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Hi,

 

I was wanting to know if anyone here who was lets say 5.2 to 5.5 or upwards to 6 had ever been told they were "small" or actually told that you were a measurement shorter than you actually are. Like lets say you have a 5.5 inch penis and the girl says you are about 4 inches..... this has happened to me in the past and umm yeah...I hated it. Thoughts?

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I have only had one girl when i was younger actually come out and say something. I have always been insecure about my size in general but not neccesarily insecure as a whole. From age 15 to 35 i had a lot of sexual partners. Even though I felt my cock was small I would never miss a chance to use it. A few years after school...maybe around 20 years of age i was hanging out with friends. It was late and we had been drinking as usual. One of the girls there was very straight forward and always talked or made jokes about sex. I had sex with several of her close friends previously. Somehow as usual the conversation went to sex. We were also talking about men shaving their pubes. She asked me if i shaved and i pulled the front of my pants down enough to show her I was clean. When i did she said "pull it down farther so I can see your cock. I heard it was small". I didn't and told her she heard correct but it got hard as concrete. She laughed. Long story "short" a couple hours later she was giving me head as I leaned back against her car. She just had to find out and no, she never complained about the size while she was doing it lol.

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At 5.5x4.75 I have almost always been referred to as small and compared to most of my friends I am.  Only recently have I accepted that my penis is more average than small and my recent partners have commented that I'm not small any with a recent hookup was told I have a nice dick.  My ex wife used to refer to it as cute, she prefers larger but married me anyway, and like I said earlier most of my friends are larger, like 7+. 

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I'm 6" bang on and the only person to see it as small, or shorter than it's actual length is me! Or should I say "was me" I'm over that now.

The one and only time that I've had a negative comment, to my face at least, was from a mate whilst in my teens. To be fair his was huge, he said mine was "small" but in comparison to his he was bound to think that. On that basis I never took any notice of what he said. 

Nobody I've ever had a sexual experience with has said anything negative about my erect size, only positive things or simply not mentioned size at any point at all. When it comes to my flaccid size, I've had some slightly disappointing looks and when I've picked up on these I've usually said along the lines of "I do better when I'm hard!" 

In essence I, like many guys, have been my own harshest critic! 

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I have a 6.5 inch penis with a girth of 5.5 inches erect. However, unless I'm with a guy for more than just chatting nude, he only sees me flaccid which is less than 2" with a 4" girth. I'm in some nudist groups and have been referred to as small many times. At one nudist group, we took a picture of all the guys lined up flaccid from smallest to largest. There were about 15 guys and I was second from smallest. Then we all got erect (that was fun :P ) and took another picture. I was fourth from the largest.

https://imgur.com/xnOqXBy

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On 6/12/2019 at 12:02 AM, Brockmatthews said:

... she said "pull it down farther so I can see your cock. I heard it was small". I didn't and told her she heard correct but it got hard as concrete. She laughed. Long story "short" a couple hours later she was giving me head as I leaned back against her car. She just had to find out and no, she never complained about the size while she was doing it lol.

When i was a teen i was somewhere in the 5 to 5.5 inch range, but later in my 20s i was either 6 due to it growing, or due to getting leaner.I seem to find really histrionic girls....and they tell me of stories of guys with baseball bats for cocks. the first girl who ever saw me said i was average like most of her guy friends. which felt good. I didn't learn till later like most of us that 5 to 6 inches is the vast norm for men. and it scared the shit out of me. Ive done some PE and it has worked, I know that's taboo here but the thing is even with my increase in size it didn't fix my self esteem or self love. so my advice to all here is self love and caring for the SELF. I respect any man no matter what he was born with.

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@Restoredude man, I was hoping to see the lineup!

I have been with 3 guys who had over 7" penises. The first was my first boyfriend and at 6'1" he looked proportionally beautiful. We measured him once and when he was 7" smack on we both felt a little smug. The second was a beautiful Roman God who was almost the size of an original coke bottle and when he took his out he gingerly asked me if it wasn't too small. My eyes popped out of my head and I, for the first and last time in my life, asked him to please be gentle. The third was an attractive Israeli who was just a little too proud of his circumcision. To him I constantly reminded him that his penis was "not that big." Why did I do this? Probably because he was always fishing for compliments in a way that seemed insincere. I have nothing against cut or natural, but it rubbed me the wrong way that he kept saying that cut was better. I felt like he wanted to be the biggest I had ever had to which I could not oblige.

I have, more often than the other way, been with guys who had average or larger penises who thought theirs were small. When I informed them that, no, they had won the dick lottery they all were visibly more pleased with themselves than before. I like to credit myself as the big-dick-fairy -- bestowing the gift of big dicks on men who had them all along (just never knew it).

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My cock is 5.5 by 4.5 on its best day.  There’s a few specific memories that I can recall.  

Many years ago, I went out dancing with a long time college friend and we were drinking.  On the dance floor, things got hot and I got rock hard and started grinding against her.   She whispered in my ear.  You are poking me and reached down my pants.  “Ooh, you have a little cock huh?”  Lol.  What a gut punch!

 I’ve known this friend for a long time and we have always been just friends - we were close to the point where she has described her boyfriends size and sexual technique in depth.  We have never hooked up before.

