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I'm 40, measure at 6.3 inch length and 5.6 girth...is this considered small?


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2 hours ago, Salwin said:

I'm 40, measure at 6.3 inch length and 5.6 girth...is this considered small? My wife says out of 13 partners I'm nearly as large as the biggest, within half an inch in both length and girth.... you reckon she is telling the truth?

Really large isn't that common though they often are very active.  Probably telling the truth.

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You are above average and considered by a lot of women to be the perfect size, so no, if a woman has told you you were then that your near the biggest...well that's probably true as the reality of size is not what porn or other "adds" would have you believe. Most women will interpret your size as bigger than it actually is.  A 7-8 inch penis is likened to a monster and time and time again mistaken for being larger, and anything bigger is exceedingly rare. Anyhow, you are right in the best place in terms of size believe it or not.

If you see a big cock porn guy with an 8 inch cock, typically it looks like 10 to 12 inches....well put your 6.3 inches next to it on camera, and yours will look considerably bigger than you think because of how wonderful the cameras are.

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I know what you feel now. I have almost the exact same size like you have. And I feel constantly small - because I could see only large ones around me (mostly in porn) 

You are above average - thats what I hear all the time. So this is the truth I guess. But I feel much smaller than average like you do. I guess this is a small-penis syndrome, what we have.
Just relax your mind and let the anxiety goes away, like I do. When you have sex - it is a great pleasure what caused by your manhood. Dont forget that. Your brain is your main sex-organ.  

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9 hours ago, shooter said:

I know what you feel now. I have almost the exact same size like you have. And I feel constantly small - because I could see only large ones around me (mostly in porn) 

You are above average - thats what I hear all the time. So this is the truth I guess. But I feel much smaller than average like you do. I guess this is a small-penis syndrome, what we have.
Just relax your mind and let the anxiety goes away, like I do. When you have sex - it is a great pleasure what caused by your manhood. Dont forget that. Your brain is your main sex-organ.  

Shooter... here's the deal, the fact that you have anxiety about that goes to show that what any man sees between his legs when looking down or in a mirror at a distance is not the real deal, if you get an actual model of a dildo that has your dimensions, then look at it at your side holding it at waist level, then raise it up to your eyes like your a chick ready to blow it, you'll see that the difference is staggering, your brain will even make how the object feels in your hand to feel smaller when your holding it down there vs up right above eye level where it would be. Its hard to get over feeling small I know, and I get grilled on here for being a bigger guy, but i would hoe that my input and knowledge would help someone at some point. 

What the average dude still doesn't understand he is not only common, but that almost all average guys have been told "your small" or your smaller than you actually are in inches by a woman, well....because they are MEAN...not because that's real. If your able to get over that barrier youll feel better around women for sure. There are guys who are 5.25-5.6 who fuck circles around guys my size, and that's something you'll never hear a bigger guy say.

Its true.

So anyhow, 6.3 and above 5 inches in girth is perfect....that's 7.5 inches on porn in camera, believe it or don't.

~Cheers

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On 10/29/2020 at 11:23 AM, Salwin said:

I'm 40, measure at 6.3 inch length and 5.6 girth...is this considered small? My wife says out of 13 partners I'm nearly as large as the biggest, within half an inch in both length and girth.... you reckon she is telling the truth?

You have exactly 2 inches on me and 1/2" more in girth.   Hard to imagine that is small though possibly some women may have adjusted to larger and would notice.

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Every reliable published medical study of adult erect penis size has reported its average length to be between 5.1 and 5.5 inches BPEL.  (BPEL = Bone pressed Erect Length)  So at 6.3 inches, the OP is at least 0.8 inch above average.  And if he didn't press the fat pad above the penis against the pelvic bone when he measured, he has short changed himself from the get-go.


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On 10/29/2020 at 3:23 PM, Salwin said:

I'm 40, measure at 6.3 inch length and 5.6 girth...is this considered small? My wife says out of 13 partners I'm nearly as large as the biggest, within half an inch in both length and girth.... you reckon she is telling the truth?

Yes, probably she is. But I wouldn't think the within half an inch comment is 100% reliable as it depends if the other 12 all gave their exact measurements, or if she's guessing a bit.

She probably couldn't give a fuck exactly where you are on the list and doesn't like being asked about it though. That's just a guess, but I think while many or most women know it's common and even normal for a man to be obsessed or insecure about his size, not so many want to have to deal with these feelings directly.

Could be wrong, that's been my experience of it though.

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On 10/30/2020 at 3:38 AM, RAized said:

You are above average and considered by a lot of women to be the perfect size, so no, if a woman has told you you were then that your near the biggest...well that's probably true as the reality of size is not what porn or other "adds" would have you believe. Most women will interpret your size as bigger than it actually is.  A 7-8 inch penis is likened to a monster and time and time again mistaken for being larger, and anything bigger is exceedingly rare. Anyhow, you are right in the best place in terms of size believe it or not.

If you see a big cock porn guy with an 8 inch cock, typically it looks like 10 to 12 inches....well put your 6.3 inches next to it on camera, and yours will look considerably bigger than you think because of how wonderful the cameras are.

