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21 hours ago, NuderThanNude said:

If someone makes a untrue statement to me and I accept it as true and I later take an action based on that statement that causes me harm, was I a victim? 

Untrue doesn't really have much to do with the process I analyzing.  Discrimination is a better description of the victimization that occurs. 

It is assigning a status which a group is free to do based on real or imagined sexual capabilities or lack thereof.  Basically, a representative of the group or the group assigns a lesser status based on their values. 

Yeah, you can reject such a group and reject their "genital" values in retaliation to their rejection.  Unless your eyes are wide shut it is a large swath of people.

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wayless - your line of thought regarding becoming a victim due to words spoken by others is what has caused you and others here to have had life long anxiety and insecurity issues.

I have never let the malicious words spoken by other affect me negatively. Consequently, I have never experienced those issues. Therefore, I think I will stick with my line of thought regarding victimization by words. You can stick with yours.

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A few years ago I was at a spa in Arizona, and in the locker room this older overweight Hispanic gentlemen was on his cellphone talking about making plans or something, just regular talk, but I thought talking on the cell phone was a bit odd.  So I glance over, and just as a I do, he removes his towel, and there's his belly and what appears to be like a 7-8" soft cock just dangling proudly below his pouch.  Definitely the biggest one I've ever seen (maybe excluding a few porn stars).

I was taken aback, because I had a stereotype that generally fat men didn't have big penises, but I was wrong apparently.  What made it even more amazing was that, after I went to the hot tub and came back to the changing lockers, what I think was his dad was there, they were walking to the showers, and he was just as big as his son.

Oh man! ;)

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On 1/18/2021 at 1:15 PM, canuck45 said:

Showering after gymnastics class.  Our gymnastics teams was guys from 12-18..... 

Ahh - that makes sense!  I think all my school nudity was with boys of the same age (with a coach or two catching a glimpse or two, I am sure).  But, the "gymnastics class" is a different deal - and it reminded me that we had an even bigger age-spread in our martial arts school.  When I was in my late thirties, I attended a small MA school nearby.  The few female students who needed to change at the school did so in the office (with curtains drawn) or the single unisex rest room.  The guys used what was probably just a storage area in the back.  No lockers, no showers, just a large room.  Some guys came already suited up.  But many of us changed when we got there.  The kids' classes were early and I think every one of them came suited up.  But we had one boy, age 12, and a couple early teens that attended the adult classes due to their individual skills.  They also normally arrived suited up.  But I do recall one incident when the 12 year old was changing in the back with the rest of us.  He was quite shy and kept his back to us (not surprising in those post-mandatory-showers-at-school years).

And, of course, when I was a member of a gym here and there, I remember seeing boys of all ages in the locker rooms, now that I think about it.  So... I guess that was a pretty stupid question on my part!  

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Anyway, having confessed my ignorance above, I do have a couple incidents that surprised me.  One involved my best friend in High School.  We were at my girl friend's house.  Both of our girl friends were in the bedroom trying on different swim suits.  My buddy and I were standing in the den across the hall.  The girls would come out and "model" for us, then go back and get another bikini and come back out again.  I'm sure they were doing it to tease us but we weren't complaining.

Well, they decided what they were gonna wear so now it was our turn to change into our baggy swim shorts.  He shut the door and we both pulled off our tee shirts and tossed them aside, then we both pulled down our cut-offs.  Except during school, we both went commando almost all the time so pulling them off showed everything we had.  We'd seen each other naked at school (and occasionally at his house or mine) over and over again through the years - no big deal.    In fact, we had almost "twin" penises (i.e. nothing really impressive but both virtually identical in size, flaccid).  But this time, as his cut-offs came down, up sprung his semi-hard penis!  Like I said, I'd seen him naked hundreds of times, but when that semi popped loose, that was the first time I'd seen him anything other than soft so, yes, I was quite surprised to see him like that (although, given the show we'd just watched, I shouldn't have been).  Something that surprised me as much or more that the sight of my semi-aroused buddy was the fact that that very sight caused me to immediately start to plump up, as well.  And I was certainly not expecting that physical reaction!

So, no, he wasn't abnormally small or big (in fact, his semi looked very similar to mine, just like his softie did), but I was still very surprised by the sight of it.

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  • 8 months later...

I've mentioned this guy before but I didn't describe the circumstances.

