tiny4inch Posted February 26, 2019 Report Share Posted February 26, 2019 Just a follow on to my previous post. I have never left masturbation since discovering it when I was 12. It somewhat took a back seat when the wife and I had sex much more often, but that has declined and now I masturbate much more (seem to go thru cycles where it is a lot and then ebbs off, then repeat). I mainly do it at night after she goes to bed, but since retiring I also find times during the day more often. Most frequently I use porn for additional stimulation and enjoy caming as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HurtbutHopeful Posted February 26, 2019 Report Share Posted February 26, 2019 (edited) My wife doesn’t think married guys masturbate. LOL. I didn’t correct her. Edited February 26, 2019 by HurtbutHopeful sith11 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toadfish327 Posted February 26, 2019 Report Share Posted February 26, 2019 My wife is starting menopause so she only wants laid about once every other week or so. She used to want it about 3 or 4 times a week. I felt no shame in jacking off while she was asleep next to me. Now we don't sleep in the same room. I will pretty much polish the worm anytime I don't think she will want to screw me. In bed, in the shower, outside (in private) are all fair game. She would rather have me beat off than go cheat on her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smalldad Posted February 27, 2019 Report Share Posted February 27, 2019 I've often wondered this myself. When everyone is home there isn't a room I can use that has any great deal of privacy. Even the bathroom is in demand so it has to wait till it's me alone usually. I've tried and failed in the shower. A female friend also suggested getting one off in bed beside my wife when she's not interested and that surprised me. She said she wouldn't care if her husband did it beside her. He's still his own person and can take care of himself. I don't think my wife would feel the same. I do jerk it in the garage often and have even resorted to finding a quiet place to park and work one out. sith11 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jms1 Posted February 27, 2019 Report Share Posted February 27, 2019 Question to all you guys--What do you do with the ejaculate after you've climaxed? Talking "hiding the evidence." 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Scott Posted February 27, 2019 Report Share Posted February 27, 2019 @smalldad you could try talking about it with your wife. Something along the lines of "you know nearly all guys masturbate, if I do it doesn't mean I desire you any less, do you mind if..............? Obviously you fill in the blanks, but you get my train of thought there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smalldad Posted February 27, 2019 Report Share Posted February 27, 2019 2 minutes ago, Red Scott said: @smalldad you could try talking about it with your wife. Something along the lines of "you know nearly all guys masturbate, if I do it doesn't mean I desire you any less, do you mind if..............? Obviously you fill in the blanks, but you get my train of thought there. Oh she knows I do! lol There's no problem around that. I used to tell her (before kids) not to use the bathroom cause she might get pregnant. No, that's not how we ended up with kids Knowing that I do it isn't a problem. Doing it right beside her would feel strange and awkward, I think. It's probably healthy, in the long run though. We're fully capable of taking care of ourselves and there's nothing wrong with it. I might try it. Who knows. It might even help with some of my other problems. Red Scott 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyJock Posted March 9, 2019 Report Share Posted March 9, 2019 On 2/26/2019 at 5:26 AM, overthehill said: Relationship never recovered after seeing her response to a 9.5" penis shaped dildo. I was too mentally sensitive and delicate, I guess. Not here. My wife and I first started to use the 7'5" dildo when she couldn't get off for some reason. It certainly did the trick. We now occasionally use it as an added dimension to our sex. It certainly produces a more violent type of climax for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 10, 2019 Report Share Posted March 10, 2019 (edited) 2 hours ago, TinyJock said: Not here. My wife and I first started to use the 7'5" dildo when she couldn't get off for some reason. It certainly did the trick. We now occasionally use it as an added dimension to our sex. It certainly produces a more violent type of climax for her. Good that you didn't find that depressing. What is your secret? How did you think about it? That violent climax of which you spoke was very impressive and depressing to me. . . like, why bother? Edited March 10, 2019 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TinyJock Posted March 10, 2019 Report Share Posted March 10, 2019 4 hours ago, overthehill said: Good that you didn't find that depressing. What is your secret? How did you think about it? That violent climax of which you spoke was very impressive and depressing to me. . . like, why bother? No secret. Sex is a way to have fun and give your partner some fun. Anything that accomplishes that can't be depressing. Now don't get me wrong. I'm probably the most self-centered and narcissistic guy around. I have many great qualities: good-looks, a fantastic bod, charm galore.* But a big dick ain't one of them. So, if my cock ain't up to the task, I'm willing to use my tongue, or a dildo, or the plumber. Luckily I haven't had any leaky faucets lately. It's just a matter of recognizing your assets and weakness, and acting accordingly. Anyone who thinks his balance sheet contains no liabilities is either a fool or Bernie Madoff. * And don't forget modesty! hunboy, RodEnuf, smalldad and 3 others 4 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 11, 2019 Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 On 3/10/2019 at 1:12 AM, TinyJock said: So, if my cock ain't up to the task, I'm willing to use my tongue, or a dildo, or the plumber. I was always more modest than that, but I think I was attractive in some of those ways to women, but was too sensitive to have the flexibility you suggest. Maybe too rigid a self-image or desired self-image. