Son bigger than dad

[Appreciater]

...  @SloStroker...

As it is with you, I only saw Dad's dick flaccid..and Many times.   Flaccid, his was just like mine, or rather.. mine just like his. 

I would really have liked to have had the opportunity to see it up erect.  ...  The only time I was in he and Mom's presence when he was erect, it was when I caught them hooked to each other.  With it up inside her, I couldn't see it.  .. Lol.  ...  I can only surmise that it was on the size order of mine when erect.

[SloStroker]

13 minutes ago, Appreciater said:

...  @SloStroker...

I only saw Dad's dick flaccid..and Many times.

While I realize this may be frowned upon by many, I really believe there should be more nudity at home. I was always curious about what others looked like naked and if it were normalized it would be so much easier to be comfortable with your body. 

[Mcperk]

On 11/29/2025 at 6:43 AM, Runningdad said:

I know my 13y-old son is bigger than me. We have always been open about nudity, showering in common shower rooms together after sports. And i have seen him walking around with a boner entering the bathroom. So i know he is bigger, we have had "the talk" as well and discussed his size too. He knows he is bigger than me too. 

I also recently have had this experience. My boys are 14 and 16 and we have recently all joined the same gym with open showers and are often there at the same time
 

They are both now quite a lot bigger than me soft.  It’s an odd one as it’s a bit embarrassing and I feel a bit strange about it but also totally fine and normal as well. They also see me there so they know they outsize me.

Edited January 15 by Mcperk

[Appreciater]

... @Mcperk...

... You have mentioned before that you are in the 6" area erect. ...  We know that flaccid size is not a good suggestion of erection length.  ...  Have you seen your sons with erections.?  .. or could it be their erect length doesn't change that much from flaccid.?

[Mcperk]

I haven’t seen them hard so you are right to say things might be different in that context. 

[Runningdad]

On 1/15/2026 at 6:17 PM, Mcperk said:

I haven’t seen them hard so you are right to say things might be different in that context. 

Have they made comments about it, or has it so far stayed unmentioned? 

[Didnt Grow Much]

I mentioned in another topic that both of my twin boys were bigger than me flacid by the time they were 10 or so, they just weren’t yet thicker than me yet, but it didn’t take long. Because we went to the YMCA, camped and went to the beach quite a bit, the three of us saw each other naked I don’t know how many times. Being in a group shower, or cleaning your groin area in 3 feet of Lake water, guys get aroused, so we have seen each other in everything from our smallest flacid size to full-size erections. Easily by 13 they were both quite a bit longer and thicker than me. When they were young, my wife and I had a few different body talks, always telling just what was appropriate for their age. At fifth grade, it was just me talking with them about this topic.  If I remember correctly, they had puberty at 11, and had seen me, other men, and boys in group shower situations, and they started occasionally making comments about their penises growing. I had always told them they could ask any questions they wanted regarding their body, sex, etc. It seemed like they wanted to ask me about our difference in size because I noticed they were looking at me more than they had in the past. They finally got up the nerve to ask me why I was smaller. I told them I had been embarrassed many times about my size because I was, according to the thought that average was 6 inches at that time, I was about 2 inches smaller than normal and had been made fun of on many occasions. We’ve always been a very close and caring family, and when they heard that they got teary-eyed and said they were sorry that happened to me. I told them that they were clearly well on their way to being at least normal size (I asked once and my wife once and she said she had overheard her brothers were above average but had never seen them). I told my boys I was so happy for them not have to deal with what I had. One of them told me I was clearly big enough to make the two of them, so it must be OK, and the three of us had a big laugh. We still see each other naked as adults when we camp or go to the gym. There have been occasions when I saw them full grown and erect, it was clear they were big, but not ridiculously so.

I can honestly say that there were times when I saw them and felt a bit embarrassed, like they were more manly than I was, or might be embarrassed of me, but knowing how much they loved me, I really knew it didn’t matter, and I know they thought I was manly, regardless of my size, by the way they treated me. I consider them manly not because of their size, but by how they treat their family and others. It makes me so immensely proud.
 

[Runningdad]

My son is quite a lot bigger than me now and still growing fast (at almost 14 I suspect he won't be done growing for a while). Is it embarrassing for me? A little I guess. I always suspected him to get bigger than me because he always quite big for his age when he was younger whereas I think I always followed the growing curve of Mr.Average faithfully, I just didn't expect for the gap to get so big so quickly. 