One Saturday summer morning I returned from running with friends.  As usual, I stripped down and jumped in the pool to cool down.  I heard the fence gate open and looked up to see my friend Jim entering.  I got out of the pool naked to greet him and invited him to jump in and cool off.  Let me digress and describe Jim: 50, 5'8", 220, more muscle than fat but still obviously a big belly.  Well, he strips down.  Because of his heavy thighs his big balls hung forward and rode high.  His flaccid dick contoured over his balls and hung down below them.  Easily the biggest flaccid dick I've ever seen, longer and girthier than me erect.  I was awed and told him so.

Later, my late wife told me she saw Jim naked though the kitchen window and was awed as well.

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I was with my Friend and i told him i had a big penis.  He sais he though His is bigger.  So we compare.  We were both Soft.  I was 5.5" and he was 3.5.  and he Said we should get a boner. Once i had my thinck 7" x 6.5" i looked at him proud of me then i saw His was as big as mine but was not hard yet. Full erect he was massive 10"

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On 12/11/2021 at 6:38 PM, TherealB999 said:

I was with my Friend and i told him i had a big penis.  He sais he though His is bigger.  So we compare.  We were both Soft.  I was 5.5" and he was 3.5.  and he Said we should get a boner. Once i had my thinck 7" x 6.5" i looked at him proud of me then i saw His was as big as mine but was not hard yet. Full erect he was massive 10"

wow

 

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On 1/16/2021 at 11:50 PM, JasonBeam said:

. . . the other incident was a size thing. We had this First Class Petty Officer who was a real asshole, nobody liked him, and he did everything he could berate everyone under him. One time I saw him coming out of the shower, and before he covered up, I could see he was small, really small ... hung like a button. I remember thinking, maybe that's why he's such a jerk, because he feels so inadequate in the dick dept and he takes it out on everyone around him. 

I had a similar incident but just the reverse. I had just made 3rd Class and we got a new 2nd class. He was kind of an ass hole but I got along with him okay. I almost always do. Anyways, about two months after he got there, he poked his head in our latrine/shower room looking for someone. I'd just stepped out of the shower, completely nude. Refresher: I'm 6'3", well-built, hairy-chested -- but hung like a chipmunk; soft, just a nub barely poking out of my pubic hair. His eyes traveled down my body, then stopped for a second at my crotch. 

For some reason, after that he had it in for me. He really rode my ass on everything. Down to the littlest shit. Everyone noticed it. "What did you do to him?" I always wondered what it was about seeing my little dick that turned him so much against me. I never saw him nude, but did see him in his white government-issued boxer shorts; from what I could see, it looked like he wasn't lacking in any way. 

 

BTW, there was a lot of discussion earlier about "victimization", etc. My take on that is simple and basic to my philosophy of life: I don't let anyone -- or anything -- bother me. Only I determine how people and things affect me. I choose to let things slide away. For instance, if the dealer says my car isn't ready, I'll have to wait a couple hours. I could get mad, storm around, make myself and everyone around me thoroughly miserable. I choose instead to say, "Hey, this is a great time to get some reading in." One may ask about the story above. Hey, I didn't say it wasn't a pain in the ass. I just didn't let it get to me that much. Actually, I think that pissed him off!  

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I do remember one of my classmates at university, he was around 5 foot 6 tall and fairly thin. He wasn't interested in sports but joined us for a class Vs class football game once. Back then it was the open gang showers and remember being surprised at his large uncut cock.

Don't think I was the only one who noticed, he said it was the one part of his anatomy that kept growing!

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My best friend growing up was always short and pretty nerdy, I always assumed I would end up being way bigger than him. Now we are in our 20s, he is 2 years younger than me and he has grown tremendously. He is taller than me now, and has the biggest cock I’ve ever seen in person. Probably close to 6” soft and I have to assume 8-10” erect. Meanwhile I’m around the 4” range

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On 1/17/2021 at 3:28 PM, NuderThanNude said:

@wayless - I guess I always believed in the saying that I was taught when young. "Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me". I believe it is only 'us' who allow the words of others to have any impact.

I don't think that is true when we are kids growing up. Maybe later!  I didn't thicken my skin until I was well into my twenties. Bullies have a HUGE impact on our self esteems as adolescents.  There is a reason the suicide rate for homosexual teens is so high, and it has to do with the WORDS friends, teachers, and even family members use against them. But you are right that this is a great concept  to aspire to.  Meditation is a great skill to have, but it doesn't happen the first time you try it.  It serves us to learn to see an opinion for what it is, no more and no less.  I understand the CONCEPT that is it my choice to let someone's poisonous words soak into me, but you are asking a lot.  It is very adult to get to the point to recognize this concept even!   I don't want to add the burden of blame to judging a victim for being a victim.

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