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In my youth I had many, many comparison opportunities with my brother and our two cousins..  My brother and I always seemed to be a little longer than our cousins, but much thinner.  It didn't bother any of us too much, as we just figured we would all grow.  As we got into our teens, the girth discrepancy seemed to become even more noticeable.  I was getting more and more concerned about that difference, especially with my youngest cousin, because I was three years older than him.  But it was lots of fun grabbing hold of their's and getting quite a handful.  

Flash forward to more recent times.  My youngest cousin lives in San Diego.  We got over to their place quite often in the summer and during the winter they come over here.  We see each other every month, whether for a long weekend or a week at a time.

They have a hot tub, and often my cousin and I will go in, sans suits, while the wives are out. And quite often, we will have erections when we get out.  Since we played with each other so much as kids, we are very comfortable seeing each other erect.  The difference is incredible.  He jokes that he is 6X6.  I know he is longer than that, because he is longer than me and I am 6.5.  And I know he is thicker than 6 inches, too.  And our girth difference is beyond description.  I am several standard deviations to the left on the bell curve when it comes to girth and he is several standard deviations to the right on that bell curve.  

I really do like looking at our erections close up, but I always do have a funny feeling inside about how much thicker he is.  

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20 hours ago, Tsoren said:

I really do like looking at our erections close up, but I always do have a funny feeling inside about how much thicker he is.  

Yes that feeling is a familiar one to me I think, I wouldn't know how to describe it other than exactly that though, a sort of darkly strange addictive undercurrent to the enjoyment I get from having the smaller penis in comparison with another.

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1 hour ago, Nimmo said:

Yes that feeling is a familiar one to me I think, I wouldn't know how to describe it other than exactly that though, a sort of darkly strange addictive undercurrent to the enjoyment I get from having the smaller penis in comparison with another.

Yes! I love that feeling. I love revealing my small penis to someone who is bigger. It's such a rush.

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I got a tent for my 11th birthday and 2 neighbor boys and I spent the night in the tent in my backyard. One boy"Rob" was my age and the other was 13. During the night the older boy said let's show each other our dicks. I was more than happy to take my shorts off but Rob was hesitant. So me and the older boy took off our shorts. The older boy had pubes and a decent dick for a 13 year old. I was small, hairless and intrigued with his size and pubes. He encouraged me to play with it, which I did, and before long he was rock hard and so was I. Rob finally took off his shorts and he was hairless like me, but his dick (which was also hard) was HUGE, especially sticking out with no pubes. Mine was about 2.5" hard, the older boy around 5" and Rob was 6+". We had been friends since I moved into the neighborhood at age 5. We had a very close-knit neighborhood. Kids of all ages playing football, hide and seek, riding bikes, etc. We had a vacant lot where the guys would take pee breaks, seeing who could piss the farthest, who could piss the highest up a tree, etc. but Rob would stand away from the rest of us. Thinking back, I feel like he knew he was endowed and was embarrassed to show it off. I saw his dick all through junior high and high school in the locker room and he continued to grow. I never saw him erect but in high school he was easily 6" flaccid and very fat.
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On 10/6/2021 at 11:50 AM, Restoredude said:
 
[...]  Thinking back, I feel like he knew he was endowed and was embarrassed to show it off. I saw his dick all through junior high and high school in the locker room and he continued to grow. I never saw him erect but in high school he was easily 6" flaccid and very fat.

My current best friend has a big cock and he is very reluctant to show it. I don't know why. It's fucking beautiful. Nice solid 7" cock with average girth. But he's very shy about having it seen.
 

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I think one of the first and only times I directly compared with someone was in 8th grade. Spent the night at a friends and he had a pool. We were swimming and decided at his suggestion to ditch our suits. His was a massive hanging flaccid, even after swimming it had to be 5+". Mine was turtled up into a little button. We were both equally fascinated by each other - I couldn't believe his was so big, he couldn't believe mine was so small. I could tell he kinda felt sorry for me, but he wasn't overtly mean - more just curious. 

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My cousin and I once showed each other our stuff; his was the only peen I've ever seen with greater girth than mine: at least 7" circumference at the base vs. my 6.5" and 6.5"-7.0" circumference elsewhere vs. my 6.25" elsewhere. His length was far greater than mine: ~7.5" vs. my 5.25".

