Dick size and urinal childhood stories

[Connor74178909]

What are your thoughts on dick sizes. Childhood experiences only. Ele to College

[Jgarg]

I remember being in a bathroom in Rome airport in the 1970s at a urinal. I was 11 and my penis was tiny. I looked over at a man a few urinals down and his dick was enormous. I had never seen anything like it. I was shocked and felt humiliated that my dick barely made it out of my pants. Since this day I can’t pee in urinals without dividers and it has been more than 40 years. 

[Red Scott]

@Jgarg psychology is a strange and powerful thing. Just one innocuous experience has a dramatic effect on some and sometimes, as in your case for life! It's a shame that our brains work in this way. 

I've seen some sights in public toilets throughout life but thankfully they've never had a long lasting impact. I'll use urinals without dividers but I don't exactly give much room for view because I think I'll always be self conscious of my flaccid size. 

One thing I always tell myself is "these other guys here are strangers, they don't know me, we'll probably never cross paths again, so if they do see my dick and think it's small, what does it matter?! They're not exactly going to say so are they!" 

That's one of the things I learned in sexual therapy when cognitive behaviour techniques were explained in depth, it's all about worse case scenario and the truth is the worst case has never happened to me! 

[Triasco9.5]

I suppose the only thing I can share is a somewhat vague memory from my younger years in Korea.  I believe I was a teenager of 13 or so, and was on a field trip to a local amusement park. We were waiting for the bus to go back home, actually, and while using the small restroom there at the pick up point, I distinctly remember standing at the urinal, minding my own business when an adult Korean gentlemen walked in. 

 

I would guess he was between 20 and 30 years of age, and there were only two urinals, so he naturally took the one next to me. I don't recall if there were dividers, but if there were, they must have been very short.  I recall him glancing over in my direction, then his eyes widened considerably as he caught sight of my endowment.  I was an early bloomer and a shower,  so I imagine it was perhaps 5 inches or so flaccid. This gentlemen lets out a sound of amazement that is culturally unique to Asian countries (those of you who watch anime or Asian dramas might know what I mean), and I remember being somewhat embarrassed.  enough that I quickly finished up my business, washed my hands (of course) and left. 

 

It's funny, the memories that stick with us. 

[Guest]

16 hours ago, Red Scott said:

@Jgarg psychology is a strange and powerful thing. Just one innocuous experience has a dramatic effect on some and sometimes, as in your case for life! It's a shame that our brains work in this way. 

I've seen some sights in public toilets throughout life but thankfully they've never had a long lasting impact. I'll use urinals without dividers but I don't exactly give much room for view because I think I'll always be self conscious of my flaccid size. 

One thing I always tell myself is "these other guys here are strangers, they don't know me, we'll probably never cross paths again, so if they do see my dick and think it's small, what does it matter?! They're not exactly going to say so are they!" 

That's one of the things I learned in sexual therapy when cognitive behaviour techniques were explained in depth, it's all about worse case scenario and the truth is the worst case has never happened to me! 

Always struck me in the opposite fashion.

I perceived the way strangers perceived me was more objective and therefore more "telling" than the way people i knew reacted.  

I've had numerous unsettling experiences trying urinate at trough type urinals where everyone can see you and you can see them.  Losing the ability to urinate because of anxiety is the worst, prolonging the experience intolerably.   Very few of those troughs any more.  They were common 50 years ago.

[yeah_sure]

 the other kids hated me for being much bigger then them.. I was all ready adult sized in elementary school. in 5th grade..

 they used to say it was like in the sex ed film   I had resonantly found a old  "autograph book from there "

 

 looks like I got some interest from the ladys there and have a few phone #

[Red Scott]

@overthehill in the UK it's still rare that urinals have dividers, it's as if male privacy just isn't considered! 

As for losing the ability to pee at urinals, that's happened to me many, many times too. Until I changed my perspective that is, since using the aforementioned thought process I don't seem to get "pee-shy" anymore. 

