First time

[Littleken]

Hello guys, I would like to hear your stories about your first time sucking dick and first time one fucked you.  Find it interesting and I think I have said before that I want to have my small dick sucked by a guy and to fuck him.  Not sure if I would return the favor just a bit curious.  Tell me all about it, good, bad, forced, or whatever.  You can message me if you don't want to post. If it's good, I will jack to it.

[Danch]

Hi 

Honestly I feel the same way, I’m straight, about 4” and always wondered how it feels. 
Was always curious about anal experiences, a while back I had a girl I used to hook up with, we been good friends and talked about doing each others fantasies. 
I asked for a rimjob and it was amazing, I felt like it made me feel the more “feminine” experience and that made me even want that more. 
She was kinda shy to use her dildo and was actually really h*rny and wasn’t patient at all hahaha. 

 

Also feeling the feminine side, blowj*bs are also a part of it, giving and getting. 
kinda wonder how a dick would feel like in my mouth and how it be to get head from another man (hope they actually know how to) 

I still wonder that to this day, how it would be. 
 

Just that sometimes I’m afraid I won’t be able to do it if the moment ever arrives 

I’m not sure how I would feel with myself after a “gay” experience, even though I sometimes really want to. 
and honestly because of that reason I never really tried that. 

[Appreciater]

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.. @Danch....

Trying or enjoying sex with a guy won't cancel out your enjoyment of sex with gals.  ...  It will only broaden your horizons.... 😉👍

[JasonBeam]

1 hour ago, Danch said:

Hi ...

 

 

Hey, Danch ... welcome to the site. When you get a chance you should fill out your profile, and be sure to include your stats. It will help the members here get to know you a little better. 

[Cotta]

So many guys want to explore their bicurious side but are scared because it’s “gay”, they don’t want to be labelled as gay. I understand that but the fear and the shame has been created by tears, centuries even, of religious doctrine and societal demands. Actually, we are all capable of anal orgasms. They aren’t reserved to gay men.

When I had my first prostate/anal orgasm, I couldn’t believe that I’d missed this for so long and wished I’d done it sooner.  I’d love to shatter the dogma that says only gay guys can enjoy it. Whether you believe in God or biology or natural selection, it’s quite odd to suggest that about 90% of men aren't supposed to enjoy their most erogenous of places, which are supposedly reserved for the gay guys. I say try it and see, forget the labels. 

 

[wuerstchen]

The only time I sucked a penis, other than my own, was my best friend. We must have been around 13 at the time, and hadn't reached puberty. Decades later I can still fondly recall the taste of his penis. Unfortunately, he peed in my mouth the last time we did it, and we never did it again, but I think I could have developed a liking for it if that hadn't happened.

When I was young and thin and flexible, in my teens and into my later twenties, I could suck my own penis and cum in my mouth. I sometimes dream that I can still do it. 

[The Jester]

8 hours ago, wuerstchen said:

The only time I sucked a penis, other than my own, 

When I was young and thin and flexible, in my teens and into my later twenties, I could suck my own penis and cum in my mouth. I sometimes dream that I can still do it. 

If you could you'd have guaranteed career in porn ahead of you! (your about the only person I've heard of that ever could)!

[Ksguy961]

11 hours ago, wuerstchen said:

The only time I sucked a penis, other than my own, was my best friend. We must have been around 13 at the time, and hadn't reached puberty. Decades later I can still fondly recall the taste of his penis. Unfortunately, he peed in my mouth the last time we did it, and we never did it again, but I think I could have developed a liking for it if that hadn't happened.

When I was young and thin and flexible, in my teens and into my later twenties, I could suck my own penis and cum in my mouth. I sometimes dream that I can still do it. 

Have to agree when sucked for first time didn’t know what was doing other than when he sucked me felt good!! Same age as you neither of us cum so didn’t know could get off that way.  I was also very thin and could reach my cock and put a portion of it in my mouth and also cum a few times in it was amazing miss those days

[wuerstchen]

14 minutes ago, Ksguy961 said:

Have to agree when sucked for first time didn’t know what was doing other than when he sucked me felt good!! Same age as you neither of us cum so didn’t know could get off that way.  I was also very thin and could reach my cock and put a portion of it in my mouth and also cum a few times in it was amazing miss those days

It was my friend who first suggested we suck each other. Like you I miss those innocent days!

[Ksguy961]

35 minutes ago, wuerstchen said:

It was my friend who first suggested we suck each other. Like you I miss those innocent days!

Same here wanted to try lol didn’t know what we were doing but yes innocent fun

[Appreciater]

11 minutes ago, Ksguy961 said:

Same here wanted to try lol didn’t know what we were doing but yes innocent fun

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Who made the imaginary "rules" that the so called "innocence" has to go away.?  😉

[canuck45]

9 hours ago, The Jester said:

If you could you'd have guaranteed career in porn ahead of you! (your about the only person I've heard of that ever could)!

re: autofelllatio
One of my partners could when he was younger (55 ish) can't anymore at 65 years old.  Don't have the clip anymore :-(

 

[joesmith]

On 8/4/2026 at 5:22 PM, Cotta said:

So many guys want to explore their bicurious side but are scared because it’s “gay”, they don’t want to be labelled as gay. I understand that but the fear and the shame has been created by tears, centuries even, of religious doctrine and societal demands. Actually, we are all capable of anal orgasms. They aren’t reserved to gay men.

When I had my first prostate/anal orgasm, I couldn’t believe that I’d missed this for so long and wished I’d done it sooner.  I’d love to shatter the dogma that says only gay guys can enjoy it. Whether you believe in God or biology or natural selection, it’s quite odd to suggest that about 90% of men aren't supposed to enjoy their most erogenous of places, which are supposedly reserved for the gay guys. I say try it and see, forget the labels. 

