's fucked with cocks bigger than mine. Even though there weren't that many, and I've heard about them before , she know she can turn me on by talking about them. It took me a long time to get her to open up, but when she became convinced that I wasn't going to be intimidated because she has had bigger dicks in her, and that it was a turn on for me, it became a big part of our sex life. I love hearing about the guy with nine inches (he insisted she measure it) who was so thick she couldn't get her hand all the way around it. It's always amazed me she could take it all, as she is very petite. She has told me he hit places I never have, and she could have multiple orgasms with him, which she doesn't with me. Fortunately she has had one guy smaller than me and one the same size, so at least I'm not the smallest. LOL

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On 8/17/2018 at 1:02 PM, IndyBanker1946 said:

A few days ago my lady friend Mary and I were lying in bed in the morning and she was caressing my morning wood.  She said “Bob, I think your penis is the biggest I have ever seen.”  This somewhat surprised me because I have never thought my dick was big.  I took this opportunity to ask her how many she had seen.  Mary said “Five, Including you”.  I asked, “Will you compare them to me for me?”  She was hesitant at first but with some goading she finally relented.  I asked her to measure my length and girth so she would have a reference point.

 

Length:  6 1/2”

Girth:  5 3/4"

 

Here we go.  All lengths and girths are truly guesses from memory.

 

Mike:  She fucked him for about 8 years from age 16 to 24. Length 5”, Girth 4”

 

Robert:  She fucked him for about 10 years from age 24 to 34.  Length 4”, Girth 4”

 

Jack: She fucked him for about 25 years from age 24 to 59. Length 7”, Girth 4 ½”

 

Thomas:  She fucked him just one night when she was 60.  He was younger than Mary.  She told me he fucked her four times that night…with him cumming each time, very impressive.  Length 5 ½”, Girth 5”

 

I have no idea as to the accuracy of her estimation but it sure was fun hearing about her past partners.

 

I would love to hear if anyone has had similar discussions with partners.  Years ago my late wife and I had a similar discussion which I may share later.

wish I was you lol, now Ill go shame myself

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9 hours ago, Appreciater said:

@Smaldave ...

My wife would only say that her ex-husband thought so much of his big dick that it turned him into a cheating male whore with any women who would spread her legs.

My wife's best friend is getting divorced because her husband is hung like a horse and has had many affairs. She told my wife she will miss his big dick.

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On 8/17/2018 at 1:02 PM, IndyBanker1946 said:

A few days ago my lady friend Mary and I were lying in bed in the morning and she was caressing my morning wood.  She said “Bob, I think your penis is the biggest I have ever seen.”  This somewhat surprised me because I have never thought my dick was big.  I took this opportunity to ask her how many she had seen.  Mary said “Five, Including you”.  I asked, “Will you compare them to me for me?”  She was hesitant at first but with some goading she finally relented.  I asked her to measure my length and girth so she would have a reference point.

 

Length:  6 1/2”

Girth:  5 3/4"

 

Here we go.  All lengths and girths are truly guesses from memory.

 

Mike:  She fucked him for about 8 years from age 16 to 24. Length 5”, Girth 4”

 

Robert:  She fucked him for about 10 years from age 24 to 34.  Length 4”, Girth 4”

 

Jack: She fucked him for about 25 years from age 24 to 59. Length 7”, Girth 4 ½”

 

Thomas:  She fucked him just one night when she was 60.  He was younger than Mary.  She told me he fucked her four times that night…with him cumming each time, very impressive.  Length 5 ½”, Girth 5”

 

I have no idea as to the accuracy of her estimation but it sure was fun hearing about her past partners.

 

I would love to hear if anyone has had similar discussions with partners.  Years ago my late wife and I had a similar discussion which I may share later.

yes yours is porn worthy at that size, thats amazing girth. you not far behind peter north or rocco siffridi, they might be slighly thinner than you... but 6.5 inches or 5 even as Ive tried to state in the past is a larger object than any man wnats to give it credit for being. The kinsey statistics screwed that up ,and the idiotic need for doctors to be dogmatic and stick to them has also caused this. 6.5 average..yeah right you've got probably the ideal one right there. That is to say 6.5 measured along the top the right way is big, get it from the side or the bottom your likely 5.3 to 5.6 on the top.

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1 hour ago, RAized said:

yes yours is porn worthy at that size, thats amazing girth. you not far behind peter north or rocco siffridi, they might be slighly thinner than you... but 6.5 inches or 5 even as Ive tried to state in the past is a larger object than any man wnats to give it credit for being. The kinsey statistics screwed that up ,and the idiotic need for doctors to be dogmatic and stick to them has also caused this. 6.5 average..yeah right you've got probably the ideal one right there. That is to say 6.5 measured along the top the right way is big, get it from the side or the bottom your likely 5.3 to 5.6 on the top.

Why are you here?  It astounds me that men with such large penis’ are on these forums.  Rubbing our noses in our smaller cocks?

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13 hours ago, SloStroker said:

My wife's best friend is getting divorced because her husband is hung like a horse and has had many affairs. She told my wife she will miss his big dick.

I wouldn't slam all women with that stereotype, but that reveals a mindset of some!

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On 10/17/2022 at 6:31 PM, Lukeow said:

Why are you here?  It astounds me that men with such large penis’ are on these forums.  Rubbing our noses in our smaller cocks?

As the owner and admin state: "All are welcome"

No, he is telling someone his cock was larger than average and that observation can be made by anyone regardless of their size or even if they have a dick. And he also re-affirms Kinsey was wrong as most everyone knows or should know by now. How the hell do you jump to "rubbing our noses in..."

