Brockmatthews Posted June 14, 2019 Report Share Posted June 14, 2019 @RAized a few years ago i had back surgery. I know, its no excuse, but during recovery i got out of my normal healthy lifestyle. I use to run regularly and lift to keep toned up. I weighed 175 when healthy and was around 12% bf. If I got below that I felt weak and tired. My dick would measure right at 6" then and now its 5.5. I have been on the roller coaster of loosing the extra weight but I'm working on it. Vinnig 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAized Posted June 14, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 14, 2019 10 hours ago, RAized said: Yes, let me be clear, you cannot underestimate the effect of just loosing weight but being lean around your waist and groin. as a teen i had small love handles but was in great shape and had about 5.-5.6 , in my 20s when i finally got my waist down i was 6 inches, and bpel i was about 6.25. the thing is there is a phenomenon where if you get a bone pressed measurement with a fat pad the actual" bone " itself is obscured by a sort of marbling effect. when that fat pad decreases you non bone pressed and bone pressed length get longer exposing length that you didint know you had. thats why its so important for guys with this kind of anxiety to loose fat. The thing is, is that even at 6 inches i would still look down and think it looked to small....but then you take the ruler or whatever 6 inch object your holding up closer to your eyes..and wow that looks kind of big. a legit six inches isnt a small size, i really dont care what people say. a legit 7 is big period. but 5.5 is more common in even porn than most people think, i was told this by a guy who has shot the stuff, if a dude is 5'7'' and has a 5.5 inch penis that can be made to look 6.5 easily on camera. My beliefs as a teen that all normal guys are in the 6.5 to 7 inch range skewed my perception of what I had and did alot of damage, had i known that 5-6 was the norm I would have a had a much better time. I think alot of us would have Biggie Smalls, Red Scott and Vinnig 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted June 14, 2019 Report Share Posted June 14, 2019 (edited) 19 hours ago, Tsoren said: The second time was before I was married, and my soon-to-be wife was going down on me. She loved to take her time and would bring me close than hold back, prolonging my joy, and hers, as long as she could. This one time after bringing me close and pulling off, she smiled and said something like, "I could just do this all day. And the great thing is, my jaw never gets sore." I looked at her and started laughing and said, "I guess it's a good thing I don't have a fat one." She got really embarrassed and apologetic but we both had a good laugh. From then on it became her "all day sucker". There you go again bragging about your penis and how your wife likes to suck it for hours at a time followed by a massive orgasm. Have you not tortured me enough? J/K of course! LOL!! Edited June 14, 2019 by 6INCHES66 Tsoren, bbme and Vinnig 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsoren Posted June 14, 2019 Report Share Posted June 14, 2019 (edited) 4 hours ago, 6INCHES66 said: There you go again bragging about your penis and how your wife likes to suck it for hours at a time followed by a massive orgasm. Have you not tortured me enough? J/K of course! LOL!! LOL!!! Yes, that is my goal in life, to torture you. But don't forget, with your girth, my wife would not only have wound up with a sore jaw, it probably would have been dislocated. While you were blessed with the cock I can only wish I had, I was blessed in other ways. And I am thinking of posting a topic that will probably only having you drooling some more. Edited June 14, 2019 by Tsoren Red Scott, bbme, Vinnig and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Scott Posted June 15, 2019 Report Share Posted June 15, 2019 @RAized absolutely spot on the money there brother! Porn has a lot to answer to, particularly with the "tricks of the trade" used to make a guys penis appear much larger than it actually is! The most common tricks being: Using guys whom are relatively short in relation to their penis length. Thus making their endowment seem larger. Actresses whom are very petite. Thus making the guy look taller than he is which in turn enhances the apparent size of his endowment. Clever use of camera angles, done correctly this can make a big difference to how big a penis looks. You can experiment at home with angles using your phone's camera and you can get some impressive results! There's other tricks used but those are the main ones. There's obviously a few actors in porn whom are genuinely huge but the majority are 6" to 7" This seems difficult to comprehend but it's actually true. wewanttolive, Biggie Smalls and Vinnig 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted June 15, 2019 Report Share Posted June 15, 2019 17 hours ago, Tsoren said: LOL!!! Yes, that is my goal in life, to torture you. But don't forget, with your girth, my wife would not only have wound up with a sore