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On 10/5/2021 at 8:48 AM, Shyboi5 said:

@Tsoren that’s a fun experience that reminds me of my cousin and I.   Yup, he is much more hung than me as well.  At least you have the nice length! What’s the girth on your cock?

 

 

My girth is an astonishing 8.5.  That's 8.5 centimeters or a really astonishing 85 (millimeters).  Oh well, someone has to bring the average down.  It's funny, I was kind of embarrassed to respond to the question initially, but now I feel a lot better. Thanks.

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2 hours ago, Tsoren said:

My girth is an astonishing 8.5.  That's 8.5 centimeters or a really astonishing 85 (millimeters).  Oh well, someone has to bring the average down.  It's funny, I was kind of embarrassed to respond to the question initially, but now I feel a lot better. Thanks.

Appreciate you responding.   I’m a fellow thin girth brother as well at a little 10cm.  Looks even skinnier against my muscular thick body.   Don’t feel embarrassed!  Be proud of what you have! 

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  • 2 months later...

I was 13 the first time I compared my erect penis with another guy. I had seen many young guys my age nude but never erect till then.

My friend was twelve at the time and we were camping in his back yard. As it usually does, our conversation turned to girls and sex, etc.  Then he suddenly suggested we compare our cocks.

Me being older and having reached puberty  I was pretty confident so I agreed to go first. He shown a flashlight on me and I slid my underwear down exposing my one inch flaccid penis to him.  He surprised me by reaching between my legs and rubbing my little penis and testicles. I was rock hard in seconds!! He stroked my 3.5 inch cock and rolled my small testicles between his fingers for about a minute, laughed and announced that he had a bigger cock and balls twice the size of mine. I demanded proof of course.

When we switched places I could clearly see he was telling the truth! When he got naked his cock was already hard and looked to be about 5 inches long and his balls were absolutely huge!! His cock, although big for his age was average at best, but his testicles are to this day one of the biggest sets I’ve ever seen. They were easily larger than the biggest hens eggs and hung down very low in his sack.

That night I realized I had a smaller cock than a 12 yr old and made a JO buddy. He and I were friends all through school and masturbated together frequently. Over time we both got bigger but he more so than I. He grew to nearly six inches while I topped out at 4.5. 

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I first compared with a few friends in high school, probably around 15 years old at the time. Great fun back in the day. We didn’t do anything more than just discuss our cocks. Mostly just liked  seeing who is straight, bent, big or small. One friend would get hard almost instantly, he was the biggest I’ve seen, dude had a 7” boner, he was around the same age as me 16, sophomore. 

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Not trying to get off topic here, but i had a question for the group.  After reading this site and all the great threads, I feel like my experiences have been different than everyone else’s and wonder if there is anyone else like me.

I have always been a bit shy, but not a prude about nudity.  Outside of running around the backyard naked when i was 7 and my brother was 5, i can’t think of another time i saw another guy in my family fully nude.  I have also never had any comparison experiences with cousins or friends, which seems pretty common to the group on this site.    In fact, i have never seen another erect penis in person.

I guess my question is are there other guys out there that wish they’d had the chance to compare but are like me and never saw another erect cock?  At 40+ years old, I am sure it could still happen…and I hope that it does but I definitely feel like I am one of the few people on this site that hasn’t already had the opportunity

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You're not alone. I never had the opportunity growing up either, I think all my friends were quite shy back then, and rumours of anything cock related would have got you a sound beating at school.

At least there's online ways to share and compare with others, that keeps me entertained for the moment!

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I did participant in a few masturbation sessions with a few friends as a teenager.  I did not notice the size of any of their cocks.  Just not something that was done in my teenage years. I am always surprised that I did masturbate in the back seat of a friends car with all 3 of them watching. Also once in a secluded wooded area with one other friend. He just watched me also.

I always love to share cock pics on this site via private message. Love to see all sizes of the male penis. 

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@Kiwi dude:  Like you, I never saw anyone else's erect dick throughout my childhood and my university years.  I only saw other guys naked in school locker rooms and in dormitory shower rooms where all the dicks I saw were flaccid.

Since I'm gay, I did eventually rectify that deficiency -- first with porn magazines, then with porn videos, and ultimately one-on-one in real life. :69:


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OK, I was all set to document the only three instances I can recall involving comparisons of penii (yeah, I like "penii" better than penises - makes me sound more edumucated, right?).  But then I read Kiwi dude's post and I wanted to respond to that, first, because I've wondered the same things....

