LilManToo Posted June 14, 2008 Report Share Posted June 14, 2008 I read all of the responses here and do have a couple of comments. To those of us with an unusually small penis it is a non-sexual but legitimate concern as to whether a son might be undersized as well. For some, there is a lot of emotional baggage that accompanies growing up with a small penis and a parent must be prepared to contend with those emotional problems. To qualify this, only the head of my penis is visible when flaccid and hardly visible when covered with pubic hair (the reason I started shaving my pubes) and I also have very small testicles. Even as a preteen I knew I was unusually small and I don't think I had a lot of emotional issues with my size but to avoid embarrassment or heckling I never showered with the other guys in my gym classes. I always scheduled gym the last class of the day and would shower at home. When my son got to jr high I mentioned that to my wife and she said that I had nothing to worry about because he took after her side of the family. I asked how she knew and she said that she had recently walked in on him in the bathroom and got a full frontal view as he was stepping into the shower. Being a curious and now proud father I asked and she said that even though it was apparently just hanging there he was a bit larger than I was when I was fully hard. There was no sexual interest (so please don't accuse me of being a sicko or pervert) but that was a moment of relief and pride!! Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hardashell Posted June 15, 2008 Report Share Posted June 15, 2008 When i was about 15, I found out that i was actually a lot bigger than my dad... And back then, being the big-headed jerk I was would always sort of want him to walk in on me naked, just so he could see that I was growing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cd69 Posted August 13, 2008 Report Share Posted August 13, 2008 Well, I can offer a recent experience on this topic. I am between 5 and 5.5 erect. My son is 14. His girlfriend recently sent me a text that she intended for him that commented on his 7 inch dick. All I can say is good for him and all I said to her was to be more careful in looking up contacts on her phone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughPoint Posted August 13, 2008 Report Share Posted August 13, 2008 Isn't parenthood wonderful?!? :roflmao: :bow: :bowdown: :applausesmilie: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theone54321 Posted October 3, 2008 Report Share Posted October 3, 2008 My 12yo son is quite a bit larger than me. He is probably around 5 soft and 7+ hard while I am only 1-2 soft and 4.5 hard. I am very proud at how big he is and never miss a chance to let other friends see him naked (we are very open about nudity at my house). They are always impressed. Sometimes he teases me about size but it is all in good fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughPoint Posted October 4, 2008 Report Share Posted October 4, 2008 Please tell me you're not parading your son around in naked display for your friends. Now where did I put the ipecac syrup? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lim Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 As I have mentioned at another post, my 16yo son have a larger one than me. I can remember he was more than my size by age 13. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theone54321 Posted October 7, 2008 Report Share Posted October 7, 2008 Roughpoint - No I don't parade him around naked. I guess a better way to phrase it would have been I enjoy when other people see him naked because I am proud of his size. In my circumstance with locker rooms, pool, etc. there is ample opportunity for my friends to see him naked and he is not shy like a lot of boys his age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cd69 Posted October 24, 2008 Report Share Posted October 24, 2008 Wow. How far along is he in puberty? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duke Blade Posted November 19, 2008 Author Report Share Posted November 19, 2008 Thanks to everyone who responded. I get the feeling the younger generation is just bigger in general than us old guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adam B Posted November 19, 2008 Report Share Posted November 19, 2008 (edited) I know that if i do have any sons, they will all be larger than me very soon off the bat. In that instance, i would be very happy for them but i would never want them to be exceptionaly larger than average. Not to insult anyone who reads this who belongs to the large sized group, but i've heard a lot of women complain that lovers they've had who considired themselves large to be poor lovers, not trying to please them woman outside of their sheer size. If my future hypothetical sons were to be 4 inches and no more, i'd be very happy. 