[Red Scott]

@Triasco9.5 it's quite embarrassing when a youngster stands beside you to pee and tugs out a distinctly larger endowment than you possess as an adult! That much I can say! 

But hey, such is life, I'd imagine it's happened to millions of guys worldwide! 

[LilGonzalote]

I'm not sure but I probably had a few experiences regarding this Topic, but the only one that comes to my mind now is on one occasion when my Mom took me to see a Movie, I was 8 y.o.

About one hour or so after the Movie had begun I wanted to Pee so badly that I let my Mom know I was going to the Restroom. I was way too Modest at that age, as I've already commented here in another thread. When I got there I've found a line of Men with their Penises out of their pants while peeing. (Believe it or not I was the one feeling embarrassed of seeing them like that ) The Bathroom hadn't Urinals nor Dividers, (instead it was a kind of "Gutter" at the Floor level with water slipping from the wall to drag the pee to the drain, where basically you had to Pee against the wall - I still find these types of "Urinals" nowadays)  to make it worse there was only a place among them left where it was supposed I should stand and pee. But if I did my really small Dick was going to be at full display for them to see. So I was there standing by the Door facing those Men who also glanced at me, thinking about what to do..  it must have took about 15 seconds since I entered the room, saw the whole Situation and decided I couldn't take it, so I went back to the Row where my Mom was sitting and told her I didn't pee, I tried to keep watching the Movie and hold my urges to urinate as much as I could.. But it was no longer possible, I told her I couldn't hold it anymore so she had to take me to the Ladies Room where we had to wait until one of the Stalls was free and finally I could feel relieved and luckily didn't wet my Pants. Of course my Mom was pissed off because in the meantime we missed the Movie Ending (we had to go back another day to watch it complete) perhaps it's the dumbest thing I've ever done but unfortunately that's the way I was raised by my too conservative Family who didn't allow any kind of nakedness at home (for instance I changed my pants in my bedroom with closed Door, and if someone catched me like that, regardless the Gender I'd feel terribly embarrassed just the same) I wish I could have taken it more naturally back then 

[thezulu]

Not really a urinal story, but one about peeing next to other guys...

I'm not exactly sure when this happened, but it was before I was at Junior school, so I guess I'd have been aged 6 or 7

A few friends from the neighbourhood were playing in one of our gardens, and a few of us needed to pee, so we gathered round a tree.
After I pulled mine out, one of the other boys said "Wow, your willy's huge"
Everyone gathered round and compared. Mine was noticeably bigger than all the other boys.
Then another boy said "When you are a man, it will be massive"

This is my earliest memory of being aware of size differences (not that we knew the significance at the time)
 

[Restoredude]

Not really a size story but many years ago I was at a college football game and they had the trough type urinals. I was standing next to a college guy and, at the time, I had 9 genital piercings (PA, frenulum, pubic and 6 in my balls). We were peeing and I could tell he was checking out my package. Suddenly he said, dude are those piercings real? I said yeah and he said, that is fucking awesome! LOL.

https://imgur.com/0Wja4dk

 

Edited November 26, 2018 by Restoredude

[tiny4inch]

Semi related, we live in CT and got some pro football players (one very famous) come to play in a charity basketball game.  That had many demands (all of which were fine).  Two boys got invited in the locker room (they helped out on their bench) to get autographs.  I escorted them, the players were coming out of the showers and all very extremely well endowed.  After signing autographs I walked them out and one said holy cow did you see his wiener, the other boy and me both nodded.  The “famous” player’s was easily 7 and thick soft.

[Biggie Smalls]

4 hours ago, tiny4inch said:

[...] After signing autographs I walked them out and one said holy cow did you see his wiener, the other boy and me both nodded.  The “famous” player’s was easily 7 and thick soft.

Hanging down your cock always measures more than when measured pointing straight away from your body. That's something you have to account for.
 

