Admit to have a small penis

[Frandy]

Oh my, for years it’s been so hard to show my penis like in changing rooms or discuss it with anyone

[Tinydinkle1970]

I believe this is extremely common with guys with tiny cocks, I have experienced the same feelings when young of embarrassment, shame, been mocked and humiliated. The older I have become the less I care. 

[RodEnuf]

See the topic Do you admit you have a small cock? in the Measurection Bathhouse forum.  It was started in December 2003, has over 225 replies, and already has three replies this month.  If you add a reply there, that topic will be bumped up to the recent posts list.

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[PatT]

I seem to want people to know that I have a small penis, yet am too embarrassed and shy to ever tell anyone.  It is like a fantasy of mine to be mocked for it--I love watching videos where a girl is mocking a small one.  It is the laughter I crave.  Kind of weird, I know, but just wondered if anyone else is similar.  Shy, yet wish people could know and find it funny.

[Wookieboy]

1 hour ago, PatT said:

I seem to want people to know that I have a small penis, yet am too embarrassed and shy to ever tell anyone.  It is like a fantasy of mine to be mocked for it--I love watching videos where a girl is mocking a small one.  It is the laughter I crave.  Kind of weird, I know, but just wondered if anyone else is similar.  Shy, yet wish people could know and find it funny.

Be careful about this.  What you want is friendly sexual teasing about your small size.  But what you might GET is being bullied or humiliated. There is a difference between those experiences. Make sure whoever teases you is safe to play with.

[Guest]

I never admit I have a small penis unless it has been seen and then there is usually no reason to admit it or even reference it.

Some sex partners wanted me to know it was small, so I admitted it, but that is rare, very rare.

[SmallDan]

I admitted to a female friend of mine that I have a small Willy. She has been great and very supportive, when I told her my measurements she said it’s ok to have a little willy, I am seriously contemplating showing it to her 

[small_freak]

I admire people who admit to this. But I believe the media should not keep stereotyping about sizes.

[Smallguy46]

I’m new here…I have never admitted to anyone other than my wife about my size. That she found out when she measured out of curiosity.  4 inches.  It Was actually freeing and arousing when she was like that’s smaller than I thought.  I wish I was brave enough to just be open instead of the uncomfortable feeling when size is discussed.  I’m sure ppl know as I will wear sweats and it’s just a nub sticking out.  

[Appreciater]

@Smallguy46 .....

If you have fun with it, and it feels good when played with, ..and your eyes roll back when you shoot. 👍👍 ... That, my friend, is what matters.👍

[Proudshort12]

3 hours ago, Smallguy46 said:

I’m new here…I have never admitted to anyone other than my wife about my size. That she found out when she measured out of curiosity.  4 inches.  It Was actually freeing and arousing when she was like that’s smaller than I thought.  I wish I was brave enough to just be open instead of the uncomfortable feeling when size is discussed.  I’m sure ppl know as I will wear sweats and it’s just a nub sticking out.  

That sounds great that she measured it . Did she make any other comment about ? Is she okay with your size ? 

[little dickey]

That's how it started with me, first fantasy humiliation ( which is always the best in my opinion) then straight out my preference but fortunately or unfortunately I can't seem to find anyone who would dedicate a couple of minutes to my particular freak,  these men are lame, so selfish when I provide exquisite service if you know what I mean

Edited June 8, 2023 by little dickey

[Smallguy46]

15 hours ago, Proudshort12 said:

Is she okay with your size ? 

We have sex but it’s more for my pleasure as she can’t feel me during intercourse. I’ve never once got her off that way.   I have learned to overcompensate w my oral game though so she enjoys that.  I’ve come to terms w my size and appreciate her honesty which we have discussed.  She does reference size on occasion in humor but isn’t too comfortable humiliating. When In life jokes are made about size she gets a look in her eyes like she is going to say something but doesn’t.  I sometimes wish she would tell her friends.  Maybe she has.  She did buy me grey sweats and has made a point to say around friends couple times I go commando.  

[Proudshort12]

@Smallguy46  It sounds like she has a good attitude about it , humorous but not humiliating. I would like it if I was in that situation and she told her friends too. 
 

Edited June 9, 2023 by RodEnuf
Replaced 100% quote of immediately preceding post with just a @mention.

[NuderThanNude]

10 hours ago, Smallguy46 said:

We have sex but it’s more for my pleasure as she can’t feel me during intercourse. [...]

I have learned to overcompensate w my oral game though so she enjoys that.

It sounds like it is for her pleasure also but just not through penetration. Problem is that too many people think 'SEX is PENETRATION' and too many guys think 'SEX is about the PENIS'. My wife and I do have penetration after foreplay but the orgasms from it are 'mental' (from knowing we are physically coupled together) as neither of us feel much physically from it.

 

7 hours ago, Proudshort12 said:

I would like it if I was in that situation and she told her friends too. 