jaw, it probably would have been dislocated. While you were blessed with the cock I can only wish I had, I was blessed in other ways. And I am thinking of posting a topic that will probably only having you drooling some more. Please post your story I cannot wait to read it. Allen43 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RAized Posted June 15, 2019 Author Report Share Posted June 15, 2019 (edited) 20 hours ago, in part Red Scott said: @RAized absolutely spot on the money there brother! Porn has a lot to answer to, particularly with the "tricks of the trade" used to make a guys penis appear much larger than it actually is! . . . yes , and you would be surprised how many of the guys who are biled as 8 inches are 6-6.5. this has been confirmed to me by a reliable source. now granted they arent exactly thin cocks, but they arent the size billed. the comment i made about alex sanders was accurate though. look at enough of his videos and disregard the massive shots where hes full and shes sucking him up close and you'll see the illusion.hes not more that 5.75 tops. but that should give men of this measurement more security more than anything when i was a teen i figured him a full 7 inches. then you get a ruler and look at 7 inches...umm that actually big lol. this doesn't mean that Im denying big dicks in porn , its a matter of "how big actually" more than anything Edited June 16, 2019 by RodEnuf Reduced 100% quote to just enough to establish context. Red Scott 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldenboy Posted June 29, 2019 Report Share Posted June 29, 2019 On 6/15/2019 at 5:01 AM, Red Scott said: @RAized absolutely spot on the money there brother! Porn has a lot to answer to, particularly with the "tricks of the trade" used to make a guys penis appear much larger than it actually is! The most common tricks being: Using guys whom are relatively short in relation to their penis length. Thus making their endowment seem larger. Actresses whom are very petite. Thus making the guy look taller than he is which in turn enhances the apparent size of his endowment. Clever use of camera angles, done correctly this can make a big difference to how big a penis looks. You can experiment at home with angles using your phone's camera and you can get some impressive results! There's other tricks used but those are the main ones. There's obviously a few actors in porn whom are genuinely huge but the majority are 6" to 7" This seems difficult to comprehend but it's actually true. I'll grant you that they go out of their way to accentuate cock size, but let's be realistic here. That's a lot of acrobatics to try to rationalize the reality that porn stars generally have bigger cocks than us mere mortals. Even most guys in amateur porn. Write it all off as camera tricks if you must, but let's keep the pseudo-rationalization within reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted June 29, 2019 Report Share Posted June 29, 2019 3 hours ago, goldenboy said: I'll grant you that they go out of their way to accentuate cock size, but let's be realistic here. That's a lot of acrobatics to try to rationalize the reality that porn stars generally have bigger cocks than us mere mortals. Even most guys in amateur porn. Write it all off as camera tricks if you must, but let's keep the pseudo-rationalization within reason. True none of them are average, but like everything in movies, it looks better than real life, after all Tom Cruise is only 5'7" , 2" under the average. The camera adds 10 lbs and 2 " LOL Red Scott 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brockmatthews Posted June 29, 2019 Report Share Posted June 29, 2019 My camera adds 10 pounds but I cant find the setting to add 2" Tsoren, Biggie Smalls, wewanttolive and 4 others 3 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted June 30, 2019 Report Share Posted June 30, 2019 On 6/28/2019 at 11:16 PM, Brockmatthews said: My camera adds 10 pounds but I cant find the setting to add 2" Sit down, lean way back, put the camera down by your knees point at your face. You cock will look like it reaches your nipples. LOL Brockmatthews and Vinnig 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PapaJim69 Posted June 30, 2019 Report Share Posted June 30, 2019 (edited) Well I am between 4.5 and 5,5 inches long depending upon how excited I am. My FWB says that my cock is just a great mouthful. She loves to suck cock. Admin Note: Papa Jim's naked self pic removed from this forum post can be viewed by SOS Subscribers in the "Member Naked Self Pics & Clips" section of the Gallery by clicking HERE. Non-subscribers will reach an error message. Edited July 1, 2019 by RodEnuf Removed naked photo. Rule 7 violation. Naked photos only permitted in Gallery. canuck45 and Vinnig 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devil28 Posted July 2, 2019 Report Share Posted July 2, 2019 (edited) I'm 5 & a half inches absolutely bone pressed, but 5 with my tubby build. My penis wouldn't be so bad if I had average girth at least. I've only had sex a couple of times so nothing bad said