[LilGonzalote]

21 hours ago, tiny4inch said:

Semi related, we live in CT and got some pro football players (one very famous) come to play in a charity basketball game.  That had many demands (all of which were fine).  Two boys got invited in the locker room (they helped out on their bench) to get autographs.  I escorted them, the players were coming out of the showers and all very extremely well endowed.  After signing autographs I walked them out and one said holy cow did you see his wiener, the other boy and me both nodded.  The “famous” player’s was easily 7 and thick soft.

Lucky guys! Not only had the Meet and Greet with those Famous Players but also saw them Naked. I've always wondered if when they invite kids to visit them and watch a Soccer Match that invitation includes Meeting them in the Lockers too.. Your post seems to confirm that. (just by chance was it David Beckham one of the Players you guys saw?) 

Edited February 6, 2019 by LilGonzalote

[avgjoe913]

I have a story that posted the other day in a different thread, but it's probably more appropriate here so I'll repost it:

I was in tenth grade; I was a late bloomer so at that point I was still very much in the heart of puberty and probably not done growing down there (not that it got much bigger). This kid was only a year younger than me, but (as seems to often be the case) was a lot shorter and smaller in stature, and on top of that was kind of awkward and nerdy. So naturally, I considered myself "cooler" than him.

We were all once out at a group gathering at a restaurant and I ended up in the bathroom with this kid, along with a good friend of mine. There were two urinals, my friend and I side by side, and each urinal had the day's newspaper posted above it (kind of an old school thing). This kid very awkwardly walked over between us and pointed to one of the headlines while making a comment about it, while clearly using the whole thing as a cover to peek left and right and check out both of our dicks. It was very obvious, and my friend and I joked about it with each other after he left (he got out of there immediately after checking us out). I didn't think much of it, as I hadn't really started worrying too much about my size yet - I was basically telling myself it would still grow a lot more. Well, a couple weeks later I find myself at the urinal next to this kid at school, and I figure it's only fair if I take a peek and even the score. And of course (you know where this is going), he wasn't just bigger than me, he was much, much bigger - bigger than most adults.

As ridiculous as it sounds, I remember thinking "whoa, he has an adult dick", as I really thought to that point that I was just still growing and would end up around 6" like the books said. Seeing him was kind of a reality check - the younger, smaller, dorky kid, who didn't seem like he was done with puberty yet either, has a "man" dick, and mine probably wouldn't ever be like that. And of course I was immediately embarrassed thinking about how he'd seen mine and wondering what he'd thought, though to his credit he never said a word to me or, as far as I know, to anyone else.

[jms1]

AvgJoe,  I'm betting he was thinking, "Oh, there's something wrong with me.  I don't have a normal sized dick like everybody else.  Once again, I'm a freak."

Dorky guys want to blend in and never stand out.

[maroon8098]

good to know that about other guys who enjoy showing off in real life too. My first encounter with similar type was a senior while I was a freshman in high school. He was shorter than me, had slight dirty blonde mullet in back, fairly thin build and was not shy about his cock being seen at the urinals which were the vertical ones that go to the floor and were close together. Some days when I was only one at urinals between classes, he would come in and take the one right next to me and would take time opening pants and pulling his uncut nice endowed tool out as well as balls and he'd wait to build up a stream before pissing and he paid me no attention. I think he already knew he was packing a good sized one which looked to be about 5 to 6 soft. He paid me no attention but knew I was there and probably picked up on my subtle glances and head turns ha ha. But had those moments engrained in memory which was good since he left after graduation that year.

[maroon8098]

Found this on YouTube about Will Ferrell's first thoughts on using a trough/ urinal in the mens room. I recall having similar thoughts too back in the day. Awesome post.

Edited November 9, 2021 by RodEnuf
Embedded the YouTube video clip.