I personally wouldn't want that as friends can often be cruel and while pretending to be concerned can make comments to make the person feel worse. I wouldn't trust them to not say something that would hurt your marriage
 

[Proudshort12]

On 6/9/2023 at 10:59 AM, NuderThanNude said:

It sounds like it is for her pleasure also but just not through penetration. Problem is that too many people think 'SEX is PENETRATION' and too many guys think 'SEX is about the PENIS'. My wife and I do have penetration after foreplay but the orgasms from it are 'mental' (from knowing we are physically coupled together) as neither of us feel much physically from it.

 

I personally wouldn't want that as friends can often be cruel and while pretending to be concerned can make comments to make the person feel worse. I wouldn't trust them to not say something that would hurt your marriage
 

I was assuming the best case scenario where the friends wouldn’t be mean about it , rather they might make comments that aren’t embarrassing. I know that’s a lot to ask for . 

[JohnS1960]

On 6/11/2023 at 11:42 AM, Proudshort12 said:

I was assuming the best case scenario where the friends wouldn’t be mean about it , rather they might make comments that aren’t embarrassing. I know that’s a lot to ask for . 

My friends do comment on cock sizes, but also know cock size really isn't the most important thing, so its always in a joking manner and not to embarrass 

[almost6sd]

I have never admitted to someone that I have a small cock, only with a paid hook up and I asked her if I am too small for her and she said yes. I either say I am about average or above average and I kinda am about there at 5,75" x 5.25" but I feel rather small down there (also very skinny athletic body type and almost 6 feet tall) and can't really admit to people and more so, I kinda am a grower and not a shower as my flaccid dick is barely over 3.5" and maybe 4" if bone pressed so anyone seeing me flaccid would surely think I'm small, stats also confirm that almost 80% of men are bigger than 3.75" flaccid length so yeah. I can feel that most women can get true satisfaction from above 6.5" and do feel small in some positions with most women and I know that by the fact that it does slip out and have a hard time sometimes keeping it inside while still penetrating back and forth.

I do compensate a bit with a slightly more than 5" girth but this small dick perception is definitely influenced more from not knowing about bone pressed standard until almost 30 thinking I was just a bit above 5" which I still am if non bone pressed, but definitely improved confidence knowing I am about 6" and am at least on the upper average. worldwide but still darn average for western standards.

Also longtime girlfriend breaking up and hooking up with a better looking college mate of hers after really deepened my insecurities for a while and got me moving from just an already slight kink of having her shared with someone else (but never actually considering doing it for real, just porn kinks I hope) to her telling me how small I am and how he nailed her much better than me and felt dominated for real to eventually having her shared with a bigger cock (if we got back together) and eventually making her learn to enjoy stranger cock and have her cuckold me with the studs of her preference and bringing them back home and watching her getting stuffed like I could never and all that.

Pretty unhealthy kinks yes, hope I ll drop the porn sometimes soon while I am not deep enough in it and stop indulging and enjoying these things...I mean, I could probably pass off as a cuck/sissy boy pretty easily with my body type but I would surely not want to and based on my values

[Appreciater]

@almost6sd .......

No One has to be a cuck/sissy boy.... unless they CHOOSE to be.!!  ...  You Can't let your mind be controlled by anyone else,....Unless you give in to it.!!    It's up to the individual to choose what path they want to go down.   Once a path is set, it's more difficult to reprogram.

[almost6sd]

Obviously its a choice and I do believe in personal responsibility and duty to those close to you. The sissy/cuck thing was only regarded to appearance and how such individuals are portrayed in porn for example and not just.  Although the cuckold/sph does get me off while watching porn, I never wanted for real to have any such dynamics with a woman I hooked up with. I was speaking or just asking about how porn developed kinks can lead to real life wants and if that's any of yours experience since some level of it might translate from virtual to reality

[Jacc69]

Not sure if this counts...

Went into a sex shop and asked the woman working there about cock sleeves. Spent about 10 minutes discussing them and looking at one.

Then I followed up with a question about small sized condoms and asked if they sell those. I said the standard ones can be a little loose sometimes.

I think she got the picture.

(BTW, she said cock sleeves are a best seller. I didn't expect that)

[Wookieboy]

Being honest about my size has been the best policy for me.  Of course be reasonable, work friends, and non sexual relations  don't need to know. 

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Wookieboy said:

Being honest about my size has been the best policy for me.  Of course be reasonable, work friends, and non sexual relations  don't need to know. 

But too often do!

[Wookieboy]

15 hours ago, wondering4 said:

But too often do!

True enough, dick size has a way of being discovered.

[Guest]

On 7/7/2023 at 5:37 PM, Appreciater said:

@almost6sd .......

No One has to be a cuck/sissy boy.... unless they CHOOSE to be.!!  ...  You Can't let your mind be controlled by anyone else,....Unless you give in to it.!!    It's up to the individual to choose what path they want to go down.   Once a path is set, it's more difficult to reprogram.

What if you try to think through what others say in that regard and conclude what they say is true, your pre-ordained role.