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbird4 Posted March 11, 2019 Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 The one room in my house where a locked door doesn’t attract attention is the bathroom. So I often go to the bathroom with the computer to read . My wife is very sexually repressed. She swears she has never masturbated. She would be pissed if she knew I did it as often as I do. We have talked about it. And that I have needs and sometimes it’s just better if I do it. But she thinks it’s wrong. So we pretend it doesn’t happen. Doug60, HurtbutHopeful, lilpeter and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smalldad Posted March 11, 2019 Report Share Posted March 11, 2019 On 2/27/2019 at 11:43 AM, jms1 said: Question to all you guys--What do you do with the ejaculate after you've climaxed? Talking "hiding the evidence." I shower it off unless I used a sock, towel or my underwear but I like to make a mess. I don't use tissue because that's too much work when it starts to fall apart then it dries and you have to pick it off sensitive parts and out of body hair or end up showering anyway. tiny4inch 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HurtbutHopeful Posted March 12, 2019 Report Share Posted March 12, 2019 13 hours ago, jbird4 said: The one room in my house where a locked door doesn’t attract attention is the bathroom. So I often go to the bathroom with the computer to read . My wife is very sexually repressed. She swears she has never masturbated. She would be pissed if she knew I did it as often as I do. We have talked about it. And that I have needs and sometimes it’s just better if I do it. But she thinks it’s wrong. So we pretend it doesn’t happen. Exact same here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 14, 2019 Report Share Posted March 14, 2019 Im not married but I lived with a girl in my early 20s in college, and I either jacked off in the shower, or if we didnt have sex sometimes or i just wanted to do it myself i would jack off in bed with her when she went to sleep. I also sometimes would walk across to my straight friend in the same apartment building and jack off with him watching straight porn. I know several married guys that would come to my house even up into my 3os and watch porn and jack off. These guys were straight and didnt want me to touch them or do anything with them but it was a convenient place to jack off. I think they did get off on me watching them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted March 19, 2019 Report Share Posted March 19, 2019 If my wife is at work I can masturbate anywhere in the house and let the semen fly and moan out loud when I orgasm. If she is at home then it is the bathroom and I have to be much quitter when I orgasm. HurtbutHopeful 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted March 19, 2019 Report Share Posted March 19, 2019 On 2/27/2019 at 12:43 PM, jms1 said: Question to all you guys--What do you do with the ejaculate after you've climaxed? Talking "hiding the evidence." I just clean my ejaculate up with a few tissues after I climax. jms1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
williamg Posted March 23, 2019 Report Share Posted March 23, 2019 I have a home music recording studio in our 2 story. She can be downstairs in the master BR and I can go to town in my studio. I often cam with other guys as well. Having been a hobbyist musician most of my life, she gives me room. I will edge most times anyway. If she leaves for the day, I may even ride a dildo or two up here!That said, I don't masturbate if I know we are going to have sex. Keeping balance allows me the freedom. 6INCHES66 and HurtbutHopeful 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Krantz53 Posted April 10, 2019 Report Share Posted April 10, 2019 @Red Scott No wonder my eyesight keeps getting worse! Red Scott 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allen43 Posted April 10, 2019 Report Share Posted April 10, 2019 Lots of times my wife watches me do it. Other times I do alone in a storage shed in the back corner of our lot. I also enjoy doing it in the bathroom where I can put one foot up on the vanity and watch myself in the mirror. I like to come close to actually ejaculating and then I stop for maybe half an hour or so and then do it again like that a few times before I actually allow myself to squirt. Sometimes a small amount, maybe a thimble full, of cum will ooze out of my penis before I actually start feeling the contractions of an orgasm. When that happens I scoop up what I can with my fingers really quickly and eat it.Then I will continue masturbating and in just a few seconds I will squirt maybe a few small squirts and then the rest will ooze out. Sometimes my contractions keep going even after I’ve stopped squirting. I really like it when that happens. 6INCHES66 and HurtbutHopeful 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 I think outdoors on my apartment patio is great, unfortunately all the people living around me don't seem to agree. LOL jms1, 6INCHES66 and HurtbutHopeful 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jojojojo Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 On the toilet. When ever she's out. Over her sleeping ass. To name a few. Mainly on the toilet. 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted April 11, 2019 Report Share Posted April 11, 2019 1 hour ago, canuck45 said: I think outdoors on my apartment patio is great, unfortunately all the people living around me don't seem to agree. LOL If I was your neighbor I would not mind at all if you masturbated on your patio!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chevy1946 Posted April 18, 2019 Report Share Posted April 18, 2019 @tiny4inch yes agree a 100 percent, happy when she does errands to allow me some free time 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiny4inch Posted April 18, 2019 Report Share Posted April 18, 2019 Just now, hotrod01 said: @tiny4inch yes agree a 100 percent, happy when she does errands to allow me some free time Like right now for me!! 6INCHES66 and chevy1946 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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