[maroon8098]

Also what helped me was those times I visited mens room urinals in NV casino places I visited with parents and wandered on my own. When I had to pee, there were open urinals where grown men of all sizes also pissed with no hesitation including smaller guys like me so that set me on road of confidence we all have different sizes and it shouldnt be an issue to pee at those places. Glad I had those times before many of those places have since installed dividers. 

[alcastar1979]

I had already told this story in the "when you realized you were small" thread but it also belongs here:

When I was around 11. I spent that summer in England at an english summer course and one of the guys in my class ( a bully) saw me peeing at an urinal and he said something like "oh my good, it's even smaller than Dan's (another guy from our class)". I had never seen Dan's dick then but I guessed it was very small.

Funny thing is that Dan became a good friend of mine some years later and I have seen him naked a lot of times in locker rooms, trips, etc... and we have discussed penis size several times. He jokes with the fact of him being small but he is just slightly below average both soft and, from what he told me, hard. I never told him about the urinal episode.

[Tsoren]

Growing up, my dad and uncle would take the four of us kids to at least one college football game each fall.  This particular stadium had a number of urinals that went from the floor up.  Didn't matter if their were a number of free urinals, the four of us would all bunch together around the same urinal and let the pee fly.  Of course that meant seeing who could pee the longest and crossing streams and laughing loudly.  Looking back, people probably thought we were crazy, but we were just doing what we would normally do at home.

[Wookieboy]

As a child, my penis didn't even hit my current length until Iwas 18-19 years of age.  During childhood and adolescence, it was under 3 inches erect, and retracted inside of me when flaccid.   As result going to a urinal was impossible because you need to stem to hold onto to direct the flow.   People knew my size issues and had seen my retracted penis during sports activities so I would get teased for using the urinal.   I remember some boys saying, "Men stand to pee, only girls sit."  I heard that being said while I was using the toilet in the stall. 

[maroon8098]

Reality set in during high school that I had a smaller one when Id see guys younger than me coming into mens room and pissing at urinals by me who were bigger soft than me. But also had a relief when I made another unofficial piss buddy with a guy two grades older who would piss and show his small package with no hesitation. He wore a baseball cap usually with baggy jeans that hed open all the way and pull down briefs to show darker skin toned hairy cock and balls that resembled mine. It wasnt hung and he didnt care who saw as he looked down to aim and piss. He was also an athlete into football and basketball so assuming the sports shower practices also helped him with confidence aside from friendly demeanor among peers. That helped me too feel not ashamed to have my size despite others I saw in passing those 4 years of school.

[Guest]

Hmmm... another older topic I've managed to miss - until now.

As I've mentioned before in other topics, until probably my late forties, I rarely gave another thought to other boys' or men's penises.  I had no interest whatsoever in the male body.  I didn't even really start noticing other boys' parts until junior high school (age 11?) when we were forced to strip and shower.  But even then, surrounded by other naked boys in the showers, I was almost completely unconcerned.

As for urinals - in elementary school, we had the troughs.  These were not the "walls" described by @LilGonzalote, but more like a typical American porcelain urinal (about two feet in "height") except the thing was ten feet wide.  We all just lined up side by side, pulled out our boy-parts, and let them drain.  I honestly do not remember even noticing any of the other boys' penises (this may be because none of them were visible inside our grips).  At any rate, urinals have never been a "problem" for me - meaning I never really experienced much "pee-shyness."  However, using the stalls for that other boys' room activity?  That still bothers me, even today.  I do not like performing that deed with anyone else present and have to try to shut my brain down when I'm at locations where every available stall has an occupied one on either side - so I'm forced to sit between two other guys (think airport bathrooms right after a large flight arrives).  Weird how our minds work, isn't it?

[new2day]

It was mostly the trough urinals at school, maybe three feet high porcelain wall about 10 feet long. This was normal, whip out your penis and pee, try not to cross streams, avoid splashback, shake (not too vigorously) and avoid drips on your trousers, shoes... or worse, someone else's shoes.

Still see them in older pubs, although most are being replaced with individual urinals, and if there's space, a small privacy partition.