Guy Went To Meet His Girlfriend's Parents...

[RodEnuf]

Guy Went To Meet His Girlfriend's Parents, Realized He Had Slept with Her Dad

By Collin Gossel - ComicSands.com

Sometimes people don't get along with their significant other's parents.

It's not an entirely uncommon issue, and the reasons for a disconnect are often fairly simple: they have big expectations that you don't meet in some way, you don't share common interests or they're pushy about how you and their child should be living your lives.

One guy who wrote into The Guardian, however, ran into a fairly uncommon reason to butt heads with his girlfriend's dad: they used to sleep together.

The anonymous man, looking for "sexual healing" advice, wrote into The Guardian's Pamela Stephenson Connolly, "a US-based psychotherapist who specializes in treating sexual disorders."

He wrote:

"Five years ago, I went through a bi phase and used to sleep around with pretty much everyone that came along, including other men. This changed when I fell in love with my new partner, who is everything to me."

"I recently met her parents and halfway through lunch realized that I had slept with her father. I was going to propose, but when my partner and her mother were away, he told me to end it with his daughter."

"I'm obviously in love – shall I just ignore him, or tell my partner?"

Dr. Connolly's advice wasn't very reassuring:

"I am not sure you could ever have a comfortable future with your new partner."

"To tell the truth would be to court disaster: a probable break-up, plus the risk of a permanent rift between father and daughter and father and wife. Hiding the truth would lead to toxic secret-keeping that could be equally destructive in the long run."

"If this whole family was as open-minded and sexually open as you, it might be possible for you to become part of it. However, the father – your former lover – has made it clear that you will not be welcome."

"Walk away now, and avoid the massive pain that would otherwise be inflicted on your partner, her family and yourself."

NOTE: The original article at ComicSands.com is followed by a number of Twitter posts in reaction to the story.

[Red Scott]

To hell with her father that's what I say! It's not like he's going to tell his daughter what happened because he'd be exposing himself then. In fact I'd tell her father "in order for me to end this relationship I'm going to have to tell her the truth and state the honest reasons for ending what we have because I love and respect her. Is that what you want, is that sitting comfortably with you?" 

He'd probably change his tune then! 

[Appreciater]

@Red Scott .....to take it farther: ....and I know this is a big surprise and shock to the Both of us.  We need to let this settle down a bit.  I completely agree to never say anything about what we've done, to Anyone...if you agree to do the same.   What happened... happened ...and we can just leave it at that and move on.

[Guest]

Obviously, how to handle this situation depends upon who was the top and who was the bottom.

[NuderThanNude]

So what was really the father's problem. Was he afraid that if he didn't end the relationship with his daughter he would eventually tell her about her dad? Or does the father feel he is not good enough for his daughter because of his relationships with men? 

[RodEnuf]

I do hope you all realize that the first two posts in this topic were made over four years ago.

Alan G

[Guest]

7 hours ago, RodEnuf said:

I do hope you all realize that the first two posts in this topic were made over four years ago.

Alan G

Timeless issues to sort-out!

[Appreciater]

..... When I was 20, I helped part-time at a funeral home for about a year.  (Had thought about this profession, I liked it and could be around and do all of it .. Except... I had no heart for stabbing, draining, embalming..🤮)   Anyway, the funeral director/owner and I got kinda close, and he was the sort who wanted to give me head and masterbate himself kneeling in front of me until I fed him, then he'd shoot off on the floor.  That's the way he liked and wanted it.

The funeral home upstairs was the family residence, and his wife and two daughters were mostly upstairs.  The girls were late highschool age, and I feel sure that if I had sooner or later taken up with one of them, there would have been no problem with him as to our situation.  I'm sure he would still have wanted his turns.