We went back to my place.  We started kissing again and I got rock hard.  I asked her do you really think my cock is small?  She said.  Lemme check it out again. She pulls down my boxers.  Grabs my cock, examines it.  “It’s tiny bro” “its a nice dick, but it’s short and skinny.  What is it? 4 inches?” “No, it’s atleast 5! How big was your ex?”   “He was huge.  We measureed it, and it was 8 inches.  It was past his belly button.  But more importantly it was super fat.  Twice as thick as yours.”  “Does size matter? “  “Fuck yeah!  But im still going to fuck that little cock of yours” with a sexy smile of hers.

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Another story involves a former girlfriend.   At that point in time.  We have been dating a year and things were great.  Passionate sex, we got along great. We were really into each other.   One night, after some drinking were involved.  She opened up. 

She said “You know, I think we matched perfectly sexually.”   She is a petite, skinny Asian girl.  I’m 6 ft tall and very muscular. “My pussy is small.  I’m just so happy your dick isn’t as big as the rest of you.  When we first met, I was afraid you were going to be big down there.”

We have never talked about penis size before.  Was this a complement? Did she just call my penis small?

“My ex on the other hand was too big” Her ex was like 5’5 and Asian as well.  Are you serious? He was bigger?   “A lot.  He was at least 7 inches and much thicker.  We had to use lube every time.  And it still hurt!”  “Babes, your cock is perfect for me.  My pussy is small.  Your cock is small.  We are perfect for each other.”   How big do think my cock is? “Like atleast 4 inches right?”  It’s 5.5!  “Whatever, it’s perfect for me.  Not too long.  Not too thick.” 

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On 6/13/2019 at 10:10 AM, in part Shyboi5 said:

...  “Babes, your cock is perfect for me.  My pussy is small.  Your cock is small.  We are perfect for each other.”   How big do think my cock is? “Like atleast 4 inches right?”  It’s 5.5!  “Whatever, it’s perfect for me.  Not too long.  Not too thick.”

so you had more or less the same experience as I did...

its very painful or can be. the funny thing is if you look up a porn star named Alex Sanders and watch a lot of his vids, you will see that he's no more than 5.5 inches.... that size is only small when compared with someone who's big. Otherwise it's totally normal. I'm glad someone else knows what I'm talking about. your right there with the vast majority of men. your input is appreciated. 

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On 6/12/2019 at 11:44 AM, Red Scott said:

In essence I, like many guys, have been my own harshest critic

That is so very true.  Often times we may assume another person thinks our penis is small, when they may not be thinking that at all.  We just assume the worst.  My penis is long, but it lacks girth, and I have always been self-conscious about how thin it is.

Two comments I received from sexual partners about my penis made me laugh.  Neither of the comments were meant to be hurtful and were said with the people not even thinking of how they could be interepreted.  

I think I have shared this one before, but here goes again.  In college, a guy I knew approached me and said he was a virgin and interested in trying anal sex.  He said he had heard through a mutual friend that my dick would be good for a first-timer because it was real thin.  I preferred being a bottom so we agreed to taking turns.  He seemed to really enjoy it, and I know I really enjoyed being a bottom for him.  He was the perfect size for me; about 5 X 4.5 or so.

We kept it up for awhile and then all of a sudden I didn't see him anymore. When I did run into him we chatted for awhile and I asked him if he was interested in coming over to my place.  He thanked me but said no thanks.  By way of explanation, he compared my penis to the bunny hill on the ski slopes, saying it was good for beginners but now he just needed more of a challenge.  He became very apologetic when he realized what he had said, but all I could do was laugh.

The second time was before I was married, and my soon-to-be wife was going down on me.  She loved to take her time and would bring me close than hold back, prolonging my joy, and hers, as long as she could.  This one time after bringing me close and pulling off, she smiled and said something like, "I could just do this all day.  And the great thing is, my jaw never gets sore."  I looked at her and started laughing and said, "I guess it's a good thing I don't have a fat one."  She got really embarrassed and apologetic but we both had a good laugh.  From then on it became her "all day sucker".

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2 hours ago, Tsoren said:

The second time was before I was married, and my soon-to-be wife was going down on me.  She loved to take her time and would bring me close than hold back, prolonging my joy, and hers, as long as she could.  This one time after bringing me close and pulling off, she smiled and said something like, "I could just do this all day.  And the great thing is, my jaw never gets sore."  I looked at her and started laughing and said, "I guess it's a good thing I don't have a fat one."  She got really embarrassed and apologetic but we both had a good laugh.  From then on it became her "all day sucker".

Your dick is officially 1 ISU in girth! (International Sucking Unit). Congratulations!

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Backing in my 20's I was right on 5" & had a hand full of girls in that time. Never had them orgasm from penetration, but knew how to get them off fingering their G-Spot.
One of my party mates was also on the scene & had barely 5" as well & they always got off during penetration. Mostly missionary in the next room or back seat.

Saw his hard-on a few times & put it down to him having an extremely curved dick. (Upwards banana).


 

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4 hours ago, Brockmatthews said:

I need to get on a diet and lose some fat pad so I can hit that 1ISU 

Yes, let me be clear, you cannot underestimate the effect of  just loosing weight but being lean around your waist and groin. as a teen i had small love handles but was in great shape and had about 5.-5.6 , in my 20s when i finally got my waist down i was 6 inches, and bpel i was about 6.25. the thing is there is a phenomenon where if you get a bone pressed measurement with a fat pad the actual" bone " itself is obscured by a sort of marbling effect. when that fat pad decreases you non bone pressed and bone pressed length get longer exposing length that you didint know you had. thats why its so important for guys with this kind of anxiety to loose fat. 

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