I am actually average myself with 6 inches and a decent girth so that's not something to feel bad about in any way although it looks a bit small on my 6'9" frame, but it's weird to see your own son (who has a lot with me in common physically in other areas) grow so very big. He has been having some issues with it, he is getting stares and comments in the locker rooms, his bulge is getting more and more noticable (he likes swimming and track and field so he usually dressed in tight gear which makes it even more visible) and he is worried it's going to get a lot bigger. I told him there is nothing to be ashamed off, lots of guys will be envious and there is nothing you can do about it anyway. We will see what he will end up with, I hope he will be comfortable with it whatever size he ends up with.

[Appreciater]

...

... @Runningdad..

...  Hopefully he will take your advice to heart. ...  If people are looking, or if even making remarks (whether complimentary or rudely), they are in reality admiring it.. much as they would an outstanding work of art.

As long as he deals with his size humbly and unpretentiously, it will be fine.  👍

[Runningdad]

Yes, that's also a nice one to tell him

So far he is not bragging about it, he is still too young to feel comfortable about it though, it omes with puberty I guess, even when you are developing "normal". They don't want to stand out in a group but that is what is happening now in certain situations. 

I hope he will stop growing soon down there, it's big enough already, but on the other hand I hope he will be comfortable with it too as it gets bigger, which it inevitably will, his growth only seems to accelerate further. 

[IndyBanker1946]

I only know flaccid on a sunny day.

My son is slightly smaller than me.

My grandson is larger than me.

Mary's son is smaller than her grandson.

[Didnt Grow Much]

Both of my sons erect are about two times my size lengthwise, and about two inches more girthy. They were doubly blessed. Flaccid, the ratios are much worse for me.

Both of my boys happily waited to have sex until marriage, completely their choice. Basically, they dated their hand and toys for a number of years. This is no joke, on my father’s grave, but after not only I mentioned to them they could possibly encounter some size issues with women, and they had also heard similar stories from friends similar in size who said it didn’t always fit, or might be too painful to have intercourse, and they were dating women they both were serious enough to marry, they had to explain the situation to them. One of the women said it wouldn’t be a problem. The other didn’t know if it was possible. So, one of my sons bought a dildo approximately his size, and asked her if she would be willing to try it out. When he told me what he was about to do, I told him that if it was fairly close she could see a doctor and possibly use one of the medical kits women use to stretch themselves. Of course, they said having to bring it up was completely embarrassing but necessary. I guess it wouldn’t be comfortable to say, hey, I’m really big in the pants and might want to marry you.

[Appreciater]

....

.. @Didnt Grow Much...

...  Whether it be for religious sake, or for some other reason their celibacy choice is fine and personal.   ...  However, when it came down to their concerns on size when that's seriously considering engagement, in there willingness to discuss size with the ladies, it seems would have been more practical to let them see.  ... Still, they would not have to have had intercourse, but just rather letting the girls see first hand what they would be in for.  As the old saying goes, a picture is worth a thousand words. 

[Didnt Grow Much]

Great post. I think that’s an extremely practical approach for those who think that would be appropriate, especially if they were already engaging in intercourse. Because my boys had waited, I am guessing it seemed inappropriate to them. Given my belief, if I were their size, and I could have found a dildo to match that size, that would’ve been my preferred way. When we talked about it, they never mentioned it being an option for them. Had they asked me what I thought, I would have told them it was up to them, but also expressed that showing would not have been my choice. I know from conversations with them about sexual issues of teens and young adults, when they would bring it up, that most of their friends were really surprised at their choice to wait, and thought it a bit odd/prudish, expressing that they were taking their beliefs a bit too far. They did mention they were occasionally teased about it and given funny nicknames as a jest, but as far as I know, that was the end of it. From my perspective, if you are able and willing to become an expert on what you like doing to yourself, the pressure of having intercourse would be lessened quite a bit.

[I Didnt Grow Much]

I used to be “Didnt grow much,” but as you can read in the Admin ridiculous topic, I have a new username.

In my previous posts, I guess I didn’t answer the other part of the original question, the one about my father. In my case, I know about my father, and my grandfather on my mother‘s side. My father‘s flaccid dick is as long as my erection, 4”. If I remember correctly, he is 6.5” erect, and a bit thicker than mine, so let’s say 5.5-6” circumference. So, you can probably guess how disappointed I was that I was so much smaller than him.