yet. Edited July 2, 2019 by Devil28 Vinnig and wewanttolive 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Scott Posted July 3, 2019 Report Share Posted July 3, 2019 @goldenboy Of course many guys in porn are bigger than us mere mortals, I'd be ignorant to say otherwise, but lots of them really aren't as big as they appear! There's no acrobatics about it, just ask yourself why they're penetrating girls at such weird angles. They do this because the camera angle then accentuates their length. Experiment with camera angles yourself, try omitting as much of your body from a shot as possible at the same time and you'll see how easy it is to make your own appear much larger than it is! If a porn star is 7" long it would be easy to make him appear 8" - 9" long. I remember my girl once taking a photo of me, she unintentionally used a very complimentary angle she looked at the photo and said "my god it looks massive, you could do porn with that" She was right it looked way, way bigger than in real life. One things for sure, I ain't doing porn no matter what angles they use! I don't have the confidence for that! Vinnig, wewanttolive and Biggie Smalls 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Soma~ Posted March 5, 2020 Report Share Posted March 5, 2020 On 6/11/2019 at 11:32 PM, RAized said: I was wanting to know if anyone here who was lets say 5.2 to 5.5 or upwards to 6 had ever been told they were "small" or actually told that you were a measurement shorter than you actually are. Like lets say you have a 5.5 inch penis and the girl says you are about 4 inches..... this has happened to me in the past and umm yeah...I hated it. Thoughts? At my 6.5" long (with a 5.25" girth) I've heard strinkingly opposite things about my cock. Here are the two more extreme examples: Two years ago I was with a petite asian girl (not trying to patronize here, but yes, she was asian and small, and I think even a bit smaller than the average asian girl). Her cunt was so tight and tiny that I easily reached her cervix while she was fully aroused and wet, and with almost an inch of my cock still out (I'm used to reach the cervix of some women during penetration, not all of them, and always pushing my penis to the limit). In the after-sex talk she told me she felt proud because she had never had a 8" cock inside before I explain to her my cock is 6.5" and she replies NOPE, THAT'S AN EIGHT INCHES COCK! She didn't seem willing to debate that claim, so I didn't insist On the other hand, once I was with a gorgeous voluptuous mature woman (like ten years ago... she was 54 and I was 26... yeah, MILF fantasy gone wrong). She was somewhat conservative, recently divorced and told me that she had only been with two men in her entire life: her two ex-husbands. Her vagina was extremely loose. After the first time she just sat in the bed looking at me and literally told me I had a small dick, then she proceeded to explain VERY graphically the size of her most recent husband, and by her gestures that was something that would embarrass a horse. Regarding the last example, that specific moment triggered size anxiety for the first time in my life (although I had sex a few times more with that skewed-minded lady, she kept reminding me of her size perception), and it took me some years to totally overcome it ... since that time I have had a couple more encounters with size queens, but I have become a better lover and at the same time more cynical, so I have learned to enjoy all the experiences. I guess everything is a matter of perspective, perception and proportion. wewanttolive, DThomas, Tsoren and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DThomas Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 @~Soma~ Regarding your last example, I am sorry you had to go through that. It is painful how someone can wreck your confidence with commentary regarding an aspect of your body you cannot control. A woman made a comment regarding my smaller hands, and that made me feel uneasy for some time. Sometimes when I hear this compounded with the knowledge that said woman either had failed relationships or marriages, I could only think about the irony of one who feel so empowered to disempower another thinking they can maintain a bond with another person. Sadly, I don't think I can add much in terms of commentary, just wanted to express my sympathy. The only thing women have commented on was my girth and even those were far and few (or however that idiom goes). I guess my lot of experiences were used to 7 inchers or didn't really care about my length. Vinnig and ~Soma~ 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Soma~ Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, DThomas said: Regarding your last example, I am sorry you had to go through that. Thanks! but I'm not sorry about that. From that event I have learned a lot about myself, about others and about the dynamics that govern social ties. Once I see the larger picture (no pun intended) I became a much stronger, confident and resourceful person. I think people like you and I shouldn't have had such anxieties, others