 

There's nothing gay about this.  Prostate stimulation is exceptionally powerful and completely overrides your inhibitions.  It's deeply satisfying pleasure.  How is that gay?

[Cotta]

O totally agree with you yet misty men are scared to even think about an anal

orgasm because they’re scared of being labelled “gay”. I’m quite sure that an anal orgasm is or could be a physical fact for most guys. But I hate labelling sexuality anyway and I hope that one day we can just be sexual and not have to adopt a particular label that confines and defines us. 

[canuck45]

I read a good book,  a label.  no idea what book or what it was about.
I am gay, a label. no idea of what I am about besides attraction to men
Labels carry preconceived ideas.
Unfortunately at one time gay seemed to mean swishy, effiminate or a host of other misconceptions.

Reminds me of Monty Python. Lumberjacks   tough burley men.
He's a lumberjack and he's OK
He sleeps all night and works all day

PALIN
I cut down trees, I wear high heels
Suspenders and a bra
I wish I were a girlie
Just like my dear papa

[KevinNewell]

My first bisexual experience was in my early teens. The guy was older and experienced and dom. It was an amazing experience and he showed me how to suck his large cock, ball’s and rim him. I also took my first load orally and loved every drop. He recovered extremely quickly and said he was going to take my anal virginity and not to worry he’d lube me up and stretch me with his fingers to make sure I was ready. After about ten minutes he laid me on the bed put my legs on his shoulders and slowly entered me. It was the most intense sensation not only the physical pleasure but also the psychological pleasure of giving myself to him. He fucked me for about twenty minutes, all the while my tiny cock was leaking pre cum and a minute before he came my tiny cock erupted and I came all over myself. He built up speed and then it felt as if his cock swelled in side me and then my first wonderful experience of having a man shoot his cum deep inside my arse. We lay afterwards and he said would I like to be fucked regularly by him and that he also had some friends who he enjoyed sharing bottoms with. I was so excited and it was new to me so I agreed there on the spot. 

[Chang Noi]

My first experience with gay/transsex was in Thailand with a LadyBoy prostitute. She looked hot, I went with her to a private room in the back of a bar, not knowing she was a he. After she gave me a great erotic massage, and a blowjob, She fully undressed and there it was.... an erected penis much bigger than mine. He mentioned to do anal. But not beïng into penisses and esspecially not into anal sex I denied.
But horny as I was by the assumption of a hot "she" giving me a blow job, I asked him to finish that blowjob, which he did.

Some years later in Thailand I met another ladyboy, we had great conversations for several evenings, (s)he was pretty but noticeable a ladyboy which he also was open about. After the previous experience I now did want to try to have sex with a ladyboy. I took him to my room, he sucked me, I sucked him.... but didn't work for me. I couldn't get an erection. So we ended the "session" by handjobs. Still.. until today I still meet him every year like friends, but "without sexual benefits". 

So now I know, penisses are not my sexual thing. I may like and love a person (I still like/love that 2nd LadyBoy), but for real sex I really "need" a vagina.

[Salgoud]

On 8/5/2026 at 3:37 AM, wuerstchen said:

The only time I sucked a penis, other than my own, was my best friend. We must have been around 13 at the time, and hadn't reached puberty. Decades later I can still fondly recall the taste of his penis. Unfortunately, he peed in my mouth the last time we did it, and we never did it again, but I think I could have developed a liking for it if that hadn't happened.

When I was young and thin and flexible, in my teens and into my later twenties, I could suck my own penis and cum in my mouth. I sometimes dream that I can still do it. 

‘other than my own,’ lol

Autofellatio seems to be way more common than I initially thought. 

[Salgoud]

This topic sometimes comes up in friendly circles, and I always feel like my answer is some form of cheating🙃. 

So the first guy who gave me a blowjob and the first guy who I pleasured orally, was… drumroll… myself. 

About my first time receiving another man (and thus far the only man) was when I was 19. I met him at work, and we started dating. It was very fun, but eventually the moment came when we decided to have sex. He was pretty short, 9cm, but even with his size, I found the sex painful and not enjoyable. So that’s the only time we tried, and we broke up shortly after. 

[wuerstchen]

12 hours ago, Salgoud said:

‘other than my own,’ lol

Autofellatio seems to be way more common than I initially thought. 

I miss autofellatio. It was so exciting when I managed to get my penis into my mouth! 

Edited September 3 by wuerstchen

[wuerstchen]

At age 50, separated and awaiting divorce, I met a women two years younger. We hit it off intellectually and emotionally, and although I had developed ED during years of abstinence, we had great sex. Early on she told me, "You've made a cocksucker out of me," and she was not a person who talked "dirty." She would often ask to give me fellatio. When we first began sleeping together she expressed a desire to fall asleep with my penis in her mouth. (Don't ask me why I didn't let her do it!) I've had the best sex of my life with her during our 30 years together. And she got so much pleasure out of sucking my penis I told her it awakened in me the desire to suck one myself, even though I am not emotionally attracted to guys. She understood, she wasn't surprised.

[Cotta]

First time I touched another hard dock (apart from my early teens), I was so turned on that I came almost instantly, without my dick even being touched. It was incredible. 

[Appreciater]

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.. @Cotta...

Your instinctual urges had been denied for far too long.  😉👍

[JasonBeam]

36 minutes ago, Appreciater said:

.. @Cotta...

Your instinctual urges had been denied for far too long.  😉👍

No kidding, that's a lot of pent up sexual tension!

[Cotta]

First time I touched another hard dock (apart from my early teens), I was so turned on that I came almost instantly, without my dick even being touched. It was incredible.