Confused1963 Posted October 5, 2020 Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 I have only been able to get it up with women I did not care much about the one's I did really like and even one I loved it just wouldn't work all I could think about is she isn't going to like me Nillywilly and GramH 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6INCHES66 Posted October 5, 2020 Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
35Guy Posted October 5, 2020 Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 nope. i always prefer them to see it hard as opposed to soft even if my hard on isn't too long. 6INCHES66, penny4urthots and Nillywilly 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GramH Posted October 5, 2020 Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 No I think if you put enough effort into foreplay no woman will be interested in size Nillywilly and 6INCHES66 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GramH Posted October 5, 2020 Report Share Posted October 5, 2020 @Confused1963 that is so sad Nillywilly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toadfish327 Posted October 6, 2020 Report Share Posted October 6, 2020 I usually have no problems getting hard. I would rather women see me hard than when i am small and shriveled. Having a good looking female doctor and nurse practitioner is another story, both of them have seen me at my smallest. 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted October 6, 2020 Report Share Posted October 6, 2020 (edited) I failed to get an erection with only one woman, a woman I picked-up at a dance club. We were really hot for each other and felt each other up dancing and sitting at our table -- she was feeling my hard dick frequently. Somehow, when we got to bed, my dick was tiny flaccid. It was clear she was shocked. Dead as a doornail after that. I slunk away embarrassed. I made-up an excuse, but can't remember it. Edited October 6, 2020 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Itsmike303 Posted October 6, 2020 Report Share Posted October 6, 2020 No I don't think that's ever happened to me. I guess I just get excited any time someone, anyone, is interested in seeing my dick. 6INCHES66, Nillywilly and Restoredude 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Harker Posted October 7, 2020 Report Share Posted October 7, 2020 happened to me before many times.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tsoren Posted December 3, 2020 Report Share Posted December 3, 2020 Fortunately--and unfortunately--getting an erection while embarrassed, has never been a problem for me. I was 28 the first time a woman who I was about to be in a relationship with saw my penis. Prior to this, only my mother, an aunt and some nurses had ever seen the little guy. Of course I was extremely worried about his size and what this beautiful woman would think of him. And since I had previously done stuff only with guys before, I had no idea of how he would respond. But once I felt breast, the little guy immediately came to life. And when she begin to reach her hand down there, the little guy tried to put his best foot forward--okay, that is an exaggeration, his best half-a-foot forward--and do whatever he could to impress her. Well, it was love at first sight, for both him and her. And fortunately, even in my advancing years, he is always trying to look his best and stand his proudest for her. So luckily, although I was embarrassed about his size, he sure didn't let me down. Unfortunately, embarrassment with size issues, rather than prevent me from becoming erect, seemed to have the opposite effect at the worst possible times. Those times were the junior high showers. I guess he felt it was his duty to let everyone else see me at my "best" and he would pop up inspite of extreme embarrassment. He just has a mind of his own and there is not much I can do to control him. 6INCHES66 and Nillywilly 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobs yer Uncle Posted February 3, 2021 Report Share Posted February 3, 2021 In my younger days small size was occasionally an impediment to actually getting laid, if the girl wanted it to be bigger, but the getting an erection part (for me) was automatic. Some of my friends had a problem getting an erection when they’d had too much To drink, but the only effect being drunk had on me was to greatly delay my ejaculation. Which was a *plus*. When I began to struggle with ED it was the first time in my life that I had to deal with this. A lifetime of smoking, rising blood sugar levels and a heart attack sidelined my ability to get it up over a fairly short period of time. My only compensation has been that I never lost the ability to ejaculate through it all. That’s still just as ‘automatic’ as my erections used to be. I *am* a little concerned about how little time it takes for me to ejaculate now, I ejaculate pretty quickly and I would probably let it fly too soon if I could resume having intercourse with a penile implant. But, if this happened, I wouldn’t lose the ‘erection’ and I could go for a ‘two-for’ with ease. I would just make damn sure that she knew I’d popped my cork early, apologize for having to declare an ‘extended fuck emergency session’ and just keep going until I ejaculated again. Turn a *minus* into a *plus*... 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 3, 2021 Report Share Posted February 3, 2021 Described already in another thread. Went to a prostitute to get over my virginity. At first was too nervous to perform. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KotaRello Posted February 3, 2021 Report Share Posted February 3, 2021 The only times I've ever hard trouble getting hard, or maintaining it, is when I horny as all fuck, but not actually interested in doing things. The reasons vary from too tired to ' Gods dammit, I really don't feel like taking care of it'. 6INCHES66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 3, 2021 Report Share Posted February 3, 2021 On 10/5/2020 at 2:53 PM, Confused1963 said: I have only been able to get it up with women I did not care much about the one's I did really like and even one I loved it just wouldn't work all I could think about is she isn't going to like me That's too bad. . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SloStroker Posted February 4, 2021 Report Share Posted February 4, 2021 When I was younger and embarrassed by my small cock it would sometimes not get hard because I was so afraid for my partner to see it. But once I accepted my tiny dick and learned to love it, the thought of showing it off makes me super hard. I love that initial reveal and seeing the reaction when they see a guy my size pull out such a small dick. Foursquared, 6INCHES66 and grosky 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Foursquared Posted February 4, 2021 Report Share Posted February 4, 2021 I've had this happen with the hottest chick I ever hooked up with. After losing my v-card late at 22 which was a disaster. This girl was a friend and we are still "besties" but never tried to hook up again. On the opposite end I've gotten unintentional erections in the showers after sports when they guys were making fun of my little penis. And once when hooking up with a chick that said she hoped I was a grower and when i got hard she said not much of a grower and said this wasn't going to work. Smalldada and Nillywilly 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thr0waway Posted February 5, 2021 Report Share Posted February 5, 2021 Your partner is more likely to take an insecurity away from it, just like you are. I've had it happen with a bunch of guys, it took a while to understand it wasn't about me. Penises are funny that way 6INCHES66, Foursquared, Nillywilly and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 5, 2021 Report Share Posted February 5, 2021 (edited) Also happened to me once long after I had got past my virginity when I was able to date though always concerned that my size might disappoint. We were attracted to each other on all levels throughout a great date, but unaccountably my penis didn't co-operate at the end. Probably, the liaison seemed so important I felt too much pressure or something. Yeah, the woman blamed her self perceived lack of physical attractiveness then and there. I'm pretty sure that wasn't it though she was on the plain side and apparently sensitive about it. I'd certainly had sex easily enough with women far more "looks challenged" than her. The magic was lost forever as she avoided me after that. Edited February 5, 2021 by Guest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 5, 2021 Report Share Posted February 5, 2021 13 hours ago, Foursquared said: I've had this happen with the hottest chick I ever hooked up with. After losing my v-card late at 22 which was a disaster. This girl was a friend and we are still "besties" but never tried to hook up again. On the opposite end I've gotten unintentional erections in the showers after sports when they guys were making fun of my little penis. And once when hooking up with a chick that said she hoped I was a grower and when i got hard she said not much of a grower and said this wasn't going to work. Had variants of all those experiences. No fun. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted February 8, 2021 Report Share Posted February 8, 2021 Yes, a ton of times with guys I have really fancied. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScottieJ Posted March 21, 2021 Report Share Posted March 21, 2021 Only once. I'm a grower but tiny flaccid. I hide it with a padded bulge which I manage to slip off unnoticed. But one time the girl saw me before I could hard (and more or less normal sized) and laughed. I couldn't get it up after that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgdgolf Posted March 22, 2021 Report Share Posted March 22, 2021 Funny enough this has happened to me many times when I was dating. Coincidentally, it even happened with my current wife because I was so infatuated with her that I was afraid that she would dump me once she realized how small my dick was. I think the first 5 times or so we tried having sex, we just ended up cuddling. Fortunately she was not very experienced but very patient back then. Nowadays, she jokes about it, saying that she must be the one for me because she is the only one I have gotten hard for. Foursquared and 6INCHES66 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirKnubby Posted April 19, 2021 Report Share Posted April 19, 2021 I had problems getting hard when I first met my girlfriend. We were both virgins and pretty nervous but my size and thoughts about „what will she say?“ and „Am I even able to penetrate?“ made it pretty hard (no pun intended). After about a year I get easily hard around her. 6INCHES66 and Foursquared 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onetiny Posted April 24, 2021 Report Share Posted April 24, 2021 Yeah often, it took me ages to realise what was going on. Why was I hard as a rock when horny at some times but when I was with a girl I was trying to impress I could never get it up. I now know it's because I was worried about her reaction I think. 6INCHES66, Foursquared and Nillywilly 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curiositycat888 Posted April 24, 2021 Report Share Posted April 24, 2021 yes. in threesome mfm then later mmfm. Not sure if posted story here before so won't repeat but give the brief. NYC hotel room. White woman in 40s from Jersey. Me, whiteboy in 20s. Friend, Dominican parents, grown in NYC, late 20s. He whipped out maybe 9 inches give or take, dark color, very thick, strong, and hard, and she started riding him hard. Other factors from partying involved but i was encouraged to take off pants and i could not get hard at alll. Friend, however, being good friend, made her suck on me whole time regardless, which was nice. MMFM happened when friend's "uncle" , probably was, stopped in, whipped it out and almost as big as friend. White girl looked at me happy like "Runs in the family, wow." Knowing then that I was confidant status lol to the girl, and we were besties looking at the big dicks, did not help erection. Alas I said I would go to bodega. My friend said 'Get Condoms, not these little ones, we need big ones!' Holy embarrassment Batman but that memory still gives tingles Foursquared and 6INCHES66 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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