On a pic I uploaded on another site I got a comment saying "8 inches at least" (bolded for emphasis). So yeah, people easily overestimate dick sizes, especially when it comes to photos and videos that often are chosen to show your body/dick at its best.

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16 hours ago, Biggie Smalls said:

On a pic I uploaded on another site I got a comment saying "8 inches at least" (bolded for emphasis). So yeah, people easily overestimate dick sizes, especially when it comes to photos and videos that often are chosen to show your body/dick at its best.

yep, and alot of people on here have not figured that out yet, ive mentioned alex sanders on here before and other sites, hes the guy with long hair in alot of the 90s porn movies, as a teen i thought he was like 7 inches, but it wasn't till i was in my 20s that i realized the guy was sub six inches, and if you see real perspectives of him in the vids its clear to see. Hes literally the average penis, but most people wont believe it because they have such a poor self image. Ill say it again the so called "six inch dick" that every guy supposedly has, is about 5.16 5.25 or 5.5 if measured properly from the top. period.. if your above 6 your reasonably big if measured the right way. preston parker , hes got a thick freak cock, but measred properly in one vid from the top its clearly about 6.75 inches....take a ruler out , get that length, and then compare it to the size of the average girls hand....hes not the 8.5 period.

alot of this, at the end of the day is due to the perception  and "understanding" of size itself that men have of themselves. And another secret is that it doesnt matter what women think, because alot of them are going to say the average cock is small....well...no ..its not

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On 11/26/2020 at 11:27 PM, RodEnuf said:

Every reliable published medical study of adult erect penis size has reported its average length to be between 5.1 and 5.5 inches BPEL.  (BPEL = Bone pressed Erect Length)  So at 6.3 inches, the OP is at least 0.8 inch above average.  And if he didn't press the fat pad above the penis against the pelvic bone when he measured, he has short changed himself from the get-go.


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Rod, if you would explain to me hwo they come up with the "5.1" to "5.5" values....you are correct on the study, but isn't it a matter of standard vs "metric" because i actually went to the hardware store and asked around and the knowledgeable people told me there is no way to get 5.1 or 5.9 in inches since inches don't measure in .1 or .9....not really easy to convert it from 16ths ... does it mean 5 and 1/16 of an inch?  5.5 is clearly 5 and 8/ 16s of an inch, it just seems like the values would be stated differently.

Any knowledge you could share would be greatly appreciated

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@RAized :  Well, actually, . . .

10th 20th 50th of an inch engineering ruler.jpg

10ths, 20ths & 50ths of an inch Engineer's Ruler

But truth be told, that has nothing to do with the answer to your question.  Here's the actual answer.

By definition, an average is a calculated number, not a measured number.  So the length of each measured penis in the sample is decimalized (1/16 inch = 0.0625 inch,  1/8 inch = 0.1250 inch, and so on).  They are all added together and the sum is divided by the number of samples.  The result of that calculation is rounded to the nearest 0.1 inch, and that's the average for that study.  And some of the reliable studies were done using metric measurements and the average was then converted to 10ths of an inch.


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21 hours ago, RodEnuf said:

@RAized :  Well, actually, . . .

10th 20th 50th of an inch engineering ruler.jpg

10ths, 20ths & 50ths of an inch Engineer's Ruler

But truth be told, that has nothing to do with the answer to your question.  Here's the actual answer.

By definition, an average is a calculated number, not a measured number.  So the length of each measured penis in the sample is decimalized (1/16 inch = 0.0625 inch,  1/8 inch = 0.1250 inch, and so on).  They are all added together and the sum is divided by the number of samples.  The result of that calculation is rounded to the nearest 0.1 inch, and that's the average for that study.  And some of the reliable studies were done using metric measurements and the average was then converted to 10ths of an inch.


Alan G 

Thank you for an answer, I can see along the top of that ruler that it shows 10ths of an inch , and it give me a realistic view of what 3.9 inches or 5.9 inches or 6.9 would look like....  that's a good representation. most measuring objects I've found do not show that.

again, thank you

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On 12/1/2020 at 9:44 PM, RAized said:

Thank you for an answer, I can see along the top of that ruler that it shows 10ths of an inch , and it give me a realistic view of what 3.9 inches or 5.9 inches or 6.9 would look like....  that's a good representation. most measuring objects I've found do not show that.

again, thank you

Yeah, I think my closest measurement to my true size is almost exactly 6.7 inches long bone pressed and 5.7 inches around at the base where I am the thickest.

Also, as a visual aid I am almost exactly two quarters wide, a little thicker than two, I have an oval shaped cock.

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On 10/29/2020 at 11:23 PM, Salwin said:

I'm 40, measure at 6.3 inch length and 5.6 girth...is this considered small? My wife says out of 13 partners I'm nearly as large as the biggest, within half an inch in both length and girth.... you reckon she is telling the truth?

You are not small at all.  I'd put that size at upper average - especially that girth. Your wife's observations are correct. 

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