From @Kiwi dude:

I have always been a bit shy, but not a prude about nudity.  Outside of running around the backyard naked when i was 7 and my brother was 5, i can’t think of another time i saw another guy in my family fully nude.

Well, I saw my Dad naked from time to time, but mostly because he kept his robe very loosely tied.  I think he wanted my brother and I to "see the future" but Mom wouldn't let him go nude.  I never saw my brother naked until he was 13 (I was 11) and he suddenly started going nude at home when our parents were out (I've written about this elsewhere in this forum).  I wasn't at all interested and certainly not into "comparisons" at that time, but obviously, with me being prepubescent, he was much larger (a good three or four inches - ha!) and he also had pubic hair which I did not.  I also went skinny-dipping one time with two of my cousins (one my age, 14, and the other 11).  That was all.

Also from @Kiwi dude:

I guess my question is are there other guys out there that wish they’d had the chance to compare but are like me and never saw another erect cock?

I can somewhat relate to this.  When my brother was doing his "naked time" thing at 13, he was erect most of the time.  I will discuss two other incidents in my next post.  But, adult erections?  I never once, in the showers in junior high or high school (or the ones in England for my time there), or the latrines or in the barracks in my military days, and also never in any gym or health club I visited as an adult, did I ever see another male erect.  So, when I read here (and elsewhere) about guys seeing other guys hard in the showers or in the sauna or steam room or wherever, I always wondered - how did I miss this happening in front of me all those years?  As for wishing I had the chance to compare - honestly, I never thought about it, had no desire to "compare" (the next post notwithstanding), but the thought of me being erect at school, or in the showers somewhere, or the sauna or steam room - that scared me to death!

 

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Now, as for my "comparison" events...

  1. American boy in English school.  My classmates were fascinated the first few times they saw me naked.  I was the only second-former in the school who was circumcised (and starting in my third-form year, after the other American student who was a fifth-former left, I was the only boy in the school who was "cut").  The comments and staring died off quickly except for one of my friends.  K was fascinated not only by my penis but by my pubic hair, as well.  At 12, he was only just sprouting his first few.  Being 13 at that time (they set me back a year because of the differences in American vs. UK education), I had a typical little early-teen bush over my pubic bone.  Well, one weekend when I stayed with him while my parents were on the continent.  On the Saturday morning, after K's parents went to the shops, he begged me to get naked with him so he could look at me.  By that time (probably 3 to 6 months after arriving in England), I'd acclimated to the English boys' uninhibited sexual curiosity (completely opposite of American boys) so I thought, "Why not?"  We stripped and K was already erect - but tiny.  He wanted to feel my pubic hair and wanted me to masturbate for him and so on but I still had too much Yank in my blood and I couldn't bring myself to do any of that (and I was not erect, either - that would've been too embarrassing for me).  But, it was interesting, I admit, to see him erect because I'd not seen any of the boys at school erect and I'd not allowed myself to really "LOOK" at their natural, uncircumcised penises - so this was my chance.  The hidden glans and dangling foreskin were objects of mystery for me.
  2. Second incident was years later, back in the States.  My best friend and I were at my girlfriend's house as she and his girlfriend were trying on different bikinis and "modeling" for us before we were all to head up the street to the other girl's house to go swimming.  Now S and I were the same age (17) and, although I was slightly taller, our genitals were virtually identical.  Very average, very typical and always soft whenever we were naked around each other.  Well, after our fashion show, S and I moved into the den to change into our baggie swimsuits.  As S pulled his shorts down, out sprung his penis, much thicker than I'd ever seen it and clearly semi-erect (the sight of the girls bouncing around in those bikinis had done the job).  This unexpected sight was interesting and disconcerting at the same time.  First, it was interesting because his semi-erect penis looked exactly like mine did at that "stage" of becoming hard.  But it was disconcerting because seeing his penis much plumper and about half-again longer and "growing" than I'd ever seen it caused my penis to start doing the same.  I immediately started getting hard and that scared the crap outta me (like most teen boys back then, I was quite paranoid about being considered "homo").  So WHY, my subconscious mind screamed, was I getting hard because I was seeing my best friend getting hard?  Fast-forward to today, I NOW believe that erections are like yawns - you see someone yawning, you tend to yawn.  So...
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