I grew up only living 3 miles from my grandparents on my mother‘s side, and I used to vacation with them as often as possible, which was quite a few times a year. I had seen my grandfather flaccid for years, and erect a couple of times, but have the most vivid memory of it from mid high school, and at that point I was fully grown in the dick department. Obviously he had seen me many times in showers, both flaccid and erect, because I often get erect while washing myself since I do the rinse/leather and clean/rinse/leather and clean again/rinse method — I don’t like to smell anything other than soap from the back or front of the pelvic area. So, he knew I was small, but encouraged me many times and told me I had all I needed to pleasure women. Flaccid, his dick was a tiny bit shorter than my erection, but thicker than my dick both flaccid and erect. I asked him how big he was one time, and he said 6 inches, but had never measured his girth. If I had to guess, his circumference was probably about the same size as his erect length.

I also saw I don’t know how many male cousins naked because we would go skinnydipping and chicken fighting at the lake my great grandfather lived on every time we were there. As most of you probably know, chicken fighting leads to a lot of erections as you rub against the neck of the guy holding you up. Some of them would wear bathing suits, and I assumed at that time they were small, but since they could see how small I was, I’m not sure why they cared. Clearly, some of them were probably just embarrassed. Their sizes were all over the map, both flaccid and erect, but the smallest of them was probably on the lowest end of average, and the largest might’ve been 6” long. Same with circumferences. At least it was never a situation where I was tiny and everyone else in my family was big.

[quickquoteit]

On 3/29/2026 at 7:01 AM, Didnt Grow Much said:

I mentioned in another topic that both of my twin boys were bigger than me flacid by the time they were 10 or so, ...We’ve always been a very close and caring family, and when they heard that they got teary-eyed and said they were sorry that happened to me. I told them that they were clearly well on their way to being at least normal size (I asked once and my wife once and she said she had overheard her brothers were above average but had never seen them). I told my boys I was so happy for them not have to deal with what I had. One of them told me I was clearly big enough to make the two of them, so it must be OK, and the three of us had a big laugh. ...

I can honestly say that there were times when I saw them and felt a bit embarrassed, like they were more manly than I was, or might be embarrassed of me, but knowing how much they loved me, I really knew it didn’t matter, and I know they thought I was manly, regardless of my size, by the way they treated me. I consider them manly not because of their size, but by how they treat their family and others. It makes me so immensely proud.
 

Such a good attitude to have, as a shorter guy in my late 30's with an above average penis size, being like 5'6" tall and like 6.7"x5.7" erect I have never once had a man or woman at any age as I grew up and experimented reject me for being too short or not big enough as far as the ones that wanted to do anything with me were concerned.

When I talk to coworkers in a professional setting I get told that I have a very warm and welcoming and encouraging personality and how I like to learn about their lives and interests goes a long way in leaving a good impression. The world needs more cooperation.

[Runningdad]

My son has now measured himself at a bit over 7.25 in length and 5.5 in girth. No signs of the growth slowing down, but he is getting more used and comfortable with it. He just turned 14 so it could still get a lot bigger. 

[Appreciater]

11 hours ago, Runningdad said:

He just turned 14 so it could still get a lot bigger. 

...   I'd say, it most likely will.  Could be not drastically more, but I'd say he's not done yet.

[Runningdad]

2 hours ago, Appreciater said:

...   I'd say, it most likely will.  Could be not drastically more, but I'd say he's not done yet.

Yeah, still unclear where this is going to end. He is still growing pretty fast so he will definitely get bigger. His body is also in the middle of a huge growth spurt now. I did most of my growing myself between 13 and 15, so he could have another year of big growth before it slows down.

[richo-4110]

I was recently at a public pool where a father and son were changing. The son looked to be 5-6yo. Couldn’t help but notice the son and dad share equal length. While dad was much thicker he was only and inch or so long. 

[Shorty221]

8 hours ago, richo-4110 said:

I was recently at a public pool where a father and son were changing. The son looked to be 5-6yo. Couldn’t help but notice the son and dad share equal length. While dad was much thicker he was only and inch or so long. 

Wow that’s incredible sight to see.  I wonder when they both get hard how the different would look!

[Runningdad]

12 hours ago, richo-4110 said:

I was recently at a public pool where a father and son were changing. The son looked to be 5-6yo. Couldn’t help but notice the son and dad share equal length. While dad was much thicker he was only and inch or so long. 

A flaccid length of 1 inch is more common for a 5-6 year old than for a grown man. I wonder if he still dares to shower with his son in another 10 years

[Aaron77]

On 6/14/2026 at 7:36 AM, Runningdad said:

My son has now measured himself at a bit over 7.25 in length and 5.5 in girth. No signs of the growth slowing down, but he is getting more used and comfortable with it. He just turned 14 so it could still get a lot bigger. 

How tall is he?

[Runningdad]

14 minutes ago, Aaron77 said:

How tall is he?

He is now 6'3"