If anything, anyone bitching all the time that 6" is small when it's above average,  is rubbing the noses of anyone smaller.

 

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We’ve done this to death @canuck45 

I measured my flaccid penis this morning 2.5”

In the mirror it is small.  When compared to others in the locker room (stood in front of a full length mirror with others around me), it is small. Significantly so compared to most around me. 
 

It is not 6” long when erect, it’s 5.75-5.9 ruler pressed right to the bone through the fat pad of approx an inch, it hurts and leaves a red mark to get that length.

I have been doing research sharing images on various apps with other men to compare - all bar one so far have been longer, thicker and more appealing than me.  
 

You know I doubt the averages.  I doubt them because of what I see.  If I see others my size, shorter, I’d accept that I am “average”, “normal” or whatever, but all the time I am presented visually in the real world with penis’ on those around me that are larger, fuller and more aesthetically attractive then I remain to be convinced.  

My size might well not be the smallest here - I’ve never claimed to be.  I certainly would not judge anyone for having a smaller penis, but I struggle with those with larger penis’ - the confidence, assurance and smug attitude I came across through young life, the hurtful comments I received at my flaccid “maggot” “pube” cock - all came from the vast majority of kids who had 4”+ hanging flaccid penis’ in the showers at school.  Seeing is believing.  I need to see what I’m being told by these random studies.  
 

2.5-3 inch flaccid, 5-5.9 max bone pressed, sub 5 majority of the time non bone pressed.  It looks and feels small.  That’s me.  It would not be classed as a large penis and has been belittled by many with across my life and I am an insecure emotional wreck of a “man” because of it.  

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25 minutes ago, Lukeow said:

2.5-3 inch flaccid, 5-5.9 max bone pressed, sub 5 majority of the time non bone pressed.  It looks and feels small.  That’s me.  It would not be classed as a large penis and has been belittled by many with across my life and I am an insecure emotional wreck of a “man” because of it.  

You, I think, have a compulsion to be significantly above average, perhaps in all aspects of life. 

I think you need to deal with that premise.  That premise is not realistic.

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Just now, Lukeow said:

Absolutely not. I am happy being average in everything but that.

Fuck me, I’m bald! I’m probably about average height - 5’11.  Shoe size UK 9 - I’m in an average job, drive a Skoda, average, average, average…. I have a smaller penis, irrespective of what the so called studies say.  When I look and compare to my peers, it’s small, theirs are larger.

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58 minutes ago, Lukeow said:

Fuck me, I’m bald! I’m probably about average height - 5’11.  Shoe size UK 9 - I’m in an average job, drive a Skoda, average, average, average…. I have a smaller penis, irrespective of what the so called studies say.  When I look and compare to my peers, it’s small, theirs are larger.

Yikes!  For some reason you counted on above average genital to shine.  If I were you, I would try to move up from average in some of those fields where efforts count.

I should talk, though.  I was obsessed with proving my undersized dick adequate for decades.

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11 minutes ago, wondering4 said:

Yikes!  For some reason you counted on above average genital to shine.  If I were you, I would try to move up from average in some of those fields where efforts count.

I should talk, though.  I was obsessed with proving my undersized dick adequate for decades.

That’s the thing - I know it is functional and “adequate” if not optimal for sex and pissing.

My issue is mainly aesthetic and the lack of confidence it’s appearance brings to me.  

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15 minutes ago, Lukeow said:

That’s the thing - I know it is functional and “adequate” if not optimal for sex and pissing.

My issue is mainly aesthetic and the lack of confidence it’s appearance brings to me.  

I strike out on both of the above.  Hard to sympathize much with you from my position.

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16 hours ago, Lukeow said:

I have a smaller penis, irrespective of what the so called studies say.

LIES LIES  LIES.  YOU DON'T HAVE A SMALL PENIS.  No one buys into your delusions, world of self-pity, and obstinance.
You can dismiss the studies (real ones, not so-called ones), doesn't change a thing in the real world.
 

18 hours ago, Lukeow said:

We’ve done this to death

Well you keep bring up the dead horse "waaagggh waagh I have a small penis", I will flog it for you.  :deadhorse:
You say "I don't believe the studies (scientific method), I will tell you SCIENCE DOESN'T CARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE.
You put up you toxic replies, I will provide the antidote.
You want to be a hemorrhoid, I will be Preparation H.
You want to be an ass, I have a butt plug for you.
Be a troll and I will be Billy Goat Gruff Sr.
 

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12 hours ago, canuck45 said:

LIES LIES  LIES.  YOU DON'T HAVE A SMALL PENIS.  No one buys into your delusions, world of self-pity, and obstinance.
You can dismiss the studies (real ones, not so-called ones), doesn't change a thing in the real world.
 

Well you keep bring up the dead horse "waaagggh waagh I have a small penis", I will flog it for you.  :deadhorse:
You say "I don't believe the studies (scientific method), I will tell you SCIENCE DOESN'T CARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE.
You put up you toxic replies, I will provide the antidote.
You want to be a hemorrhoid, I will be Preparation H.
You want to be an ass, I have a butt plug for you.
Be a troll and I will be Billy Goat Gruff Sr.

No mate. You’re just a cock sucker and an ass licker
 

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About 12 months after myself and my good lady got toghether we where out having a meal she had been earlier that day to have her hair done she had used the same hairdresser for over 30 years.Over dinner she told me that her hairdresser who knew her ex got talking about comparing me to her ex she said she told her that there was no comparison at all and that she had found her soulmate.Then the comparison turned to sex now both the hairdresser and i knew that her ex was huge.My good lady told her than i wasnt even half the size of her ex but with me it has been the best sex she has ever had.That told me that my good lady was more that happy with my small size

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