4 inches is something to be proud of and quite up to the task of pleasing a woman. I would try to impress upon them though to learn what each women likes and dislikes, so as they could become great lovers without needing to be well endowed. Also, I do wonder if there have been any studies showing penis size trends over time. If one believes the media, that a large penis is most desireable, than one would think that the overall average size would be increasing. But then agian, i've heard a friend ranting about how we polute the world and nature fights back in several ways, reproduction included. if this is actualy possible, is it possible that the average size is getting smaller. Maybe neither is right and average size is staying where it is... It's an interesting thought at least. Edited November 19, 2008 by Guest i should learn to proof read b4 posting Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caradt Posted January 28, 2009 Report Share Posted January 28, 2009 There's a lot to say about this post. First off, I can relate to how this guy feels. I don't have a son myself but I have wondered about what it would be like if he was bigger than me....by a lot, and then what if he took after me and was on the smaller side. Can't win either way with that mindset. On comparing him to his peers. I thought it was bizarre Duke brought that up, but I don't think childhood penis size has a lot of correlation to adult penis size. But if his son is "larger" for a 6 year old, maybe he will trend that way as an adult. Stands to reason. What surprises me though are these posts where guys are worried about being smaller than others, especially younger guys who may not even be through puberty, and then on their profiles, they are 5-6 inches erect. If that's accurate, they are pretty close to average. It'd be nice to be hung like a porn star, and you'd obviously be beating everyone at any sort of penis measuring competition, but bottom line a lot of comparison goes on in our heads...we wonder, or catch a glimpse of someone, then wonder about it some more. If Duke is 5 1/2 inches he's really not that small, unless he doesn't have a lot of girth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KyleR Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Anyone in opposite situation, and feel ashamed or disappointed that not as big as his dad? I have a little more than 6 inches so not too bad, but my dad has over 7.5 and more 5.5 thick. growing up i thought I'd end up with as big. Not that he made for of me for being smaller either now or then, but he did show off a bit and now Im disappointed didn't grow as big. Any others in that situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Olli Posted August 23, 2010 Report Share Posted August 23, 2010 Well, yes, definitely. I'm disappointed that I'm most probably smaller than all the men in my family -even though I'm more envious of my brother than of my father. I just hope my father is not too disappointed himself that he had a son like me (the whole issue, not just relating to penis size). I wouldn't want to have a son either, because I know I'd feel extremely envious and would end up resenting him. But it probably doesn't help that I don't like kids to begin with -let alone male ones- and am firmly set on never having any. Not that I could have any by accident though, as I'm sterile ! Foursquared 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoughPoint Posted August 24, 2010 Report Share Posted August 24, 2010 Sorry, but how in the world do you know specifically what your father's penis measurements are? I find your post very upsetting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man of Xymox Posted August 26, 2010 Report Share Posted August 26, 2010 It baffles me how so many guys know the measurements of other family members and friends. It's one thing to get a glimpse of someone flaccid and guess that they would be bigger or smaller when erect but how would you know their exact measurements? I have two brothers and I have no idea how big their penises are. Don't really care to know either. Never spoken to any guy about the size of our penises either. I guess I live in a different world. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
japanjf Posted August 26, 2010 Report Share Posted August 26, 2010 Same age as you and same comment. I might have once glanced at my dad. Never saw him naked otherwise. My brother... I saw as a little kid. He was smaller than me then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Man of Xymox Posted August 26, 2010 Report Share Posted August 26, 2010 When we were very little 4-7 y/o my brothers and I would sleep in the same bed and sometimes our sister who was the youngest sibling would come and join us. On more than one occasion if she had a friend over she would join in too. We would play the "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" stuff. But I was so young that as far as I was concerned the only thing my penis was for was peeing. So I don't remember comparing and I don't remember the girls saying anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F. LaCid Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Interesting thread, been going some two years I believe. I know not how I compare to my now deceased father, though I still wish, even in supposed maturity, to live up to him as a man. I saw his penis inadvertently as a child (probably around 1955) and he seemed huge; later (1957-8) saw my PE teacher's penis in the changing (locker)room of a public (private for the colonials!) school where we grammar school boys went to swim. I was daunted. Move on thirty odd years and my mother, some time after my father's death, made a comment that 'he was never very big down there'! Very reassuring for me don't you think? It really is relative, in both senses of the word. I neither know nor care how big/small my son's penis is. He has a gorgeous wife and a pigeon pair of lovely children -- thnks be that the school holidays are nearly over! However, he wears UK size 9 shoes (EU44?) I wear UK size 7.5 (or 8 as half sizes can be difficult to find -- EU41 or 42) My son-in-law wears size 8.5 and he and my daughter have 2 super daughters. Is there any correlation? My father by the way was UK size 7 (EU40). