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Something I posted over on FetLife

 

I find it frustrating and disheartening that us average/smaller penis guys (5.5” and smaller) are the invisible group. What I mean by invisible group is, we read how there are men and women who love smaller penises but you never see pictures or videos of this. When it comes to the smaller guys, you only see pics and videos of them for SPH. If SPH is your thing, good for you. Not every smaller cock guy wants to be seen as a SPH, sissy, bottom, etc. Pics/videos you see on FetLife and most other places are of large to very large penises. You read, see and hear about how people “want to be fucked by a BBC or BWC” or “I need my holes stretched by a big cock”. Us smaller guys are just not represented in media, in a positive way. Why can’t we see pics/videos of us smaller guys having the same type of interactions that the larger guys have? There are men and women who say they prefer smaller guys but they never post pics or videos when they are with them. It’s not something you ever hear discussed between friends. The pressure to “go with the flow” when you are talking about guys penises is to always say you like big ones, for the fear that you would be ridiculed and teased saying you actually like smaller ones.

Interestingly you don’t see this same issue when it comes to women with small breasts. You can find all types of pics/videos of small breasted women and those proud to say they love them. It seems people shout about how awesome small breasts are, you see them represented in media. You can hear it talked about in conversations. Why does it seem small breast are 100% loved and accepted but small penises are not, typically the opposite?

We need to change this, to show more smaller penises in media, to make it “normal” and not something to be ashamed of, whether you are an owner of one or a lover of one. We can only change this if we stand up and try to make changes. If you have an average/smaller penis (and not looking for SPH), start posting up pics and videos of yourself, in a proud and positive way. If you are a lover and enjoy someone with a average/smaller penis, post up pics/videos of you enjoying and showing praise for them.

Lets start some small penis pride!

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Since accepting and no longer being embarrassed by my below average 4.75" penis I show it off every chance I get. I proudly admit I have a small penis. 

The problem isn't the "media" it's that men lie about their sizes and pass off pics of big cocks as their own. I know, I did it for years.

Sites like this and other are normalizing small penises. When I was young, 6" was considered average, now it's 5". 

All you out the with small penises (you know who you are), stop hiding them. Stop being embarrassed. Stop lying about your size. There are FAR more of us than there are porn cocks.

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On 10/20/2021 at 4:37 PM, smallgrower said:

Something I posted over on FetLife

 

I find it frustrating and disheartening that us average/smaller penis guys (5.5” and smaller) are the invisible group. What I mean by invisible group is, we read how there are men and women who love smaller penises but you never see pictures or videos of this. When it comes to the smaller guys, you only see pics and videos of them for SPH. If SPH is your thing, good for you. Not every smaller cock guy wants to be seen as a SPH, sissy, bottom, etc. Pics/videos you see on FetLife and most other places are of large to very large penises. You read, see and hear about how people “want to be fucked by a BBC or BWC” or “I need my holes stretched by a big cock”. Us smaller guys are just not represented in media, in a positive way. Why can’t we see pics/videos of us smaller guys having the same type of interactions that the larger guys have? There are men and women who say they prefer smaller guys but they never post pics or videos when they are with them. It’s not something you ever hear discussed between friends. The pressure to “go with the flow” when you are talking about guys penises is to always say you like big ones, for the fear that you would be ridiculed and teased saying you actually like smaller ones.

Interestingly you don’t see this same issue when it comes to women with small breasts. You can find all types of pics/videos of small breasted women and those proud to say they love them. It seems people shout about how awesome small breasts are, you see them represented in media. You can hear it talked about in conversations. Why does it seem small breast are 100% loved and accepted but small penises are not, typically the opposite?

We need to change this, to show more smaller penises in media, to make it “normal” and not something to be ashamed of, whether you are an owner of one or a lover of one. We can only change this if we stand up and try to make changes. If you have an average/smaller penis (and not looking for SPH), start posting up pics and videos of yourself, in a proud and positive way. If you are a lover and enjoy someone with a average/smaller penis, post up pics/videos of you enjoying and showing praise for them.

Lets start some small penis pride!

watch alex sanders porn, the guy is well below six inches long.

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17 hours ago, ChaChaman said:

watch alex sanders porn, the guy is well below six inches long.

Yeah, I don't think so.  Looking at HIS hands in relation to his penis size, he is definitely in the 6" range.  I think what makes him look smaller is his girth is less than many with 6"+ penises.  The slimness gives the illusion of being smaller.

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On 10/21/2021 at 8:37 AM, smallgrower said:

Why can’t we see pics/videos of us smaller guys having the same type of interactions that the larger guys have? There are men and women who say they prefer smaller guys but they never post pics or videos when they are with them.

There is a bit out here, but it takes a fair bit of sifting to find.