have much more objective reasons to feel that way, but it's still difficult to deal with people's perception. Edited March 6, 2020 by ~Soma~ DThomas 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pokerpro831 Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 (edited) 15 hours ago, in part,~Soma~ said: ● Two years ago I was with a petite asian girl (not trying to patronize here, but yes, she was asian and small, and I think even a bit smaller than the average asian girl). Her cunt was so tight and tiny that I easily reached her cervix while she was fully aroused and wet, and with almost an inch of my cock still out (I'm used to reach the cervix of some women during penetration, not all of them, and always pushing my penis to the limit). In the after-sex talk she told me she felt proud because she had never had a 8" cock inside before I explain to her my cock is 6.5" and she replies NOPE, THAT'S AN EIGHT INCHES COCK! She didn't seem willing to debate that claim, so I didn't insist And the Asian will go tell friends about your horse cock so you have that going for you. Edited March 6, 2020 by RodEnuf Reduced full quote of long post to part being responded to. Vinnig, Biggie Smalls and ~Soma~ 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 (edited) 15 hours ago, ~Soma~ said: she had only been with two men in his entire life: his two ex-husbands. Huh? LOL? Maybe the divorced her (extremely loose). Admin Note: Corrected in original post. English personal pronouns can be confusing to people for whom English is a second language. Edited March 6, 2020 by RodEnuf Added Admin Note. ~Soma~ and Nillywilly 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
~Soma~ Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 6 hours ago, canuck45 said: Admin Note: Corrected in original post. English personal pronouns can be confusing to people for whom English is a second language. There are more grammatical errors in my post than that, I usually spot them when it is no longer possible for the user to edit the post. And yes, English is not my mother tongue (if you think english pronouns and tenses are confusing, you should try spanish as a second language). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
old n hard Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 @Tsoren Joke or no joke. I'd happily trade places with you. When I was at dick dot net my cock was admired/desired by some. Even back then I was the only one who enjoyed it. Beautiful love/sex with a small cock is much better than well endowed with nothing. What good is a big cock with no place to call home? I could piss just as well with a small one. Tsoren, Nillywilly, 6INCHES66 and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 41 minutes ago, old n hard said: @Tsoren Joke or no joke. I'd happily trade places with you. When I was at dick dot net my cock was admired/desired by some. Even back then I was the only one who enjoyed it. Beautiful love/sex with a small cock is much better than well endowed with nothing. What good is a big cock with no place to call home? I could piss just as well with a small one. I agree. Tsoren is a very lucky man. I love my wife and will not complain but I do miss her warm tight vagina filled with my hard cock. Some older women just lose interest in sex. Biggie Smalls, Tsoren and old n hard 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuck45 Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 @~Soma~ Not a problem, just some kidding around.......your english is better than my second language... mind you with all the gender identity stuff, people are now posting their preferred personal pronouns online (in LinkedIn) seen John Smith (he/him/his), so she might prefer he/him/her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 6, 2020 Report Share Posted March 6, 2020 I to love my wife and would never leave her and she is ane older lady who doesn't have sex anymore, and I do miss it. But it's not from lack of interest, it's from a disability illness and the medication that robbed her of her sex life when she was in her early fifties. So I'm content to solo it as I have no desire to cheat on her and ruin our love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 7, 2020 Report Share Posted March 7, 2020 (edited) 10 hours ago, Pilgrem said: I to love my wife and would never leave her and she is ane older lady who doesn't have sex anymore, and I do miss it. But it's not from lack of interest, it's from a disability illness and the medication that robbed her of her sex life when she was in her early fifties. So I'm content to solo it as I have no desire to cheat on her and ruin our love I have a similar situation, but actually don't miss sex any longer. Because of my small penis issues, real and imagined, sex produced a lot of anxiety, maybe best described as angst. I feel like my mind has cleared. I would be interesting to "start over" with sex with a clear mind, though not possible at my advanced age. Edited March 7, 2020 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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