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RodEnuf Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 This may help you translate F.LaCid's shoe sizes into your own local sizing system. Adult Mens and Womens Shoe Size Conversion TableM/W indicates Men's or Women's Sizes. Other systems are for either gender. System Sizes System onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFCC'" > Europe 35 35� 36 37 37� 38 38� 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46� 48� Europe onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#CCCCFF'" > Mexico � � � � � 4.5 5 5.5 6 6.5 7 7.5 9 10 11 12.5 Mexico onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFCCFF'" > Japan M 21.5 22 22.5 23 23.5 24 24.5 25 25.5 26 26.5 27.5 28.5 29.5 30.5 31.5 Japan M onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFFF'" > W 21 21.5 22 22.5 23 23.5 24 24.5 25 25.5 26 27 28 29 30 31 Japan W onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FC9'" > U.K. M 3 3� 4 4� 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 8� 10 11 12 13� U.K. M onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFFF'" > W 2� 3 3� 4 4� 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 9� 10� 11� 13 U.K. W onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFC'" > Australia M 3 3� 4 4� 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 8� 10 11 12 13� Australia M onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#CCCCCC'" > W 3� 4 4� 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 8� 9 10� 11� 12� 14 Australia W onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#99C'" > U.S. & Canada M 3� 4 4� 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 8� 9 10� 11� 12� 14 U.S. & Canada M onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#CCFFCC'" > W 5 5� 6 6� 7 7� 8 8� 9 9� 10 10.5 12 13 14 15.5 U.S. & Canada W onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#CCFF99'" > Russia & Ukraine * W 33� 34 � 35 � 36 � 37 � 38 � 39 � � � � Russia & Ukraine W onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFFF'" > Korea (mm.) 228 231 235 238 241 245 248 251 254 257 260 267 273 279 286 292 Korea onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFCCCC'" > Inches 9 9-1/8 9-1/4 9-3/8 9-1/2 9-5/8 9-3/4 9-7/8 10 10-1/8 10-1/4 10-1/2 10-3/4 11 11-1/4 11-1/2 Inches onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFCC'" > Centimeters 22.8 23.1 23.5 23.8 24.1 24.5 24.8 25.1 25.4 25.7 26 26.7 27.3 27.9 28.6 29.2 Centimeters onmouseover="this.style.color='#FFFFFF';this.style.backgroundColor='#0000FF';" onmouseout="this.style.color='#000000';this.style.backgroundColor='#FFFFFF'" > Mondopoint 228 231 235 238 241 245 248 251 254 257 260 267 273 279 286 292 Mondopoint /> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RodEnuf Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 BTW, shoe size and penis size are not correlated. I put forward my own size 13's (U.S.) and my skinny 4-3/4 inch'er as exhibit number one. Alan G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big4SmallNKy Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 BTW, shoe size and penis size are not correlated. I put forward my own size 13's (U.S.) and my skinny 4-3/4 inch'er as exhibit number one. Alan G Exhibit B: size 8 1/2 shoes, 9" cock. Again, no correlation Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
F. LaCid Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 BTW' date=' shoe size and penis size are not correlated. I put forward my own size 13's (U.S.) and my skinny 4-3/4 inch'er as exhibit number one. Alan G[/quote'] Exhibit B: size 8 1/2 shoes, 9" cock. Again, no correlation That's another myth almost put to death. Might be passingly interesting for the unofficail census though. There are, of course, other presumed or so-called correlations to penis size and other body parts -- but that could be a whole new topic! Thanks guys. :undecided: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
japanjf Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 All the observed correlations between body parts and penis are minute and therefore cannot be observed by having a few precisely measured encounters. ( i.e. requires over 1000s of encounters for height as I personally checked using published self-measured stats!) Therefore they are TOTALLY useless in trying to select a partner. As pointed here, right above this post, personal experiences reflect this fact. This topic is really a joke. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
japanjf Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 The reason the myth is always "almost" put to death is because people say that there is NO correlation. Mathematically this means ZERO. Completely correlated would mean ONE. The fact is that the number is probably less than 0.05. I never tried to estimate it using published data. Maybe one day I should and put the result on a thread here. Steve (I am not a statistician but nevertheless use math in my work) PS. The r_xx in the following article has a pretty clear definition. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Correlation_and_dependence Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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