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  • 3 weeks later...
On 10/27/2018 at 1:59 PM, Red Scott said:

@Jojojojo What do you mean by "the risk of being exposed"? 

Do you mean exposed as in public nudity? A sex act in public? Or do you mean exposed as in people finding out that you're not well endowed? 

I'm still waiting w/@Red Scott for the answer before I can answer the OP.

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I am not certain what you mean either.  However, in a general sense it could be argued that I am over- exposed as I have photos of me on this site and sites like True Nudist, Dinky Dick, Cutting Club and Chaturbate.  Before you all cry, "Not that tired old dick again", I will say that I have never said that I was going to grow old gracefully and in the immortal words of Mae West "It's better to be looked over than overlooked"

My name is Bob and I live near Bristol United Kingdom

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@joey I never thought of the op's question like that. That being the case I think just being sensible and doing simple things to protect your privacy goes a long way. On social media, ensure you check your privacy settings and see exactly who can view and post things on your profile, who can see your friends list etc. One very important thing is when posting photos of yourself of an intimate nature, never, never include your face! Unless of course you absolutely couldn't care less who sees you!

You can never be 100% protected against someone who's determined enough and there's some bad, cruel people out there. But thankfully those same people can be incredibly stupid and naive at the same time which often enables you to find out who they were. 

But when things do go wrong, here in the UK we have recent laws made against what's been dubbed "revenge porn" So anyone who were to post intimate pics of you to friends, work colleagues, social media etc would then be investigated by the police and quickly caught. 

Anything you didn't want the police involved with, well, the internet is a very powerful tool and it is astonishing what you can find out about a person from just snippets of information. A name or car registration can go a long, long way on the Internet if you're determined enough and clever with your steps to trace a person. 

It's often the case these days of "not what you know, but who you know" and if you're willing to duck a little beneath the law nobody can hide from you in this age of the internet! Always remember it works both ways, the same tools used to hurt you can quickly and easily be turned to those same people and really hurt them! 

Just be careful what you post and where you post it! And always check your privacy settings! 

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On 12/29/2018 at 3:33 PM, joey said:

I think the OP is talking about sharing enough personal info that they could take your info & pics and send them to your family & co-workers & such.

i wouldnt be surprised to find that. ive dated 4 small guys now who all at one point or another got off on me outing their size to friends and family. ive done it countless times now for my tiny exes. though mostly one or two at a time. though everyone of them talked about me telling everyone at some point. i loved it. still do with my husband or anyone else willing to be exposed.

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@Wifeeeree I hate to say this, but I dont think that is the best thing for ones self esteem to discuss how "tiny" someones genitals are with other people.  Also if someone talked to me about how "tiny" their husbands penis is I am not sure I would feel very comfortable about it.  Unless of course this is one of those special SPH parties that people go to?  Everything exists somewhere I am told. :)

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I really don't see what the big deal is. So what, I have a small penis. If anyone I know were to find out and they have a problem with that, well then that is tough for them. As I see it, anyone I know should realize that there is a 20% chance that I have a small penis, just like there is a 60% chance mine is average or a 20% chance it is big (rough percentages of course in case somebody is a statistics nut).

So here, my name is Steven and I am from San Diego, CA. Oh, and I have a full frontal with face link in my signature below.

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As I've said before, my face is my avatar, my profile gives more than enough info on me and there's pics of my manhood in the gallery. So, there's nothing for me to be exposed as! I couldn't give a damn who sees, who doesn't see and I certainly don't care what they think of my size anyway, good or bad. Good things are always nice to hear, but the bad things will simply be processed by my brain and dismissed as "meh"! 

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I think its wonderful for guys who can embrace it. But for the men who can't like the one I'm with or have been with this seems to be a great sense of control. It some sort of power thing they get off on, hard, and as long as they do and no ones hurt what the heck I'm happy to help small guys get that sense of power his ever they go about it. 

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@Wifeeeree Hey, I'm not knocking your man or about to judge him. If he gets off on any form of SPH or anything else for that matter, then that's great and that's fine. What happens in the privacy of one's sexual relationships is nobody else's business nor something to be judged by others. My own "kinks" may be seen by others as weird, unusual, not right or whatever, but what turns me on, turns me on and it's that simple.

SPH is something that's not well understood by many other guys, but I've had the subject explained to me so I do get why some guys enjoy it. And that's the key with SPH, if it's welcomed, desired and initiated by a particular person in private then that's all good. Where its the opposite and a guy receives humiliation, its something that's massively destructive on a guys self esteem plus his ego and can have ramifications that can and does dictate his happiness throughout the course of his entire life! 

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15 hours ago, Spadey said:

Well, I’m Asian so people assume I’m small anyways so it won’t be a shock  

That's another example of societal stereotypes which has little basis on facts. Asian men tend to be, on average, shorter in height than western men and have a slighter build. Thus they will, on average, possess a penis that's in proportion to their body size. That said, there's little difference in the average penis size both flaccid and erect between those of Western men and Asian men. Statistically this difference is around a quarter of an inch flaccid and half an inch erect. So to the eye and without measuring the difference isn't visibly that great, simply a subtle difference. I've seen some Asian men whom are well hung and some the opposite, just the same as with other race's. 

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21 hours ago, Red Scott said:

That's another example of societal stereotypes which has little basis on facts. Asian men tend to be, on average, shorter in height than western men and have a slighter build. Thus they will, on average, possess a penis that's in proportion to their body size. That said, there's little difference in the average penis size both flaccid and erect between those of Western men and Asian men. Statistically this difference is around a quarter of an inch flaccid and half an inch erect. So to the eye and without measuring the difference isn't visibly that great, simply a subtle difference. I've seen some Asian men whom are well hung and some the opposite, just the same as with other race's. 

@Red Scott I've been with 4 Asian men so have a small sample size, but my experience, all were about the same age early to mid 20s.  All slight of build.  A chinese and Vietnamese guys both very large, they were both tall very slim.  A Thai guy short average build had an average size about the same size as mine although he could do wonders with it :).  And an Indian doctor I knew,  I think they count as Asian, had a very large thick cock of porn star quality.   Just anecdotal but my experience.  

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23 hours ago, Red Scott said:

That's another example of societal stereotypes which has little basis on facts. Asian men tend to be, on average, shorter in height than western men and have a slighter build. Thus they will, on average, possess a penis that's in proportion to their body size. That said, there's little difference in the average penis size both flaccid and erect between those of Western men and Asian men. Statistically this difference is around a quarter of an inch flaccid and half an inch erect. So to the eye and without measuring the difference isn't visibly that great, simply a subtle difference. I've seen some Asian men whom are well hung and some the opposite, just the same as with other race's. 

Yes it’s a stereotype. I play hockey with asian and white guys and they all look average to me when compared to the white guys. 

Im the smallest when we shower but it’s no big deal to me. 

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