The majority is small cocks getting blow-jobs,
https://www.xvideos.com/favorite/63503915/small_cocks_getting_blown
https://xhamster.com/my/favorites/videos/5e4de8539b1a8972ee502c75-small-dicks-sucked-off
ZOIG - Great blowjobs for small average cocks porn collection by Zger6369

Small dick PIV content is a bit thinner on the ground.
https://xhamster.com/my/favorites/videos/60444fce77ce19096331f259-small-dicks-fucking
ZOIG - Poking it in porn collection by Zger6369

A good POV of a small cock fucking a pussy is at the hot end of my porn choices.

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On 10/22/2021 at 2:39 PM, smallgrower said:

Yeah, I don't think so.  Looking at HIS hands in relation to his penis size, he is definitely in the 6" range.  I think what makes him look smaller is his girth is less than many with 6"+ penises.  The slimness gives the illusion of being smaller.

your looking at him wrong,.....

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Porn is a business, and like any business, it sells what the customers want. If there was a significant demand for it, enough to make a profit, they'd be eager to show guys with smaller dicks. We may wish this ain't so, but numbers talk. At this very moment there are 6 people on Measurection and 5,738 on LPSG. Let's face it: most people wanna see big dicks in their porn, not small ones. And as long as that's the case they'll continue churning out porn with big dicks, not small. 

But porn isn't life, although the difference is fast narrowing. We're still a relatively monogamous society. We haven't become polygamous with the big guys hoarding all the women. There seem to be enough to go around. I've got one and I'm pretty sure most guys who have something going for them, or at least put in the effort to track them down, do too.

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride. In the meantime, I wouldn't waste my time over something that's not gonna happen. I think I'm the happiest guy on earth. I'm not gonna let the fact that I'm never gonna be a porn star bother me one bit. I'm starring in my own porno movie. 

 

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Similar to porn content,  several someones had the idea they need female writers/directors and a female perspective on pornography to appeal to women.  Sales sucked,  no one wanted  "chick flick" porn.

28 online here (click on show all) at 10:03pm PDT, 5560 on LPSG (47 robots not counted)

 

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23 minutes ago, canuck45 said:

28 online here (click on show all) at 10:03pm PDT, 5560 on LPSG (47 robots not counted)

:goodpoint: I learn something new every day. I thought "click on show all" was some sort of porn request. :shrug: 

But, in a very frightening "2001: A Space Odyssey" sort of way, it does prove my point: Even robots like big dicks! :omgsmilie:

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On 10/20/2021 at 2:37 PM, smallgrower said:

Something I posted over on FetLife

 

When it comes to the smaller guys, you only see pics and videos of them for SPH. If SPH is your thing, good for you. Not every smaller cock guy wants to be seen as a SPH, sissy, bottom, etc. Pics/videos you see on FetLife and most other places are of large to very large penises.

The SPH porn is actually aimed at the small dick guys.  Just about zero girls enjoy SPH or other forms of humiliation of men.  Some women do it for a living, but they find it unappealing in reality.

 Women who like small dicks are just ones who either hurt from big/avg ones, or they like how small ones look.  It's rarely desired for humiliation purposes.

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On 10/27/2021 at 9:54 PM, TinyJock said:

I'm starring in my own porno movie. 

What an absolutely GREAT comment.  Hadn't thought of it that way before, but I, too, am a co-star, along with my wife, in the best porn flick ever.  Actually calling it a porn flick is a disservice.  It is a love story.  (And not one of those sappy Hallmark pieces of crap.).  We all need to think about and discuss with our partners how best to utilize what we do have (and we all have so much more than just a penis) to make our intimate times together totally unforgettable moments of love, joy and devotion.  Our focus needs to be on our partner and not our penis.  Because like @TinyJock says, wishing isn't going to change anything.

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1 hour ago, Tsoren said:

We all need to think about and discuss with our partners how best to utilize what we do have (and we all have so much more than just a penis) to make our intimate times together totally unforgettable moments of love, joy and devotion.  Our focus needs to be on our partner and not our penis.  Because like @TinyJock says, wishing isn't going to change anything.

Yep!

If you think penis size is a big issue, ask a lesbian. They don't seem to have any issues having great sex without a penis present. 

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@curiositycat888 Agree. Among the lesbians I have known many delight in penetration, and by some pretty large objects. Just not penetration by a man…

And if you’re wondering, “Just how many lesbians have you known?”, I can say, quite a few. They are people, and when greeted with warmth and openness, I have only known a few who rejected my hails.

And if you want some stories, I can give them to you.

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43 minutes ago, Nillywilly said:

@curiositycat888 Agree. Among the lesbians I have known many delight in penetration, and by some pretty large objects. Just not penetration by a man…

That was my point. As small dick men need to be open to purchasing and using some of those big toys to satisfy our partners.

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When I worked in a porn store, the best sellers were the 5" -7" vibrators and dildoes.  You have to keep a grip on them so 4-6" of useable length.
A friend uses his 9"X7" dildo during foreplay but always wants my 5X5 living dick to finish the night.  Sometimes no dildo but always wants the dick.
 

On 11/20/2021 at 5:58 AM, SloStroker said:

As small dick men need to be open to purchasing and using some of those big toys to satisfy our partners

Open to, as a possibility but not a necessity.
 

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